Success isn't just about individual achievement - it's about showing up authentically and building genuine connections that raise everyone around you. I sit down with Junaid Ahmed, founder of HumbleZone and Home Studio Mastery, who demonstrates how being your authentic self creates opportunities and transforms lives. Junaid shares his journey from self-doubt and limiting beliefs to becoming a connector who helps entrepreneurs and podcasters show up professionally while focusing on what truly matters...storytelling and impact.
Junaid reveals how his upbringing taught him that anything is possible if you put your mind to it, but it was stepping into spaces where he was celebrated and supported that helped him see his true potential. He discusses the power of reflection, especially as we mature past 40, and how surrounding yourself with cheerleaders and mentors allows you to overcome the limiting beliefs that we often mistake for normal life. His story shows how changing your environment and finding your community can unlock possibilities you never imagined.
Your transformation accelerates when you stop trying to do everything alone and start building systems with team members who complement your zone of genius. Junaid demonstrates how delegating podcast production allowed him to scale from one episode per week to five daily episodes, freeing him to focus on his unique gifts of helping people create professional spaces and tell their stories. His approach to avoiding burnout through hobbies, community involvement and proper rest shows how sustainable success comes from balance, not just hustle.
In this episode, you will be able to:
• Master the art of authentic connection by showing up as your genuine self in professional and personal settings
• Overcome limiting beliefs by recognizing them as environmental conditioning rather than unchangeable truths
• Build effective delegation systems that free you to focus on your zone of genius while scaling your impact
• Develop meaningful mentorship relationships through books, podcasts, and distant learning opportunities
• Transform self-doubt into confidence by finding communities that celebrate and support your growth
The key moments in this episode are:
00:05:45 - How Limiting Beliefs Disguise Themselves as Normal Life
00:09:20 - The Tony Robbins Infomercial That Changed Everything
00:12:15 - Key Books That Opened His Mind to Possibilities
00:16:40 - From One Podcast Episode to Five Daily Episodes Through Team Building
00:21:30 - The Challenge of Implementing New Habits Like Gratitude
00:25:10 - Why Rereading Books Reveals New Insights Over Time
00:28:45 - Balancing Multiple Business Areas Without Burnout
00:33:20 - The Importance of Delegation and Letting Go of Control
00:37:50 - Finding Community in Cycling, Beekeeping, and Other Hobbies
00:41:15 - The Role of Sleep and Naps in Sustainable Success
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Podcast Website
https://LivingFearlessTodayPodcast.com
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Well, hello and welcome back my friend this week.
Mike Forrester:I have a friend with me who is just wicked smart.
Mike Forrester:He is creative, energetic, and anytime I've gone to you know, podcast
Mike Forrester:conferences, I am always looking for him because I see his smile.
Mike Forrester:I know he's upbeat, he's a connector.
Mike Forrester:He just brings.
Mike Forrester:His best self, wherever he's going doesn't mean that life is, life is necessarily,
Mike Forrester:you know, always like rainbow and Skittles and unicorns and all that stuff.
Mike Forrester:But he's showing up in the best way that he can for himself and others.
Mike Forrester:And uh, man, it's always great to see, uh, Junaid Ahmed and.
Mike Forrester:Man, if you're looking on YouTube right now, you can see his smile, man.
Mike Forrester:It just glows.
Mike Forrester:So this is what I get to, uh, have the pleasure, you know, having, uh,
Mike Forrester:sitting in conferences with him, learning, talking, just being, you know,
Mike Forrester:encouraged and sharing the challenges.
Mike Forrester:I think this is what we as men often miss out, is somebody
Mike Forrester:that can, you know, listen.
Mike Forrester:Also speak, you know, that we're open to speaking back into our lives.
Mike Forrester:And so Junaid is that one of those men, he is that guy that shows up in so many
Mike Forrester:ways, but shows up authentically as him.
Mike Forrester:So Junaid is um, uh, founder of Humblezone, which is like
Mike Forrester:apps and websites and just all kinds of nerdy stuff, which I
Mike Forrester:love geeking out on with him.
Mike Forrester:As you also look at his background, man, you're gonna see his studio, man.
Mike Forrester:It just looks absolutely amazing.
Mike Forrester:You can see him now from the back there.
Mike Forrester:He's just got it all laid out.
Mike Forrester:So the guy, man, quintessential home studio designer, equipper,
Mike Forrester:uh, connoisseur, I guess.
Mike Forrester:I don't know.
Mike Forrester:What
Mike Forrester:do we say on that?
Mike Forrester:Junaid?
Mike Forrester:You got a gift for
Mike Forrester:it, my friend.
Junaid Ahmed:Thank you, brother.
Junaid Ahmed:Appreciate it.
Mike Forrester:Absolutely.
Mike Forrester:Well, dude, it looks great.
Mike Forrester:Always does.
Mike Forrester:And, uh, man, your smile both, you know, smile, uh, all over your face.
Mike Forrester:So welcoming and I appreciate it, man.
Mike Forrester:You always bring the best.
Junaid Ahmed:Mike.
Junaid Ahmed:I'm, I'm super excited to be here and I get to talk to
Junaid Ahmed:my brother over here, right?
Junaid Ahmed:I get to talk to my friend that, like, we hung out together for so many
Junaid Ahmed:times, talking about the deepest, deep darkness in our hearts, or, or, you
Junaid Ahmed:know, the, the things that we don't.
Junaid Ahmed:Get to talk about a whole lot.
Junaid Ahmed:We got to talk about those things.
Junaid Ahmed:So super excited that I get to share a little bit of that
Junaid Ahmed:here as well on the show.
Mike Forrester:I appreciate it, my friend.
Mike Forrester:Um, thank you for coming and, and being open to share 'cause.
Mike Forrester:Dude, we, you know, this is not something that is necessarily
Mike Forrester:the norm, uh, for us as men.
Mike Forrester:And so being able to have somebody that's like, yep, this is the challenges
Mike Forrester:I face, you know, gives that hope.
