Have you ever taken control of your own actions while dreaming? In this episode, we delve into the topic of lucid dreaming. Mike shares his experience of studying the process in order to escape nightmares, and Wendy describes a lucid dream in which she could fly.
Welcome to see you on the other Mike, where the world of
Speaker:the mysterious collides with the world of entertainment.
Speaker:A discussion of art, music, movies, spirituality, no
Speaker:weird, and self discovery. And now,
Speaker:your hosts, musicians and entertainers who have their
Speaker:own weakness for the weird, Mike and Wendy from the
Speaker:band, Sunspot. Today, we're
Speaker:talking about dreams. Wendy,
Speaker:how often a week do you think you dream?
Speaker:I think I dream probably every night. I don't
Speaker:always remember them though. So do do you write them
Speaker:down or anything like that? Or do you do you keep Mike a dream journal?
Speaker:I mean, I I remember girls in high school and stuff keeping
Speaker:dream journals. Do do girls still do that?
Speaker:I don't know. I mean, I'm sure they do. Yes. I have friends who do
Speaker:that. I don't actually do that, because what
Speaker:happens when I dream is that usually I wake up and I
Speaker:remember having had a dream, but I don't actually remember what
Speaker:it was about. And then as the day goes on, it'll sort of slowly
Speaker:trickle back to me. Okay. So it's
Speaker:kinda weird because I'll just remember a little piece, a little piece, and usually by
Speaker:the end of the day, then I'll have the whole story and I'll be
Speaker:like, oh, yeah. I remember that. But I don't wake up and immediately recall
Speaker:it. So it's hard to journal. Yeah. I know. I
Speaker:I do sometimes. I try to write my dreams down
Speaker:And because I like to remember the the the weird ones.
Speaker:I haven't had I I haven't had a weird one in a while. I was
Speaker:looking through the different places I write them down and I had,
Speaker:in April, I had a dream that
Speaker:there were some Nazi like wizards who could read your mind and
Speaker:then control your body and were overlords of a tree
Speaker:kingdom that I knew people who lived in this tree kingdom.
Speaker:Sci fi much? A little bit. I don't know why. I don't know what I
Speaker:I wasn't reading anything fanciful in April. So I don't know why there was
Speaker:like, oh, yeah. It's it's it's those wizards in the tree kingdom.
Speaker:But then I woke up and I fell asleep I fell
Speaker:asleep again. I had the same kind of dream later on. And you were in
Speaker:the next one. Woah. It must have been awesome. Yeah. Of course. We
Speaker:were at a music conference and then there was a guy that, wanted to control
Speaker:my mind and make me crash my car. And we had to
Speaker:hide out from him in an old hotel. But it was it's not like it's
Speaker:not like an old gross hotel. Just like a hotel that was built in the
Speaker:eighties and we were hidden in the conference room and we had to pretend to
Speaker:have band practice there because we had to we had to pretend to go about
Speaker:our normal lives so that this person could wouldn't try to
Speaker:control my mind. Wow. And also the only way we could get into the
Speaker:hotel was through an underground river. That is
Speaker:awesome. So yeah. Was it Mike Willy Wonka in the
Speaker:chocolate factory? The little river that goes through the tunnel and everything?
Speaker:Yeah. I mean, there definitely was a tunnel. And I mean, I remember I remember
Speaker:the tunnel opening, and then we walked into it looked like a, you
Speaker:know, a a hotel conference room from the 19 eighties
Speaker:hotel. Interesting. Well, you know, oftentimes, I
Speaker:can piece together, like, the origin of why I'm
Speaker:dreaming something because of things that recently happened. Yeah.
Speaker:So since since sunspot stays at a lot of crappy old
Speaker:hotels, maybe that, seeped into
Speaker:your subconscious. Yeah. That might have influenced me a little bit. No. That was kind
Speaker:of a so that was kind of a weird one. Then one time in June,
Speaker:or this last June, I woke up and I had dreamed
Speaker:that I was hired to work on a web series.
