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What Makes a Keynote Work: The Buzz Is the Business With Brian Miller
Episode 27717th June 2026 • Professional Speaking: Known. Booked. Paid. • John Ball | Speaker Coach for Paid Keynotes & Professional Positioning
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Magician-turned-keynote-speaker Brian Miller built a speaking career on the back of a TEDx talk that went viral in 2015, then watched that career dry up within eighteen months because charisma and entertainment weren't enough to make anyone act on what he'd said. In this episode, Brian and John dig into the real argument underneath most speaker training: is a keynote about how you deliver it, or what's actually in it? Brian's answer, and the thesis of his new book "The One Page Keynote," is that design beats delivery every time, and that the entertainment industry's instinct (be more charismatic, be funnier, be more captivating) is solving the wrong problem for most professional speakers.

The conversation covers what a keynote is actually for (hint: it's not the audience's experience in the room), why "the buzz is the business" is the only metric that matters to the people who write the cheques, how to build credible expertise without a PhD, why slides should be a last resort rather than a crutch, and why the most experienced experts are often the ones most paralysed by imposter syndrome.

Key takeaways:

  • A keynote's job is to shift perspective, not create lasting change. Real change needs repetition and reinforcement; a single talk from the front of the room can only move how someone thinks, which is the first domino.
  • Event planners judge success by one thing: are people still talking about your talk at the coffee break, in the Slack channel, on the Monday call. If they're not, it doesn't matter how entertaining you were.
  • Expertise doesn't require formal credentials. Brian built his on an unreasonable amount of obsessive attention to one niche topic, not a PhD.
  • The most credentialed, knowledgeable speakers are often the most riddled with imposter syndrome, because understanding the nuance and edge cases of your topic makes you aware of everything you could get wrong.
  • A talk should work with the power out and the slides gone. If it only works with the deck, the talk doesn't work.
  • You don't need to out-credential the most famous person in your field. You need a different angle on the same topic; one only you can offer.
  • Audiences don't care about your problem. Buyers booking and paying for keynotes care about theirs, and your talk has to speak to the problem they're already trying to solve, not the one you find interesting.

Get a copy of Brian's new book, The One Page Keynote, from all good booksellers, or even Amazon.

In the UK: https://amzn.to/4vRduAv

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To connect with Brian: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brianmillerspeaks

To work with Brian: https://www.clarityupconsulting.com/

CHAPTERS:

00:00 Charisma Isn’t Enough

02:02 Magician to Speaker Origin

04:35 Viral TEDx and Fast Fees

07:28 Why Rebookings Dried Up

09:59 Design Beats Delivery

15:14 No Boring Topics

17:26 Creating Memorable Moments

19:34 Props and Paintings Example

23:33 Tools Over Talent Tricks

25:39 PowerPoint and Slides Debate

25:50 Slides Without Power

26:34 When Slides Help

29:28 Defining A Keynote

31:03 Shift Perspective Goal

32:19 Buzz Is Business

34:34 Expertise Over Inspiration

38:44 Nuance And Edge Cases

42:48 Topic Angle Buyer Problem

47:27 Book Launch And Offer

50:43 Host Wrap And Next Steps

4. FAQ

Does charisma actually matter for professional keynote speakers?

According to Brian Miller, author of "The One Page Keynote," charisma is far less important to a keynote's success than the design of the talk itself. Miller argues that a well-designed talk delivered without much charisma will outperform a highly charismatic, entertaining talk with no clear message, because audiences who can't articulate what they learned won't talk about the speech afterwards or act on it.

What does "the buzz is the business" mean in professional speaking?

"The buzz is the business" is a phrase Brian Miller uses to describe how event planners actually judge whether a keynote succeeded. Miller has asked thousands of event planners what success looks like, and the near-universal answer is whether attendees are still talking about the talk during coffee breaks, in Slack channels, or in the following Monday's meeting. John Ball and Miller agree that if the audience leaves the talk in the room, the speech has failed, regardless of how well it was delivered.

Do you need a PhD or formal credentials to become a professional keynote speaker?

No. Brian Miller, who has a bachelor's degree in philosophy and no graduate qualifications, argues that expertise can be built by spending an unreasonable amount of time obsessing over a niche topic: reading everything available, talking to practitioners, and understanding the nuance and edge cases well enough to know when standard advice would be wrong for someone. Miller built his expertise in human connection this way after his 2015 TEDx talk went viral.

Should professional speakers use slides during a keynote?