Mike Forrester:And also then being able to see, hey, you know, Junaid's now on the other side.
Mike Forrester:He's working through these things, he's on the other side, dude.
Mike Forrester:It gives a reality and, and, uh, kind of that transfer of belief.
Mike Forrester:So in you sharing your story.
Mike Forrester:You know, it, it changes lives that we're not gonna see in a
Mike Forrester:normal conversation like this, but by somebody else hearing it.
Mike Forrester:Another guy, yeah, dude, they can step up in a way that they weren't, you know,
Mike Forrester:weren't feeling like they could before.
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:So, dude, let's, uh, let's step off with what does it look like today?
Mike Forrester:You know, you've, you've got the studio, you, you know, you've got
Mike Forrester:your family, you've got a, a lot of.
Mike Forrester:Plates, so to speak, spinning.
Mike Forrester:What does life look like today for you, man?
Mike Forrester:Yeah, exactly.
Mike Forrester:Spin 'em fast.
Junaid Ahmed:Well, I've got, uh, I'm a, you know, happily married with
Junaid Ahmed:to my wife for, you know, 19 years now, and four kids, uh, from ranging
Junaid Ahmed:from 15 all the way down to three.
Junaid Ahmed:And, you know, they're just, they're just, uh, such a pleasure.
Junaid Ahmed:To be around as well as in it's, it's heartwarming when you have kids
Junaid Ahmed:and you know, you know this, right?
Junaid Ahmed:You're a parent.
Junaid Ahmed:So that's who I am.
Junaid Ahmed:And I try to create scenarios or try to give them opportunities
Junaid Ahmed:to see what's possible.
Junaid Ahmed:And in this world that we're living in, anything is possible
Junaid Ahmed:if you put your mind to it.
Junaid Ahmed:The conversations that I've had on my own podcast, uh, that I've been running
Junaid Ahmed:for some years, literally show me.
Junaid Ahmed:Pathways of other people and how they've taken their passion to profit,
Junaid Ahmed:how they've overcome struggles.
Junaid Ahmed:And when you listen to enough stories like that, guess what happens, right?
Junaid Ahmed:You start to see yourself take those leaps and bounds and challenges and, and
Junaid Ahmed:take over, uh, things that hold you back.
Junaid Ahmed:The other thing that also helped me was reading the books, you know.
Junaid Ahmed:Putting more, the more good stuff we put in our minds, the more
Junaid Ahmed:good stuff's gonna come out.
Junaid Ahmed:So where I am right now, I'm held, I'm helping people, entrepreneurs,
Junaid Ahmed:podcasters, business owners, uh, set up their studio spaces in their homes
Junaid Ahmed:or in their offices for podcasting, marketing, whatever you call it, so that
Junaid Ahmed:they can show the best self they can show professionally, and it automatically
Junaid Ahmed:gives them confidence and, you know.
Junaid Ahmed:Speaks to their authority.
Junaid Ahmed:As soon as they show up on camera, people stop to scroll and like, okay,
Junaid Ahmed:this guy paid attention to his look.
Junaid Ahmed:I gotta listen to what he's gotta say.
Junaid Ahmed:And that's like an innate thing that us human beings do, right?
Junaid Ahmed:Why do we watch movies?
Junaid Ahmed:Why do we watch TV shows?
Junaid Ahmed:They put so much effort into creating something beautiful,
Junaid Ahmed:uh, telling those stories.
Junaid Ahmed:So I help with the backside of, before you even go in front of
Junaid Ahmed:the camera, what do you gotta do?
Junaid Ahmed:Set up the space.
Junaid Ahmed:So once you have that set space set up, now you can tell your
Junaid Ahmed:story it's almost like you.
Junaid Ahmed:Get to focus on that storytelling like.
Junaid Ahmed:I didn't start that way, but that's what I get to do.
Junaid Ahmed:And we've built actually some local studios as well, and then helping people,
Junaid Ahmed:you know, produce that content and, you know, get that out to the world.
Junaid Ahmed:So that's what, what it looks like right now.
Junaid Ahmed:Uh, some of the other cool products that I'm working on is building a
Junaid Ahmed:media school or teaching students.
Junaid Ahmed:Uh, how to podcast or be journalists and stuff like that.
Junaid Ahmed:So bringing in people around me to then teach these students, uh, from
Junaid Ahmed:high school and, you know, people who just graduated, Hey, there's so much
Junaid Ahmed:more that they can bring to the world than, uh, they are shown or, you know,
Junaid Ahmed:they're, they have taught to think about
Mike Forrester:one thing, like.
Mike Forrester:Dude, you're doing so much to equip and encourage other people.
Mike Forrester:To move them from where they are to where they can be.
Mike Forrester:And we've talked about, you know, self-doubt before.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:And our limiting beliefs.
Mike Forrester:And that is like the kryptonite that just imprisons us.
Mike Forrester:Yes.
Mike Forrester:With where we are, stops us.
Mike Forrester:It's almost like the elephant that has been trained, you know,
Mike Forrester:by chains to, to stay in place.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:And then they replace it with like a. Itty bitty rope that, that anybody could move.
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:And that's much like our limiting beliefs that we buy into.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:What, when you look back Junaid, how did those limiting beliefs
Mike Forrester:and that self-doubt impact you?
Mike Forrester:And how did you then move beyond it?
Junaid Ahmed:That's such a powerful question, and a lot of us don't
Junaid Ahmed:think about them as limiting beliefs.
Junaid Ahmed:We just think of them as life as a norm, right?
Junaid Ahmed:Because that is the environment we grew up in.
Junaid Ahmed:But as soon as you start stepping into places, or start going to places where
Junaid Ahmed:you are celebrated, you are encouraged.
Junaid Ahmed:You are supported, you are able to start seeing more of yourself.
Junaid Ahmed:Then the other thing that you, that a lot of people that, that a lot of us
Junaid Ahmed:we don't do is reflect on our lives.
Junaid Ahmed:It's easier to do when you're much older.
