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Growing a team: the good, the bad and the ugly
Episode 4426th September 2023 • The Lionhearted CEO Podcast: Scaling Your Online Business with Facebook & Instagram Ads • Sophie Griffiths
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For me, growing a team (or 'outsourcing') has been one of the trickiest parts of growing my business. I've struggled to find guidance or insight in to how other people have done it and so have done a lot of trial and error to understand the type of support that I, and my business, need. With the aim of having more open conversations about growing a team and sharing what I've learnt so far, in this episode I share the mistakes I've made and the light bulb moments that have helped me start to get it right!

In this episode I talk through:

  • You know you need help in your business - is the first person you need a VA?
  • Working out what to do if the support you're getting doesn't make your life easier
  • How to know when you need specialist help vs generalist help
  • Stop trying to be 'well rounded' and lean in to the things you love - the 'star' analogy that changed my entire approach.
  • Finding the right people to work with and the questions you need to ask.
  • The one piece of advice I'd give everyone growing a team (or wanting to!).

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hello, and welcome to

Lion Hearted Marketing.

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This is a podcast for bold businesses

who are ready to go from a slightly

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scattergun marketing approach to

connecting everything they're doing

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to create joyful, repeatable customer

journeys, that build connection and

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consistently convert new clients.

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That's called a funnel.

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If you fancy.

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If you have that nagging feeling,

you should have more of a grasp

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on your marketing, more of a

plan, more of a system to support

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your pretty successful business.

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You're in the right place.

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This isn't about trying

lows and new strategies.

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It's about taking what you've

got and making the most of it.

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I'm Sophie your host.

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Self-confessed tea superfan marketing

strategist and funnels or joyful journeys,

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as I like to call them, demystifier.

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Join me every Tuesday for my Lion

hearted approach to marketing.

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To help you navigate those big moves,

stay focused on your goals and ultimately

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take your business to the next level.

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Let's jump in to today's episode.

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Hello.

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And welcome to this week's

episode of line hearty marketing.

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Now this week, I'm going to be

talking all about growing a team.

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Now I'm not an expert

in this by any means.

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And I do hope to get more of

a specialist on the podcast.

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I'm.

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At some point soon.

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However I wanted to talk about this

today because it probably is one

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of the biggest topics I talk to my

clients about I'm more often than not.

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After we get off a call, I will

send them over details of my VA

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or social media manager role.

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So often they need some level of support

as they're scaling that business.

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We'll say the courses

I'm in the masterminds.

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I do often the questions and

the things we talk about is, you

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know, how do we manage your team?

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How do I actually create a team

that takes the weight off of me

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rather than adding another level

of admin or stress organization?

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It's just something, I find myself

talking about a lot and I have had lots

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of different experiences growing a team.

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It's something I've actually

really struggled with.

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I found it one of the most challenging

parts of my business actually which

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came as quite a surprise to me because

in my pre kids corporate life.

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I loved having a team.

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It was something I was

actually really good at.

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Probably a couple of years

into my corporate job.

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I became a people manager.

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I had a team of sex, really loved

nurturing them, kind of creating that

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bigger picture vision that they kind

of went off and then implemented.

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Well, the time I left that job to have

Eliza, my eldest, I had a team of 350.

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I love team management.

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I love being part of a team.

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And the bigger picture,

strategic thinking.

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You know, getting people together,

creating a vision and then helping

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them bring that vision to life.

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I'm blocking issues for them.

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That's what I really thrive on.

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And to be honest, when I started my own

business, I really struggled with the fact

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that I not only had to do all of that,

but then I had to sort of do the doing.

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Implemented all, keep it consistent.

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Create structure, create processes.

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That like to do the end to end.

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I think actually it's really hard for

most people Because I think whether you

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love the detail and you're almost the

opposite of that to me, you know, you

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love the detail, you love the consistency.

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You love creating a plan.

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Like some of my incredible team,

I now work with often it's really

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hard for you to do the other end

and the bit that I really love.

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So do you think when you start your

own business, especially when you've

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come from a corporate background,

it can feel really hard that you're

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suddenly doing all the things.