Brian Miller's rule of thumb is that a keynote should work even if the slides disappear and the power goes out. Slides become genuinely useful for talks over twenty minutes, for very large audiences who can't stay engaged through proximity alone, and for explaining highly technical or visual concepts that are difficult to convey in words. Below twenty minutes, Miller generally advises against using slides at all.

How do speakers find their unique angle when someone more famous already covers their topic?

Brian Miller advises against trying to out-credential the most recognised name in your topic area. Instead, he recommends identifying the specific perspective only you can bring to that topic, drawn from your own background or experience, so that buyers aren't comparing you directly to that famous person but considering you for a genuinely different angle on the same subject.

Why do experienced experts often feel more imposter syndrome than beginners?

Brian Miller describes this as the inverse of the Dunning-Kruger effect: understanding a topic well enough to know its edge cases, exceptions, and the situations where standard advice doesn't apply makes experts acutely aware of everything that could go wrong, while beginners with shallow knowledge often feel falsely confident.

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Transcripts

John:

You could spend years building up your stage presence, your

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timing, working on your charisma.

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You may already have done that.

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Today's guest is going to tell you

that probably that's not what's

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gonna get you booked or rebooked.

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Here's the problem.

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Plenty of speakers can walk off stage

to great applause, great feedback forms,

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a standing ovation even, and never

hear from that booking client again.

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And nobody who was there can even

tell you what the talk was about.

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My guest today built an 11-year speaking

career on the back of one viral TEDx

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talk, then watched it nearly collapse

because charisma alone wasn't enough, and

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he's written a book about exactly why.

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Today, we're talking about why

design beats delivery, what the

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buzz is the business really means

for getting booked again, and how

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to build real expertise without a

single qualification to your name.

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Welcome to Professional Speaking, the show

for people who are serious about speaking

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and becoming known, booked, and paid.

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My name is John Ball, professional

speaking coach, keynote speaker,

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stand-up comedian, and sci-fi nerd.

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I'm here as your guide on the journey

to a successful speaking career

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It's very exciting for me to

welcome to The Professional

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Speaking Show, Brian Miller

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Brian Miller: John, how are you?

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Thanks so much for having me

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John: I'm delighted that you agreed

to my invite to come onto the show.

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And, I heard you on my friend Bob

Gentles' podcast, and I thought, "Oh,

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that's a very interesting conversation."

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And that made me straightaway

want to reach out to you and

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invite you to come on this show.

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one of the main reasons for that was you

talking about the importance of, or the

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lack of importance of the charisma for a

keynote, and how really it's more about

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having the speech than anything else.

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And I thought, "Well, this is somebody

I need to have a conversation with."

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And I know that this is to do with

your new book that's coming out,

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and we're gonna get to all of that.

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But first of all, I have to ask you,

As someone who's been a professional

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magician, how did you end up making

that journey to professional speaker?

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Brian Miller: Yeah, the journey from

magician to speaker was mostly luck,

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which is a terrible answer 'cause

it's not useful essentially to anyone.

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I fell backwards into it.

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in 2015, I had been a full-time

professional magician for the better

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part of a decade, and I-- the, within

the span of about three months, I got

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two speaking opportunities, and I had

never pursued speaking, never wanted to.

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In fact, I had a very

negative opinion of speakers.

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What I thought speakers

were, were just Tony Robbins.

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And with due respect to Tony

Robbins, it's just not my jam.

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I don't find it interesting or exciting.

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I find it just really a lot.

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and I often find that style

of speaking a lot of nothing.

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And, and so it does a

lot for a lot of people.

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It's not for me.

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So I thought that's what speaking

is, and so when I got an offer,

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though One, I got invited by a

local college prep high school.

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So it's a private high school

designed exclusively for college prep.

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You would think all high schools are for

college preparation, but this is like

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a dedicated college prep high school.

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And they were having their commencement

in a few months, and they apparently

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go to the community to find at

least one interesting person in

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the community to speak as part

of their commencement every year.

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And they found me and were like, "Well,

you've been a professional magician.

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You must have something interesting to say

to our graduating high school seniors."

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And it was incredibly kind of bizarre,

but they, but they really seemed excited

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about the idea of me speaking to their

students and families, so I said yes.

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I felt very fancy saying yes

to a commencement speech.

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I pa- It was-- I genuinely, actually,

I'm being a little silly about it, but

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the truth is, John, at that time when

they asked me that, I had a moment

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where I thought, "Oh, I made it.

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I didn't realize I made it."

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Like, I actually your, head's down

trying to just make enough money

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doing card tricks at restaurants and

local corporate events and all this.