Junaid Ahmed:Like, you know, I'm in my late forties, uh, you know, so it's easier to, like,
Junaid Ahmed:our minds become a different animal, like human beings literally change.
Junaid Ahmed:Past 40 because before 40 you were a youth, past 40, you are now mature, right?
Junaid Ahmed:So that helps you overcome a lot of things.
Junaid Ahmed:But then you need people around you.
Junaid Ahmed:You need those cheerleaders, you know, the support people.
Junaid Ahmed:You need the mentors to actually enable you to see, hey, what else can you do?
Junaid Ahmed:So when I came first to the us.
Junaid Ahmed:You know, I came from a school system and my parents were very open.
Junaid Ahmed:You know, do whatever you want, you know, but make sure that you're
Junaid Ahmed:doing good in school, but you can literally pick anything you want.
Junaid Ahmed:But then growing up here, I was introduced by my uncles, you know,
Junaid Ahmed:Hey, I am buying and selling cars.
Junaid Ahmed:Hey, I am putting up these tents.
Junaid Ahmed:I am, uh, you know.
Junaid Ahmed:Selling these books and DVDs and, and VHS tapes at, at mosques.
Junaid Ahmed:So they're showing me anything is literally possible.
Junaid Ahmed:You just gotta keep doing it.
Junaid Ahmed:And the, the more I saw that, I was like, wow, this is really fascinating.
Junaid Ahmed:And it inspired me to continue to grow.
Junaid Ahmed:And self-doubt is something that, you know, we, you can either stay with
Junaid Ahmed:it and, you know, just beat yourself.
Junaid Ahmed:Upon it, or you can take action and write down what you're feeling.
Junaid Ahmed:Because what's happening is we're, we're thinking about all these things, but
Junaid Ahmed:you were not doing anything about it.
Junaid Ahmed:And the first thing that you can do about it is either speak about it.
Junaid Ahmed:That's why they have a. AA meetings like, Hey, you gotta acknowledge, right?
Junaid Ahmed:You find that community of people that are also going through the same
Junaid Ahmed:issue, so you can expel it out of your body or you start journaling.
Junaid Ahmed:And when you start journaling, you're now giving your mind space to actually
Junaid Ahmed:process, okay, what is it new?
Junaid Ahmed:And then what's beautiful is that we have so many books available
Junaid Ahmed:to us, so many different things.
Junaid Ahmed:Also, Invite us to, or inspire us to, you know, step outside of that comfort zone.
Junaid Ahmed:Now, there was one time I was, uh, on a road trip with my colleague.
Junaid Ahmed:My colleague is, you know, he's smoking, he's driving, and I'm
Junaid Ahmed:sitting here on the laptop.
Junaid Ahmed:Transcribing lyrics from songs that I'm listening to, and
Junaid Ahmed:he's like, what are you doing?
Junaid Ahmed:Like, it's like a 10 hour drive.
Junaid Ahmed:He's like, what are you doing?
Junaid Ahmed:So anyways, uh, long story short, it was 3:00 AM at night and I'm watching this
Junaid Ahmed:infomercial and Tony Robbins pop up.
Junaid Ahmed:This is 2003.
Junaid Ahmed:And as I watch him, I was like, oh my God, I need to have this.
Junaid Ahmed:I, I bought those DVDs and.
Junaid Ahmed:Again, I found a mentor that could, from far, far away help me realize what I can
Junaid Ahmed:be and step outta my comfort zone and, and be, uh, know that it's good enough.
Junaid Ahmed:Like where we are is the perfect place.
Junaid Ahmed:All you gotta do is just keep moving forward.
Mike Forrester:I think that's.
Mike Forrester:When we're used to talking about mentors, right?
Mike Forrester:It's like I have to have somebody physically in front of me or you know,
Mike Forrester:somebody physically that's mentoring me.
Mike Forrester:And yet there, like you've talked about you, you bought, you know, a
Mike Forrester:product from, from Tony, but there's books, there's podcasts, there's
Mike Forrester:so many different tools mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:Where we can be mentored.
Mike Forrester:You know, taught, encouraged, coached along.
Junaid Ahmed:Absolutely.
Mike Forrester:Without having it to be dependent upon that person
Mike Forrester:being accessible when we are.
Mike Forrester:And it's like, you know, you, you've talked about some books, you know,
Mike Forrester:that books were pivotal thing for you.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:So, as we're talking about like limiting beliefs and, and uh, you
Mike Forrester:know, mindset, what are a couple books that really started you?
Mike Forrester:On that change of, um, you know, seeing the bigger picture
Mike Forrester:and what's what's possible.
Junaid Ahmed:So that the beginning was right, the, the Tony Robbins personal
Junaid Ahmed:power CD set, that was the beginning.
Junaid Ahmed:And then I learned about, uh, audio tech with these sort
Junaid Ahmed:of 30 minute book summaries.
Junaid Ahmed:And I, I listened to, um, seven Habits of Highly Affected People on there.
Junaid Ahmed:30 minute version.
Junaid Ahmed:There's a book that I read, the Magic of Thinking Big, right?
Junaid Ahmed:And when you read stuff like this, it just opens your mind and you start,
Junaid Ahmed:you start changing and then there.
Junaid Ahmed:Then the other thing that I was crazy about was technology, right?
Junaid Ahmed:So as soon as I came to the US I was like, I gotta get on America Online.
Junaid Ahmed:I had no idea what it was.
Junaid Ahmed:Because in this, in, in Saudi, I would, my dad would bring these CDs and I'm
Junaid Ahmed:like, what is that America Online?
Junaid Ahmed:So when I came to the US in 95, I gotta get online.
Junaid Ahmed:So when I got online, I started seeing the chats, I started seeing all these things.
Junaid Ahmed:I put myself in places that were uncomfortable and helped
Junaid Ahmed:me to learn new things.
Junaid Ahmed:Right?
Junaid Ahmed:So, uh, one of the latest, one of the, one of the biggest book
Junaid Ahmed:that had a huge impact on me.
Junaid Ahmed:Almost eight years ago was Gary V's.