Speaker:Like you know, like a TV show, like just just shown on the web, like
Speaker:Doctor. Horrible or some shit on Hulu. And
Speaker:I was, I was hired to be an Al Pacino
Speaker:impersonator, but I have no idea why I was hired to be an Al
Speaker:Pacino impersonator because I don't even do a very good
Speaker:Al Pacino. I don't even do an Al Pacino impression. So Mike, why
Speaker:would I wanna be like, all I would do even if I wanted to be
Speaker:an Al Pacino impersonator would be Mike the try to
Speaker:talk like he did from the scent of a woman. You know? But,
Speaker:you know because I sound like fuck hole Leghorn. And I I don't even I
Speaker:wouldn't be able to do that because he's always so loud and everything. And I
Speaker:I just had don't even have an Al Pacino impression. And Well, maybe maybe
Speaker:your subconscious is is trying to direct you in a to another career
Speaker:path. To learn an Al Pacino impression. That would
Speaker:that is per that that is absolutely that might happen, an al Pacino
Speaker:impression. You know, it could. But, well, today we're
Speaker:talking about lucid dreams. And, Mike, I know this is a topic that
Speaker:you've spent a lot of time researching and actually,
Speaker:working on. So maybe you could tell us a little about your your
Speaker:background with that. Sure. Well, no. I really
Speaker:I I love the idea of lucid dreams. So the people who don't know what
Speaker:lucid dreams are, is that's if you just say, man,
Speaker:don't you wish you could control your dreams? That's that's what a
Speaker:lucid dream is. That that's what it means. And
Speaker:I, first start being interested oh, go ahead. Sorry.
Speaker:But, it's not just controlling. It's it's not controlling, like, I wanna have a dream
Speaker:about this. It's, like, being yourself in your dream and being able to
Speaker:do dream Mike things. Right? Like flying or
Speaker:or, you know, non. Yeah. It it wouldn't just
Speaker:be controlling the outcome Mike you're writing the story. It would be, you
Speaker:know, you Participating in the dream. Yes. Yes.
Speaker:And the reason I really got in interested in it is because I used to
Speaker:have, oh, horrible nightmares when I was a little
Speaker:one. So yeah. No. I don't always have to say I mean, it was really
Speaker:Didn't you know you're not supposed to eat ice cream before bed? It gives you
Speaker:nightmares. That's that's what I was told. I
Speaker:that's and that's why I snuck it in, and my parents would feed me ice
Speaker:cream before bed because they wanted to torture me. No.
Speaker:The, I just I saw Night of the Living
Speaker:Dead. It scared me to death. And then I we wasn't able to
Speaker:stop thinking about Night of the Living Dead for, like, 6 years.
Speaker:I saw it and I was Mike, 6. And, I mean, if you ever see
Speaker:the original one, it's scary, but it's cheesy. It's really it's a corny movie.
Speaker:The special effects are horrible. It's black and white.
Speaker:My dad and my sister were watching it and they were making fun of
Speaker:it, You know, because they were like, look at this, you know, that guy, oh,
Speaker:that's a real scary zombie. Look, I think he's eating a chicken leg. It
Speaker:was stuff like that. And so I mean, because it really
Speaker:was cheesy. And I was just watching
Speaker:it and I just, I was like, oh my, the, all the ideas of
Speaker:it. All the ideas of the idea that you're all
Speaker:eventually gonna die. The idea that the end of the world come and there's nothing
Speaker:you can do about it. The idea that you can't get along because I mean
Speaker:there's just something in the human condition where you can't get along. All those different
Speaker:things really,
Speaker:they all had a profound effect on me. I think the fact is, is that
Speaker:it's not just that it's not just an unhappy Wendy, because I've watched plenty of
Speaker:things with an unhappy ending. It was the fact that it's
Speaker:not it's unhappy and that the world is going to end. Yeah. And
Speaker:that's it. I think a lot of those movies when
Speaker:you're younger too, in spite of the cheesy
Speaker:effects and whatnot, because as a child, you
Speaker:have a more vivid imagination. And so it's Mike, I think
Speaker:a lot of the movies that horror movies that I saw as a kid were
Speaker:extremely frightening to Mike. But, you know, nowadays, things are much
Speaker:more graphic and realistic, but not as scary. So
Speaker:Yeah. I I think you're exactly right, and it was the atmosphere
Speaker:of unavoidable dread that
Speaker:you are now just waiting to die. You know, that really
Speaker:I mean, it just terrified me because it it just was things got worse and
Speaker:worse and worse until then, you know. Now you're just waiting to die
Speaker:by the end of the movie. And, that freaked me out pretty bad.
Speaker:So I had zombie nightmares, oh, man, Mike,
Speaker:3 or 4 times a week for, like, years.
Speaker:So I would, you know, I was interested in lucid
Speaker:dreaming from a very young age. That's really because I would wake up in the
Speaker:middle of it and I wouldn't want to fall back asleep. Because it's like, I
Speaker:know what's gonna happen when I fall back asleep. All my friends are all my
Speaker:friends are gonna be eating. I'm gonna watch my family die and then turn around
Speaker:and then try to eat Mike, and then the world's gonna end. So do you
Speaker:really wanna go like if you like now I lay me down to sleep, pray
Speaker:the Lord my soul to keep, right? Every time I went to sleep, I would
Speaker:go see the world end. So I never wanted to go. So I
Speaker:wanted to do something about it. Well, that's cool. I mean, that's that's
Speaker:awesome that you found an option for for managing that, you know,
Speaker:because a lot of times people feel they don't have control over their dreams and
Speaker:you just once your eyes are shut, you're at the mercy of your your
Speaker:mind. Right. Your your subconscious and
Speaker:Right. So what kinds of things
Speaker:Wendy you were trying to learn how to do this? I mean, you read books,
Speaker:you watch videos, or you listen to audiobooks?
