Summary:
In this deeply personal solo episode, I’m sharing the story of a door I almost didn’t walk through—and how saying yes to myself changed everything.
Back in 2021, after leaving my corporate career to be home with my family, I found myself in an unfamiliar space: no title, no company-sponsored development, and no clear roadmap for what came next. For the first time, I realized that if I wanted to grow, I had to stop waiting for an employer—or anyone else—to invest in me. I had to choose myself.
I take you behind the scenes of the moment I was invited into an $18,000 mastermind with no income coming in, the beliefs I had to confront about what was “possible for someone like me,” and why saying yes to the right room became one of the most transformational decisions of my life.
This episode is about permission, expansion, and the courage to invest in your own becoming.
If you’ve been standing at the edge of your next chapter, waiting for a sign—this is it.
🔑 Key Takeaways:
Stop Waiting for Permission
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that no one is coming to hand you permission to grow. At some point, you have to become the person who says, it’s time.
Audience follow-up → Where in your life are you still waiting for someone else to validate your next move?
You Can No Longer Outsource Your Growth
When I left corporate, I also left behind the systems that once supported my development. It forced me to realize that my growth was now fully my responsibility.
Audience follow-up → What part of your growth have you been expecting someone else to provide for you?
Investing in Yourself Creates Compound Returns
The $18K mastermind felt terrifying at the time, but the return wasn’t just financial—it was personal, emotional, relational, and deeply transformational. The right rooms expand who you believe you can become.
Audience follow-up → What investment in yourself could create long-term growth beyond immediate results?
Challenge the “People Like Us” Story
At Canyon Ranch, I came face-to-face with the stories I had inherited about what people like me do, deserve, or have access to. Saying yes required rewriting that narrative.
Audience follow-up → What identity story are you ready to release?
Expansion Happens Through Decision
So often, transformation begins the moment we decide—not when conditions are perfect, but when we trust ourselves enough to move.
Audience follow-up → What door is in front of you right now that you’re afraid to walk through?
✨ Reflection Prompts:
- Where have I been waiting for permission instead of deciding?
- What would change if I fully chose myself?
- What room, opportunity, or investment is calling me right now?
- What belief about “people like me” am I ready to outgrow?
🧠 Who This Episode Is For:
- Women leaders navigating a major life or career transition
- High-achieving women ready for their next level of growth
- Entrepreneurs learning to invest in themselves
- Anyone standing at the threshold of a bold decision
- Listeners craving permission to want more
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