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Welcome to Friday Night Readers,
an unofficial pop culture
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:rewatch of Gilmore Girls.
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:We dive deep on each episode featuring
the Gilmore's world of books, as
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:well as their fast talk or with the
pop culture already learn what the
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:Gilmores are actually talking about so
you can read and live more like them.
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:Life's short read and rewatch fast.
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:Welcome back Friday Night readers.
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:Here's what happened in
Stars Hollow in season one.
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:Episode seven of Gilmore Girls Kiss
and Tell The episode begins in the most
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:autumnal of all autumn town squares.
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:This is Fall.
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:Y'all Lorelai and Rory walk and talk about
underwear as Miss Patty's mini pilgrims
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:dance among the pumpkins and haystacks.
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:Now that's a vibe at Luke's Diner.
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:Taylor Nags Luke about
Thanksgiving decorations.
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:This is our introduction to
the one and only Taylor Doose
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:played by Michael Winters.
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:He was born in Hartford,
Connecticut, so maybe that's why
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:he's such a fit for the show.
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:He also made appearances on
other popular shows of the time.
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:Cheers, friends, home Improvement, the
nanny, Ally McBeal, and so many more.
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:But Luke doesn't care.
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:He tells Taylor to stick
his decorations somewhere.
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:Rory heads to Lorelai market
after school where Dean and Taylor
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:arrange Thanksgiving food displays.
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:Rory pretends to be highly interested
in cornstarch as she flirts with Dean.
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:They have the ultimate Connecticut,
Chicago debate, soda or pop.
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:I asked my Instagram followers
and 84% said it's soda.
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:16% said it's pop and a few
southerners reach out to add a choice.
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:They call it coke there.
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:Here in Philly it's soda, but travel
west to Pittsburgh and it's pop.
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:It's that much closer to dean's.
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:Midwestern roots.
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:Then out of nowhere, Dean kisses Rory
and her stunned little mouth utters.
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:Thank you.
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:As she runs away with the
box of cornstarch at Kim's
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:Antiques, she alerts Lane.
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:I got kissed.
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:And I shoplifted Lane confirms that Aisle
three near the bury is a good aisle.
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:So I had to ask my Instagram followers
what their favorite aisle is.
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:There was an array of answers.
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:Coffee, tea, spaghetti,
produce, cheese, cereal, bakery,
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:snacks, books, and frozen food.
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:Were among them.
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:We are a diverse group of
grocery shoppers around here.
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:Personally, I go to Trader Joe's,
which only has three aisles, and
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:I think the back where all of them
connect is the best part because it's
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:where the new candles and samples are.
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:I'm nothing if not a sample lover.
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:Lane assures Mrs.
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:Kim, that it was quote,
the Lord who kissed Rory.
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:Then she and Rory decide to keep
it a secret from Lorelei who isn't
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:crazy about Dean back at the house.
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:Lorelei struggles with the
crazy refrigerator sound.
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:We've all made a strange electrical
noise over the phone, haven't we?
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:This is such a funny and
well-written conversation.
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:Of course, the repairman refuse
to help in a timely manner.
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:Of course, they do.
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:Lorelei heads to Kim's antiques
to pick up a chair where Mrs.
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:Kim informs her that Rory kissed
the boy in the grocery store.
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:Kiss, kiss, kiss Lorelei is
a mix of shocked and hurt.
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:Next Lane and Rory, keep gossiping
about Dean and the kiss while dressed
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:as pilgrims amidst a cornucopia of
pumpkins at the Autumn Harvest Festival.
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:Now I've been to my share of fall
festivals, but this has got to
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:be the most festive of them all.
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:I think it's the costumes for me.
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:My personal favorite, though, was
the mushroom festival we attended
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:in a small town near us this year.
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:When I tell you I tasted mushrooms
in every form imaginable.
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:At Luke's Diner, Lorelei watches
Rory from a distance, and you
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:can almost read her thoughts.
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:She feels like she doesn't
know her daughter anymore.
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:When Rory enters, she tries to nudge
her into talking about Dean in the kiss.
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:And I've been there, albeit
at age 30 in my life.
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:Social media friends had already
been blabbing to my mom that
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:I seem to be dating someone.
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:This is my now husband, but I wanted to
make sure the relationship was sticking
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:before telling my family, so she would
always ask me pointed questions like,
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:exactly who is going somewhere with me?