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And even just not even just from.

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Growing a team perspective, but just, in

my corporate career, you know, they were.

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So many different teams and it was broken

down into tiny, tiny little segments.

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So you were responsible

for various things.

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Leather have a very big pie.

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And then suddenly you start working

for yourself and you're responsible

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for a very small pie, but all

of the pie that was such a big.

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Transition for me, it took me

quite a long time, to be honest,

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to get, to get my head around that.

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So once I kind of got my head around.

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Managing all of the pie.

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I really, really struggled to find clear

guidance on growing a team and even

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just about other people's experiences,

to be honest, I think often you're

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asking groups like, oh, I think, yeah.

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I think I might need a VA.

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And like loads of people

say, oh, my view is good.

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Or I love my VA.

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But I think it's such a personal

thing about what you want help

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with and how you want help.

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And I'm really working with someone

that understands your style and how you

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work as well, which I'm going to talk

a little bit more about later because

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that's been quite a massive thing for me.

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More recently as well.

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So, I guess taking a

little bit of a step back.

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I started my business back in 2017.

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And for a long time, I

just did all on my own.

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I couldn't even imagine.

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Having a VA taking anyone on.

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But as my business grew a little bit of

Christmas, 20, 21, I wrote on my vision.

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For 20, 22, but I wanted

to feel part of a team.

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And I've talked about this

on previous episodes as well.

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I felt really lonely at

that point in my business.

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I was managing a lot of client

accounts and there wasn't a

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huge amount of interaction.

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Between me and the clients over the month.

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So You know, we'd have a

monthly check-in, but other than

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that, I got on with my job.

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And that was a real benefit in a

lot of ways because it went, I would

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say flexible . I was really lonely.

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And I think in hindsight, I was probably

getting to a point where my business

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wasn't really for the kids anymore.

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So.

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I loved the fact that it was

so flexible for a really long

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time for a good couple of years.

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I had my second baby.

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Totally.

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In 2020 It was amazing that I

could run that whole business

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around her and be so flexible.

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I think by 2022, I was at a

point where actually she was

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really settled at nursery.

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My eldest Eliza was at school and I felt

like, okay, I really needed to find a

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way for this business to kind of feel.

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Energizing and fun.

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And like, it was giving me what I

needed as well as what my family

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and what my kids needed and how I

kind of wanted to be there for them.

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So at the beginning of 2022,

I made this really strong.

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Intention for the year to create a

feeling of having a team around me.

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And I knew that I wasn't a point where

I was suddenly going to get later people

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in my, I kept thinking to myself, how

can I create this feeling of a team,

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even if it's not necessarily huge So

when I actually ended up doing was

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creating a women's networking group.

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Locally to me with two

other incredible women.

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And we had events in the evenings and

the daytimes, and we started to build

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more of a local network around me.

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Feeling like part of the team that

was a little bit closer to home.

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And I then also started pivot things

and training, and I talk a lot more

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about this in other episodes of the

podcast, but making that move from

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just doing monthly support to more

training was such a big shift for me.

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And it's something I've really led

into the last couple of years and

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has made a huge difference in my

business as well because training

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and helping other people learn and

grow is such a huge passion of mine.

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And then finally I did dabble in

getting some support my business.

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So off the advice I did hear it

was things like you need to get a

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VA before you actually need one.

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Or.

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I finally got a VA and wished

I'd got, had that six months ago.

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So I thought, okay,

that's totally logical.

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Get rid of the admin, get rid

of the stuff that doesn't add

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value to the business and stuff.

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That's repetitive so I started

working with the VA and actually,

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you know what, I've worked with

quite a few VA's over the years.

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Now, and do you know what?

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I really, really, really struggled.

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It's never felt.

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Easy and like it's releasing.

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Much time from my business.

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And I won't go into each of the different

like VA experiences, because I think

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to be honest, the biggest thing I

want to share is that it wasn't them.

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It was me.

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I wasn't really ready for a VA and

everyone can tell you that you need

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to get one before you're ready.

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But it is a hell of a learning curve.

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If you are nowhere near ready for a VA.

