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Judge Lynn Toler: What 'Divorce Court' & Losing My Husband Taught Me About Love
Episode 8020th August 2025 • Love Stories • Charlene Byars
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In this episode, we dive deep into a heartfelt conversation with Judge Lynn Toler, who shares her personal journey and professional insights on love, relationships, and emotional intelligence. Judge Toler reflects on her mother's profound influence, her own marriage of 33 years, and the tragic loss of her husband. She discusses the complexities of communication, the common issues in relationships, and the importance of understanding and meeting emotional needs in a partnership.

This episode also touches on her experiences on shows like 'Divorce Court' and 'Marriage Bootcamp,' underscoring the universal challenges couples face. Judge Toler's wisdom, humor, and authenticity shine through as she offers valuable lessons for anyone seeking to improve their relationships or navigate personal loss.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (03:44) Insights on Relationships and Reality TV

- (06:37) Influence of Mother's Emotional Intelligence

- (07:57) Growing Up with a Bipolar Father

- (14:51) Navigating Early Adulthood and Career Choices

- (20:01) Marriage and Family Dynamics

- (23:49) Coping with Loss and Grief

- (29:30) Reflections on Long-term Relationships

- (37:14) The Culture of Loud and Proud Relationships

- (37:37) Navigating Relationship Advice and Hypocrisy

- (38:33) Understanding Individual Needs in Relationships

- (40:06) The Influence of Dr. Laura and Direct Communication

- (44:49) The Role of Emotional Intelligence in Relationships

- (47:34) Communication Issues as the Root of Relationship Conflicts

- (48:07) The Impact of Social Media on Relationships

- (49:02) Coping with Tragedy and Personal Loss

- (01:00:13) Balancing Roles and Responsibilities in Relationships

- (01:06:53) The Importance of Not Taking Each Other for Granted

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE 

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE 

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars 

On YouTube @chosentraining

Work with me HERE

CONNECT WITH JUDGE LYNN

On YouTube HERE

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