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:Then Doubtfully Mutter.
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:Mm-hmm.
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:I didn't give in for six whole months
when she visited and I said, there's
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:a surprise waiting to meet you.
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:Lorelei seeks Luke's emotional
support and even compares Dean to
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:Christopher Rory's dad, do you see any
resemblance looks, or personality wise?
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:Personally, I think she's just spiraling.
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:She convinces herself
that she will show Rory.
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:She's not a regular mom.
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:She's a cool mom who is okay with it all.
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:She finally blurts out to Rory.
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:So kissed any good boys lately.
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:They talk.
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:Then head downtown for movie night junk
food, and Rory introduces Lorelei to Dean.
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:All goes well.
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:That is until Rory runs to the
video store and Lorelei invites
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:Dean over to watch Willy Wonka in
the chocolate factory with them.
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:Rory displays her utter horror in
this hilarious exchange, repeatedly
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:emphasizing the word Mother Lorelei.
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:Stop saying mother like that.
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:Rory.
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:Like what?
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:Lorelei like, there's supposed
to be another word after it.
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:Rory compares Lorelei to
Emily and Ouch, it hurts.
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:Lorelei says she needs
therapy back at the house.
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:Lorelei helps Rory pick an outfit,
and Rory is both amazed by Lorelei's
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:dating skills and nervous about her own.
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:Dean arrives late after
getting accosted by Babette.
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:Then the girls give him a house tour
including the stove filled with shoes.
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:This reminds me of my grandmother who used
to store her purses in her dishwasher.
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:I honestly can't imagine
preferring hand washing dishes to
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:buying storage for my handbags.
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:But hey, to eat her own Sookie
arrives with dessert and Lorelei
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:begs her to leave, but she
manages to stay and continue the
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:Rory Humiliation tour of 2000.
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:The threesome proceeds to eat
everything pizza and talk about oompa.
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:loompas..
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:We learned that Dean has
sisters that's with an s.
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:Yet.
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:Note that we only ever meet
one Clara later in the series.
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:Soon enough, Lorelei realizes she should
leave Rory and Dean to themselves.
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:So she reads a magazine in the kitchen.
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:I wonder if it's the one that
Richard read in the last episode.
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:Now, this actually becomes
a pretty good first date.
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:In my humble opinion, Rory gets private
time with Dean, but also the safety and
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:comfort of her mother is just a room away.
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:She seeks Lorelei's help and
Lorelei praises her politeness
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:and thanking Dean for the kiss.
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:Turns out that Rory doesn't
want her mom to be a friend
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:anymore, but rather a mother.
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:Oh, the many hats that she and
all moms wear, she advises Rory,
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:this oddly philosophical line.
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:I'm afraid once your heart is
involved, it all comes out in moron.
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:Lorelei heads back into the living
room with Dean and while I usually
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:like to remark on Emily's Savage
Burns, she's not in this episode and we
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:actually have a Lorelei one sweetheart.
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:The whole town is watching you.
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:That girl in there is beloved around here.
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:You hurt her.
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:There's not a safe place within
a hundred miles for you to hide.
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:This is a very small, weird
place you've moved to.
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:They come to the agreement that Rory
quote won't go on his motorcycle
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:and I'll just leave it at that.
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:Then Dean fires back at her
that he's not going anywhere.
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:Was he out of line?
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:Sort of.
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:He has the confidence and ego that
only a teen can have in talking
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:back, but then again, Lorelei
was also kind of rough on him.
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:Dean and Rory share a goodnight
kiss and Rory apologizes to Lorelei
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:for not telling her about the kiss.
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:She spills everything and like
Lane Lorelei confirms that
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:Aisle three is a good aisle.
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:Such a sweet, full circle ending.
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:Okay.
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:The Gilmore's world of books.
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:Now let's break down the
Gilmore's world of books.
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:This episode's most
iconic literary references
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:For those, taking the Rory Gilmore
Reading Challenge with us on Friday night.
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:readers.substack.com
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:where we read from the list of
books mentioned on Gilmore Girls.
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:First things first, the phrase, kiss
and tell the name of this episode
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:originated in William Congreves 1695.
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:Play Love for Love.
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:This play is a fast-paced satire
about love, money, and social
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:manners in England's upper class.