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And I don't mean financially or, you

know, within the business, why aren't you

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mean is really settling on what you want

to offer and how you want to offer it.

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And.

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I'm processed is.

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That become repeatable in your business.

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'cause.

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I was just transitioning

from management to training.

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I was testing out lots and lots of

different ways of working with clients.

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I was testing different training offers.

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I was testing different

small group programs.

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I was being really dynamic

in my business, which I love.

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But what that means is there's not a

huge amount of stability and there's

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not a set process or way of doing things.

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So I couldn't say like right when we

take on a client you know, this happens

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and this happens and this happens,

and I need you to take over from that.

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Actually what we're saying is, oh, well,

I've actually started working with this

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client in a slightly different way.

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And that client is actually separate

or when I've actually agreed to

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something else with that client.

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And it was really, really messy.

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It felt like it needed a lot of

input from me because I was agreeing

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to all these different things.

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Now, some people might say, well, you

know, you should sell your services and

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you should just offer what you offer.

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And that's just, it.

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And you shouldn't create different

things for different clients and

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that's, that's all very well.

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But frankly I was just at a point

where I just wanted to see what

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kind of results I got with different

ways of working with clients.

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It was just a real

period of testing for me.

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I was also building up to launching

my group program, which I did

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towards the end of the year.

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Everything was just so new for me.

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I didn't feel like I

could hand over anything.

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Because nothing felt particularly

repeatable at this point.

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So I did work with a few different VA's

and I just couldn't work out why I was

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finding it so hard when everyone else

seemed to be finding it, like, okay.

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But it just wasn't really working for me.

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But over the last year or so, I've done

a lot of work on my business or myself.

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And I've now realized why

it wasn't really working.

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And that actually, I was probably

looking for the wrong thing.

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So for the rest of this episode,

I thought I'd just break down.

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What was it that wasn't working?

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What may be kind of realize that and then

change my approach and then how and why

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I've grown my team to where it is today.

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So I've done a huge

amount of work on myself.

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In August last year.

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So at this point where I was really kind

of feeling overwhelmed, but just really

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struggling to outsource and find like

the right way or people to work with.

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I also got diagnosed with ADHD.

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And that's really made me think a

lot about how my brain works and

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then how that actually impacts

and feeds into my business.

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Both with my psychotherapist,

who is the one that diagnosed me.

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But also with ADHD coaches

business mentors who specialize

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in working with women with ADHD.

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That was really important

to me to understand.

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Not just from a personal and a home

life side about how I can manage

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my ADHD better, but also like how

I can take my huge strengths that

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come from ADHD into my business.

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But, and also support my areas of sort

of blame this or the areas I struggle.

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So that was really, really

massive understanding my ADHD

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and also understanding then

how it can impact my business.

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For me, what I've learned is

that I Hugely capable of taking

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on a lot of information in

quite a small amount of time.

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I, my brain works incredibly

fast and I can get done.

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In a morning of what most people

probably take a couple of days.

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When I get into my hyper-focus zone,

I can achieve incredible, things.

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My brain is very good with numbers.

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I I really enjoy learning new systems.

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And setting them up.

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I don't don't enjoy maintaining

them, but that's a different story.

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So what I I'm really good

at is being a generalist.

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And learning lots of systems and

being pretty capable across the

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operations side of my business.

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So what I've done a huge amount of this

year is set up automations in my business.

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Because I know that once I set them

up, I can then have them running

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and I'm not relying on anybody else.

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So that was my first thing that I did

when I kind of really dug into it.

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Is that.

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Actually for what I was using

personally, I was using a VA for

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a lot of that could be automated.

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I did get some support, so it

was a more of ad hoc support.

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So, what I've realized for me

is that working with someone on

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like an ad hoc basis or for very

specific thing works really well.

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So I'm getting someone to set up my

Day four, my onboarding process, for

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example, that is incredibly useful

because for me, automation is really,

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really key to my whole business.

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Now this idea of getting specific

support and things is something

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that kind of really came to

the front of my consciousness.

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When I went to a day

on ADHD back in April.

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Now I had Hannah Miller

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he was co-hosting that

day I'm on the podcast.

