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Ep. 38 On your Deathbed [radical awareness]
Episode 38 • 14th April 2022 • The Borealis Experience • Aurora Eggert
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The choices you will make today will have consequences and affect not only you but everybody around you ..

the choices, mistakes you made in the past might still haunt you ...

how to make peace with yourself and others to not get overwhelmed towards the end of your life

a weird topic i know . but I felt really called to talk about it :)

with love

A.

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Hello, hello and welcome to the Borealis

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experience. I'm your host Aurora, life coach and companion

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on this beautiful journey content life. I hope you're

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doing well. I hope you feel safe. I hope your heart is

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light.

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I hope you feel free. I hope you can see that you have choices

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and life. But last episode

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was about the choices

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that you make.

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How to Increase your choices and possibilities and to feel free

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whenever you feel stuck.

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Today I want to talk about your death. But my gosh, Aurora.

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Very light topic.

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That's a beautiful spring day. I'm currently on my little

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vacation, my road trip. And yeah, I record these episodes

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before I left because I wanted to make sure that you do not

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feel abandoned. Make sure to subscribe to my podcast if you

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haven't already to not miss out on future episodes. And if you

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to meditate. Of course you can skip these episodes of

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meditation is still a trigger word for you.

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But if you want to start out a journey of self healing, please

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hop onto season one and start from there. Because there's kind

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of a build up to my podcast here. I'm very excited to

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be coming to an end with season six and soon beyond season seven

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with you. Also, I wanted to ask you

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I have

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statistics for my podcast and there it tells me where my

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listeners come from. But I would like to hear from you personally

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from where are you listening from? Are you in North America?

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Are you in Australia and South America and Europe.

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I would love to connect with you and to hear about your

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experience you're going through right now. So never hold back

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and connect with me on Aurora Eggert.

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My profile on Facebook or Aurora Eggert coaching.

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All right.

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Let's talk about your desperate.

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That is of course, like everything I share here is just

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my experience and what I've learned what helped me to heal

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what helped me grow what helped me to be the person that I am

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today, running a beautiful little business here.

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But I imagined it being very similar for everybody when they

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are on their deathbed. And a couple years ago, I learned this

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was my grandfather who was about to pass away.

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And the interesting thing that I've learned is that

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he was mad at a lot of people. While he was still healthy. He

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always judged people he blamed people

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was angry, resentful towards people.

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That was just his thing.

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But when his death was coming closer when he could really

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smell it and

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yeah, touch it, so to say right in front of him.

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All the regrets came up. All the mistakes came up. All the pain

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came up that he had inflicted on others.

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Let that sink in.

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Imagine that one day you lay there and everything comes back.

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It's a very, very tricky situation to be and because

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maybe right now while you're listening, you are regretting a

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bunch of things already and then you would say but Aurora Why are

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you saying this? Like I made really huge mistakes and I'm

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still suffering from the consequences. Why do you say

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this? How am I going to survive to my death

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with these regrets

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bear with me

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I will ask you to start out on a journey of self forgiveness.

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If that's the case, if you've done mistakes, if you've made

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choices in your past, that are fully hollow or horrible and

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very shitty, especially for other people, but now for you,

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then you can't waste any more time. But you have to forgive

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yourself.

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And this now might sound like wow, forgiving myself, no,

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because that would mean that I accept. And I'm okay with the

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mistake I've made but I'm seriously not.

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I understand. I will say to you, but you have to forgive

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yourself, you have to let this go.

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Down and over with.

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You can't make this mistake.

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hinder you hold you back restrict you any longer.

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You have to start and let go.

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And if you are

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in a situation where you feel okay with yourself, then this

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episode is for you as well. Because Be wise with the choices

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that you're making. And make sure that yes, you follow your

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heart your follow your soul calling.

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But on this path,

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try to the best of your ability to not harm or hurt other

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people.

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Again,

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you will upset people you will piss people off once you engage

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on your own journey.

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And that's okay, you have to follow your heart. But I mean,

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intensely hurting and letting down.

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shutting people out that you're just too lazy to have an honest

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boundary setting conversation with

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to be as clear as possible.

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To express yourself as honestly as possible.

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is one way to live without regrets.

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At the end of your life,

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I have a strong feeling that even if I was to make no

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mistakes, so to say until the rest of my days, my brain would

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still come up with stuff oh my god. But I could have done this,

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I could have said this, I could have you know, accomplish that.

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This is simply how our brain works.

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But the decisions that you're going to make, from now on,

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have not only a deep impact on your future

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and how your life is going to unfold, they have a deep impact

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on others as well.

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The better you know yourself, the better decisions you're

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going to make that affect you the best way possible and the

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people around you that you love and care about.

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So, I think was this episode, I really want to raise awareness

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that you can't waste any time and forgiving yourself forgiving

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others and to set yourself free from regret and resentment

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and to focus on how you can make better choices

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from now on

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in order to not live with regrets and pain.

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What is driving you? What are your core values?

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And do you live in alignment with these core values that you

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have? Is there areas in your life where you are in conflict

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with your values where you feel

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you have to

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compromise

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and if you want me to list the areas of your life that I'm

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talking about here it is your

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personal relationships, your family, your friends, your

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romantic relationships, and most importantly your relationship to

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yourself.

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Can you express yourself freely?

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Let? Do you let people see you for who you are?

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Do you lie to yourself? And why do you lie to yourself to learn?

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Do you lie to others? And why do you lie to others?

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are you silent? When you should be speaking up but you choose

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to? Because you don't want to create drama and conflict?

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How it is when it comes to your job, your work life?

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Are you self employed? Are you employed? What's your relation?

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Like with your boss with your co workers?

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If you're self employed,

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what drives you?

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Are you in alignment with your core values at work?

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Your physical health?

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Are you making the best

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out of your physical health? Or do you compromise? Do you cheat?

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Your mental health?

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How do you nurture your mind? What do you consume on a daily

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basis? Through your eyes through you yours? Is it an alignment

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with your True core values?

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Your financial situation?

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Do you feel comfortable? Do you feel safe Do you feel supported?

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It is really important to live with this awareness with this

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consciousness. Because the last thing I want is for you to

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regret one day that you didn't take enough care of yourself

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that you were not honest with the people around you.

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If you have any feedback or comments

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and burning to hear from you,

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if you feel like

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buying me a coffee

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donate a couple bucks and show appreciation give back

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if you have questions if you have topic requests for future

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episodes, don't hold back. Contact me at Aurora Eggert on

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Facebook.

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Alright, take really good care of yourself. And I will be out

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there very soon again. Bye bye

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