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:Sounds a bit like Gilmore Girls a.
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:Oh, these writers are so smart.
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:Next to Luke Lorelai says, I'm not gonna
talk about how good you'd look dressed
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:like one of the guys from The Crucible.
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:This classic play centers on the
Salem Witch trials a parable.
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:Its purpose is to convey the harm that
violence sanctioned by society can cause.
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:It's a great fall book, but I
actually preferred the movie
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:adaptation starring Winona Rider.
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:It is just not as immersive to
read a play versus watch it.
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:Then Lorelei calls Dean a quote,
Lethario, this name originated from
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:the fair penitent by Nicholas Rowe
and means a womanizer or seducer.
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:In this tragedy, Lothario is a
handsome, smooth talking seducer
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:who leads a young woman to haroun.
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:So you can almost smell
Lorelai's fear here.
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:The name is also famously
known from Miguel De Cervantes,
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:Spanish Classic Don Quixote.
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:Lorelai tells Luke not to
quote Freud to her after she
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:compares Christopher to Dean.
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:Sigmund Freud is the founder of
Psychoanalysis and an author known for
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:his methods of treating mental illness,
and exploring the unconscious mind.
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:He believed that children have unconscious
desires and conflicts, especially
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:involving their opposite sex parents,
otherwise known as the Oedipus Complex.
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:So Dark Lorelai tells Rory
she'll be as cool as Shaft in
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:front of Dean at Doose's Market.
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:While Shaft is best known as
a movie starring Samuel L.
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:Jackson, it was first a
book by Ernest Tidyman.
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:Since Lorelai doesn't
specify book or movie.
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:I'm assuming it's the book.
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:This approach just gives us more to read.
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:Shaft is a tough but stylish
private detective from the:
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:New York, known for his confidence,
swagger, and fearlessness.
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:Later, while Lorelei helps Rory get
ready for movie night, Rory calls
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:her a quote, crazy Elsa Klensch.
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:Born in 1930 in Australia, Elsa
Klensch was a pioneering voice in
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:fashion journalism and a television
host best known for creating and
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:hosting CNN's style with Elsa Klensch,
which aired from:
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:Despite growing up during this
timeframe, I, unlike our very
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:cultured Rory, never heard of her.
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:I am curious about every single
book mentioned in this Gilmore
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:Girls episode, even the obscure
references most people miss.
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:Like all the books on the Gilmore shelves
in this episode, I've got them for you.
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:Head to this episode's page at
Friday night, readers.substack.com
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:When you upgrade to a paid membership,
you'll get printable episode guides
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:for every Gilmore Girls episode.
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:Perfect.
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:We're tracking your own Rory
inspired reading journey.
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:Oy with the pop culture already now,
because I want you to understand even
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:more of the Gilmore Girls fast talk.
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:Here's what some of this episode's
best pop culture references mean.
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:First, let's talk about food.
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:I couldn't help but note all the movie
night junk food mentioned in this episode.
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:Marshmallows, jelly beans, Hershey
Kisses, cookie dough, peanut butter, fun
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:dip, red vines, pizza, and caramel bars.
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:If that doesn't sound like
the recipe for a stomachache.
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:My personal favorite movie, night
Food is Simply Pizza and Popcorn.
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:I asked my Instagram followers and popcorn
was the most popular answer with you.
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:Two.
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:Some readers also love
Chocolate Sour Patch, kids,
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:ice Cream, Pop-Tarts, m and ms.
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:Chips, Raisinettes,
milk Duds, and Cookies.
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:I think Lorelei and Rory would get
along well with you movies and tv.
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:First Lorelei tries to coax Rory to
tell her about the kiss by talking about
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:one on the soap opera General Hospital.
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:She mentions the old and new Lucky,
and I've got a great fun fact for you.
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:The old lucky was played by Jonathan
Jackson who co-starred with Alexis
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:Bledel in the movie adaptation of the
Children's Classic Tuck Everlasting.
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:A few more fun facts.
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:I actually think they look
like they could be siblings.
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:They look so much alike.
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:It's kind of in the eyes for me.
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:And lastly, Alexis narrates the audiobook
for the 50th anniversary of the book.
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:I both listened and watched this
year and enjoyed both probably
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:the movie a little bit more.