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A while ago to definitely

dig out that episode.

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If you're interested in.

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Understanding your strengths and

kind of how you then work best

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because, because what she does

and how she works is incredible.

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And there was this analogy that

really, really stuck with me.

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And to be honest, it's shaped my

whole kind of growing a team ethos.

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Essentially, what she talks about is that.

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When we're at school and our whole

lives, we're brought up to believe

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that we should be really rounded.

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So if there are things that we're

not very good at, then we should work

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hard and improve ourselves . Rather

than focus solely on the things that

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we're good at and then have deficits

of things were not so good at.

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And it's really interesting because

that's what we really encourage

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our children to do, you know?

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Oh, you're struggling with math.

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Well, let's get you some extra support.

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Let's get you a tutor,

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now the approach we were talking

more about, and I'm not necessarily

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saying that this is right or wrong,

but it's just a different view on it.

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Is.

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Actually, if you're really good at

English, let's get you a tutor in English.

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Let's help you Excel at something that

you love and are really, really good at.

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Let's give you that huge strength

and super power going forward.

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Anyway really stuck with me.

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So the way we talked about this

was instead of being a circle and

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being rounded and good, everything,

a very kind of even and smooth.

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Actually what most people are, is a

star where you've got these spikes

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of things that you're really good at.

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And then like low points, if you like

of things that you're not so good at.

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And the key for me, what really

transformed my whole view of it was

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that I was trying to be a circle.

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And then I was trying to get like a

smaller circle to fit inside my circle.

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So two generalists.

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I was trying to kind of cover everything

and then get someone to come in and sort

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of cover what I was doing on top of it.

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And the problem was is that

because I'm pretty competent.

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And I I quite enjoy a lot

of the ops side of stuff.

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I ended up just getting

frustrated that nobody was ever.

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Taking what I'd done and

taking it to the next level.

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I realized was, is I really needed

to embrace my strengths and what

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I was really, really good at.

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And I loved doing it.

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It gave me energy.

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So my star.

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And then get other people in to fill in

the triangles between the star spokes.

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Now.

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I started off doing that

with like ad hoc people.

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So someone coming in

to do my DUP Saturday.

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When I had my rebrand, I

worked with a graphic designer.

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I worked with a, I worked with a

website developer, but actually

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I worked with her for one day.

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She created three to four pages

for me on my website, and then I've

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been able to take that forward.

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So rather than , throwing the baby

out with the bath water, because

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actually I had a really good website.

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It just needed, we sort of skinning.

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With my new branding.

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Is how can I get this specialist to help

me move faster and do what I can't do.

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So the graphic design, the website

development, like the branding side of it.

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The dub Solido, all staff.

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I didn't have the knowledge of, and

I needed people with that specialist

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knowledge to take me forward.

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So that's what I've really, learned.

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Is that.

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I work best when I'm

working with specialists.

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Who are focusing in on a really

small area of what I either

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don't want to do or can't do.

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Or just really want their focus

and knowledge and expertise on.

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So that's essentially where

I got to after that ADHD day.

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And it was such a huge

light bulb moment for me.

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I can't tell you.

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No, I should say as well.

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In hindsight, I actually already

had been getting specific support

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and I hadn't really clocked out.

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I've always had an accountant because

I have a just huge fear that I am

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going to totally mock up my finances.

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And at some point, get myself into an

issue with the tax model or something.

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So I've always had an accountant

again, specific support.

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So since I've been doing the

podcast, which is nearly 18 months

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now I've always worked with the

VA on getting these out because.

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I can't even tell you what goes

on in the background to get one

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of these out, but it's a lot.

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So again, specific support, I

hadn't really clocked was that's

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why it was working so well for me.

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So I was already doing it.

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I just didn't really realize.

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And I think as well.

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I just everywhere.

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I looked, people had general VAs

and it just felt like, oh, well

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that obviously is the next thing

that everybody else is doing.

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So.

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I probably need it.

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That's why I should be doing.

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But also, I didn't really know

what the alternative was what else

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would be a good option for me too.

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Outsource.

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Over summer.