Speaker:Or I looked it up in a magazine called
Speaker:Omni that was really popular Mhmm. In
Speaker:well, I don't know if it was popular because it's but like in the 19
Speaker:eighties. So Omni would print science fiction and it would also print
Speaker:like, stories about fringe technology. And that's why Omni was real it was really
Speaker:neat, magazine.
Speaker:And, so I I I looked up some stuff
Speaker:in the in Omni and they had things about
Speaker:trying to, I I didn't even buy the magazine. I would
Speaker:just I saw that something's about lucid dreaming or control your dreams
Speaker:or something and it was just on the newsstand. And so I just read the
Speaker:whole article when I was like 8. I just like, you know, I'm like my
Speaker:parents like it's time to go and I'm like Mike give me 2 minutes and
Speaker:I'm gonna finish this. And so I read it and would have different tips so
Speaker:that you would know when you're dreaming. Okay. Such
Speaker:as? And I think that well, okay. Well, number 1 is is the
Speaker:reality check and this is the one that everybody,
Speaker:kinda gets to when they talk about lucid dreaming. Is that
Speaker:look at a piece of paper and try to read something, or look at something
Speaker:on a chalkboard or wherever you are. So if you're in a dream, look at
Speaker:a sign. Do you see a stop sign? Okay, now turn away.
Speaker:Now look back. Does it say the same thing?
Speaker:In a dream it might not. Okay. In real life, of course,
Speaker:it's going to. But the idea is you get used to having a reality check-in
Speaker:real life every hour or every couple hours. Wow. So every couple
Speaker:hours, what you're gonna do is you're like, hey, look at that sign. Am I
Speaker:dreaming? And you you know you're not dreaming, but you tell yourself
Speaker:you kind of get that ingrained. So then you have a kind of reality check-in
Speaker:your own, in your own
Speaker:daily life. And you do that, so you or you look at a watch. You
Speaker:know, you look at a watch, what time is it? If you look at it,
Speaker:it's the same time then obviously you're not dreaming. But if you
Speaker:look at it, it's a different time than you are. There's digital watches or any
Speaker:any any digital display anywhere, any sign, anything that changes,
Speaker:you ask yourself are you dreaming and that's that kind of reality check is kind
Speaker:of what kicks it off. So so then you
Speaker:understand whether or not you are awake or you are asleep.
Speaker:So you you started doing that every day and doing the,
Speaker:like, the hourly check-in. And when was the first time that
Speaker:you had a dream that you actually, like, realized you were dreaming
Speaker:and not Well, I mean,
Speaker:that I actually took, like, took control. I was, like, like, 12. No.
Speaker:12. I'd say since I was 6th grade, I took control of a dream, and
Speaker:I was being chased by zombies always. They love Mike, oh god
Speaker:they love me. And, and then they Mike
Speaker:I was in some forest or whatever and then
Speaker:I found, like, an anti zombie medallion. I realized I was dreaming. I'm like,
Speaker:hey. I can use this medallion to
Speaker:make them go away. And that's That's awesome. And
Speaker:where do I go to find this forest and this medallion? You go inside
Speaker:your mind. Inside your mind is the place you go.
Speaker:Oh, okay. And so, well, that's what Queensryche
Speaker:sings about in their song Silent Lucidity. So, you know,
Speaker:dreams are very something very popular in I mean
Speaker:everybody sings about dreams. Oh my gosh, yes. Right? Mariah Carey sings about
Speaker:dreams, but it takes a certain kind of band to sing about
Speaker:lucid dreams, to sing about controlling them and doing
Speaker:something with it and it's usually you know, like a prog rock band.
Speaker:In high school. I
Speaker:opened up for a prog rock band called Lucid Dreams, actually. And I'm like,
Speaker:oh, that's a, you know, pretty cool name.
Speaker:And nobody else knew who it was but those guys did. So at least I
Speaker:thought that was cool. But it's very proggy type of name to be thinking about.
Speaker:Yeah, absolutely. For sure. Control your dreams in 78.