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:It's great for all ages on a family movie
night, and I want you to see how similar
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:they look and what the movie is like.
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:So I have linked the trailer from
the movie in the show notes for you.
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:Lorelai says that by the time
news of the Kiss gets to Miss
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:Patty, the story will look like a
scene from nine and a half weeks.
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:This is an erotic 1986 movie starring
Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger, which
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:follows a brief but very intense affair
between a mysterious Wall Street man
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:and an art gallery worker who goes
increasingly obsessive and controlling.
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:The movie night feature is Willy
Wonka and the Chocolate Factory.
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:This Oscar nominated 1971 film remains a
classic and it's based on a book Charlie
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:and The Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl.
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:It's about a poor boy who wins
a golden ticket to tour Willy
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:Wonka's magical chocolate factory.
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:There.
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:However, children who misbehave face
dire consequences of their greed.
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:Now I've seen the original movie, read the
book and watched the recent adaptations.
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:There's 2005s Oscar nominated Charlie
and the Chocolate Factory, which
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:stars Johnny Depp and 2023's Wonka,
which stars Timothy Chalamet, by far.
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:I personally prefer the book.
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:It is so well written and it
really impressed me, especially
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:for it children's novel.
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:Next, I'd probably pick the original film.
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:Gene Wilder's Performance
is simply Iconic.
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:I will also note that the
newest adaptation Wonka veers
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:in a different direction.
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:Story-wise.
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:If you want to experience this story
like a Gilmore, have yourself a
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:whole weekend of reading, watching,
and binge eating Wonka goodies.
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:Then Rory admits to Dean that she
once had a crush on Prince Charming.
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:But she clarifies that it was not the
Cinderella one, the sleeping beauty one.
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:Since she's talking about physical
crushes, and since it's in the
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:context of talking about movies
here, I assume she means the movies
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:Both Disney adaptations were
popular around the time Rory
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:would've been a child next
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:during movie night, Lorelei
and Rory teased Dean about
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:his embarrassing secrets.
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:First, Rory guesses that the theme
song from Ice Castles makes him cry.
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:All I've got to say is Rory, how
dare You Mock Melissa Manchester
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:through the Eyes of Love?
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:One of the most noteworthy love songs
of the:
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:a figure skater who becomes blind
after an accident learns to skate
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:again with the help of her boyfriend.
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:Now you better believe I found this
scene from the movie and the song that
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:goes with it, and I link the YouTube
video for you in the show notes.
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:Next, Lorelei says, the Dean must
have wished at the end of the way, we
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:were for Robert Redford to dump his
wife and kid for Barbara Streisand.
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:They described this movie, which he's
never seen as quote, heartache, laughter,
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:and communism all in one package.
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:And I think this entire scene shows the
depths of Lorelai and Rory's connection.
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:Why?
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:Because this movie also has
a very famous theme song.
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:I have linked that in the
show notes for you as well.
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:This film.
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:Is a 1973 American Classic for all
who strive to be avid moviegoers.
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:It's one that I borrowed from the
library during the pre streaming days
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:to expand my own pop culture catalog.
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:Lastly, Dean wants to recommend Boogie
Nights for movie night, but Rory says
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:he'll never get that past Lorelai.
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:He questions whether she
doesn't like Marky, mark
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:and Rory says that Lorelai quote
had a bad reaction to Magnolia.
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:She sat there screaming for three hours.
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:I want my life back.
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:Now we've got a lot to unpack here.
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:First, boogie Nights is a very
popular:
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:the rise and fall of a young porn
actor, Eddie Dirk Diggler, in the
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:1970s and 1980s adult film industry.
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:This was one of those movies that
everyone was talking about at the
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:time, mostly for its salacious content.
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:I've never seen it, but I've heard that
there's some pretty stark nudity in it.
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:Here.
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:I thought that's what Lorelei wouldn't
approve of, but no, it's Star Mark
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:Wahlberg, formerly known as Marky Mark.
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:You may know this famous American actor
from movies like The Departed and Ted,
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:but did you know that to 1990s Kids?
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:He was Marky Mark from the pop group,
Marky Mark, and the Funky Bunch.
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:He was also the brother of
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:on the block, Donnie Wahlberg.
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:What a background.
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:Now I can assure you that every
tween girl at the time danced
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:to his pop hit good vibrations.
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:I certainly did to us.