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I really took a step back and started to

speak to the people I'm in my master.

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I'm with my co-chairs

even just on Instagram.

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I'm asking it, you know, people who

I'm chatting to in the DMS, like,

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well, how do you structure your team?

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What does your VA do for you?

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Or like, how does it work?

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And what ended up doing was kind of brain

dumping everything I wanted outsourced.

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And what was taking up the most time.

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What I, what was automated

and what could I automate?

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What did I want to outsource?

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And then what did I want

to continue doing myself?

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And when I got to this point, what I

realized was with my VA going on mat

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leave and not doing my social media

graphics anymore, social media was

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becoming a huge pain point for me.

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I had every intention every

week of posting consistently.

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And every week it just didn't happen.

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I just couldn't find the time or Headspace

to To post on Instagram in particular.

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And.

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And I, for a while I thought

it was a mindset issue.

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I think what happened was

with the almost burnout.

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Of the summer.

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I had got to a point where I was

like, I'm not working evenings,

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I'm not working weekends.

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And actually I'm just going to

focus on like the critical things.

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And I just realized that social media

just never fell into something that

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felt critical which don't get me wrong

as a former social media manager,

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and as a Facebook ads expert, I know

that I need to be posting regularly.

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But I just couldn't fit it in.

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And so I decided that that

is the first thing I wanted

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outsource was my social media.

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So found myself turning

really to my network.

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Who else is using a social media manager?

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I haven't got any recommendations.

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You know, what I'm looking

for is specifically probably

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Instagram support at the moment.

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And actually what I found was an

amazing social media manager, who

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also works with other clients who also

that was actually a really big thing.

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Is that working with somebody

who understood the challenges

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I had, the way that I worked.

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Things I would find difficult things

that she could help me with and

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also things I'd be really good at.

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So that was the first person I

started working with and the way

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that we work means that when she

works, doesn't really matter to me.

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And I've realized that this is something

that I didn't take into account

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enough when I was thinking about VA.

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So for my social media manager, the

key really is that she understands.

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My business, she understands not

Facebook ads specifically, but

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more sort of the coaching training,

onboarding to group programs.

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One-to-one so high ticket services.

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Matt was really important to me.

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Like the style that I wanted to use.

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Also that she was really good at graphics.

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That was really important to me because

obviously I've just had my branding and

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I wanted someone to be able to take

that on and really kind of develop it.

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So that's worked really well.

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The next thing I moved on to was a VA.

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I, because I was like, right, come on.

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Say fee to get.

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Now that you've put your social

media sorted, there's still lots

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of admin that you're doing that you

need to kind of get off your plate.

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Because all of my systems are set

up pretty much in dub Saturday.

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And so we needed some that was pretty

confident with ups our day, but I

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already had everything built out.

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All my workflows built out.

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I didn't really need someone

who was a dumpsite specialist.

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Because often what I found was that

people who had dumpsite specialists.

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Only dude.

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I'm sorry.

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And that's really not what I

needed because I use loads and

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loads of different systems.

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And on that point I use loads

and loads of different systems.

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So I need someone who's pretty

confident picking up systems,

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learning them themselves, if they

don't know how to use them, but also

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understand lots of different systems.

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So that was really my criteria.

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When I went into looking for a VA.

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And also in my head, you know,

I like working with women.

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. I like working with, you

know, people who have kids.

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I was like, you know, that

would probably be great as well.

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Cause you know, they understand

the juggle and everything.

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So I found someone on Instagram

and she was really, really lovely.

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And we started working

together early August.

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Then it came to sort of mid, mid to late.

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August and she sent an email saying.

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That in September, her children's nursery

and school was changing and say what she

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was doing was changing the way she worked.

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And it wasn't until I read her

email, I realized how important some

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things were to me that I hadn't even

known that were important to me.

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So when I started working with

her, she worked four days a week.

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Nine until two.

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And that was great.

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And then we'd set out our weekly,

monthly tasks and then I would

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send her like ad hoc stuff and

she would do it over the week.

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And what her change

was, which is obviously.

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Totally within her.

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Right.

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And totally.

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I totally support the fact that she was

changing her business to work for her.

