ADHD Coach Katherine Sanders
Ever wondered if the classic 'amygdala hijack' story really explains your emotional responses? In this groundbreaking episode of ADHD Powerful Possibilities, Katherine dives into the less well-known habenula, offering fresh insights into how we process stress, avoid tasks, and regulate emotions.
Discover why the habenula matters for ADHD, how it impacts dopamine levels and decision-making, and ways to gently reshape your brain’s response to stress with practical, actionable tools. If you’re ready to rethink your relationship with your mind, this episode is your invitation to dive deeper.
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Hey, my friend.
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:Welcome back to ADHD,
powerful possibilities.
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:It's Katherine here.
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:And this week we are going to
be doing a bit of myth busting.
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:I know that in the past, I have
used the term amygdala hijack
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:when I'm talking to kids.
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:Clients, even myself.
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:And it's a really popular phrase that
lots of people discuss in psychology.
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:It's become quite common to think about
this amygdala taking over your brain.
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:But what if I told you that's not the real
story about how our brains and our bodies.
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:Process emotion and stress.
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:In today's episode, we're going to
have a look at why this idea of an
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:amygdala hijack is not really right.
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:And introduce you to another less famous
part of the brain called the habenula
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:When we understand the real players
and our brain, when it comes to
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:emotional regulation and stress.
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:We then have the information
that allows us to decide how we
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:manage ADHD more effectively.
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:And it means we're better able to
resist those old unhelpful stories.
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:We tell ourselves about not being very
effective, not being very well organized.
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:All these old stories
that we carry with us.
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:Are easier to reject when we understand
what's happening in our brain.
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:So, if you're ready to reframe
how you think about your brain.
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:Your emotions.
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:And you want to learn something new.
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:Stick with me.
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:The idea of the amygdala hijack
was popularized by Goldman and his
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:incredible book, emotional intelligence.
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:I have so much time for that book.
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:And it really is important that we
understand how our emotions are.
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:the root of all the problems
we have in ADHD really.
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:The amygdala hijack was a great
way to explain a concept that made
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:sense to so many of us, a bit like
rejection, sensitivity, dysphoria.
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:It gave us a reason why we just lost
it and our emotions seem to take over.
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:And it helped us to respond more
kindly to young people when they
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:were going through the same thing.
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:The idea is that in moments of perceived
stress, when we think, we see a bear
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:or the boss that we've been avoiding,
or the person we had an argument with.
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:The amygdala.
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:Which is the part of our brain.
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:We were told as responsible for the
fight or flight response takes over.
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:And it literally flips your brain so
that the prefrontal cortex or the logical
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:planning organizing part of your brain is.
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:No longer in charge and you can
run away or you can fight back
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:or you can hide and freeze.
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:It's a really compelling metaphor.
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:Right.
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:But it's also over simplified so much.
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:That we're missing
something really important.
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:There's a whole network of areas
of the brain that are involved when
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:we perceive stress and deal with
something that triggers our emotions.
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:One of the key players is a
really tiny part of your brain.
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:Just underneath the limbic system.
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:Called the Habenula
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:and it plays a huge role in how we process
information and respond emotionally.
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:It's really connected
to dopamine production.
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:And a study in 2014 by Proux
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:the habenula is particularly involved
when it comes to aversive stimuli.
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:That means when we anticipate
something being hard or painful
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:or difficult, we will avoid it.
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:And it influences whether we
withdraw or stay in a situation.
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:. And our habenula, the lateral part of it.
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:Is also involved in reward processing.
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:So we already know from Dr.
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:Nora Volkow studies that our dopamine
processing is differentour reward,
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:anticipation, the value of things.
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:It's very different with ADHD.
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:But now we're seeing that the habenula
is also strongly connected to this.
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:And this is true, whether we are
feeling AOK or whether we are
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:actually clinically depressed.
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:and remember
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:People with ADHD are at three times the
risk of serious clinical depression.
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:and, one of the reasons why I wanted to
change the narrative about the amygdala
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:hijack is when I first heard about it.
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:To begin with.
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:I thought, oh, this is great.
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:This explains so much.
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:And then I felt like there was a bit
of my brain that was out of control.
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:That I was being taken over
that I had no autonomy.
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:And I don't know about you,
but I have a fair bit of demand
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:avoidance, and I really like to be
in charge of my own brain and body.
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:And I was not comfortable
with this idea that I had no
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:way to control that response.
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:It's again, a bit like rejection,
sensitivity, dysphoria.