Junaid Ahmed:Book Crush It, and then later on his second book Crushing it and after
Junaid Ahmed:the second book is when I started my podcast because he literally said,
Junaid Ahmed:you don't need to have a story, you just need to document your journey.
Mike Forrester:Yeah, it's, it's one of those, I think.
Mike Forrester:We are on the journey, but just like we talked about self-awareness.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:We're often not looking at the journey because we don't think
Mike Forrester:there's the worth of it, right?
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:We don't see our worth, and so there's no worth in the journey.
Mike Forrester:And, and it's almost like this snowball effect, but when you're talking about
Mike Forrester:getting, you know, these books and being mentored through these different
Mike Forrester:resources, dude, that can change like our whole perspective on things.
Mike Forrester:Exactly.
Junaid Ahmed:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:And then it's like.
Mike Forrester:You know, I know you and I have talked about like the gap in the gain, right?
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:The difference of seeing things of like, oh, I've made this progress, or, you
Mike Forrester:know, Hey, I'm, I'm not where I was.
Mike Forrester:Exactly.
Mike Forrester:But we don't celebrate that stuff.
Mike Forrester:We're more focused on like the negative aspect, right.
Mike Forrester:I failed, I didn't make this.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:Instead of, dude, look at where I was a month ago, six months ago.
Mike Forrester:Anytime you're, you're focused on something, you're gonna grow.
Mike Forrester:You know, taking a look at that.
Mike Forrester:Um, is that something like that you do to kind of reflect occasionally just to like,
Mike Forrester:to look back and see how you've changed and how things around you have changed?
Junaid Ahmed:You know, that's something I'm still struggling with.
Junaid Ahmed:So I've read the book, I've read like five of the books by Benjamin
Junaid Ahmed:Hardy and Dan Sullivan and, you know.
Junaid Ahmed:10 X is better, easier than two x, uh, gap and the gain, like all of the books
Junaid Ahmed:that they mentioned, I've read them, I've listened to them, and now it needs to
Junaid Ahmed:come down that I need to take that action.
Junaid Ahmed:Right?
Junaid Ahmed:So some of the actions that I'm already taking is, you know, um.
Junaid Ahmed:Recording these podcast episodes, you know, having these conversations, but
Junaid Ahmed:then that when it comes time to do it, I'm like, okay, where do I even start?
Junaid Ahmed:There's so many things.
Junaid Ahmed:So that's something that I need to implement.
Junaid Ahmed:I need to have a notebook by my bedside so I can take those notes.
Junaid Ahmed:I'm like, okay.
Junaid Ahmed:What was, uh, what was the good things that happened today?
Junaid Ahmed:What am I planning for tomorrow so that I can, you know, streamline and get
Junaid Ahmed:back into, get back into that flow?
Mike Forrester:Yeah, dude, it, it's challenging, like implementing new stuff.
Mike Forrester:I mean, you know.
Mike Forrester:What is it like less than 21 days?
Mike Forrester:Every January it's like, Hey, I made New Year resolutions.
Mike Forrester:We're gonna kill it this year.
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:Within three weeks.
Mike Forrester:It's like vapor.
Mike Forrester:So it's, it's very much the challenge of implementing new habits and new processes.
Mike Forrester:Um, gratitude is one of those that's super powerful.
Mike Forrester:But any, any new habit, a new skill takes some time and, and
Mike Forrester:that's where, you know, it's.
Mike Forrester:It when we implement and we do things, you know, that we're learning, uh,
Mike Forrester:through any of those resources, that's where the magic happens.
Mike Forrester:That's right.
Mike Forrester:But you know, I, I don't know about you, maybe you found this is I can
Mike Forrester:read a book ade or listen to a course or a podcast or something and if
Mike Forrester:I listen to it again, like three months, six months, a year later,
Mike Forrester:I'm picking up different stuff, man.
Mike Forrester:You know, you're in a different place.
Mike Forrester:Is that kind of the same thing?
Mike Forrester:Absolutely.
Mike Forrester:Like you're picking
Junaid Ahmed:up on stuff.
Junaid Ahmed:A hundred percent.
Junaid Ahmed:I, I, and I've done this multiple times, so I've read the book, um,
Junaid Ahmed:the Big Leap by Gay Hendricks.
Junaid Ahmed:Mm-hmm.
Junaid Ahmed:I've read that a couple of times.
Junaid Ahmed:Uh, I haven't done the crushing it twice, you know, but there are other books.
Junaid Ahmed:Uh, the one thing I've done that multiple times, and every time I
Junaid Ahmed:listen to the book, it, it opens up new channels of my mind, like, oh my God.
Junaid Ahmed:I was thinking about it this way because as human beings, we are on a journey.
Junaid Ahmed:We are learning new things.
Junaid Ahmed:And when you see, when you're on the other side of the door, you're
Junaid Ahmed:gonna see more things of what they were talking about behind the door.
Junaid Ahmed:So I think that's been, that's been really powerful.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:New insights are revealed as we continue on the journey.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:Um, so.
Mike Forrester:I think it's really easy for us as guys to, you know, get focused
Mike Forrester:on where we're getting our worth.
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:And a lot of us get our worth from career, our business, you know that.
Mike Forrester:The working side of life.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:Right.
Mike Forrester:But I think we can find our worth there and steer clear of other
Mike Forrester:areas where we don't feel like we have that worth or that confidence.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:Um, how do you, 'cause you're juggling four children, you've got, you know,
Mike Forrester:multiple size, multiple parts of, of businesses, I mean, and then you're
Mike Forrester:attending events, you have a lot going on.
Mike Forrester:How do you balance it without becoming hyperfocused on just, you
Mike Forrester:know, the business side of life?
Junaid Ahmed:Well, my friend, we only have 24 hours in our day and we
Junaid Ahmed:can't be working every single hour.
Junaid Ahmed:So what I did implemented seven years ago was to bring on team members.
Junaid Ahmed:To handle the postproduction of my podcast.
Junaid Ahmed:Right.