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But what she was changing it to

was working three days a week.

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So Tuesday to Thursday and Nine

til four so slightly longer.

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And then she would only be

doing my work on a Tuesday.

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Now for me.

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That just doesn't work.

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And I realized the reason

it doesn't work as well, a.

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I don't want Fridays.

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So when I'm thinking about

my team, I actually quite want

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someone who works Fridays.

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The second thing was I.

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Love the idea of being

incredibly organized and getting

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everything over to heartful.

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Hope my time's not on a Tuesday,

but the reality is that's

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probably not going to happen.

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And I could feel that that was

going to add extra stress on me.

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It wasn't going to take stress away.

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It wasn't going to feel easy.

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It wasn't going to feel.

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Like, oh, this is like taking

such a weight off my mind.

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It was going to feel like, oh God, I'm

going to have to make sure that I've

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got everything to her for Tuesday.

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And then I think my biggest concern was,

but what if something comes in, like,

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what if I need a client onboarding?

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And that comes in on a Wednesday morning.

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Like, it's not the end of the world if

that happens on a Thursday afternoon, but

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I can't wait all the way to a Tuesday.

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And that's what my real issue was.

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So I got this email and I felt

this like, oh God, I don't think

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that's going to work for me.

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And what was so interesting for me.

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And this was a massive light bulb

moment for me, but my immediate thought

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was, oh, well maybe this is just

what, this is just the way VA's work.

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Maybe this is normal.

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Maybe this is what everybody else does.

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Maybe I just need to

get on board with them.

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So I messaged my coach and

posted in my mastermind group.

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Oh, like, how do you guys wait with

your VA's or is this normal maybe I

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just need to suck it up basically.

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Like maybe this just is how it has to be.

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And then I don't really, I

don't know what happened.

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But at some point.

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Maybe somebody said

something or I don't know.

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I just had this moment of like, Safie.

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You are running.

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You are running your business.

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And you get to decide what support

you want and how you want it.

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Now it might be the allocating

a time to do your work.

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Once a week is normal.

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It might be that a lot of VA's, work

part-time and a lot don't work Fridays.

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But that doesn't mean

that every VA does that.

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And it certainly doesn't mean

that you have to settle for it.

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Like.

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I think I'm still going through this

transition of seeing myself as like

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separate to the business as a CEO.

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So actually I just had

this massive moment of.

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I can get whatever support I need.

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And that doesn't have to just be

based on someone else's business.

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I can find someone who is happy as part

of that business to offer me why need.

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I think it's a bit of a

boundaries thing as well.

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Like I like to please, people

like to start it with this woman.

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She was really, really lovely.

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I really enjoyed working with her.

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And it was a real shame.

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I was like, oh, maybe I can make

it work, actually no other.

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As the CEO of my business, I need

to be really clear on what I need

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and how I need it and not just go

with what works for other people.

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And I just think in hindsight,

that's what I've done a lot.

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Is try to work into other people's

systems and approaches and not

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thought really about what do I need

and what does my business need.

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So I spoke to her and we had a

lovely conversation and, you know,

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we parted ways and it was fine.

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By felt like, oh my gosh, I'm kind

of back to the beginning again.

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So I then took myself back to

this star analogy of right.

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You really need to think a

bit more specifically about.

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What you want.

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And I realized actually, what

was taking up a lot of time.

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Was the Facebook ads work, but not

necessarily the strategic high-level

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work more like going into half.

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Facebook ads manager and

setting up campaigns.

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It's kind of the difference.

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Between the social media management

of writing the caption and creating

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a graphic versus the scheduling.

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It's like the scheduling part

I really needed help with, of

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like a Facebook ads equivalent.

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So I decided that actually I wanted to

work with another Facebook ads managers.

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They have them.

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Come into my business Now in

the Facebook ads world, what's

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quite normal is white labeling.

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So almost more of an agency model

where you hand over like whole

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accounts for somebody to manage that.

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Isn't why I wanted and probably for the

first time ever, I was like, I don't

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really mind that that's, that's not

normal and that's not what most people do.

