Understand the common reasons why people fail to manifest what they want, such as operating from a place of lack, the concept of 'havingness,' and the importance of giving oneself permission. 

Learn about the power of gratitude, dreaming at a higher level, and balancing internal energy. See how you can examine youir beliefs and family patterns to remove manifesting blocks. 

00:00 Introduction to the Art of Life Podcast

00:20 The Power of Grounding

01:04 Understanding Manifestation

02:20 Are You Manifesting From Lack?

04:48 Are You Dreaming Your Dream?

06:13 Are You Permitting Yourself?

09:16 Balancing Energies for Better Manifestation

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Hello, and welcome to the Art of Life podcast.

This podcast is where I share my journey of living a life with more

abundance, more freedom and a lot more love than I could imagine.

So as I go along in my journey, I want to share these tips and

resources with you as well.

My favorite hack is called grounding.

This is the way in which we connect with earth and the sun.

These are the natural resources that are available to us for balancing our

internal energy, for releasing stress.

And for bringing in all the goodness that we want in life.

If you wanted to access grounding or learn about grounding, you can

go to artoflifecenter.com/grounding where I have a free grounding course.

It's got lots of useful tips and little 5 or 10 minute nuggets that

will just help you find calmness, no matter where you are in your life.

Alright, let's dive in into today's topic.

Today I wanted to talk about manifesting or really why

you might not be manifesting.

Now truth is that you are always manifesting whether you believe it or not

this is absolutely true because you're always attracting everything around

you that is a vibrational match to you.

Now if you are feeling sad or if you're feeling frustrated you might

be creating those similar things around you and often your reality will

tell you where you are vibrating at.

So you are manifesting all the time.

It's just a law of nature.

It's a law of this universe.

But what we have to do is we have to start manifesting at a level that we want.

So if you want to create your dream house, if you want to have a soulmate, if you

want to have a job or a work that really nourishes you and supports you, then you

want to be thinking about what is it, how can you actually tweak your manifesting

so that you are manifesting what you want.

So let's talk about the most common reason why we might not be manifesting.

And you might have already guessed this one.

Most of us think we are.

are operating from a place of lack.

So there is an inherent belief that we do not have something.

And when we start with that vibration, guess what?

We get more of that.

So if you wanted to attract a soulmate and you were thinking, Oh, my friend has

a really cool boyfriend, and so on, you're actually operating from a place of lack.

Now the trick to reverse this is actually to train your mind to think positively.

Think about the blessings that you have instead.

For example, you could think about water.

Maybe you have access to drinking water.

A lot of people in the world today unfortunately do not have access

to pure, clean drinking water.

Maybe you have a very healthy body.

There are people that you would know even who do not have a very well

functioning body or they might even have terminal illnesses and so on.

So just thank yourself for that.

Maybe you live in a nice place, even if it's small, even if it is however it is,

it's a nice place where you can be by yourself, or you can have your family

and friends around, whatever that space is, just be grateful to that first,

before you start creating the house.

If you wanted to have a really good soulmate, you could start by thinking

how amazing you are with friends.

You could start by thinking about stuff where you are blessed in relationships.

Maybe you have a really good family.

Maybe you have some really good friends.

Maybe you've known some people for a really long time.

Or maybe you just connect with people really well.

But think about those and offer gratitude for those.

Gratitude is a very simple and easy antidote to that feeling of lack.

When you come to gratitude, when you come to really counting your blessings,

truly everything else just starts to fade away because the more you are in

gratitude, you realize how much stuff is absolutely amazing around you.

So that's tip one.

Just operate from a place where you feel full.

When you start with that, then that's what the universe will give you more.

The second main one is what I term as havingness.

So how much can you have something?

Think of this as your ability to dream.

So let's say you wanted to have a million dollars one fine day and

you are thinking, Oh, why am I not manifesting this lottery yet?

But maybe you haven't dreamed it at that level.

Maybe you are still operating at a place where just 10,

000 is a lot or 20K is a lot.

So get yourself to really dream at that next level where you want to go.

What you could do is if you went to a shopping mall, for example, just pick

up the really expensive handbags, put them around you, just walk in that

or just see yourself holding that.

See yourself having really luxurious plane trips if you wanted

to manifest a million dollars.

But really start feeling yourself dreaming like that is happening.

And then you start vibrating at that frequency, which will

manifest more of what you desire.

This is where vision boards also come in really handy.

Now the third most common one is permission.

So if you have been operating from a place where you can feel it, if you're

not really coming from a place of lack, but you're still going, Hey, where's

my hunky dory partner right now?

I still don't see this person.

Then you have to give yourself permission for this.

So permission is have you allowed yourself?

What might be standing in the way could be your conscious beliefs.

And it could also be your unconscious beliefs.

Some things you will know.