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:Yes, it exists, but I don't want
to feel like I'm a victim of this
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:in the same way as I don't want
to be a victim of my amygdala.
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:And I imagine it like.
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:That wild puppet in the Muppets
who would bang the drums.
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:When we understand the role of the
habenula, and what's actually happening
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:to the amygdala in that moment and how
it's all part of our executive functions.
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:And it's a hot circuit, but it's not
cutting off any other parts of our brain.
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:We can feel more in control
and we can use strategies
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:scaffolding from my favorite word.
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:To help manage this.
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:So, what is the Habana?
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:And why should you care about it?
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:It's so tiny.
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:It's really, really
small, even for the brain.
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:It's job is to process negative outcomes.
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:And regulate how we respond to them.
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:It's think of it, like kind of
valuator it's constantly checking.
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:Whether something is rewarding
or if it's too punishing.
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:And then it guides our future behavior.
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:Accordingly.
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:There are several studies showing that.
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:Overactive or hyperactive is linked to
this negative and avoidance sensitivity.
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:And there are studies that show
a, hypersensitive, habenula.
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:, which is what many people with ADHD.
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:I have is linked.
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:To a heightened sensitivity
to negative experiences.
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:Everybody would have the same
experience, but if you have ADHD or
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:you have a hypersensitive, habenula.
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:You are much more likely
to avoid that in future.
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:And I know lots of us have
children or work with young people.
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:You will recognize is that.
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:Incredible determination not to
do something that was negative.
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:And so it's strongly connected with the
avoidance behavior that we see in ADHD.
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:Aand, I would suspect an autism.
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:I have not studied.
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:The research in the autistic,
habenula connection.
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:In 2010 Hikosaka pointed out how essential
there habenula is for stress response.
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:And in value based decision-making.
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:Can you see how this is really
important information for those
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:of us who somehow feel that we're
broken, that we are not quite right.
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:That actually, it's just
a part of our brain.
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:For people with ADHD, what does this mean?
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:It means we are more likely to interpret a
negative experience in an exaggerated way.
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:other people might say,
ah, that was half bad.
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:We're like, no, that
was at least a hundred.
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:We see everyday stress as a significant
threat, and then we avoid it.
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:Even when it's only remotely negative,
we will delay, we will procrastinate.
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:We will do all of this.
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:And it's an emotional reaction.
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:Determined by your habenula will.
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:which is a bit on the sensitive side.
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:And that's why things like a
single email feels like a threat.
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:Logically, we know there is no danger from
this email or this report or this person.
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:But our brain doesn't.
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:So in ADHD the habenula can play a really
important role in that negative spiral,
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:we sometimes find ourselves going into.
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:If you're struggling to
break out of a bad mood.
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:It could be that the habenula
is still on high alert.
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:It's why small mistakes feels so big.
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:and important..
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:It's literally biology.
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:Rather than you as a
person and who you are.
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:Let's think about that in practical terms.
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:imagine you've been putting off a task.
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:It's quite difficult.
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:the habenula is involved in deciding
when we do the task, how we feel about
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:the task and how difficult or dangerous
that task is, how negative it is.
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:It keeps sending a signal.
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:This task is negative.
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:It's hard.
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:And that is why over time.
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:These things become an
automatic negative response.
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:It's not that you're having to do
this from first principles every
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:time, but your brain loves habits.
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:Your brain loves predictability.
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:Yes, we love a bit of novelty.
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:But for the habenula
no, we did this before.
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:I remember six months ago.
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:This was really hard.
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:I'm not doing it again.
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:And then it's not just that one
task you're avoiding anything that
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:is similar enough for your brain
to put it in the same bucket.
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:You're going to avoid that too.
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:For example.
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:I.
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:Really strongly dislike making phone
calls almost to a ridiculous degree.
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:And I will put it off
for weeks and months.
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:And I owe so many people, a callback.
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:It's not that I don't want to, but
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:in the past, the discomfort
felt like it was just way out of
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:proportion to what the task was.
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:And then when I began to
understand my brain, my ADHD.
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:I recognized this was an emotional
reaction and it was the habenula
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:just trying to keep me safe.
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:And when I understood that I was
able to begin changing my behavior.
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:And changing how I thought and talked
about it, which I want to come back to.
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:For example.
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:now we understand what the habenula.
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:Is doing.
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:One of the most powerful things
we can do is how we reframe.
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:That information.
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:No CBT has a very bad rap
among the ADHD community.
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:And there are some people who
should not be doing ADHD, CBT.
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:However it does have good
evidence when it is done well.
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:And when it's designed with
enough autonomy and support
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:and with the ADHD, lens.
