In this podcast episode, Yemi and Philia discuss Dr. David Clarke's 4 step plan for escaping abuse.  Dr. Clarke teaches us that we should not tolerate abuse in a marriage; instead we must take action to stop the abuse in a biblical way (Matthew 18:15-20).  To escape, you need God and the help of others.  Abuse is a product of wickedness that God rejects.  Using Abigail as the blueprint, seek God and take the steps necessary to protect yourself and your family from the abuse.  God is the great redeemer and deliverer.  He delivered Abigail's people from destruction set in motion by her cruel husband, Nabal and God redeemed Abigail by providing her a new and better life free from Nabal.  There is nothing too hard for the God we serve, go to him and seek help.  No one deserves to be abused.