How many times have you seen people judge you on your tone? Your harshness? Your rage? Your pain? The overt attempt to force us all to be polite or conforming to social norms while we struggle with severe pain is tragic. But how do the "bad decisions" layer themselves on top of one another to create people who see suicide as a solution so long as the bourgeois politics and respectability and gentleman's club force them to either conform or be excommunicated. The mean kids club often fails to understand what damage they are doing and the privileged have no idea that their attempts at a "charity only" strategy for dealing with poverty and pain are detrimental to society.