Junaid Ahmed:I was, I was recording all these episodes and I was like, no, I'm gonna
Junaid Ahmed:be the one editing all of this stuff.
Junaid Ahmed:'cause I don't need to spend money.
Junaid Ahmed:I can do it.
Junaid Ahmed:I know the tech.
Junaid Ahmed:Right.
Junaid Ahmed:So it was 2019, I had recorded 40 episodes already and I still
Junaid Ahmed:had to go back and edit them.
Junaid Ahmed:As well as record an intro for each one of them.
Junaid Ahmed:I'm like, oh my God, how am I gonna pull this off?
Junaid Ahmed:I don't have time.
Junaid Ahmed:I'm working full time.
Junaid Ahmed:And that's when I was like, okay, now is the time to bring somebody on board.
Junaid Ahmed:So I brought somebody on board, trained them.
Junaid Ahmed:Got them acclimated, showed them the ropes, and then they were
Junaid Ahmed:like, okay, let me try it out.
Junaid Ahmed:They tried it, made some more tweaks.
Junaid Ahmed:Right.
Junaid Ahmed:So you're continually giving them feedback till they get it Right.
Junaid Ahmed:And now it's all set.
Junaid Ahmed:So I don't know if I told you, uh, we were talking in the green room, how I'm,
Junaid Ahmed:how many episodes I'm recording per week?
Junaid Ahmed:Yeah, so we were publishing one episode a week, then we
Junaid Ahmed:switched to two episodes a week.
Junaid Ahmed:Now we're doing daily episode on weekdays, so that's what we're
Junaid Ahmed:publishing and that's possible because I have a team, I have a team of people
Junaid Ahmed:that can help me take the load off of the stuff that they're good at.
Junaid Ahmed:I could be good at it, but I, that's not my zone of genius anymore.
Junaid Ahmed:Right?
Junaid Ahmed:My zone of genius is, is to see and help people figure out the
Junaid Ahmed:things that they can't figure out.
Junaid Ahmed:In the studio space, lighting all again, all of that stuff.
Junaid Ahmed:So that's how I'm able to do so many things because I've got team members
Junaid Ahmed:and yes, it's hard initially because you don't want to give up control.
Junaid Ahmed:It's your baby, it's your podcast, it's your book.
Junaid Ahmed:Like all of these things, right?
Junaid Ahmed:But at the end of the day, you're not going to like on, at the end of
Junaid Ahmed:the day, you're not gonna be in bed and like, oh my God, I should have.
Junaid Ahmed:Recorded that thing the other way.
Junaid Ahmed:No.
Junaid Ahmed:You're gonna be like, oh my God, I should have spent more time with my kids.
Junaid Ahmed:I should have spent more time building that Lego set.
Junaid Ahmed:I should have spent more time going out and riding bikes with them.
Junaid Ahmed:That's the thing that we're gonna talk about, not the things that take our time.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:It's almost like those deathbed regrets that you'll hear people talk about.
Mike Forrester:It's not like, Hey, I wish I'd gotten these three contracts
Mike Forrester:through, you know, at work or, you know, anything along those lines.
Mike Forrester:What I love that you're talking about, it's like you are now at
Mike Forrester:five episodes, like one a day.
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:But you didn't start there.
Junaid Ahmed:No.
Mike Forrester:You know, like your, your goal may have been the five a day.
Mike Forrester:But you, you built up to it.
Mike Forrester:And I think that's what so many of us can look at.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:And go, oh my gosh.
Mike Forrester:You know, I would love to have somebody, you know, mow the lawn mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:To do whatever.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:You know, to help me have more space to, to have more breathing room
Mike Forrester:in life, or to be more effective.
Mike Forrester:Exactly.
Mike Forrester:And it's like.
Mike Forrester:Maybe it's just a matter of having, starting out with, Hey,
Mike Forrester:I'm gonna have somebody come and do this one time a month.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:And grow it to two times, yeah.
Mike Forrester:A month.
Mike Forrester:And that perpetual.
Mike Forrester:Improvement over time, rather than seeing it as like a black or white, it's
Mike Forrester:either gotta be everything or nothing.
Junaid Ahmed:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:You're looking almost like growth, right?
Mike Forrester:It is growth.
Mike Forrester:I may not be able to, uh, my, to my toddler.
Mike Forrester:Right.
Mike Forrester:You, you know, looking at your kids growing up, it's not like you're going,
Mike Forrester:you, you've gotta run or you can't crawl.
Mike Forrester:Right.
Junaid Ahmed:You don't, no, no.
Junaid Ahmed:Right.
Junaid Ahmed:They, they're starting the crawling process.
Junaid Ahmed:They're starting the, like my youngest now.
Junaid Ahmed:I would say he is like 90% potty trained.
Junaid Ahmed:Right.
Junaid Ahmed:So he'll still have an accident, but he's there now.
Junaid Ahmed:Right.
Junaid Ahmed:But the rest of the kids, everybody uses the bathroom.
Junaid Ahmed:Of course, of course.
Junaid Ahmed:Everybody walks, of course.
Junaid Ahmed:But it didn't happen overnight.
Junaid Ahmed:It took time.
Junaid Ahmed:It takes time and energy.
Junaid Ahmed:And when I started the podcast, I wasn't publishing even weekly.
Junaid Ahmed:I would like, okay, I posted up plus, uh, episode this week.
Junaid Ahmed:I dunno if I have the energy to record one more or edit one more.
Junaid Ahmed:So there was times that I was missing publishing an episode, but that was
Junaid Ahmed:the first years, which is totally fine.
Junaid Ahmed:It's, it's the, it's the growth mindset.
Junaid Ahmed:You know, you continually improve 1% at a time, uh, on a daily basis.
Junaid Ahmed:And you get better over time.
Junaid Ahmed:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:So when you are starting something new, right?
Mike Forrester:Or you're, you're delegating, right?
Mike Forrester:You talked about doing that, giving it to a teammate.
