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#10. Job 28-31 | Is There A "Proverbs 31" for Men? + The Beginning of Wisdom
Episode 1413th January 2026 • Dwelling Place Bible Plan for Busy Moms • Entrusted Ministries: Christian Parenting Resources
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We continue with some of the hardest questions in life... and in parenting. Today we'll cover how unsearchable God's wisdom is, how the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom--and how to explain this to your kids--and then we'll go over Job 31 and the example it can mean for men.

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Today's Reading: Job 28-31

Scripture Referenced in Today's Episode:

Job 28:12-28

Matthew 13:44-46

Psalm 111:10

Proverbs 1:7

Ecclesiastes 12:13-14

Proverbs 31

Job 31

Commentaries Referenced: Moody Commentary, Wycliffe Bible Commentary, MacArthur Commentary

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Speaker:

Welcome to the Dwelling Place.

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With all you have going on, I'm so

thankful that you're still choosing to

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make the Lord and his word a priority.

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I'm Stephanie Hickox from Entrusted

Ministries and I am praying we would

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be transformed by this process.

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We're gonna continue in the Book of

Job, and we only have a few more days

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in this book of the Bible I read today

from Mark Dever that the theme of this

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book is we often suffer, we sometimes

understand, we can always trust.

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What a phenomenal summary.

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I'll say that again.

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We often suffer, we sometimes

understand, we can always trust.

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And the reason we can trust is that we

serve an all wise, all powerful God.

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Today we'll hear some lengthy speeches

from Job that elevate the wisdom of God

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Above all else, he says, we can't really

know the mind of God for he alone is wise.

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I really like this definition of wisdom

from the W Cliff Bible commentary.

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A man begins to be wise when

he ceases to strive for wisdom

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independently of God and his own power.

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I agree that humility is part of the

process of learning anything, but

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particularly to walking in wisdom.

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When I read this next part in my Moody

commentary, I felt a little bit naive, but

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it says that Chapter 28 is the literary

and theological heart of the book.

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Hmm.

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It made me feel a little foolish,

like, how did I miss that?

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But also the book ends with like

four chapters of God talking,

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so I've obviously always thought

that that was the highlight.

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Reading their thoughts on it made me press

in a little bit to the reason that this

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chapter is elevated as being so pivotal,

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and I think that they would

all say that this chapter

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summarizes the entire book of job.

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The first portion describes how amazing

humans can be, how hard they'll work,

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the dangerous things that they'll

do to find a way to get something

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that's valuable or to conquer a feet.

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But as amazing as humans can be, they

cannot find wisdom in and of themselves.

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It's from the hand of God, even

though Job and his friends have

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sought to understand God throughout

the book, here we are 28 chapters

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in and we're at a stalemate.

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They've not reached an agreement

and they still haven't uncovered

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the real reason for job's suffering.

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Let me read you a portion from

chapter 28, beginning in verse

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12, describing the wisdom of God.

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But where shall wisdom be found and

where is the place of understanding man

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does not know it's worth and it is

not found in the land of the living.

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The deep says, it is not in me, and

the sea says, it is not with me.

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It cannot be bought for gold and

silver cannot be weighed as its price.

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It cannot be valued in the gold of aur.

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In precious onyx or sapphire, gold

and glass cannot equal it, nor can it

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be exchanged for jewels of fine gold.

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No mention shall be made

of coral or of crystal.

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The price of wisdom is far above pearls.

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The topaz of Ethiopia cannot equal

it, nor can it be valued in pure gold.

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From where then does wisdom come and

where is the place of understanding?

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It is hidden from the eyes of all living

and concealed from the birds of the air.

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Abbadon and death say, we have

heard a rumor of it with our ears.

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God understands the way to it and he

knows its place for he looks to the end

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of the earth and sees everything under

the heavens When he gave to the wind

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its weight and apportioned the waters by

measure, when he made a decree for the

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rain and away for the lightning of the

thunder, then he saw it and declared it.

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He established it and searched it

out, and he said to man, behold, the

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fear of the Lord that is wisdom and to

turn away from evil is understanding.

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Jesus affirmed the value of

wisdom and the kingdom of heaven.

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In Matthew 13, verse 44, Jesus

begins, the kingdom of heaven is like

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treasure hidden in a field which a man

found and covered up then in his joy.

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He goes and sells all that he

has and buys that field again.

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The kingdom of Heaven is like a merchant

in search of fine pearls, who on finding

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one piece of great value, went and

sold all that he had and bought it.

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Scripture tells us exactly what the

beginning of wisdom is in Psalm 1 11 10.

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The fear of the Lord is

the beginning of wisdom.

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All those who practice it

have a good understanding.

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In Proverbs one, seven, the fear of

the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.

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Fools despise wisdom and instruction,

and the entire book of Ecclesiastes

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ends with the conclusion in chapter

12, verse 13, with the end of

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the matter, all has been heard.

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Fear God and keep his commandments

for this is the whole duty of man.

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For God will bring every deed

into judgment with every secret

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thing, whether good or evil.

