A quick review of all 7 Your Mindset Episodes to help you take positive action.
Quote for the episode: "Overall money is a tool, not a goal in itself."
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Joseph Okaly:Hello, and welcome to the Enjoy More 30s: Family
Joseph Okaly:Finance podcast. This is the last kind of summation episode
Joseph Okaly:for the initial "Your Money Mindset" series. I hope you've
Joseph Okaly:enjoyed it so far. And more importantly, I hope this has
Joseph Okaly:helped to remove some of the anxiety items that kind of hold
Joseph Okaly:us back and stress us out, and kind of keep us from enjoying
Joseph Okaly:life as much as we should be. And that's really the point of
Joseph Okaly:all of this. Finance, remember, insurance, investments, all this
Joseph Okaly:kind of stuff, they are just tools. We are here to really
Joseph Okaly:enjoy ourselves and try to make the most out of our lives. And
Joseph Okaly:we need to use these tools to kind of help get us there, but
Joseph Okaly:having big numbers on a piece of paper is not a goal in and of
Joseph Okaly:itself.
Joseph Okaly:Now I'm going to go through all seven episodes here, just bullet
Joseph Okaly:point kind of format. This way I'm thinking, you know, you have
Joseph Okaly:one episode, you can even sit down with your spouse for 10
Joseph Okaly:minutes, recap all seven of these, hit on the major points
Joseph Okaly:and take some positive steps forward. The first point here is
Joseph Okaly:from episode one, "Unknowns Are Scary", is the importance to
Joseph Okaly:clarify unknowns. If we clarify the unknowns, we remove the
Joseph Okaly:anxiety. When we just check off boxes: I have a 401k- check; I
Joseph Okaly:have life insurance- check; whatever that checkbox may be,
Joseph Okaly:that doesn't often remove the anxiety because we're not really
Joseph Okaly:confident that we have that issue covered. So better
Joseph Okaly:questions we should be asking ourselves: number one, what do
Joseph Okaly:we want to do? What actually makes us happy and gives us
Joseph Okaly:enjoyment in life? Let's try to focus our energy on doing more
Joseph Okaly:of that. The second question is, where are we going? Having an
Joseph Okaly:idea of where we're projecting to gives us a better idea of
Joseph Okaly:what we can afford more to do today. The third item is what do
Joseph Okaly:we need to protect? What scenario do we want to protect
Joseph Okaly:for and what amount of coverage do we need to have that level of
Joseph Okaly:security for that situation? Again, overall money is a tool,
Joseph Okaly:not a goal in itself.
Joseph Okaly:So episode two was "Like Super Gymnast Flexible", and really
Joseph Okaly:the biggest takeaway from that is flexibility is very, very
Joseph Okaly:important because we don't know what's going to happen down the
Joseph Okaly:road. 20-30 years is a long time, we want to make sure that
Joseph Okaly:we have the flexibility to adapt as we need to. One of the best
Joseph Okaly:ways to adapt, and stay flexible, is not having all of
Joseph Okaly:our money tied into just a bank, or just retirement accounts,
Joseph Okaly:because each one of those accounts have a specific
Joseph Okaly:purpose. Not saying you shouldn't have those accounts,
Joseph Okaly:however, a taxable investment account can sit between those
Joseph Okaly:two, and takes the accessibility of a bank account (you can get
Joseph Okaly:to it whenever you want to without a penalty), but also
Joseph Okaly:allows you to invest the money and have it in a position where
Joseph Okaly:it has a much higher potential for growth than a bank account
Joseph Okaly:The third episode, "Sur ivors Don't Complain About Too
Joseph Okaly:would.
Joseph Okaly:uch Life Insurance", and it' pretty much a simple theme her
Joseph Okaly:. Way better to have too much li e insurance than not enough. If
Joseph Okaly:you're young and healthy, it s very cost effective- it's no
Joseph Okaly:really going to affect your st ndard of living if you go fro
Joseph Okaly:a $1.5 million dollar policy to a $2 million policy. Again
Joseph Okaly:young and healthy equates to ve y affordable coverages. An
Joseph Okaly:remember, again, your biggest sset as a young family is you
Joseph Okaly:income potential. So protecting that biggest asset, that i
Joseph Okaly:come potential, is really impor ant.
Joseph Okaly:Episode four was "You Already May Be a Future Millionaire",
Joseph Okaly:and it's all focused on getting an idea of what path you're
Joseph Okaly:already on. And you may be better off than you otherwise
Joseph Okaly:may think. And if you are better off, well now you have a good
Joseph Okaly:idea of how much extra could I potentially have for today, and
Joseph Okaly:enjoy more for today.
Joseph Okaly:Episode five, make a kid experience bucket list. We have
Joseph Okaly:18 summers with our kids, they go very quickly. Let's make sure
Joseph Okaly:that we're not missing those opportunities, and we are making
Joseph Okaly:those moments that when we look back we say, "You know what,
Joseph Okaly:thank God I did a, b and c because that was one of the most
Joseph Okaly:enjoyable family events that I've ever had."
Joseph Okaly:Number six, "Investments Should Be Boring". Again, they are our
Joseph Okaly:tool, they're not a toy. Diversify or spread out, fancy
Joseph Okaly:for saying spread out your money, and don't let emotion
Joseph Okaly:dictate your decisions.
Joseph Okaly:Lastly, advisors are not just for old people. If you want an
Joseph Okaly:advisor, great. If not, that's cool too. Just don't have the
Joseph Okaly:mentality that you should be waiting until you're in your 50s
Joseph Okaly:to have one. It is available for you if you are wanting. Lastly,
Joseph Okaly:remember the most powerful tool you have is time, money loves
Joseph Okaly:time to grow. So if you have, whether you have an advisor or
Joseph Okaly:not, that's really the focus that you don't want to lose
Joseph Okaly:sight of.
Joseph Okaly:Again, as always, thanks so much for tuning in. If you did enjoy
Joseph Okaly:this episode, please make sure to review us on Apple podcasts
Joseph Okaly:or wherever you listen. There are literally millions of young
Joseph Okaly:American families out there I'm trying to reach and help just
Joseph Okaly:like you. The last point I'll leave you with is our next
Joseph Okaly:series will be coming up shortly, and it's going to be
Joseph Okaly:called "The Money Multiplier" series. So it's going to go more
Joseph Okaly:in depth on specific topics with actionable items, that you can
Joseph Okaly:take in those specific topics to make the most out of your
Joseph Okaly:situation. And again, making the most out of your situation with
Joseph Okaly:the intent so that allows you to enjoy living more today with
Joseph Okaly:your family and the things that make you happy. Thanks very much
Joseph Okaly:and look forward to connecting with you in the next series to
Joseph Okaly:come.
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