I wrote this one for myself, because my mind never stops. It is still the one I use when I need the noise turned down.
About 13 minutes with Steven Webb's calm voice.
You sit on a riverbank and every thought is a leaf going past. Some drift straight through. Some spin about in a little whirlpool a while before they go. You are the bank, not the leaves. One line runs all the way through it. I have thoughts, but I am not those thoughts.
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Hello and welcome to The Observer at the River's Edge. Inner Peace for Busy Minds. This is a little
Steven Webb:meditation that helps you to understand and detach from your thoughts. It's one of the things that really helped me
Steven Webb:to have more inner peace and more calmness,
Steven Webb:even though I found meditation really difficult because my mind just never seems to stop. So
Steven Webb:I wrote this meditation and hopefully I'll give you the experience and I use this meditation myself very often
Steven Webb:just to quieten down the thoughts, just to give myself a little time out. First thing we'll do is just
Steven Webb:become comfortable and
Steven Webb:we'll just go on this meditative journey together. So
Steven Webb:find a comfortable position. You can be sitting or lying down
Steven Webb:And whatever feels more comfortable for you in this moment.
Steven Webb:And when you're ready, if you gently close your eyes. Or just soften your gaze a few feet in front
Steven Webb:of you.
Steven Webb:And we'll start by taking a deep breath in. And
Steven Webb:just hold it for a moment. And then slowly release this deep breath.
Steven Webb:And then just bring your awareness to your breath.
Steven Webb:I'm breathing in. I'm breathing out.
Steven Webb:And if you just imagine breathing in calm, breathing out relax
Steven Webb:Remember you don't need to do anything with your breath. You
Steven Webb:don't need to do anything with your breathing at all. And you don't even need to do anything with your
Steven Webb:body to relax. Just allow your body to relax. It knows how to do it.
Steven Webb:Breathing in calm. Breathing out relax
Steven Webb:And if at any point you find your mind wandering, thinking about something else other than this meditation,
Steven Webb:that's fine. Just acknowledge the thought and smile and come back to the next instruction or just come back
Steven Webb:to the breath and wait.
Steven Webb:That's what the mind does.
Steven Webb:So imagine sitting on the edge of a beautiful river
Steven Webb:And you can hear the sounds of nature all around you.
Steven Webb:And you're just sat quiet and still, really comfortable.
Steven Webb:And you feel the soft breeze on your skin. You maybe feel the warmth of the sun on your face.
Steven Webb:And the river is going to represent the flow of our thoughts. Each
Steven Webb:thought is like a floating leaf down the river.
Steven Webb:Each thought appears. And then passes by, you simply observe it.
Steven Webb:You don't need to react to it. You don't need to interact with it. You don't need to judge it.
Steven Webb:Just observe it and allow it to go.
Steven Webb:And as you sit there, a thought emerges in your mind visualize the thought as a leaf appearing in the
Steven Webb:river. Just slightly upstream.
Steven Webb:The thought could be about something you did earlier or something you're planning to do. Or just some random thought.
Steven Webb:And it may be a bit difficult because you may fluctuate between what the thought is and the leaf. That's
Steven Webb:okay. That's perfectly normal.
Steven Webb:Just when you realise it's the thought, just observe it as the leaf as it floats by and then floats
Steven Webb:away.
Steven Webb:You are not this leaf. You are not this thought. You have thoughts, but you are not those thoughts.
Steven Webb:And if you repeat silently just for a few seconds, I have thoughts. I am not those thoughts
Steven Webb:I Have Thoughts. I am not those thoughts.
Steven Webb:As more thoughts seemingly appear out of nowhere, imagine each one of them as a leaf in the river floating
Steven Webb:away.
Steven Webb:Some leaves might stay a little longer. They
Steven Webb:swirl around in a little small whirlpool before moving on. But eventually all the thought, all the leaves
Steven Webb:will drift away.
Steven Webb:Even when the thought generates an emotional response,
Steven Webb:recognise it just as another leaf.
Steven Webb:It too will eventually float away if you let it be.
Steven Webb:You are sitting on the edge of the bank, grounded, unaffected by the movement of the leaves in the river.
Steven Webb:You are not the thoughts. You are just pure awareness,
Steven Webb:The witness to these thoughts.
Steven Webb:And you could repeat in your head, I
Steven Webb:am the observer, separate from my thoughts.
Steven Webb:I am the observer, separate from my thoughts.
Steven Webb:And as you take a moment to truly feel this stillness, this peace that comes with being just the observer,
Steven Webb:experience the separation between you, the observer and your thoughts, the observed.
Steven Webb:You're here, yet you can be aware of your thoughts.
Steven Webb:And one of the greatest powers you have over your thoughts is the fact that you don't have to do
Steven Webb:anything with them.
Steven Webb:Thoughts can just come and go,
Steven Webb:Just like feelings can come and go
Steven Webb:when we truly understand the nature of our thoughts that they just appear and
Steven Webb:then they disappear.
Steven Webb:And if you take a moment to truly feel this stillness, the
Steven Webb:peace that comes in this moment,
Steven Webb:in a moment we're going to shake out our arms and open our eyes and come back to the room.
Steven Webb:But just before we do that, really appreciate your mind and your heart and your body for this little moment
Steven Webb:of time out.
Steven Webb:And you can place your hand on your heart and just thank you.
Steven Webb:Now bring your awareness back to your breath.
Steven Webb:And as I come back from five, just bring your awareness back to this moment. Five. Four.
Steven Webb:Just gently shake out your arms. Three. Gently open your eyes. Two. Look around the room.
Steven Webb:One. And just take a deep breath and just appreciate this calmness in this moment.
Steven Webb:Just by imagining ourselves sitting next to the river bank and just watching our thoughts come and go. It's like
Steven Webb:having a superpower that we don't actually have to get on every thought. We don't have to
Steven Webb:be part of every thought and be part of every moment. We can just sit and observe. And when we
Steven Webb:realise we are not those thoughts, we then have ultimate control over them. More freedom. More love. More joy in
Steven Webb:our lives.
Steven Webb:Thank you.
Steven Webb:I'm Steven Webb, and this if this meditation helped you in any way, it would be absolutely incredible if you
Steven Webb:could leave a review on this podcast. That's what would really help me today more than anything else. Leaving a
Steven Webb:review, following the podcast, that would just be absolutely incredible. It not only tells me what I'm doing wrong, if
Steven Webb:you didn't enjoy it quite so much, but it also tells... Apple. And it tells all the other podcast
Steven Webb:suppliers that people are listening and they do like it and what they really think of it. And it helps
Steven Webb:me to reach new people.
Steven Webb:And if you want to listen to my other podcast, Stillness in the Storms, where we dive a little deeper
Steven Webb:into looking at life differently, if you head over to thankyousteven.com, you can see the links know there
Steven Webb:You're awesome. Take care. And I hope you have a wonderful, peaceful day. Thank you.