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WoW 95: On who are you becoming?, Meaningful Action. Part 2
Episode 619th July 2023 • Words of Wisdom • Josh Kalsbeek, LMFT
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In this episode Josh asks one simple yet profound question: 'Who are you becoming?' Discover how your choices can shape the next ten years of your life and be guided towards a path of wisdom and growth. Gain insights from Sister Corta Kent and James Clear as they share their unique strategies on self-improvement, self-discipline, and personal growth in episode 95 of Words of Wisdom.

Key Points:

- How the next decade of your life unfolds will largely depend on the direction you choose to take.

- The two potential paths: becoming wise or becoming foolish.

- Following someone wise or smart and emulating them can cultivate self-discipline.

- The need for constant improvement as emphasized by James Clear, pointing out that each new effort or action doesn't rely on the success of the previous one.

- The importance of having consistent practices that promote personal growth and positively influence others.

- Reflecting on your own growth through journal prompts.

Links Mentioned:

1. Learning by Heart book by Sister Corita Kent

2. James Clear's email newsletter - January 28th, 2021


About Josh Kalsbeek, LMFT

• Marriage & Family Therapist. Focused on helping individuals connect with their deepest desires, overcome their greatest struggles, and experience intimacy.

•Founder and CEO of Great Oaks Collective, and it's flagship program Overcome, a 10-Week virtual Intensive Outpatient Program for Christian couples experiencing sexual betrayal and addiction. Learn more at www.greatoakscollective.com. Because sometimes traditional counseling is not enough.

• Founder of Wisecraft, giving tools and ideas to help you grow in wisdom. Learn more at www.wisecraft.org. Or go here to sign up to receive my weekly newsletter, Words of Wisdom. ​

• To learn about what Josh is currently focused on in his life, go to his Now page.

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Words of wisdom 95 on who are you becoming meaningful action.

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Part two, who are you becoming the next 10 years can be the

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greatest you've ever seen.

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In the next 10 years, you can experience deep flourishing, live a life of

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purpose, far surpass your goals, and grow to places of powerful influence.

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The next decade can deepen your convictions, sharpen your

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mind, and focus your life.

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Or in the next 10 years, you can wander without wonder.

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You can avoid the courageous next step.

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You know, deep down you need to take.

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The next decade can be one of struggle, unresolved pain, and further entrench

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the strongholds that magnify chaos.

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You see, your direction determines your destination.

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So where are you headed?

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You can either be on the path to becoming wise or to becoming foolish.

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There really are only two destinations.

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In the end quotes Rule five, be self-disciplined.

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This means finding someone wise or smart and choosing to follow them.

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To be disciplined is to follow in a good way.

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To be self-disciplined is to follow in a better way by Sister Corta

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Kent in her book, learning by Heart.

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Improvement is a battle that must be fought anew each day.

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Your next workout doesn't care how strong your last one was.

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Your next essay doesn't care how popular your last one was.

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Your next investment doesn't care how smart your last one was.

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Your best effort, again by James Clear in his phenomenal email

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newsletter from January 28th, 2021.

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Questions, are you deepening your presence learning, improving your

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thinking, experiencing awe, and following your curiosity with courage?

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Are you improving your friendships, pursuing mentors, being careful about

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who influences you in person and online and seeking to serve others around you.

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Do you have consistent practices in your life that will help

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you and others flourish?

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Do you have a practice, a unified set of habits that are shaping you into

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a person of character and influence?

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Ask yourself, who am I becoming?

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What am I doing?

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What am I thinking?

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Who are my people?

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Is all of this putting me on the path to becoming wise or becoming foolish?

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Use these questions as a journal prompt this week.

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End note.

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Which path are you on?

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