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Gilmore Girls Season 1, Episode 7, "Kiss and Tell": Pop Culture Rewatch
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Welcome to Gilmore Girls Season 1, Episode 7, "Kiss and Tell": Pop Culture Rewatch ! In this podcast episode, I share the books and pop culture referenced when Dean kisses Rory in Doose's Market, and she, Dean, and Lorelai have a movie night together.

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  • 00:30 What Happened in Stars Hollow
  • 07:54 The Gilmores' World of Books
  • 10:55 Oy With the Pop Culture Already
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Speaker:

Welcome to Friday Night Readers,

an unofficial pop culture

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rewatch of Gilmore Girls.

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We dive deep on each episode featuring

the Gilmore's world of books, as

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well as their fast talk or with the

pop culture already learn what the

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Gilmores are actually talking about so

you can read and live more like them.

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Life's short read and rewatch fast.

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Welcome back Friday Night readers.

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Here's what happened in

Stars Hollow in season one.

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Episode seven of Gilmore Girls Kiss

and Tell The episode begins in the most

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autumnal of all autumn town squares.

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This is Fall.

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Y'all Lorelai and Rory walk and talk about

underwear as Miss Patty's mini pilgrims

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dance among the pumpkins and haystacks.

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Now that's a vibe at Luke's Diner.

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Taylor Nags Luke about

Thanksgiving decorations.

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This is our introduction to

the one and only Taylor Doose

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played by Michael Winters.

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He was born in Hartford,

Connecticut, so maybe that's why

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he's such a fit for the show.

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He also made appearances on

other popular shows of the time.

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Cheers, friends, home Improvement, the

nanny, Ally McBeal, and so many more.

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But Luke doesn't care.

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He tells Taylor to stick

his decorations somewhere.

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Rory heads to Lorelai market

after school where Dean and Taylor

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arrange Thanksgiving food displays.

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Rory pretends to be highly interested

in cornstarch as she flirts with Dean.

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They have the ultimate Connecticut,

Chicago debate, soda or pop.

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I asked my Instagram followers

and 84% said it's soda.

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16% said it's pop and a few

southerners reach out to add a choice.

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They call it coke there.

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Here in Philly it's soda, but travel

west to Pittsburgh and it's pop.

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It's that much closer to dean's.

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Midwestern roots.

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Then out of nowhere, Dean kisses Rory

and her stunned little mouth utters.

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Thank you.

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As she runs away with the

box of cornstarch at Kim's

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Antiques, she alerts Lane.

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I got kissed.

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And I shoplifted Lane confirms that Aisle

three near the bury is a good aisle.

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So I had to ask my Instagram followers

what their favorite aisle is.

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There was an array of answers.

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Coffee, tea, spaghetti,

produce, cheese, cereal, bakery,

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snacks, books, and frozen food.

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Were among them.

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We are a diverse group of

grocery shoppers around here.

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Personally, I go to Trader Joe's,

which only has three aisles, and

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I think the back where all of them

connect is the best part because it's

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where the new candles and samples are.

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I'm nothing if not a sample lover.

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Lane assures Mrs.

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Kim, that it was quote,

the Lord who kissed Rory.

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Then she and Rory decide to keep

it a secret from Lorelei who isn't

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crazy about Dean back at the house.

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Lorelei struggles with the

crazy refrigerator sound.

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We've all made a strange electrical

noise over the phone, haven't we?

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This is such a funny and

well-written conversation.

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Of course, the repairman refuse

to help in a timely manner.

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Of course, they do.

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Lorelei heads to Kim's antiques

to pick up a chair where Mrs.

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Kim informs her that Rory kissed

the boy in the grocery store.

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Kiss, kiss, kiss Lorelei is

a mix of shocked and hurt.

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Next Lane and Rory, keep gossiping

about Dean and the kiss while dressed

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as pilgrims amidst a cornucopia of

pumpkins at the Autumn Harvest Festival.

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Now I've been to my share of fall

festivals, but this has got to

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be the most festive of them all.

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I think it's the costumes for me.

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My personal favorite, though, was

the mushroom festival we attended

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in a small town near us this year.

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When I tell you I tasted mushrooms

in every form imaginable.