Mike Forrester:When you're doing a new skill, and let's say Junaid, it doesn't, you
Mike Forrester:know, you're not firing on all pistons, some of the stuff drops through.
Junaid Ahmed:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:How do you focus more on the positive, the times that.
Mike Forrester:You know, you've, you have made it and then still be aware of, Hey,
Mike Forrester:I've got room for improvement.
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:Without being like, oh my gosh, I'm such an idiot.
Mike Forrester:How do you keep that balance there where you're celebrating the success and aware
Mike Forrester:of the shortcomings without being like, I'm tossing everything out the window.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:Because it's not going a hundred percent right.
Junaid Ahmed:You know, the, the hard, that's the hardest
Junaid Ahmed:thing to do for any of us.
Junaid Ahmed:To how do you give yourself grace?
Junaid Ahmed:How do you stay in a mode of gratitude?
Junaid Ahmed:Because just recently, uh, and I don't know if you heard,
Junaid Ahmed:but Todd Cochrane of mm-hmm.
Junaid Ahmed:Um, blueberry passed away at 61.
Junaid Ahmed:Yeah.
Junaid Ahmed:60. He's so young, right.
Junaid Ahmed:And you, so you never know when you're gonna go.
Junaid Ahmed:So having these regrets is not doing you any favors,
Junaid Ahmed:right?
Junaid Ahmed:Give away those regrets.
Junaid Ahmed:Give, give up those things, because the more present we are with the
Junaid Ahmed:people that are around us, the more.
Junaid Ahmed:At peace, you'll find your, your brain and, and yes, I'm not perfect at it.
Junaid Ahmed:I'm, I'm always working on it.
Junaid Ahmed:It's a, it's a continual process to, for us to find that gratitude and, uh,
Junaid Ahmed:you know, prioritize what truly matters.
Junaid Ahmed:And when you think about that bigger, why are you doing this?
Junaid Ahmed:On a daily basis, it makes it much easier to then give yourself grace to then
Junaid Ahmed:give yourself, you know, be grateful and celebrate the, the, the, the little wins.
Junaid Ahmed:So, perfect example, when you shared, when you talked about the book, the Gap and the
Junaid Ahmed:Game, we always are focusing on the gap.
Junaid Ahmed:We're never focusing on the game, right?
Junaid Ahmed:So how do you focus on the gain?
Junaid Ahmed:There's an exercise in the book.
Junaid Ahmed:It's like, Hey, every time you go to bed, just.
Junaid Ahmed:Just write down three good things that happen begin in the beginning.
Junaid Ahmed:It's gonna be hard.
Junaid Ahmed:And yes, I need to work on this.
Junaid Ahmed:It's gonna be hard in the beginning, but as you do more of it, guess what?
Junaid Ahmed:Uh, once you've built a habit, you're gonna find more things to write down
Junaid Ahmed:in there and, you know, have that gratitude of being above ground.
Junaid Ahmed:We are alive, we're living a luxurious life, right in this,
Junaid Ahmed:in this country, 8 billion.
Junaid Ahmed:You know, billions of people don't have this kind of, uh, access to what we have.
Junaid Ahmed:So look at the people.
Junaid Ahmed:So in, in Islam, we are taught to look at the people that don't have what you have.
Junaid Ahmed:Right.
Junaid Ahmed:We practice, uh, as Muslims and Ramadan, we're fasting for 30 days now.
Junaid Ahmed:It's not 30 days straight.
Junaid Ahmed:We're fasting from, you know, sunrise to sunset.
Junaid Ahmed:But it's, it's to bring that awareness that not everybody has what it takes.
Junaid Ahmed:Uh, I was interviewing this lady and she's like, she was homeless.
Junaid Ahmed:She didn't have food for days.
Junaid Ahmed:Now she's running this, uh, amazing coaching business, but she didn't have
Junaid Ahmed:all of that at one point in her life.
Junaid Ahmed:So look at those things and find where you are today and see who doesn't have,
Junaid Ahmed:I think there was a really cool story where there's this man, he has no arms
Junaid Ahmed:and no legs, and he's jumping around.
Junaid Ahmed:There's a guy who has no leg, no arms, and he's like, oh my God, I have no arms.
Junaid Ahmed:Why is this guy so happy?
Junaid Ahmed:Uh, or he has, I think, I don't know if he had no legs.
Junaid Ahmed:Anyways, he walks over to the guy's like, dude, why are you so happy?
Junaid Ahmed:And jumping around, he's like, oh my God, I have this crazy itch
Junaid Ahmed:on my back and I can't get to it.
Junaid Ahmed:Man, it's perspective.
Junaid Ahmed:What do we have God's given us, you know, sight hearing, all of these things.
Junaid Ahmed:So find the smallest thing that you can find and be grateful for it.
Junaid Ahmed:And guess what?
Junaid Ahmed:Everything washes away.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:It perspective is so powerful and I think we kind of dismiss it.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:Or overlook at Overlook it.
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:And just kind of get so focused and.
Mike Forrester:Fixated.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:On lack that we forget to say like, Hey, I, I have food.
Mike Forrester:Um, you know, or just whatever you have that you might be
Mike Forrester:without in another situation.
Junaid Ahmed:And it's not our fault either.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Junaid Ahmed:It's not our fault because the television, the news
Junaid Ahmed:station, like literally everybody's pushing this lack mentality.
Junaid Ahmed:The scarcity mentality.
Junaid Ahmed:Everybody's pushing it.
Junaid Ahmed:But if you just step outside into the sun, the sun doesn't say, I'm
Junaid Ahmed:not gonna shine over here today.
Junaid Ahmed:The sun just gives and gives the air just gives and gives.
Junaid Ahmed:When it rains, it rains completely everywhere.
Junaid Ahmed:Unless it's isolated thunderstorms, then you know that's a different story.
Junaid Ahmed:But think about that, right?
Junaid Ahmed:So there is abundance in this world.
Junaid Ahmed:We have so much abundance.