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I want someone to give me like X amount

of hours a month to help me with this

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sort of, kind of like a Facebook ads, VA.

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So I went out to my network and

found a really incredible woman

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who is now helping me with that.

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And that specific help

is just incredible.

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It's helping so much.

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And then the final step was

looking at this sort of Viet.

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Do I need a VA?

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Can I just carry on if I am.

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And then I spoke to a friend who

also run through in business and

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she had just hired an OBM, which

is an online business manager.

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And it's sort of like the next step

up from a VA, I guess it's someone

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who is almost like your ops manager.

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So it's someone who is not just

doing what you asked them to do.

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It's much more strategic.

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It's much more systems.

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Focused.

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And so that's why I've ended up doing.

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I'm working with an online business

manager who started last week.

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So it's all very new and I'm kind

of acutely aware now that I have

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quite a lot of people helping me.

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And they're all very new to it.

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So at the moment, I'm still doing

quite a lot support to make sure

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you know, they understand how it

works and how we can work together.

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And I'm starting to think

about as well, like, right.

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Okay.

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It's all very well getting lots

of specific support, but how do I

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manage that overall as a business?

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And make sure that everyone is kind

of singing from the same sheet.

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And I don't know, not spending loads

of my time managing loads of different

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people, because that's the flip side of

having what, you know, one generalist

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in your business where you just work

with them and they know everything.

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There says lots and lots of different

people, and I'm kind of trying to make

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sure they're all on the same page.

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At the moment it's going really well.

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But it is very, very heavy days.

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So that's where I'm at with it.

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And I now have an accountant.

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My podcast, VA social media

manager, Facebook ads, VA, and

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I'm an online business manager.

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Which is quite a huge shift

from this time last year.

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Where I just had my accountant.

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So that is.

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Massive change.

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And to be honest, I wasn't

ready for all of this last year.

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The understanding I now have of myself,

of my business, of where I'm going

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with my business of what I want to.

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Do with my business is hugely different

to where I was this time last year.

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And I'm definitely not saying

that, everybody needs to get

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their social media manager sorted

first, or you have to have an ABM.

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I guess what I'm saying is.

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If you're struggling to find support

or grow a team or something, doesn't

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feel like it's working for you.

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I guess my advice is.

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Take a moment to think about

what would really, really

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help you out in your business.

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And don't be afraid to find that person

because they will be out there if you

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need really specific help on one thing.

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And it's just a couple of hours a month.

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Someone will be happy to do that for you.

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If you want someone to come in and

help you across loads of different

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things for quite a few hours a

month, like that's also, okay.

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You don't have to have.

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A VA.

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There are people out there that

will help you with whatever

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you need in your business.

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And I just really encourage you to try

and work out what that is that you need,

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and then finding that right person.

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Don't be afraid to have

calls with multiple people.

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When I had my Facebook ads.

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VA that I was looking for, I N I

talked to three different people

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and for various reasons based on

their experience when they were going

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to be available, to do the work.

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Other accounts that they manage, you

know, could they bring in other expertise

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that was going to help my business?

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There were so many things I considered

, and really don't be afraid to

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ask how they work when they work.

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Because that was something that I

just really didn't dig into when

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I was speaking to people before,

just assuming that they were going

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to be flexible interestingly, now..

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So just think about, what

you need for your business.

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And what would be really

helpful would probably would

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be my advice from this episode.

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So I hope you found that useful.

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It was a a little bit of a windy road.

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That one, I would call this possibly my

most ADHD episode, because I've just

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verbalized everything's in my head.

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I hope it was useful

in one way or another.

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And I would absolutely love to

hear your takeaways and anything

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you've kind of got from it.

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Or any questions you've got, I'm more

than, more than happy to answer them.

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Just come over to Instagram and DM me.

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I will put the link in the show notes.

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Thank you so much and have a lovely week.

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Thank you so much for

joining me this week.

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Before you go, make sure you

subscribe to the podcast so you

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can receive new episodes every

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And if you enjoyed this episode, I'd

love for you to rate or leave a review

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wherever you are listening to it.

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difference to new people finding me.

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Thank you again for joining me, Sophie,

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