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The Observer at the River’s Edge: Inner Peace for Busy Minds
Episode 255th June 2023 • Inner Peace Meditations • Steven Webb
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I wrote this one for myself, because my mind never stops. It is still the one I use when I need the noise turned down.

About 13 minutes with Steven Webb's calm voice.

You sit on a riverbank and every thought is a leaf going past. Some drift straight through. Some spin about in a little whirlpool a while before they go. You are the bank, not the leaves. One line runs all the way through it. I have thoughts, but I am not those thoughts.

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Hello and welcome to The Observer at the River's Edge. Inner Peace for Busy Minds. This is a little

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meditation that helps you to understand and detach from your thoughts. It's one of the things that really helped me

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to have more inner peace and more calmness,

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even though I found meditation really difficult because my mind just never seems to stop. So

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I wrote this meditation and hopefully I'll give you the experience and I use this meditation myself very often

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just to quieten down the thoughts, just to give myself a little time out. First thing we'll do is just

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become comfortable and

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we'll just go on this meditative journey together. So

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find a comfortable position. You can be sitting or lying down

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And whatever feels more comfortable for you in this moment.

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And when you're ready, if you gently close your eyes. Or just soften your gaze a few feet in front

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of you.

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And we'll start by taking a deep breath in. And

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just hold it for a moment. And then slowly release this deep breath.

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And then just bring your awareness to your breath.

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I'm breathing in. I'm breathing out.

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And if you just imagine breathing in calm, breathing out relax

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Remember you don't need to do anything with your breath. You

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don't need to do anything with your breathing at all. And you don't even need to do anything with your

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body to relax. Just allow your body to relax. It knows how to do it.

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Breathing in calm. Breathing out relax

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And if at any point you find your mind wandering, thinking about something else other than this meditation,

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that's fine. Just acknowledge the thought and smile and come back to the next instruction or just come back

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to the breath and wait.

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That's what the mind does.

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So imagine sitting on the edge of a beautiful river

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And you can hear the sounds of nature all around you.

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And you're just sat quiet and still, really comfortable.

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And you feel the soft breeze on your skin. You maybe feel the warmth of the sun on your face.

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And the river is going to represent the flow of our thoughts. Each

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thought is like a floating leaf down the river.

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Each thought appears. And then passes by, you simply observe it.

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You don't need to react to it. You don't need to interact with it. You don't need to judge it.

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Just observe it and allow it to go.

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And as you sit there, a thought emerges in your mind visualize the thought as a leaf appearing in the

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river. Just slightly upstream.

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The thought could be about something you did earlier or something you're planning to do. Or just some random thought.

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And it may be a bit difficult because you may fluctuate between what the thought is and the leaf. That's

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okay. That's perfectly normal.

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Just when you realise it's the thought, just observe it as the leaf as it floats by and then floats

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away.

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You are not this leaf. You are not this thought. You have thoughts, but you are not those thoughts.

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And if you repeat silently just for a few seconds, I have thoughts. I am not those thoughts

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I Have Thoughts. I am not those thoughts.

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As more thoughts seemingly appear out of nowhere, imagine each one of them as a leaf in the river floating

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away.

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Some leaves might stay a little longer. They

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swirl around in a little small whirlpool before moving on. But eventually all the thought, all the leaves

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will drift away.

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Even when the thought generates an emotional response,

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recognise it just as another leaf.

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It too will eventually float away if you let it be.

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You are sitting on the edge of the bank, grounded, unaffected by the movement of the leaves in the river.

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You are not the thoughts. You are just pure awareness,

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The witness to these thoughts.

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And you could repeat in your head, I

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am the observer, separate from my thoughts.

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I am the observer, separate from my thoughts.

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And as you take a moment to truly feel this stillness, this peace that comes with being just the observer,

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experience the separation between you, the observer and your thoughts, the observed.

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You're here, yet you can be aware of your thoughts.

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And one of the greatest powers you have over your thoughts is the fact that you don't have to do

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anything with them.

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Thoughts can just come and go,

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Just like feelings can come and go

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when we truly understand the nature of our thoughts that they just appear and

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then they disappear.

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And if you take a moment to truly feel this stillness, the

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peace that comes in this moment,

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in a moment we're going to shake out our arms and open our eyes and come back to the room.

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But just before we do that, really appreciate your mind and your heart and your body for this little moment

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of time out.

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And you can place your hand on your heart and just thank you.

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Now bring your awareness back to your breath.

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And as I come back from five, just bring your awareness back to this moment. Five. Four.

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Just gently shake out your arms. Three. Gently open your eyes. Two. Look around the room.

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One. And just take a deep breath and just appreciate this calmness in this moment.

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Just by imagining ourselves sitting next to the river bank and just watching our thoughts come and go. It's like

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having a superpower that we don't actually have to get on every thought. We don't have to

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be part of every thought and be part of every moment. We can just sit and observe. And when we

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realise we are not those thoughts, we then have ultimate control over them. More freedom. More love. More joy in

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our lives.

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Thank you.

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I'm Steven Webb, and this if this meditation helped you in any way, it would be absolutely incredible if you

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could leave a review on this podcast. That's what would really help me today more than anything else. Leaving a

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review, following the podcast, that would just be absolutely incredible. It not only tells me what I'm doing wrong, if

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you didn't enjoy it quite so much, but it also tells... Apple. And it tells all the other podcast

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suppliers that people are listening and they do like it and what they really think of it. And it helps

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me to reach new people.

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And if you want to listen to my other podcast, Stillness in the Storms, where we dive a little deeper

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into looking at life differently, if you head over to thankyousteven.com, you can see the links know there

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You're awesome. Take care. And I hope you have a wonderful, peaceful day. Thank you.

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