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At Luke's Diner, Lorelei watches

Rory from a distance, and you

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can almost read her thoughts.

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She feels like she doesn't

know her daughter anymore.

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When Rory enters, she tries to nudge

her into talking about Dean in the kiss.

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And I've been there, albeit

at age 30 in my life.

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Social media friends had already

been blabbing to my mom that

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I seem to be dating someone.

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This is my now husband, but I wanted to

make sure the relationship was sticking

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before telling my family, so she would

always ask me pointed questions like,

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exactly who is going somewhere with me?

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Then Doubtfully Mutter.

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Mm-hmm.

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I didn't give in for six whole months

when she visited and I said, there's

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a surprise waiting to meet you.

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Lorelei seeks Luke's emotional

support and even compares Dean to

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Christopher Rory's dad, do you see any

resemblance looks, or personality wise?

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Personally, I think she's just spiraling.

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She convinces herself

that she will show Rory.

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She's not a regular mom.

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She's a cool mom who is okay with it all.

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She finally blurts out to Rory.

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So kissed any good boys lately.

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They talk.

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Then head downtown for movie night junk

food, and Rory introduces Lorelei to Dean.

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All goes well.

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That is until Rory runs to the

video store and Lorelei invites

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Dean over to watch Willy Wonka in

the chocolate factory with them.

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Rory displays her utter horror in

this hilarious exchange, repeatedly

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emphasizing the word Mother Lorelei.

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Stop saying mother like that.

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Rory.

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Like what?

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Lorelei like, there's supposed

to be another word after it.

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Rory compares Lorelei to

Emily and Ouch, it hurts.

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Lorelei says she needs

therapy back at the house.

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Lorelei helps Rory pick an outfit,

and Rory is both amazed by Lorelei's

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dating skills and nervous about her own.

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Dean arrives late after

getting accosted by Babette.

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Then the girls give him a house tour

including the stove filled with shoes.

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This reminds me of my grandmother who used

to store her purses in her dishwasher.

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I honestly can't imagine

preferring hand washing dishes to

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buying storage for my handbags.

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But hey, to eat her own Sookie

arrives with dessert and Lorelei

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begs her to leave, but she

manages to stay and continue the

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Rory Humiliation tour of 2000.

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The threesome proceeds to eat

everything pizza and talk about oompa.

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loompas..

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We learned that Dean has

sisters that's with an s.

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Yet.

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Note that we only ever meet

one Clara later in the series.

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Soon enough, Lorelei realizes she should

leave Rory and Dean to themselves.

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So she reads a magazine in the kitchen.

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I wonder if it's the one that

Richard read in the last episode.

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Now, this actually becomes

a pretty good first date.

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In my humble opinion, Rory gets private

time with Dean, but also the safety and

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comfort of her mother is just a room away.

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She seeks Lorelei's help and

Lorelei praises her politeness

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and thanking Dean for the kiss.

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Turns out that Rory doesn't

want her mom to be a friend

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anymore, but rather a mother.

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Oh, the many hats that she and

all moms wear, she advises Rory,

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this oddly philosophical line.

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I'm afraid once your heart is

involved, it all comes out in moron.

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Lorelei heads back into the living

room with Dean and while I usually

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like to remark on Emily's Savage

Burns, she's not in this episode and we

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actually have a Lorelei one sweetheart.

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The whole town is watching you.

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That girl in there is beloved around here.

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You hurt her.

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There's not a safe place within

a hundred miles for you to hide.

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This is a very small, weird

place you've moved to.

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They come to the agreement that Rory

quote won't go on his motorcycle

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and I'll just leave it at that.

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Then Dean fires back at her

that he's not going anywhere.

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Was he out of line?

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Sort of.

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He has the confidence and ego that

only a teen can have in talking

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back, but then again, Lorelei

was also kind of rough on him.

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Dean and Rory share a goodnight

kiss and Rory apologizes to Lorelei

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for not telling her about the kiss.

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She spills everything and like

Lane Lorelei confirms that

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Aisle three is a good aisle.

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Such a sweet, full circle ending.

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Okay.

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The Gilmore's world of books.

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Now let's break down the

Gilmore's world of books.

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This episode's most

iconic literary references

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For those, taking the Rory Gilmore

Reading Challenge with us on Friday night.