Speaker:So but like Queensryche and Sound Lucidity,
Speaker:they were the I think they were the first band that actually had a
Speaker:a top 40 hit about controlling
Speaker:your dreams. I mean, lucidity is in the name. Let me read you
Speaker:some of the lyrics here. Okay.
Speaker:There's a place I like to hide, a doorway that I run to in the
Speaker:night. Relax child, you were there but only didn't realize it and
Speaker:you were scared. It's a place where you'll learn to face your fears,
Speaker:retrace the years, and ride the whims of your mind.
Speaker:Commanding in another world, suddenly, you hear and see
Speaker:this magic new dimension. Alright. I
Speaker:mean, Queen's right. Yeah. Okay. So You know,
Speaker:the crazy thing too is, like, everybody recognizes that song the second it
Speaker:comes on. But you really don't realize that
Speaker:kind of poetry that's in there. No. Right. Ride the
Speaker:whims of your mind. You know, I just hey,
Speaker:commanding in another world. Obviously these guys
Speaker:were thinking about lucid dreams in 1990 when they worked on this song.
Speaker:So that's one of the kind of
Speaker:mainstream mentions of Mike controlling your dreams and stuff like
Speaker:that. But, one of our favorite bands, Wendy,
Speaker:also did that. That's one of everybody's favorites, and that's
Speaker:Creed, which
Speaker:which, really made made radio better
Speaker:for years. Anyway, so I did not know
Speaker:this until I was looking up and doing research on that. And this is a
Speaker:song I've heard a 1000000 times because I owned it, you know, I owned a
Speaker:radio in 1999, But the song, you know,
Speaker:can you take me higher?
Speaker:Is is about Scott Stapp and his lucid dreams.
Speaker:No. I didn't I did not know that. Yeah. So Scott Scott Stapp's lucid
Speaker:dreams. He's got a he's got a hunger and a
Speaker:longing to escape the life he lives when he's awake.
Speaker:Yeah. The the place where blind men see and the place
Speaker:with golden streets is Scott's lucid dreams.
Speaker:That is really actually kinda cool. Yeah. You've given
Speaker:you've given that song a little redeeming factor. Yeah. There is
Speaker:no, like, there's no verse about what he dreams about which is making
Speaker:that sex tape with Kid Rock. That's where he goes back. That's his safe
Speaker:that's his safe place where he's strong enough.
Speaker:And that's the place where blind men see that night. Oh my gosh. But although
Speaker:I if I could make my earth and my
Speaker:dreams the same, the only difference is he'd let love replace all of
Speaker:our hate. Let's go there and let's make our escape. So,
Speaker:yeah. Higher is all about Scott Stapp controlling his dreams
Speaker:and dreaming happy thoughts about the world.
Speaker:Interesting. Alright. Well, there you go. That's not
Speaker:right. That makes me like that song more. Me too, actually.
Speaker:Yeah. Wait. Wait. And by more, I mean, a touch.
Speaker:At all? A snooch. Yes. At all. Yes.
Speaker:But no, so that I mean, so that's, that was, Mike, as
Speaker:ubiquitous as subtle lucidity was for, you know, a few
Speaker:years back in the day.
Speaker:And okay, so Franz Ferdinand has a song called Lucid
Speaker:Dreams, but that doesn't really, they kind of just they don't really delve into the
Speaker:topic of it or anything like Mike. But several movies do.
Speaker:Okay. When you talk about I mean the most the most famous recent one is
Speaker:Inception. Did you see Inception? I did. Yes.
Speaker:The top. The little spinning top. Yeah. And that was I
Speaker:mean, that was a great that was a great kind of movie. But that also
Speaker:combined lucid dreams with, like, everybody hanging out in their dreams.
Speaker:Mike, that where you could go into someone else's dream. That is pretty
Speaker:cool. And, so that's kinda
Speaker:Mike the the first movie I remember seeing about that kind of thing of
Speaker:controlling your dreams is a movie called Dreamscape.
Speaker:Okay. I don't think I've seen that one. It's it's with that Dennis Quaid when
Speaker:he was a hunk. So the whole idea behind Dreamscape
Speaker:is that if you if you die in your dream, you die in real life.
Speaker:So that's That's horrible. Yeah. Is that Mike the,
Speaker:how they kids in school used to always say, like, if you ever have a
Speaker:dream where you're falling down a long, like,
Speaker:pit or something. If you ever hit the bottom, then you're dead.
Speaker:Yeah. Or if you I mean, I used to think that too, probably because I
Speaker:saw it in Dreamscape because Oh, was that for that movie? Yeah.
Speaker:So it well, but in in dreams, I mean, I'd always watch
Speaker:other people die, but I never actually died. I would usually just be eaten or
Speaker:lose an arm or something like that when I'd have these nightmares. I would be
Speaker:about to Mike, and then I would never actually, like, be dead,
Speaker:and I would wake up as I was getting munched on.
