If you’ve been feeling stuck, spinning your wheels, or disconnected from the heart of your marketing, this episode is an invitation to pause. In a break from the usual training or step-by-step strategy, today I’m guiding you through a powerful visualization to help you reconnect with the real person behind your Psychology Today profile, your website, and every post you create.
So often, therapists focus on checklists, templates, and what they “should” say. But the most effective, aligned marketing begins with presence—with truly seeing and feeling connected to the person you are here to help. This visualization helps you sit with a past client who lit you up, the one who reminded you why you do this work.
You don’t need to overthink your marketing. You just need to remember that client and speak directly to them. This is a tool you can return to anytime you’re feeling unclear or disconnected in your marketing. It will help you write from a place of real connection, not performance.
Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:
1️⃣ How to ground your marketing in real, meaningful client connections—not formulas or checklists.
2️⃣ A simple visualization you can revisit to tap into clarity and confidence when writing your copy.
3️⃣ The reframe that marketing isn’t separate from your clinical work—it’s an extension of it.
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Marketing Therapy is the podcast where therapists learn how to market their private practices without burnout, self-doubt, or sleazy tactics. Hosted by me, a marketing coach, strategist, and founder of Walker Strategy Co—each episode brings you clear, grounded advice to help you attract the right-fit, full-fee clients and grow a practice you feel proud of.
Hey there.
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:Welcome to episode 13
of Marketing Therapy.
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:Today's episode is gonna
be a little bit different.
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:Today's episode isn't a training or
a checklist, or a how to tutorial.
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:This episode is an invitation
to slow down to reconnect.
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:And to sit for just a few minutes
with the person that you're marketing
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:is really for, because behind every
Psychology Today profile, every website,
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:every social post, every networking
conversation, there's a real person
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:you're trying to reach, someone who's
struggling, someone who's searching.
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:Hoping they land on the right therapist
page and no worksheet or webinar or fill
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:in the blank template can connect you
to that person the way presence can.
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:So today we're gonna
try something different.
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:We're gonna visualize a client
you've already worked with, so I
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:want you to call to mind now, someone
who you've worked with in the past
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:who has absolutely lit you up.
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:The kind of person who, if you could,
you'd clone them and you'd just have you
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:caseload full of that type of person.
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:Someone who reminded you
why you do this work.
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:Who helped you feel like the
clinician you want to be.
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:More often
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:in this episode, you don't
necessarily need to do anything,
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:although I do encourage you to
likely come back and re-listen to
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:it and maybe journal along with it.
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:But at least for this
first time, just listen.
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:Let the words guide you back
into the room with that person.
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:Back into that relationship that
lit you up and that likely led to
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:some really incredible breakthroughs
for that client across from you.
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:My hope is that this exercise can guide
you back into the kind of clarity that
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:you do have inside of you about who you're
speaking to and how you're doing that.
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:Let's begin.
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:For the purpose of this visualization,
we will imagine you're going
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:to see this client in person.
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:Imagine your office, your desk, what's
on the walls, the setup of the room.
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:This is where you do your best work.
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:Now you walk out to the
waiting room, the air's quiet.
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:You hear the door unlatch and
you see them there sitting
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:on the couch waiting for you.
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:Your client,
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:the one who makes you excited to do
this work, who makes you feel like
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:you are doing exactly what you are
meant to be doing with your life?
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:You greet them with a smile.
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:You invite them back to your office.
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:Maybe there's a small
exchange about the weather.
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:It's familiar.
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:It's comfortable.
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:Your client follows you down the hallway.
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:You open the door and they
settle into their usual spot.
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:Maybe on the couch.
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:Perhaps they pick up the throw pillow
next to them and put it on their lap.
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:You take your seat.
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:You feel yourself settled down into that
chair where you spend so many hours,
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:the one that supports you just right.
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:You feel yourself.
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:Come into the room.
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:Take a moment right here.
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:Notice the feel, the lighting,
the temperature, the weight
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:of this session beginning.
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:This is your space.
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:This is the person you do great work with.
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:You know how to show up for them.
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:They trust you and you.
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:You trust yourself here.
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:Let that feeling settle
into your body for a moment.
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:This is the version of you
that does your best work.
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:And this person across from
you is who you're marketing
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:is ultimately speaking to.
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:Now, let's get curious.
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:Let's start asking some questions.
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:Turn your attention fully toward
this client who sitting across from
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:you, notice their body language,
how they hold themselves today.
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:The expression on their face.
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:And now ask yourself what
brings them here right now?
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:Not just the surface level
reason that led them to therapy,
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:but what's underneath that?
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:What is this person struggling with?
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:Even if they haven't
quite found the words yet,
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:what's keeping them up at night?
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:What do they think about while
driving, while sitting on the
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:couch, scrolling at the end of the
day while lying in bed at 2:00 AM?
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:What's eating at them?
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:In the quiet times,
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:what words do they use to
describe that experience to you?
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:What are they maybe afraid to say out loud
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:now, I want you to shift gears
into asking questions about.
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:The incredible journey and outcome you can
help your clients experience in this work
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:sitting across from this client
of yours, what are they hoping
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:therapy will make possible,
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:even if they're not sure it's realistic?
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:Even if they don't know
quite how to say it,
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:what do they hope changes?
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:What do they want to feel as
they leave today's session?
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:What do they want to feel next week?
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:What about six months from now or
a year from now, as they reflect on
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:this work, what do they want to feel?
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:Then?
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:What do they hope to notice in themselves?
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:What do they hope to notice in
their relationships, in their work?
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:In the way they move about the world,
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:what do they wanna see?