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readers.substack.com

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where we read from the list of

books mentioned on Gilmore Girls.

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First things first, the phrase, kiss

and tell the name of this episode

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originated in William Congreves 1695.

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Play Love for Love.

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This play is a fast-paced satire

about love, money, and social

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manners in England's upper class.

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Sounds a bit like Gilmore Girls a.

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Oh, these writers are so smart.

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Next to Luke Lorelai says, I'm not gonna

talk about how good you'd look dressed

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like one of the guys from The Crucible.

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This classic play centers on the

Salem Witch trials a parable.

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Its purpose is to convey the harm that

violence sanctioned by society can cause.

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It's a great fall book, but I

actually preferred the movie

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adaptation starring Winona Rider.

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It is just not as immersive to

read a play versus watch it.

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Then Lorelei calls Dean a quote,

Lethario, this name originated from

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the fair penitent by Nicholas Rowe

and means a womanizer or seducer.

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In this tragedy, Lothario is a

handsome, smooth talking seducer

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who leads a young woman to haroun.

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So you can almost smell

Lorelai's fear here.

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The name is also famously

known from Miguel De Cervantes,

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Spanish Classic Don Quixote.

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Lorelai tells Luke not to

quote Freud to her after she

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compares Christopher to Dean.

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Sigmund Freud is the founder of

Psychoanalysis and an author known for

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his methods of treating mental illness,

and exploring the unconscious mind.

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He believed that children have unconscious

desires and conflicts, especially

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involving their opposite sex parents,

otherwise known as the Oedipus Complex.

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So Dark Lorelai tells Rory

she'll be as cool as Shaft in

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front of Dean at Doose's Market.

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While Shaft is best known as

a movie starring Samuel L.

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Jackson, it was first a

book by Ernest Tidyman.

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Since Lorelai doesn't

specify book or movie.

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I'm assuming it's the book.

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This approach just gives us more to read.

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Shaft is a tough but stylish

private detective from the:

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New York, known for his confidence,

swagger, and fearlessness.

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Later, while Lorelei helps Rory get

ready for movie night, Rory calls

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her a quote, crazy Elsa Klensch.

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Born in 1930 in Australia, Elsa

Klensch was a pioneering voice in

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fashion journalism and a television

host best known for creating and

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hosting CNN's style with Elsa Klensch,

which aired from:

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Despite growing up during this

timeframe, I, unlike our very

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cultured Rory, never heard of her.

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I am curious about every single

book mentioned in this Gilmore

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Girls episode, even the obscure

references most people miss.

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Like all the books on the Gilmore shelves

in this episode, I've got them for you.

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Head to this episode's page at

Friday night, readers.substack.com

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When you upgrade to a paid membership,

you'll get printable episode guides

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for every Gilmore Girls episode.

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Perfect.

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We're tracking your own Rory

inspired reading journey.

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Oy with the pop culture already now,

because I want you to understand even

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more of the Gilmore Girls fast talk.

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Here's what some of this episode's

best pop culture references mean.

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First, let's talk about food.

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I couldn't help but note all the movie

night junk food mentioned in this episode.

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Marshmallows, jelly beans, Hershey

Kisses, cookie dough, peanut butter, fun

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dip, red vines, pizza, and caramel bars.

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If that doesn't sound like

the recipe for a stomachache.

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My personal favorite movie, night

Food is Simply Pizza and Popcorn.

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I asked my Instagram followers and popcorn

was the most popular answer with you.

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Two.

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Some readers also love

Chocolate Sour Patch, kids,

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ice Cream, Pop-Tarts, m and ms.

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Chips, Raisinettes,

milk Duds, and Cookies.

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I think Lorelei and Rory would get

along well with you movies and tv.

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First Lorelei tries to coax Rory to

tell her about the kiss by talking about

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one on the soap opera General Hospital.

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She mentions the old and new Lucky,

and I've got a great fun fact for you.

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The old lucky was played by Jonathan

Jackson who co-starred with Alexis

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Bledel in the movie adaptation of the

Children's Classic Tuck Everlasting.

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A few more fun facts.

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I actually think they look

like they could be siblings.

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They look so much alike.

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It's kind of in the eyes for me.