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Repeatedly we hear the fear of the

Lord is the beginning of wisdom.

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This is a concept we can more easily grasp

as adults, but how do you teach about

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the fear of the Lord with young children?

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I love the analogy that Betsy,

the founder of Entrusted

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Ministries, uses to explain it.

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She says, it's like the ocean, that

when you stand and you see the powerful

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waves and the tide rolling in, you

have a healthy reverence for it.

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You know how powerful it is.

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You understand how vast it is.

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And wisdom is required to be safe

near it, but we can also think of

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the joy that we have near the ocean.

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That healthy fear that makes us

interact with it wisely, but it

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shouldn't prevent us from drawing

near and enjoying its blessings.

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Just as we need water to

live, we need the Lord.

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When our fears are rightly

ordered, we realize that actually

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his presence brings peace.

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Proverbs 31 is a well-known chapter

to talk about what a godly woman looks

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like, but I recently heard that my Uncle

David uses Job 31 as he's discipling men.

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In this chapter, we see a series

of if then statements as we

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continue job talking about how he's

innocent, as if in a court of law.

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This was actually a protocol at that

time and a common procedure for court to

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give these if then statements as oaths.

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He's claiming his innocence in many ways.

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Initially.

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He talks about his purity and the purity

of his eyes to honor his covenant.

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He goes on to say he has

not lied or deceived next.

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He has not been enticed by a woman or been

unfaithful to his wife, then he has not

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treated his servants unfairly knowing that

they were also knit together by the Lord.

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He rebukes materialism as he states that

he has not made gold his trust, and then

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he has not rejoiced at his enemy's ruin

or concealed transgression in his heart.

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And finally, that he has been honest.

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In all of his business dealings.

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If you're raising young men, this might

be a great passage to look at and think

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about what would be some modern parallels,

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as I mentioned yesterday, we

should be transformed when we

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read God's word to love others.

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That idea is affirmed

throughout the Bible.

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Interestingly, in the ancient

Eastern world, this is actually

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how they measured someone's virtue.

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It was their treatment of the weakest

and most vulnerable people in society.

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God deeply cares that we have

eyes to see those around us.

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And in chapter 29 and 30.

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Job tells us that he went beyond the

standards that were required of him

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to honor those that society often

forgets, whether it's the fatherless,

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the widows, the orphans, the poor, the

disabled, those sick and near death.

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It's possible that some of these

activities that job did were indicative

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that he was the mayor of his area.

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In any case, job rightly understood that

righteousness is tied to how we rightly

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treat those made in the image of God.

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If we ever think that God's goal is just

holiness in our homes, forgive us Lord,

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let's look outward and teach

our children to do the same.

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Not only does job feel abandoned by his

friends and by all else in his life,

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he feels abandoned by God right now.

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I've had moments I've needed to

wrestle through that feeling as well.

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In one particular instance,

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I had a baby on an ambulance stretcher,

and instead of my medical team

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coming with me as they had promised

they would, they left at the time.

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It felt so painful that I was abandoned

by these people that I had trusted.

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But as the Lord helped me process

it, he showed me that he was with me

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every step of the way, even though

I couldn't sense it at the time.

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I hope that whatever you're going

through right now, and even if you don't

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feel the nearness of the Lord, that

you can persevere knowing that he is

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Wise, in perfect Heavenly Father, we're

grateful for your nearness, but we also

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ask that you would help us to understand

your holiness and that we would revere

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you with all that we are, help us not

to take for granted your availability

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that every time we open our mouths or

our hearts to pray that you hear us.

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I ask that we would have eyes to

see those we can serve and that

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we could model this for our kids.

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When we have extra financially,

may we think of who we can bless

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over how we could spend as job

said, I did not eat my food alone.

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And if there are those that would be

blessed by us opening our homes for

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a meal or by sharing our provision,

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lord give us capacity to be hospitable and

to serve others even though we're often

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weary just from serving our own families.

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Job said, I searched out the

cause of him whom I did not know.

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In a day and age when there's so

much information available to us

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and so many causes, give us wisdom

and clarity about where we can

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make an impact for your kingdom.

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May we not be pulled in every direction,

but guide us with your spirit toward

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the causes where you desire us to act.

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Help us to mind for wisdom and

make it our greatest treasure.

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I particularly pray for the young men

that they would follow in job's, steps

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in purity and righteousness, generosity

and kindness, that they would walk up

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rightly just as you did on this earth.

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Jesus, it's in your name that we pray it.

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Amen.

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Speaking of walking in wisdom and

young men walking in righteousness, we

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have a phenomenal interview with Emily

and Jake Dio on the Again podcast.

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Coming up on Thursday this week,

Emily and Jake share a testimony

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of raising their son, and they

are gonna fill you with hope.

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If you're a mom parenting, a kid that's

impulsive, aggressive, struggling

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academically, or can't seem to keep

their hands off of everything, Jake

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and Emily rewrite the script of the

A DHD diagnosis and Jake even shares

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his experience and how looking back

he realized that that's also how

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God made him and how he's seen it.

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Benefit him I hope you

can join us for that too.

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