Just hear your thoughts and you can go, Oh my God, I was thinking about that.

So that's something that you can work on.

So let's say if you wanted to, again, earn a lot more, maybe your

thoughts are, Oh, I can never do that.

And if that's the thought and that will not really materialize, right?

Some of these thoughts could be very unconscious.

Maybe you have a pattern that runs in your family.

Maybe your family believes that money is to be earned with a lot of hard work.

And you will notice this by just looking at your family members.

You'll notice this by what your mom and dad are saying,

or cousins are speaking about.

There's a theme, there's a theme to what we match at a family level.

So just think of those family agreements.

and patterns that you might be carrying.

And then the trick is to just rewire yourself.

Start saying something which is completely the opposite.

Start saying something that is empowering.

So if the family belief is that you must work really hard so that then you can

get some money, you can start telling yourself, Hey, I earn money with ease.

And just practice saying that again and again and again, till it actually

starts feeling a little bit real.

In the beginning, it might feel totally foreign, but what you are doing is you are

training your body to that new frequency.

And you are allowing it to feel safe with that.

You see, your body acts like a gatekeeper as well.

So if in the past you had a really bad relationship, a very toxic relationship

where you felt unsafe, the next time when you want to manifest a relationship,

your body is remembering all of those experiences and going, no, no, no,

no, we don't want a relationship.

So you might be wanting to manifest a relationship.

But your body is not ready.

So with the permission, with the affirmations, you are just letting your

body breathe and feel relaxed with that new mindset, with that new manifesting

project that you are working towards.

You want to feel comfortable so that when you get it, it feels like

yes, that was always meant for you.

There's no shock.

That's what the body wants to ensure.

So you can just give it a lot more permission.

I'm going to give you some bonus material here as well.

You learned about the three reasons for manifesting, but what I've found in my

coaching is that we still don't understand where it is that we are lacking.

Like we still don't understand our blocks all the time.

So I'm just going to give you some clues here.

Everything in this dual world, in this dual universe is really about balance

if you started thinking about it.

And manifesting is simply the same as well.

If you are balanced, if you are operating from harmony, that is what

the universe will give back to you.

So chances are there are places that you are either lacking or there are places

where you hold some internal fears where whatever you want to manifest,

your dream just cannot come through.

So think through it.

One of the most common imbalances that I see is between the divine feminine

and the divine masculine energies.

Now, we all have divine feminine and divine masculine

energies inside us, our own.

It doesn't matter what our body gender is, we all have our own internal feminine

and own internal masculine energies.

The masculine energy is a lot around providing, it's a lot

around doing all of the actions.

Feminine energy is a lot around receiving, it's around resting, it's

around intuition and attracting.

But if you have a disharmony, then that would make you feel disconnected and it

just means that the universe cannot give you what you're really wanting to seek.

So if you are holding some bias against certain genders, like if you have a belief

that, hey, women are bad or men are bad, anything like that, that just means that

you have an imbalance somewhere because in its neutral, purest form, nothing's bad.

Everything's made from source.

Everything's divine.

So just work on those feelings.

Wherever you feel like you hold a knot against another gender, for example, you

could just think about people that you know who are in that gender who are good.

Maybe you could even research some people on media and it doesn't mean that you

have to like them a hundred percent.

It could just mean that you like them somewhat, and you

like certain aspects about them.

There's nobody who's totally bad and who's totally good.

It's just our perspective on it.

So that's one way to look at it.

Other things you could look at to understand your disharmony is you could

just look at the elements themselves.

For example, look at air, do you feel okay if you are in a nice wide open space

or do you prefer a closed environment?

Are you okay if it's windy or are you not okay if it's windy?

And now ask yourself if you're not okay if it's windy, why is that so?

If I ask myself the same question and I'm pretty much to the last

stages of working through it, is I don't like the wind because I don't

like my hair coming on my face.

And it seems very simple answer at first, but the more I dig into it,

I don't like my hair coming into my face because it hides a part of me.

So freedom is a very important value for me.

Freedom is what I want to give out to everyone else as well.

And when I feel that's hindered, then I'm not in my best element.

But just having that balance and being okay, like not being

triggered with wind, but just being like, Hey, this is one part.

And this is how wind works.

This is how air works.

The same air that allows me to breathe and do this podcast, that

same air is super necessary as well.

So if you are interested, then I have the moon meditation circle

where we run through a lot of these balancing energies all the time.

We just meet during the new moon and full moon, but we balance

and harmonize our bodies.

Whatever you might be feeling in your body, you'll start feeling

a lot of harmony and a lot of connection coming back into your life.

So wherever you felt frustrated, that starts going away and instead you

start feeling a lot more fuller, a lot more connected with people around you.

You can learn more about my Moon Meditation Circle at

//artoflifecenter.com/moon-meditations-circle/.

See you soon next time with another

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