Junaid Ahmed:So, um, and if, if that's the thing that you're struggling with, find a community
Junaid Ahmed:that's gonna inspire you, that's gonna encourage you, that's going to help
Junaid Ahmed:you, uh, face the struggle that you might be, you know, running through.
Mike Forrester:Going it alone puts us in such a vulnerable spot.
Mike Forrester:Oh yeah.
Mike Forrester:That, uh, you know, you're, you're not, it, it's almost like
Mike Forrester:trying to build like a, a tower.
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:With, you know, like missing one, one, you know, piece of wood.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:Every part it's like, man, Jenga is not how you wanna build it.
Mike Forrester:No.
Mike Forrester:No,
Junaid Ahmed:sir. No sir.
Mike Forrester:Well, as you're, you're going through all this.
Mike Forrester:You know, like keeping an eye on all the different areas of life
Mike Forrester:and, and being present in them.
Mike Forrester:That's a lot of energy that you're both putting out to be aware and
Mike Forrester:be, you know, present in those.
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:Those areas.
Mike Forrester:How do you avoid, you know, like burnout or just running out of energy?
Mike Forrester:I mean, it's something that is so prevalent.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:And with go, go, go, you know, how do you, how do you avoid it?
Mike Forrester:How are you proactive to say like, Hey, I'm, I'm coming and showing up in the
Mike Forrester:best way that I can for all these things before me without sacrificing myself.
Mike Forrester:Right?
Junaid Ahmed:Yeah.
Junaid Ahmed:Yeah.
Junaid Ahmed:It's such a powerful.
Junaid Ahmed:Question.
Junaid Ahmed:And you know, the point of view of, you know, we live in this hustle
Junaid Ahmed:culture, and I was watching this video recently and this, uh, he's a Muslim
Junaid Ahmed:brother and he's talking about, you know, there's two, there's two ends.
Junaid Ahmed:You know, there's hustle, culture, you gotta hustle, hustle, hustle, everything.
Junaid Ahmed:And then there's the culture.
Junaid Ahmed:You just gotta pray.
Junaid Ahmed:Just gotta pray and everything says gonna come to you.
Junaid Ahmed:Well, that prayer is not gonna pay for nothing.
Junaid Ahmed:So you gotta come in the middle, you know?
Junaid Ahmed:Uh, and you gotta do the work.
Junaid Ahmed:But then you also need to, uh, you know, pray to God, ask for help.
Junaid Ahmed:So when I was taken on too much, when I was, uh, hitting the
Junaid Ahmed:wall, I was getting exhausted.
Junaid Ahmed:I was like, okay, the best thing I can do is take some more breaks,
Junaid Ahmed:take some more time, you know?
Junaid Ahmed:Get out on the bike, taking those hobbies, what, what those hobbies are doing.
Junaid Ahmed:You're no longer using your left side of your brain of logic, logic, logic.
Junaid Ahmed:Now you're using your right side of the brain with creativity,
Junaid Ahmed:building Lego sets with your kids or riding a bike out, bike outside
Junaid Ahmed:or beekeeping or whatever have you.
Junaid Ahmed:Those hobbies help you, uh, rejuvenate, you know, help, fill you back up.
Junaid Ahmed:Because you can't give anybody anything if you are empty.
Junaid Ahmed:Right?
Junaid Ahmed:And, um, when you have people around you that support you
Junaid Ahmed:in that way, that empower you.
Junaid Ahmed:Again, I, I keep going back to community because so much
Junaid Ahmed:of my life is dependent or.
Junaid Ahmed:Is built on top of communities that I was part of.
Junaid Ahmed:You know, I was part of community of cyclists, part of community of,
Junaid Ahmed:um, beekeepers when I was building computers and, and doing software design.
Junaid Ahmed:I was part of communities that did software design and
Junaid Ahmed:graphic design and whatnot.
Junaid Ahmed:I, I get to talk about different things and it just makes it so much easier to
Junaid Ahmed:then, you know, re reenergize and whatnot.
Junaid Ahmed:Another thing that people don't realize, they're taking all sorts of pills,
Junaid Ahmed:but to rejuvenate your body, you gotta make sure you're getting enough sleep.
Junaid Ahmed:It's built into our human body, right?
Junaid Ahmed:If you sleep enough, you're gonna get re that rejuve rejuvenation.
Junaid Ahmed:So yes, I take a ton of naps throughout the day when I can.
Junaid Ahmed:Right?
Junaid Ahmed:And it, it helps me get back.
Junaid Ahmed:Uh.
Junaid Ahmed:Get back into, uh, energy so that I can go back and do the work.
Mike Forrester:So when you're taking naps or going out for a bike ride and you're
Mike Forrester:doing stuff to help yourself, Junaid, one of the biggest barriers, um, for
Mike Forrester:guys seems to be almost like this guilt.
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:You know, of, well, if I do this, then I'm, am I really, you know.
Mike Forrester:Invested in, you know, moving my career.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:Like, it's like it's a detraction, right?
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:This is me messing around and I think there's a difference between taking a
Mike Forrester:nap, going out, cycling, going to the gym, investing in ourselves, versus, you
Mike Forrester:know, scrolling through short videos.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:Or, you know, playing games, you know, on our phone or on our.
Mike Forrester:Console.
Mike Forrester:Right?
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:Um, is there, is there a way that you look at it to say like.
Mike Forrester:This is an investment, not like a detraction or something that's taking away
Junaid Ahmed:Yeah.
Junaid Ahmed:Um, I do because you're, you're absolutely right.
Junaid Ahmed:I love the word investment, right?
Junaid Ahmed:You're investing in yourself.
Junaid Ahmed:And a lot of us, were not taught investing the way that we are, that we invest.
Junaid Ahmed:We spent a ton of money going to school.
Junaid Ahmed:We're investing in our education.
Junaid Ahmed:We spend a ton of money on those kind of things.
Junaid Ahmed:You know, I'm investing in my future by putting it in 401k.
Junaid Ahmed:Right?
Junaid Ahmed:But how are you investing in the present?
Junaid Ahmed:'cause this is where you are right now.