Speaker:And in, in so in the movie though, if you if you
Speaker:die in any kind of way, then you have a heart attack and you seize
Speaker:up and you die in real Mike. And that's kinda thing. And so that's what
Speaker:people would tell Mike, you know, when you're little kids, they're like, you know what's
Speaker:gonna happen? If you fall off a building in a dream, if you hit the
Speaker:ground right. They say, if you hit the ground, you have a heart attack and
Speaker:you die. And you're Mike, that's a first of all, you're a jerk
Speaker:for trying to scare me like that. I mean, second of all, I
Speaker:did hit the I mean, a couple years later, I did hit the ground in
Speaker:a few dreams and I did not die. Yay. Yes. So that is great. So
Speaker:I fell off one time I fell off a cloud, I remember. One
Speaker:time I dumped out of a hot air balloon, and one time the side of
Speaker:a castle. And all the times I hit the ground and I did
Speaker:feel pain, and, like, my neck
Speaker:was broken or something like that.
Speaker:But I did not die. So fantastic. Yay.
Speaker:So Dreamscape, they they go into each other's dreams. Okay. And so the
Speaker:idea is that the the president's having nightmares of a nuclear holocaust
Speaker:all the time. So the president's having all these kind of nightmares and,
Speaker:somebody's tried to assassinate him. So assassinate him by
Speaker:going into his dream while he's having these nightmares and killing the
Speaker:president in his dream. So,
Speaker:the president's played by one of the guys from Escape from Witch Mountain, if you
Speaker:remember that movie. Not really. No. Psychic
Speaker:kids from the seventies. It's pretty sweet. It's pretty sweet.
Speaker:We might be talking about Escape from Witch Mountain on a different show.
Speaker:So Dreamscape was a good one that talked about people's, you know, lucid
Speaker:dreams, inception obviously. But the one that really
Speaker:got into it about lucidity
Speaker:was Nightmare on Elm Street Park. Absolutely.
Speaker:Yes. So, I mean, Freddy Krueger came
Speaker:about he came about in a dream from,
Speaker:Wes Craven, the director and the writer. And
Speaker:so Freddy did that. And by the time they hit the third
Speaker:movie, it's about a group of kids who are seeing a therapist, and
Speaker:they're all being attacked by Freddy. And the therapist is trying to get them to
Speaker:help them control their dreams so that they can fight back.
Speaker:Cool. And so they're the dream warriors and so they get these powers in their
Speaker:dreams, like he does whatever I mean obviously Frey's arms get long, his tongue is
Speaker:20 feet long, he gets a huge head, he, you know, he turns into your
Speaker:bed and swallows you whole. Like, all those kind of things that Freddy Krueger does
Speaker:because he's a real jerk. Yeah.
Speaker:And so the whole idea was if he can do those things inside your dreams,
Speaker:then you can do things that defend yourself. You know?
Speaker:So one, you know, become a superhero or a ninja
Speaker:or all these kind of things. And so that's kind of thing
Speaker:Nightmare on Elm Street 3 is the lucid dreams kinda
Speaker:that's the one that really gets into it. That's pretty cool. Yeah.
Speaker:And that's a that's a classic. I I
Speaker:don't really I mean, I don't know if it's a classic. When you go back
Speaker:and watch some of these movies now, like, I've seen dreamscape in the past 5
Speaker:years, and it's alright for what it is in the early eighties. I've seen
Speaker:Nightmare on Elm Street 3, and it's not quite as scary as it was. You
Speaker:know, Freddy Krueger's jokes kinda lose it after you know, it's 30
Speaker:years on. You're like, this is super corny.
Speaker:Right. But I'm in classic insofar as it's
Speaker:something that, you know, it's one of those movies that sticks with you
Speaker:after you see it as a child. Absolutely. No.
Speaker:Absolutely. And and and and children shouldn't be watching that
Speaker:movie. Right. Totally. That's like, wait till the parents go out for
Speaker:dinner and go to the video store and you know? Right.
Speaker:It's a guy with claws for fingers that slashes people up. A child
Speaker:molester that was burnt to death and comes back in your dreams. Oh, gosh. Okay.
