An evening beach with nobody on it, the sand still warm, and a dune to lie down in.
About 13 minutes, tense and release first. Only listen where it is safe to sleep.
Tense and release through the body first, because that is the part that does the work and the body usually goes under before the mind. Then the walk. The sea does not try to be anything other than the sea. It comes in, it goes out. Your breath is doing exactly the same thing and you are not running either of them.
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Welcome to Falling Asleep By The Sea. I'm Steven Webb and before we begin just make sure you're
Steven Webb:safe, warm and you're able to fall asleep. Do not listen to this while driving or doing anything that
Steven Webb:needs your attention.
Steven Webb:And you can either use headphones or just have this on your phone or whatever you play it on. It
Steven Webb:really doesn't matter.
Steven Webb:Whatever you're most comfortable with. This
Steven Webb:is your time to sink into comfort and let your whole system slow down.
Steven Webb:Let's settle down and start to fall asleep.
Steven Webb:So take a breath that just feels natural, nothing forced, just a gentle
Steven Webb:arrival in this moment.
Steven Webb:And just let your body settle.
Steven Webb:If you're not quite in a comfortable place just wiggle your body a little bit until you're in the place
Steven Webb:where you know you like to fall asleep. No one knows your body like you do.
Steven Webb:And we're going to go through the body and do a tense and release. And this is a way of
Steven Webb:telling the body and the muscles just it's time to relax and go sleep. And very often the body will
Steven Webb:fall asleep before the mind. So
Steven Webb:we do this by just tense up your feet and your toes, tense them and hold them and just let
Steven Webb:them go and let them relax. Let them become really heavy. And
Steven Webb:now we'll do it in both the legs. Just tense up both legs really really tight.
Steven Webb:And just let them both relax into the bed now, just become really heavy.
Steven Webb:And now we'll do the torso and your bum and all that area, just really tense it up in your
Steven Webb:belly.
Steven Webb:Just let it go and you start feeling that rush of relaxation go through your body.
Steven Webb:Now just do your arms and your fingers and your thumb, just tense them all up really tight,
Steven Webb:hold it and just let them go. And
Steven Webb:now we're going to do the shoulders and the neck and the head and the face and just all of
Steven Webb:it in together now just tense it all up, it doesn't matter what you look like and just let it
Steven Webb:all go.
Steven Webb:And we're just going to do that exercise one more time but we're going to do the whole body. So
Steven Webb:just a moment you're going to tense up everything. So
Steven Webb:one two three tense everything from your eyes to your toes to your fingers everything and
Steven Webb:now just let it all go. And now feel it go deeper down into the bed feeling really healthy
Steven Webb:And now your body will just start going sleep by itself.
Steven Webb:Your body knows how to fall asleep, it's just allowing it to happen
Steven Webb:allowing the breath to settle.
Steven Webb:There's nothing you need to do right now,
Steven Webb:There's nothing you need to fix. The
Steven Webb:body knows how to fall asleep.
Steven Webb:It's only when we try to fall asleep or we get involved,
Steven Webb:one of the real key things about falling asleep is allowing it to happen.
Steven Webb:Have you ever noticed when you give up trying to go to sleep, you're suddenly asleep.
Steven Webb:So we're not going to try to go sleep tonight, we're just gonna enjoy the walk along the beach.
Steven Webb:Your body's already started drifting off.
Steven Webb:And as your mind's just going on this story, just become aware of any little last tense areas of your
Steven Webb:body, maybe in your shoulders or legs, just give them permission to relax. Just
Steven Webb:invite them to fall asleep.
Steven Webb:And then thank you, thank your body for fall asleep
Steven Webb:It's just your mind left now.
Steven Webb:And if you do notice a slight discomfort, just move it very gently as not to disturb it.
Steven Webb:And just imagine walking along the beach.
Steven Webb:It could be one of your favourite beaches or just a beach that you've completely made up.
Steven Webb:And you can hear the sea. At the moment the sea is quite close.
Steven Webb:You can feel the sound beneath your feet.
Steven Webb:You can feel the warmth left over from the day.
Steven Webb:You can see the sun just out over the horizon, just about to dip down over.
Steven Webb:And just as the sun's going down, the moon comes up the other side.
Steven Webb:As we continue walking, we're just really appreciative of the sound of the sea.
Steven Webb:And the way the sea doesn't try to be anything other than the sea. It
Steven Webb:just comes in with the tides and it goes back out again.
Steven Webb:Each wave doing what it does.
Steven Webb:Just like your breath.
Steven Webb:Each breath doing what it does.
Steven Webb:You don't have to tell your body how to breathe.
Steven Webb:Your body knows how to breathe. Your
Steven Webb:body knows how to fall asleep.
Steven Webb:And the air is still warm. The
Steven Webb:sky fades into the deep colours of the evening. There's
Steven Webb:no one else around. Just you and this quiet shoreline.
Steven Webb:Just you and the waves. You and the sand.
Steven Webb:And you notice just ahead there's a nice little sand dune.
Steven Webb:You walk over to it and you notice it's perfect for sitting down and watching the tide go out
Steven Webb:And you notice this light coolness in the air.
Steven Webb:Just the perfect temperature for falling asleep.
Steven Webb:Because you know this place is safe. You know no one's around. You
Steven Webb:decide to lie down
Steven Webb:here in the waves.
Steven Webb:The sand is perfectly holding you.
Steven Webb:And you know the sea is going to go out and uncover a lovely open beach.
Steven Webb:All that open space and a gentle breeze.
Steven Webb:And then it's going to come back in for the morning. And
Steven Webb:you know you've got a good night's sleep ahead
Steven Webb:here in the sea in the background.
Steven Webb:Feeling completely safe.
Steven Webb:The air wraps around you.
Steven Webb:There's nothing to worry about. There's
Steven Webb:nothing to think about.
Steven Webb:Your body is already asleep
Steven Webb:It's just your mind
Steven Webb:slowly drifting off.
Steven Webb:Just allow it to happen.
Steven Webb:As the tide drifts out further and further
Steven Webb:gentler and gentler
Steven Webb:Until the waves become almost distant. Almost a memory
Steven Webb:when your body sleeps.
Steven Webb:And your mind is almost asleep.
Steven Webb:Everything is lovely and quiet.
Steven Webb:Leaving all your worries behind.
Steven Webb:Leaving the busyness of the day behind.
Steven Webb:Just the perfect for
Steven Webb:a perfect night's sleep.
Steven Webb:I'm gonna leave you sleep now
Steven Webb:I'm gonna say good night.