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Why ED Doesn’t Kill Your Sex Drive – The Truth!
Episode 2985th August 2025 • Sexual Health For Men • Dr. Anne Truong
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Can you still crave intimacy even when your body won’t cooperate? It’s a question many men are afraid to ask, but it’s more common than you think.

In this episode, we peel back the layers to explore the surprising truth about the relationship between sexual desire and erectile dysfunction. We’re breaking down the difference between desire and being able to perform, and why understanding this difference could be the key to reclaiming your confidence. Whether you’re dealing with ED yourself or just curious about how your body really works, this episode delivers insights you won’t hear anywhere else.

Curious yet? Press play and find out what most men don’t know, but should.

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This podcast is for you, the Modern Man. I'm Dr Anne Truong,

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your host. I'm an intimate health medical doctor and best

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selling author of the book, Erectile Dysfunction Fix. I'll

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do a deep dive into sexual health and performance and how

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it affects men of all ages and backgrounds. So let's get

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started, and be sure to visit my website at

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sexualhealthformenpodcast.com for more information and

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resources from the show. See you on the inside.

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Hello there, Modern Man. I'm Dr Anne Truong. I'm a sexual health

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specialist. I've treated over 7000 men with ED. In today's

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episode, we want to ask the question, does a man with ED

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feel desire? I got that from the comment from one of our

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episodes. I wanted to address that. And the bottom line is

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yes. Yes, yes, yes. Most men with ED retain their sexual

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desire. Now, ED and libido, or sexual desire, are distinct

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aspect of the male sexual function. And that often they

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remain independent of one another. While ED affects the

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mechanical ability or the physical ability to achieve or

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maintain erection, sexual desire or libido, the psychological and

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physiological drive for sexual activity, which typically

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persists In most men experiencing ED. Because the

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sexual drive really starts in the brain. So sexual desire

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drive is in the brain. And you know that I always talk about

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that erection starts in the brain first, not in the penis.

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So it has to kind of start with sexual desire and activity. And

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most men that have ED also have their libido and sexual desire.

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But it also helped them be motivated to get their ED

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resolved, because they still have the desire for sexual

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relations. So that is a good thing somewhat as well, unless

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you have depression or anxiety, performance anxiety that goes

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along with that, which then will suppress the desire over a

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period of time. So there's a distinct difference between ED

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and sexual desire. And understanding the relationship

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between ED and sexual desire require that you recognize that

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these represent two components the male sexual function.

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So ED is really defined as the persistent inability to achieve

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or maintain penile erection sufficient for satisfactory

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sexual performance. While libido is simply the desire for sex,

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while ED and libido may occur at the same time, but they are

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quite different. So if a man feels aroused, but the penis may

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not be able to maintain their erection, two separate function,

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even almost two separate nerve path as well too. So the

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research that demonstrates the sexual desire and ED operate as

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separate system, and that many men maintain strong sexual

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interest despite ED. And it also shows that men with low desire

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does not mean that they have worsening ED. That's actually

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good news. Your desire still continues. It's just the

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physicality of able to maintain the erection. But another good

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news that if you have morning erection, this should serve as a

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crucial diagnostic indicator to preserve sexual function. And it

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may just be due that to stress, maybe due to performance

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anxiety. So you want to keep in mind to pay attention to your

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morning or nighttime erection.

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So the bottom line is this, sexual desire still exists even

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you have ED, and it doesn't really decrease unless you have

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long time ED, along with a performance anxiety. More so

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that if you have ED, initially start to get blood work, see

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your doctor and rule out other physical causes of your ED, such

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as high blood pressure, high cholesterol, obesity or

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diabetes. And work the four pillars maintaining sexual

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health with just Mediterranean diet, exercise, even 30 minutes,

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three to four times a week, get adequate sleep and stress

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reduction, and stop smoking, and moderating alcohol. The whole

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point I'm trying to say is that your desire is actually a good

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thing. It persist, but it drives you so that way you can be

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motivated to get rid of your ED about it. And get out of being

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embarrassed. Get out of living with ED and feeling frustrated

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as well. Okay, so use that as the strength and the motivator

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for you to start resolving your ED and getting breakthrough to

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your ED.

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So I hope you enjoyed this episode. I thought it was a

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great question and very, very pertinent to what we've been

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talking about at this point. And just know that there are

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alternatives to getting out of ED besides just medication

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alone. Check out the course I have, Get Wood Now, down below

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to get a road map on how to get out of ED. And also check down

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below for the Mediterranean diet, the Good Wood smoothie.

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Those are yours for free. In fact, the four sexual pillars,

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such as the diet, the Mediterranean diet, I have the

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link down below for you for free and exercise. All you need to do

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is do 30 minutes, three times a week. Sleep, try to get as much

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sleep as you can, seven hours a day. The stress reduction, which

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is either through breathing, check out my video, Breathing

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Out of ED, and then also meditation. You could use an app

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for that. And also exercise will also decrease your stress level

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as well. So check it out. And also know that we have a safe

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and discreet space for you to get out of ED. That's the Modern

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Man Club where we together, we will get you the roadmap for you

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to start getting out of ED to sexual performance again. Check

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it out at noedman.com which is our Modern Man Club. Having said

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that, I will see you in the next episode. Do not suffer in

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silence. Let's create the sexual revolution or sexual longevity.

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Take care.

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Okay, Modern Man, you are not alone and you don't have to

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suffer anymore. ED can feel isolating, frustrating, and even

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defeating. The endless guessing, the quiet shame, the weight of

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not feeling like yourself is exhausting. But here's the

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truth, you are not broken. You are not alone. You don't have to

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figure this out alone anymore. The Get Wood Now Boost Program

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is your step by step, path to sexual confidence and

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restoration. No more suffering in silence, no more trial and

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error, just real solution, real result and the confidence you

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deserve. It's time to take back your power on your term. Let's

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get this journey started together. Check out the course

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at getwoodnow.com. I'll see you there.

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Thanks for listening to the Sexual Health for Men Podcast.

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If you love this episode, then please take a screenshot on your

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and what you like to hear in the future. That will help me know

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what's great for you and I would love to give you the most

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incredible free gift designed to help you improve performance

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quickly. Go to my website at sexualhealthformenpodcast.com to

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Facing ED. I would appreciate if you subscribe, leave a review on

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Apple podcasts or wherever you listen. And just know that you

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can have sexual vitality for life. I appreciate you until

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next time.

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