Speaker:So they create a character, a child molester that comes back from the
Speaker:dead to haunt your dreams. That's terrifying. And it shows, like, oh, what does
Speaker:he he kills children? Yeah. And then he comes in your dreams even though he's
Speaker:dead. So you can't stop him. Oh my god. So if you're a little
Speaker:kid, that's Mike tell that's okay. All I'm saying
Speaker:is I think a lot of other people were interested in in lucid dreaming
Speaker:because of Nightmare on Elm Street. Like, I was interested because of Night of Living
Speaker:Dead. I see. Yeah. Totally. That makes
Speaker:sense. Maybe it helps some people. Yes. Maybe
Speaker:maybe Nightmare on L Street helps people. Freddy Krueger really got me
Speaker:through through some things. Hey. You know, I'm just saying it's possible.
Speaker:No. You're right. If if people I mean, especially with the the psychiatrist
Speaker:and stuff like Yes. No. And and they right. It
Speaker:makes therapy okay too. The technique. Right. You don't have to be embarrassed by
Speaker:therapy. Yeah. Okay. So I
Speaker:mean, lucid dreams are I mean, they're not really a
Speaker:paranormal thing, but I mean, the the use of
Speaker:your mind and stuff like that and and the dream world is I
Speaker:mean, some people do find, paranormal things in the dream
Speaker:world. And we'll talk Oh, yeah. Definitely. And and
Speaker:we'll talk about sometime. I mean, now we're talking about controlling your dreams, but some
Speaker:people have dreams where they see things in the future or see things where
Speaker:they thought they were in the past or they see aliens,
Speaker:abducting them. Yes. Wendy do you ever have a dream by
Speaker:abducted by an alien? I've had a lot of scary dreams. But, I mean,
Speaker:I'm just saying, you know, a lot of the alien abduction, like, theories
Speaker:and whatnot, sometimes they'll say, oh, the person was just dreaming.
Speaker:So were they or were they? Well, I'll tell you
Speaker:what. So, I woke up one time in a
Speaker:hypnagogic trance Mhmm. After I read
Speaker:the book communion. So I shouldn't be I shouldn't be exposed
Speaker:to these things. Like, it's the fact that I'm exposed to these things
Speaker:that Yeah. It's giving you nightmares, man. Right. It's totally giving me nightmares.
Speaker:And I sought it out. I know it's not my, you know, it's my fault.
Speaker:You know, it's not like, hey, I think that Whitley Strieber is horrible. Like, no,
Speaker:I saw an alien picture and I'm Mike, cool. And so I read the
Speaker:book and I was terrified. And so a few months later, I
Speaker:woke up and I saw little white faces around me, and I
Speaker:was frozen. Okay, but you know I was still half dreaming
Speaker:so then you know the white faces faded out after about 10 seconds, but the
Speaker:thing is it was that melding of I still had something going on
Speaker:in my visual what I Yeah. That's Mike in my visual cortex.
Speaker:I don't know. I think that would be a good topic maybe for another
Speaker:whole show because the the whole, like, waking up and being
Speaker:frozen and and seeing things and having them go in and out
Speaker:of your consciousness, I guess. Oh, yeah. Well, speaking of
Speaker:speaking of things going in and out, that's incubi and succubi right there.
Speaker:Like, that's that is something we can definitely
Speaker:definitely talk about. So, right, the dream world is exciting and it's
Speaker:fun. And, okay. A couple more things
Speaker:that I definitely wanna get to for the people that wanna do some lucid dreaming
Speaker:things. Oh. We are Wendy talked about the
Speaker:reality check. You gotta read, read a book, you know, read a sentence,
Speaker:read a sign, to, oh, you know,
Speaker:here's something I'm looking at a site on lucid dreaming and I'm just checking out
Speaker:to see if they have any new tips. Hold your nose and mouth
Speaker:shut and breathe. So Mike this, you
Speaker:know, grab breathe. But I can't if they're both shot. But you
Speaker:can in a dream. Oh.
Speaker:So in real life in real life, if you do that too much, you'll die.
Speaker:But You could you could breathe through your ears in your dream. That's what you're
Speaker:saying. You could breathe through what ifs. I have gills. You you have
Speaker:gills. Mirrors, does your reflection look normal in
Speaker:a mirror? If you look in a mirror, like, you know, and all of a
Speaker:sudden, like, sometimes I'll look in a mirror and my nose is like 9 inches
Speaker:long. And it's like, oh, no, Mike, my nose totally
Speaker:grew. You know, because what do they say that the nose never stop growing or
Speaker:whatever as you get older? That's right. Yeah. I'll be Mike, oh, no. I guess
Speaker:that's really true. It never stops growing. And so dreams have that weird
Speaker:kinda logic where all of a sudden you're like, obviously cows can
Speaker:talk. Mike, you've never talked to a cow before. And,
Speaker:you know, you just act like it's all normal as everything. Like, of course, I
Speaker:talked to him and what he said was Mike grass. His 3rd stomach
Speaker:hasn't had enough, and run. During a dream, if
Speaker:you run, you will feel like you are running in slow motion.