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:Change
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:Next, ask yourself, what does this
client need from you in particular?
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:What is it about your presence?
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:Your way of working and joining with
them, that helps them feel safe,
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:seen, understood, capable, hopeful.
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:What does this client need from you here?
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:Now, imagine this, this client
sitting across from you is at
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:home searching for a therapist,
realizing they need some support.
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:They don't know your name yet.
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:They're simply scrolling through
a list, reading websites,
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:looking for someone who gets it.
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:What would you want them to hear
in the first few seconds of reading
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:your profile or your website?
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:To know they found the right person
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:to know?
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:This person understands the pain, the
distress, or discomfort they're in.
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:The truth of what they want out of
this, the truth of what's possible,
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:what words come up,
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:even if they're messy or they don't
feel professional yet those words.
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:They are what matter.
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:Those are what resonate with
this person across from you.
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:Sit with that for a moment.
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:What do you want this client to hear?
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:To know they're in the right place.
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:All right.
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:Open your eyes now.
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:If maybe they drifted closed.
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:Let yourself come back into the room,
whatever it is that you're doing,
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:as you're listening here today, back
into this moment, take a breath.
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:As you do that, notice
what stayed with you.
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:Maybe you saw that client's
face very, very clearly.
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:You knew exactly who
you were sitting with.
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:Maybe a sentence they once said
to you either about what they were
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:struggling with or about their work
with you echoed back in your mind.
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:Maybe you just remembered what
it felt like to be fully in it.
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:That incredible sense of
knowing you can help someone.
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:Whatever came up for you in this
visualization, I want you to hold
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:onto that because this is the part
many therapists skip right on past.
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:It's so easy when you start
working on your marketing to
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:go straight to the structure.
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:What should I write?
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:What do I include?
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:What's the best way to do
this, that, or the other thing?
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:And those questions make sense.
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:Absolutely.
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:But they miss something foundational
to this work that you do in particular.
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:And that is the relationship, the
real human being on the other side
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:of the screen, the connection that
makes everything click into place.
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:That's the beauty.
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:Of marketing when done well that you
begin to cultivate that connection
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:and that relationship before you
even have an opportunity to actually
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:sit in the room with that person.
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:The most effective marketing, the
kind that actually attracts the right
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:clients, and the kind that feels
really aligned and authentic and clear.
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:It doesn't start with copywriting
formulas or checklists
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:or magic bullets.
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:It starts here with getting
to know the person that you're
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:actually trying to reach
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:with somehow or another sitting across
from a client you care deeply about.
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:And letting that experience remind you
that you already know how to do this.
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:You already know how to form connection.
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:You already know what your ideal
client is deeply struggling with,
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:and even more deeply desires.
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:I think this is one of the biggest
reasons therapists struggle to
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:write about their work and to market
themselves, because they try to
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:describe it from the outside in.
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:They're really trying to pitch their
niche or the work that they do from
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:a bird's eye view instead of really
just starting at ground level.
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:Instead of starting with one real person,
one real moment, one real conversation.
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:So if you've really been wrestling
with where to begin with your
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:marketing or staring at a blank
page wondering what to say, this.
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:Visualization is not just an exercise.
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:It can be a tool, something you
can come back to as you decide who
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:you're speaking to in your marketing
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:picture that client
sitting across from you.
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:Let what you write come from there.
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:It's not always gonna
feel polished right away.
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:There's room and time for that.
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:It's not gonna be perfect.
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:But it will be real.
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:It will be informed by genuine
relationship, and that is
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:what clients connect to.
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:This isn't about cleverness or credentials
or clinical jargon, but about connection.
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:So the next time you're sitting down
to work on something related to your
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:marketing, maybe you're writing your
homepage or updating your Psychology
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:Today profile, or thinking about how
to connect with someone via email.
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:Ask yourself, am I speaking to someone
or am I speaking about something?
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:Am I speaking to someone or
am I speaking about something?
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:Because you're a marketing good.
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:Effective marketing isn't
about just checking boxes.
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:It is about reaching the person
that you are here to help.
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:And the more grounded you
are in that connection, the
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:easier those words will come.
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:Okay.
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:You do not have to pull your
marketing out of thin air.
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:You don't have to perform
or prove yourself.
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:You just have to reconnect.
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:Reconnect with the clients
who already trust you.
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:Reconnect to the moments where
you know your work clicks.
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:Reconnect to what leads to those
incredible client outcomes and
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:light bulb moments in session.
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:Reconnect to the part of you who already
knows what to say because you've said it
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:before in session when it mattered most.
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:There's a powerful reframe here
that marketing isn't separate
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:from the work that you do.
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:It is simply an extension of it.
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:The more rooted you can be in
that, the more confidence will
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:come and the more your words will
resonate with the right people.
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:Like I said, this episode was a little
bit different, but I hope for some of you
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:that it was helpful that you're left with.
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:Some insights into that human
that's actually on the other
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:side of your marketing that is
looking for someone just like you.
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:I hope it gave you maybe a moment of
clarity or just of calm of the opportunity
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:to reconnect with those moments when you
have shown up as the incredible, talented
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:and capable clinician that you are.
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:And if you want to come back
to this exercise again, do it.
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:Save this, revisit it.
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:Maybe like I said, come back and
journal through this exercise
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:and the questions that I posed.
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:Clarity will not come from just thinking
harder about your marketing or following
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:one more checklist or to-do list.
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:It will come from action.
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:It will come from connection, and you,
my friend, already know how to do that.
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:Thanks for being here.
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:I'll see you in the next episode.