Junaid Ahmed:You're not in the future.
Junaid Ahmed:You're not in the past.
Junaid Ahmed:You are right here, right now.
Junaid Ahmed:How do you get over that?
Junaid Ahmed:Well, you need to again.
Junaid Ahmed:Write down that vision, write down that path.
Junaid Ahmed:When, when, for example, if you wanna go to Costco, if you wanna
Junaid Ahmed:go to a store that you've never been to, what are you gonna do?
Junaid Ahmed:You are gonna pull up the phone, type in the address, or search for it, type in the
Junaid Ahmed:address, and then follow the directions.
Junaid Ahmed:Mm-hmm.
Junaid Ahmed:So you gotta have that map laid off for yourself.
Junaid Ahmed:Where do you wanna be?
Junaid Ahmed:How are you gonna get there?
Junaid Ahmed:So you figure out, I want to get here.
Junaid Ahmed:Then like, okay, where is here?
Junaid Ahmed:Who's already there?
Junaid Ahmed:Right?
Junaid Ahmed:So you find somebody that you can model against, and James Clear talks about in
Junaid Ahmed:about this in his book, in Atomic Habits
Junaid Ahmed:become that identity.
Junaid Ahmed:If you identify as a runner, if you identify as somebody who's an
Junaid Ahmed:athlete, who's somebody who lifts weight or eats healthy, are you gonna
Junaid Ahmed:go middle in the middle of the night and eat something that's not healthy?
Junaid Ahmed:Probably not, and it's gonna get you to that destination much faster.
Junaid Ahmed:So then you reverse engineer and yes, I, it's very, it's not very, it's,
Junaid Ahmed:it sounds complicated, but it's very simple because you just gotta find
Junaid Ahmed:that one model that you wanna follow.
Junaid Ahmed:Now a lot of us that believe in religion or have, you know, strong beliefs, so
Junaid Ahmed:you know, Chris, Christianity, Judaism, Muslims, we all have those models.
Junaid Ahmed:Define for us what did Prophet Muhammad do?
Junaid Ahmed:Right?
Junaid Ahmed:And we have access to books like the Quran and the Bible and that
Junaid Ahmed:there's stories in there that tell you exactly what you need to do.
Junaid Ahmed:My habit has been to get up in the morning, I do my morning prayers, and
Junaid Ahmed:then I read the Surah is Surah number 73, um, il, which is the wrapped one.
Junaid Ahmed:'cause when we go to sleep, we're wrapping ourselves.
Junaid Ahmed:You know, we're gonna sleep.
Junaid Ahmed:And in the book it's in, in that chapter, it says, get up in the middle of the
Junaid Ahmed:night and pray and read from Quran because we will provide for you because we are
Junaid Ahmed:literally put on the earth to worship.
Junaid Ahmed:God.
Junaid Ahmed:That's it.
Junaid Ahmed:Everything else is.
Junaid Ahmed:Ancillary.
Junaid Ahmed:Our primary objective is to worship God.
Junaid Ahmed:That's why he put us on earth.
Junaid Ahmed:I mean, we came from Adam who was born and created on heaven,
Junaid Ahmed:which is not even on planet Earth.
Junaid Ahmed:We are all aliens on this planet.
Junaid Ahmed:We are being tested, so we gotta go back to the go, gotta go back to basics,
Junaid Ahmed:gotta go back to where we come from.
Junaid Ahmed:And when you redo that, it's so much easier.
Junaid Ahmed:To then say, okay, I can do this.
Junaid Ahmed:There's other people doing it.
Junaid Ahmed:Let's make it happen.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:You're not the only one.
Mike Forrester:It's regardless of how it feels, we're not the only one.
Junaid Ahmed:Yes, we're not.
Mike Forrester:Well Junaid man, thank you so much for sharing your journey.
Mike Forrester:How.
Mike Forrester:You know, you've made the transition and if anybody thinks like, Hey, I
Mike Forrester:am here, I, there is nothing else available to me, I can't get out.
Mike Forrester:Your story shows that, you know, that is not the case.
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:That things are always in motion and there is, you know, with intentionality.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:You know, being focused and, and purposeful.
Mike Forrester:There's a way to change and it may not be perfect.
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:Um, but.
Mike Forrester:Focus on that change and, you know, that, have that awareness.
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:So, you know, outside of this podcast, I know you've, you know, you've got,
Mike Forrester:um, the web development, you know, you've got the podcast editing and then
Mike Forrester:you've got the home Studio Mastery.
Mike Forrester:Mm-hmm.
Mike Forrester:You've, people are interested in, you know, one of those, how can they
Mike Forrester:get in touch with you to, you know.
Mike Forrester:Change where they're at.
Mike Forrester:Maybe that's where their roadblock, how do they remove that roadblock?
Mike Forrester:Yeah.
Mike Forrester:In, in connecting with Junaid,
Junaid Ahmed:well, um, head on over to any of the platforms.
Junaid Ahmed:Just look up SuperJunaid, Instagram, Facebook, whatever have you.
Junaid Ahmed:I'm, I'm there.
Junaid Ahmed:And if you wanna learn more about the home studio business, uh, head
Junaid Ahmed:on over to HomeStudioMastery.com.
Junaid Ahmed:I've also written a book, uh, 'Seven Stages of Home Studio Evolution', so you
Junaid Ahmed:can grab that book on homestudiobook.com.
Mike Forrester:Awesome.
Mike Forrester:Junaid.
Mike Forrester:Thank you so much my friend.
Mike Forrester:I appreciate it.
Junaid Ahmed:Thank you, Mike.
Mike Forrester:Always amazing to get, get together with you buddy, and
Mike Forrester:today has been no exception at all.
Mike Forrester:So thank you.
Junaid Ahmed:It's easy when it's with you, man.
Junaid Ahmed:It's easy when it's so.
Junaid Ahmed:Thank you so much.
Mike Forrester:I appreciate it, my friend.
Mike Forrester:Thank you.
Mike Forrester:Thank you.