Speaker:Now that happens to me constantly. Whenever I try to run-in a dream, it feels
Speaker:like or try to shoot a gun or something like that. Like, and I've shot
Speaker:a gun and it's and I know how it feels and stuff, but nothing will
Speaker:happen. Mike, I tried shooting nothing will happen Mike, well, that's it for Mike.
Speaker:And then I try to run and I can't run. I'm like, oh, I'm
Speaker:done. So you Weird. You felt that? I mean No.
Speaker:It's just weird. I mean, I haven't,
Speaker:I haven't I haven't, like, tried that hard to to lucid dream, I guess.
Speaker:Okay. But I did have it happen once, like, crazily
Speaker:where I was I could fly. Nice. Like,
Speaker:just by thinking really hard, like, okay. I I just wanna fly. And I'd,
Speaker:like, put a certain thought in my mind, and all of a sudden, I would
Speaker:just start lifting up. And it was so cool. And I was,
Speaker:like, controlling myself, going different places, and, it
Speaker:you know, it's one of those dreams that really felt real. So when I woke
Speaker:up, I was quite disappointed that I couldn't Yeah. I'd be too.
Speaker:Fly. I I love it when you get flying dreams. That's the
Speaker:Mhmm. That's the best. So a lot of times when you realize you're dreaming,
Speaker:then this is one thing. So if you do the reality checks and and stuff,
Speaker:and you realize that you're gonna dream, that you're, you know, in a dream,
Speaker:sometimes your body wakes you up. One of the tips is, and
Speaker:I read this one a long time ago, start spinning around.
Speaker:So, start spinning your body around and it'll help you stay
Speaker:inside the dream. It'll help you not wake up. Wait. Wait. Spin, like,
Speaker:get out of bed and, like, spin around Mike it Inside your
Speaker:dream. Like, don't get up and spin and, like, wake up your partner like
Speaker:an a hole and be like, hey, spin around. Mike, no.
Speaker:So just spin around and inside the dream
Speaker:and, like, that change of focus, that change of concentration will help you
Speaker:stay inside the dream. Oh, okay. Because a lot of times you realize you're
Speaker:dreaming and like, oh, look at this shit I'm gonna do now. Like, I'm dreaming.
Speaker:Let's go crazy. And all of a sudden you're like, no, wait, hold on.
Speaker:Your body's like, hey, you're it's time to wake up now. So you
Speaker:start spinning around. Another thing that I found
Speaker:is that the most like, I get a lot of REM
Speaker:sleep, when I'm losing
Speaker:my religion. I was waiting for it. Hey. I was waiting for
Speaker:it. Hey. But a bunch. Right.
Speaker:So, no. But I get a lot of REM sleep in the in the last
Speaker:couple hours before I wake up. So if you if
Speaker:you try to wake up like an hour and a half before you normally do,
Speaker:and then fall back asleep, it'll be easier to realize you're
Speaker:dreaming. It'll be easier to have really vivid dreams.
Speaker:And so, just in that last couple hours, like, if you want a lucid
Speaker:dream, wake yourself up a little early, and then go back to sleep.
Speaker:And then kind of prepare for you're gonna get into a dream a lot faster
Speaker:than you do right when you go into the normal, like, you go to sleep
Speaker:and and then you're Mike, hey. I hope I have a lucid dream and then
Speaker:takes you, you know. Right. It's the whole night. Yes.
Speaker:So so that's that, for
Speaker:oh, and I've been told that if you're on the patch, if you're on the
Speaker:Nicoderm or whatever, that you have a lot of people who
Speaker:are on take the patch, they nicotine patches, they
Speaker:give crazy dreams. That I have also
Speaker:heard, but I I haven't heard anything about lucid dreaming. I've just heard about,
Speaker:like, wild, weird. You know? Yeah. But a lot a
Speaker:lot of times wild and weird dreams can lead you to realizing you're
Speaker:dreaming. And then Yeah. And then once you get that
Speaker:once you understand you're realizing you're dreaming, then you can try to take
Speaker:some kind of control over it. I suppose I suppose if you've if you've been
Speaker:training for that. Yeah. Well, my sister also was
Speaker:wanted to be a lucid dreamer. And so this isn't more recently. This
Speaker:is when we were little kids. But, so there's a guy named
Speaker:Steven Laberge, and he's the kinda guy that you read about for lucid
Speaker:dreaming. He's the guy he's got a lucid dreaming institute in Hawaii, Mike,
Speaker:he teaches Mike,
Speaker:why you don't have to pretend you're somewhere? Like, try, Like, why you don't have
Speaker:to pretend you're somewhere. Like, try try the
Speaker:Midwest in February. Like, I'm lucid dreaming about Hawaii.