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And lastly, Alexis narrates the audiobook

for the 50th anniversary of the book.

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I both listened and watched this

year and enjoyed both probably

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the movie a little bit more.

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It's great for all ages on a family movie

night, and I want you to see how similar

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they look and what the movie is like.

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So I have linked the trailer from

the movie in the show notes for you.

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Lorelai says that by the time

news of the Kiss gets to Miss

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Patty, the story will look like a

scene from nine and a half weeks.

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This is an erotic 1986 movie starring

Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger, which

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follows a brief but very intense affair

between a mysterious Wall Street man

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and an art gallery worker who goes

increasingly obsessive and controlling.

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The movie night feature is Willy

Wonka and the Chocolate Factory.

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This Oscar nominated 1971 film remains a

classic and it's based on a book Charlie

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and The Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl.

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It's about a poor boy who wins

a golden ticket to tour Willy

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Wonka's magical chocolate factory.

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There.

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However, children who misbehave face

dire consequences of their greed.

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Now I've seen the original movie, read the

book and watched the recent adaptations.

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There's 2005s Oscar nominated Charlie

and the Chocolate Factory, which

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stars Johnny Depp and 2023's Wonka,

which stars Timothy Chalamet, by far.

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I personally prefer the book.

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It is so well written and it

really impressed me, especially

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for it children's novel.

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Next, I'd probably pick the original film.

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Gene Wilder's Performance

is simply Iconic.

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I will also note that the

newest adaptation Wonka veers

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in a different direction.

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Story-wise.

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If you want to experience this story

like a Gilmore, have yourself a

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whole weekend of reading, watching,

and binge eating Wonka goodies.

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Then Rory admits to Dean that she

once had a crush on Prince Charming.

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But she clarifies that it was not the

Cinderella one, the sleeping beauty one.

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Since she's talking about physical

crushes, and since it's in the

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context of talking about movies

here, I assume she means the movies

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Both Disney adaptations were

popular around the time Rory

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would've been a child next

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during movie night, Lorelei

and Rory teased Dean about

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his embarrassing secrets.

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First, Rory guesses that the theme

song from Ice Castles makes him cry.

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All I've got to say is Rory, how

dare You Mock Melissa Manchester

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through the Eyes of Love?

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One of the most noteworthy love songs

of the:

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a figure skater who becomes blind

after an accident learns to skate

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again with the help of her boyfriend.

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Now you better believe I found this

scene from the movie and the song that

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goes with it, and I link the YouTube

video for you in the show notes.

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Next, Lorelei says, the Dean must

have wished at the end of the way, we

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were for Robert Redford to dump his

wife and kid for Barbara Streisand.

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They described this movie, which he's

never seen as quote, heartache, laughter,

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and communism all in one package.

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And I think this entire scene shows the

depths of Lorelai and Rory's connection.

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Why?

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Because this movie also has

a very famous theme song.

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I have linked that in the

show notes for you as well.

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This film.

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Is a 1973 American Classic for all

who strive to be avid moviegoers.

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It's one that I borrowed from the

library during the pre streaming days

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to expand my own pop culture catalog.

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Lastly, Dean wants to recommend Boogie

Nights for movie night, but Rory says

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he'll never get that past Lorelai.

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He questions whether she

doesn't like Marky, mark

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and Rory says that Lorelai quote

had a bad reaction to Magnolia.

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She sat there screaming for three hours.

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I want my life back.

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Now we've got a lot to unpack here.

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First, boogie Nights is a very

popular:

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the rise and fall of a young porn

actor, Eddie Dirk Diggler, in the

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1970s and 1980s adult film industry.

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This was one of those movies that

everyone was talking about at the

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time, mostly for its salacious content.

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I've never seen it, but I've heard that

there's some pretty stark nudity in it.

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Here.

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I thought that's what Lorelei wouldn't

approve of, but no, it's Star Mark

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Wahlberg, formerly known as Marky Mark.

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You may know this famous American actor

from movies like The Departed and Ted,

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but did you know that to 1990s Kids?

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He was Marky Mark from the pop group,

Marky Mark, and the Funky Bunch.

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He was also the brother of

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on the block, Donnie Wahlberg.

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What a background.