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:He was known for his shirtless
video featuring his buff
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:chest and his low slung jeans.
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:And yes, of course I have linked the
music video in the show notes for you.
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:And I've gotta say it is
still a pretty catchy song.
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:I found myself singing and dancing along.
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:Now we have also got
to talk about Magnolia.
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:This emotionally intense film with an
ensemble cast was one of those movies
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:that was critically acclaimed at the
time, so you heard a lot about it.
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:Yet it wasn't widely seen
by the general population.
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:In other words, it wasn't
a huge box office success.
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:It was more of a critical success.
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:It weaves together multiple interconnected
stories set in Los Angeles, exploring
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:themes of love, regret, coincidence, and
redemption, and it has the same director
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:as Boogie Nights, Paul Thomas Anderson.
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:So that's the link here.
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:I've always wanted to see it, but always
skipped it for the reasons I just listed.
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:Famous people.
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:The Doose's market, cashier and Dean Spar,
over which Gene Hackman or Wilder Stars
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:in Willy Wonka in the chocolate factory.
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:And I've gotta believe that these
two famous acting genes of the same
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:generation got this all the time.
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:Both have since passed.
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:Hackman was recently found dead in his
home with his wife, who has also died.
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:Babette says, the Dean
has a quote, Chuck Heston.
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:He was an American actor known
for his roles as larger than life
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:characters in Epic films like Ben
Hur, for which he won an Oscar, the 10
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:Commandments and Planet of the Apes.
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:And yes, he does have a strong jaw.
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:Rory tells her mother that around
Dean, there shall be no James Dean
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:jokes or Nancy Walker impressions.
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:James Dean was an American actor
and cultural icon of the:
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:Famous for his brooding good
looks and his rebellious style.
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:It was all about his wavy hair and
the way his eyebrows really stood out.
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:His movie performances An untimely
young death in a car crash
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:cemented his status as a symbol
of youthful deviance everywhere.
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:He's actually a lot more like
Jess than Dean now, Nancy Winkler.
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:She played Ida Morgan Stern.
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:The mother of character Rhoda Morganstern
on one of my favorite TV shows ever.
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:The Mary Tyler Moore show.
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:This 1970s sitcom was groundbreaking,
and then it followed a single,
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:independent working woman.
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:Walker was known for being sharp
and overbearing to her daughter
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:on the show, yet also lovable.
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:I watched this on Nick at night every
single night when I was younger, and I
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:still watch reruns of it on Hulu today.
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:I personally think that if you appreciate
the smart female driven humor on
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:Gilmore Girls, you will appreciate
it on the Mary Tyler Moore show too.
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:It is very sharp in its comedy music.
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:This is a pretty quiet episode when
it comes to music, but Lane does
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:say that Dean likes Nick Drake,
Liz Phair, and the Sugar Plastic.
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:Nick Drake is actually
one of my favorites too.
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:He was an indie folk singer
songwriter, known for his
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:intimate sounds, particularly
through his acoustic guitar work.
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:His music feels so haunting
and emotionally layered.
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:Perhaps this is why Dean says this.
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:How much does it suck that they use
Pink Moon in a Volkswagen commercial?
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:I went to YouTube and found the
commercial for you with the song
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:Pink Moon, so you can see it and
listen to the song at the same time.
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:Find it in the show notes.
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:Next up is Liz Phair.
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:She's actually a Connecticut native.
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:This American singer songwriter
was a staple of:
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:rock, particularly in women's music.
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:Her song, why Can't I was practically
an anthem for angsty young women.
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:Here are two of her lyrics
that I love from this song.
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:Why can't I breathe?
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:Whenever I think about you, why can't
I speak whenever I talk about you?
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:This is another very smart
reference by the showrunners
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:for this particular episode.
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:Last of all, is the sugar plastic.
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:I'm not actually familiar with them,
but I gave them a listen and I described
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:the sound as Talking Heads meets Weezer.
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:Does that make sense?
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:There are a 1990s
California alternative band.
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:Book tease.
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:Lastly, the time has come for me to be
what just called Rory, a book tease.
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:Tune in next week when
we dive into episode 1.8,
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:love and war and Snow.
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:This is when Lorelai first smell snow
and books like Pride and Prejudice,
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:which Rory and Dean surprisingly share.
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:See you next Friday.