Speaker:So, but he wrote a book exploring the world of lucid dreaming that really gets
Speaker:into it. And he also had a device that he sold
Speaker:called the NovaDreamer or the Dreamlight. And what that would do, it would
Speaker:you put it on your head when you go to sleep, right, because you put
Speaker:something on your head. And then it detects when you have REM sleep. Like, it
Speaker:detects when you Oh, cool. Rapid eye movements, and then it flashes a light at
Speaker:you. Like, nothing like a bright light. Like, hey. Like, the police. What's going on
Speaker:in there? It's like But a little bit of stimulus. It's like a red little
Speaker:bit of thing, and and so you kinda have that if you notice in your
Speaker:dream that you're seeing Mike a red light, that's your
Speaker:that's your reality check. And
Speaker:so, that I mean, they don't sell that anymore, but what they do have now
Speaker:is apps. Ah. So you can do it with something
Speaker:everyone can use. You can do it with apps. Now the app
Speaker:I've used is is a free one, And I haven't done too
Speaker:much with this, but, there's a guy named Richard Wiseman who's a really
Speaker:fun, interesting psychology,
Speaker:research science out of the UK. And so he's behind this one called
Speaker:Dream On. And this one's an iOS only one, but
Speaker:it has, it does the whole thing with triggers and it
Speaker:has soundscapes you can pick to to see if these things
Speaker:that you listen to in your dreams, I mean, affect
Speaker:your dreams. So if if you if you're listening to New York City, you know,
Speaker:they have a New York City soundscape. Do you dream about being in the city?
Speaker:You know? That's cool. If you have that. And so then they it's
Speaker:got a dream diary in it, and then they do experiments on it.
Speaker:Sweet. So it's a lot a lot of it is, and and there's
Speaker:little triggers in in the in the soundscapes that'll try to let you
Speaker:know that you're dreaming, let you know that you're sleeping. That is
Speaker:really cool. And it it monitors your sleep by a few,
Speaker:and there's other apps that do this for your health and stuff. But it monitors
Speaker:your sleep by telling you, like, what times of night that you're rolling around, what
Speaker:times of night that you're really into deep sleep and things like that.
Speaker:So So you don't have to put the phone on your eyes when you go
Speaker:to sleep? No. You don't. It's not like all it's not like all detects?
Speaker:No. It does, like, it does rapid I've if you if I could get my
Speaker:iPhone to detect rapid eye movement, that would you know, there's a lot of cool
Speaker:stuff you can do with it. So, but for,
Speaker:Android, there's one called Awoken.
Speaker:Awoken? Awoken is a lucid dreaming app. And it's the same thing. It's got the
Speaker:reality check reminders, but it it'll give you reality check reminders during the day.
Speaker:So it'll be Mike, you know, hey. Like, you get a push notification.
Speaker:Hey. I'm, I'm dreaming. You know, check on your
Speaker:dreaming. And so, and then it's got the dream journal
Speaker:and the triggers and stuff like Mike, you know, the same kind of thing. So
Speaker:awoken is the thing to check out if you're into Android. So, you
Speaker:know, and there's a couple Mike iOS apps, but I haven't tried them, but Awoken
Speaker:for Android and Dream On for iOS and then you
Speaker:can you can have a lucid dreaming adventure tonight. Cool. And we'll
Speaker:we'll put links in the show notes, and if anybody tries either of those
Speaker:and has anything to report, we'd be real curious. And I and I
Speaker:know we'll we'll come back to lucid dreams because maybe because if you guys have
Speaker:any lucid dreams, then send us let us know about it, and we'll talk about
Speaker:your lucid dream, and we'll talk about it. So we'll revisit this topic because we
Speaker:haven't even gotten to dream yoga and the Indian,
Speaker:mystical connections to lucid dreams because we could go on for a
Speaker:long time about it. So, anyway
Speaker:alright. Well, thanks for listening. And why don't we get to a little song? That
Speaker:sounds like a great idea. Alright. Here we go. Alright. Coming right
Speaker:up. Show notes for today's podcast are
Speaker:available online at othersidepodcast.com/2.
Speaker:Dreams can be a very scary place. And for today's sunspot
Speaker:song, we wanna take you to that land between
Speaker:sleeping and waking up. Here's our track,
Speaker:hypnogogic.
Speaker:I wake up in the night, still awake but
Speaker:paralyzed, and you are there hovering over
Speaker:me. I can't
Speaker:Thank you for listening to today's episode. You can find us
Speaker:online at othersidepodcast.com. Until next
Speaker:Mike. See you on the other side.