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:For example.
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:And this has kind of CBT, but it's
not really, cause I don't do CBT.
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:But when my brain immediately
says I can't do that, it's hard.
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:A CBT type of technique
of reframing would be.
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:Okay.
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:This feels hard.
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:It's not really.
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:So what other, way can
be used to view this.
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:This is new.
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:This is something I haven't done before.
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:This was something that was
challenging in the past.
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:But I did it before.
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:And I can do it again.
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:It's not a quick fix by any means, but
we can start to do that for ourselves.
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:That reframe, that changes viewpoint.
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:Is really powerful when we practice
it, because over time, your habenula
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:is going to get used to not reacting
in this enormously exaggerated way.
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:Another thing we can try is to, if
you like switch off the negative
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:part of the habenula by creating
lots of positive reinforcement.
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:No.
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:I'm not a fan of the word positive,
but in this case, yes, we want
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:to go for positive reinforcement.
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:It doesn't need to be food-based I'm
obviously thinking about treating my dogs.
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:But it does help because it starts to
change what you associate that task with
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:instead of the email being connected with
shame and guilt and that negative emotion.
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:If you have a thing set up where you
can send an email and then you have an
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:automatic confetti button that goes,
and I do have that on my computer.
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:You think, oh, I got some confetti
or I know there are programs
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:for an animal darts across the
screen, when you tick off a task.
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:Those are silly, but my goodness.
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:they work.
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:Other times you might want to say,
I'm going to do is a laundry putting
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:away, and then I'm going to have.
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:10 minutes in the garden, or I'm
going to have a really lovely cup
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:of tea, whatever floats your boat.
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:It needs to be something.
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:You perceive as enjoyable and you
need to connect it immediately to
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:the task that you see as a negative.
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:If there's any delay.
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:It's going to be really challenging
for you to make that connection.
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:And it's going to take the longer.
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:So immediate small rewards connected
to perceived negative tasks.
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:Is going to change that
response over time.
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:Remember your brain always
changes is neuroplastic forever.
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:Just maybe not quite so.
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:Amazingly as when we were young.
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:My old favorite
mindfulness and meditation.
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:Of course it affects your habenula
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:and 2016 that meta analysis by V Hoff
showed that meditation and mindfulness
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:significantly affect ADHD brain function.
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:Specifically the areas
associated with stress.
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:These present moment.
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:Practices.
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:Allow you to step out
of those negative loops.
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:Those negative spirals and reconnect
with what's actually happening right now.
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:Finally, some people have tried
exposure or desensitization practices.
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:I'm not a psychologist.
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:And I feel like that's a
psychology type of practice.
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:What I would offer though, is that if
you want to try any kind of exposure.
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:Or desensitization.
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:The person doing it must be in charge
of how much, how long and how far
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:they are exposed, because otherwise
all you're doing is reinforcing this.
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:Something really negative is
associated with this stimulus.
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:So if you are somebody who
is very scared of traveling.
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:And this is a tricky one, but there
are special courses at airports.
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:No.
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:You don't.
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:I get over that by going on a plane.
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:It's not advisable.
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:But going and looking
at the airport is fine.
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:If you feel absolutely fine.
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:Go home and then come back again.
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:And maybe go into the Concourse
and see people with their bags and
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:taking it step by step at your pace.
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:When you are in charge.
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:That to me is a particularly
important way to think about.
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:Turning down that negative stress response
from the amygdala and the habenula..
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:Sowhile the
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:amygdala hijack makes a really
compelling visual story.
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:And.
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:Some of you may have
seen my three-part brain.
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:Amygdala pop off video a long time ago.
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:The real picture is really complex.
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:Of course.
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:It's your brain.
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:But I think when we understand what the
habenula's doing and what its role is.
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:We can be much more compassionate
to ourselves and to our brains.
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:All of the strategies
that I discussed here.
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:with the exception of CBT.
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:The exposure.
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:Or ones that you can practice yourself.
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:And we can begin straight
away so that we start to free.
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:Our brain.
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:And ourselves from these
constrictive fixed ways of thinking.
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:If you've enjoyed today's episode
and you would like to know more about
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:things like executive functions.
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:You can join my executive
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:Thank you so much for joining
me today while we explored the
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:wacky world of the habenula
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:remember when we understand our brain.
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:It's a first step to be able to accept it.
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:And work with it in a really
constructive, accepting kind of way.
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:If this was helpful, I would be so
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:And until next time.
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:Stay curious.
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:stay powerful.
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:And take care of yourself.