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Now I can assure you that every

tween girl at the time danced

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to his pop hit good vibrations.

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I certainly did to us.

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He was known for his shirtless

video featuring his buff

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chest and his low slung jeans.

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And yes, of course I have linked the

music video in the show notes for you.

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And I've gotta say it is

still a pretty catchy song.

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I found myself singing and dancing along.

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Now we have also got

to talk about Magnolia.

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This emotionally intense film with an

ensemble cast was one of those movies

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that was critically acclaimed at the

time, so you heard a lot about it.

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Yet it wasn't widely seen

by the general population.

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In other words, it wasn't

a huge box office success.

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It was more of a critical success.

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It weaves together multiple interconnected

stories set in Los Angeles, exploring

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themes of love, regret, coincidence, and

redemption, and it has the same director

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as Boogie Nights, Paul Thomas Anderson.

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So that's the link here.

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I've always wanted to see it, but always

skipped it for the reasons I just listed.

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Famous people.

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The Doose's market, cashier and Dean Spar,

over which Gene Hackman or Wilder Stars

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in Willy Wonka in the chocolate factory.

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And I've gotta believe that these

two famous acting genes of the same

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generation got this all the time.

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Both have since passed.

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Hackman was recently found dead in his

home with his wife, who has also died.

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Babette says, the Dean

has a quote, Chuck Heston.

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He was an American actor known

for his roles as larger than life

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characters in Epic films like Ben

Hur, for which he won an Oscar, the 10

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Commandments and Planet of the Apes.

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And yes, he does have a strong jaw.

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Rory tells her mother that around

Dean, there shall be no James Dean

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jokes or Nancy Walker impressions.

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James Dean was an American actor

and cultural icon of the:

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Famous for his brooding good

looks and his rebellious style.

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It was all about his wavy hair and

the way his eyebrows really stood out.

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His movie performances An untimely

young death in a car crash

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cemented his status as a symbol

of youthful deviance everywhere.

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He's actually a lot more like

Jess than Dean now, Nancy Winkler.

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She played Ida Morgan Stern.

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The mother of character Rhoda Morganstern

on one of my favorite TV shows ever.

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The Mary Tyler Moore show.

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This 1970s sitcom was groundbreaking,

and then it followed a single,

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independent working woman.

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Walker was known for being sharp

and overbearing to her daughter

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on the show, yet also lovable.

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I watched this on Nick at night every

single night when I was younger, and I

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still watch reruns of it on Hulu today.

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I personally think that if you appreciate

the smart female driven humor on

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Gilmore Girls, you will appreciate

it on the Mary Tyler Moore show too.

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It is very sharp in its comedy music.

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This is a pretty quiet episode when

it comes to music, but Lane does

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say that Dean likes Nick Drake,

Liz Phair, and the Sugar Plastic.

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Nick Drake is actually

one of my favorites too.

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He was an indie folk singer

songwriter, known for his

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intimate sounds, particularly

through his acoustic guitar work.

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His music feels so haunting

and emotionally layered.

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Perhaps this is why Dean says this.

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How much does it suck that they use

Pink Moon in a Volkswagen commercial?

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I went to YouTube and found the

commercial for you with the song

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Pink Moon, so you can see it and

listen to the song at the same time.

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Find it in the show notes.

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Next up is Liz Phair.

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She's actually a Connecticut native.

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This American singer songwriter

was a staple of:

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rock, particularly in women's music.

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Her song, why Can't I was practically

an anthem for angsty young women.

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Here are two of her lyrics

that I love from this song.

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Why can't I breathe?

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Whenever I think about you, why can't

I speak whenever I talk about you?

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This is another very smart

reference by the showrunners

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for this particular episode.

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Last of all, is the sugar plastic.

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I'm not actually familiar with them,

but I gave them a listen and I described

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the sound as Talking Heads meets Weezer.

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Does that make sense?

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There are a 1990s

California alternative band.

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Book tease.

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Lastly, the time has come for me to be

what just called Rory, a book tease.

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Tune in next week when

we dive into episode 1.8,

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love and war and Snow.

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This is when Lorelai first smell snow

and books like Pride and Prejudice,

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which Rory and Dean surprisingly share.

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See you next Friday.

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