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I was trying to put my wife through

her master's, and I was just so focused

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on trying, my then fiancée, I, I was

so focused on just trying to make

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it as a magician, I didn't really

clock that I had been successful.

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And when somebody invites you

to give a commencement speech,

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clearly you've been successful.

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And so it was actually this

beautiful external validation

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I didn't realize I needed.

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and right at the same time, I got

invited to speak at a local TEDx

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event being held at a high school,

a different high school also.

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and so both of them were the same month.

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And so in June of 2015, I delivered a

TEDx talk and a commencement speech.

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And when the TEDx talk hit

YouTube, it went just mega viral.

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It went impossible viral.

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It went like one of the 100 most

successful TED or TEDx talks of all

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time viral, at, at that time in 2015.

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And the commencement speech, I had

just-- I was flooded with just parents

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and students coming up to me for an

hour going, "God, what a great…

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This was so helpful.

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It's so great to hear.

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What a beautiful thing you said.

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It made me think of this."

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And so those two things happened

at the same time through nothing

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I tried to will into the universe,

and I was like, "Oh, maybe there's

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something else I can do with my life."

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And so I started pursuing speaking.

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John: I don't think anybody has the same

journey into speaking as anyone else.

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There's so many different ways to go

into it, but that's a, that's certainly

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a very nice way to come into it.

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And you're not, not, not the

first magician to kind of…

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Well, do, do mentalists

count as magicians?

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Brian Miller: Well, they would, they

would be very offended for you to say

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that, but they absolutely are magicians.

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John: Yeah, so we've had

like Keith Kong on the show.

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He's a pretty successful

well-known, mentalist.

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people did love that episode.

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And there's a lot, seems to be a

lot of parallels there as well that

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we got into on that conversation.

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For you, what, what do you now see as

maybe being the, the parallels between

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speaking and your magic career previously?

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Brian Miller: That's a great question.

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The parallels between speaking and

magic are far fewer than I originally

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expected when I made the transition.

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I quite expected it to

be an easy transition.

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I, I thought, "Okay, I know how to

entertain an audience for an hour.

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I can always do magic tricks or

tell jokes or have interaction

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if I need to, to fall back on.

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I've got a crutch here."

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So I thought, "Well, I really just need

to say something mildly interesting

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or useful, do some magic and tell

some funny stories, some audience

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interaction, and it's gonna go great."

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And it did not.

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it-- As I started getting booked--

And I started getting paid very

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high professional fees immediately.

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I did not ramp up because I had a

famous TED Talk, and so big, huge

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brands from across the world would

reach out to me, like big names would

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reach out and say, "Come do that,

but for an hour and on our stage."

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And they were paying

five, six, eight, $10,000.

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Now, th-those are very normal professional

speaker fees today, but one, as a

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magician, and two, in 2015, these

were absurd amounts of money to me.

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I mean, it was just crazy.

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And I felt this tremendous pressure to

over-deliver or even just to live up to.

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Forget over-deliver, to live

up to what they were paying me.

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I really felt like an imposter, and

the truth is, I was an imposter.

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I really didn't, I didn't have content

matter expertise, and they were

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treating me as if I was an expert

on human connection, 'cause it's

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what I talked about in my TEDx Talk.

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And I was like, "No, I have 14 minutes and

12 seconds to say about that," and I said

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it in the talk you've already watched.

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And so I started doing these talks by

basically just doing the 14 minutes

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worth of human connection content,

but spreading it out over an hour by

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shoving lots of entertainment into it.

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And what happened is all of

the charisma that I had did not

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make these successful speeches.

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My-- I was making people laugh.

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They were loving the magic.

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They enjoyed the audience

interaction, but at the end of these

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speeches, kind of a nothing burger.

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Nothing was really happening.

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The clients, it was fine.

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They were happy enough,

but no one rebooked me.

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Nobody referred me.

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And after about a year and a half

after the TED Talk, my career,

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my speaking career dried up.

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The initial burst of inquiries were gone,

and there were no, there's no momentum.

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And then I had nothing, and I actually had

to build a speaking career from scratch.

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And so your question of what are the

parallels, I kind of answered it in

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the negative, but I was expecting

to, that speaking was about charisma

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and entertainment and, and, and,

you know, captivating audiences.

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And actually, really great professional

speaking is about content and not

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delivery in the performance sense, but

it's about delivery of the message.

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Is there a clear message that the audience

can understand, they can follow, and

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they know what to do with when you leave

the room or when they leave the room?

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And that became the journey of my

speaking career, learning how to do that

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John: It's it's interesting, and I think

you might be one of the only guests I've

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ever invited onto my show who I knew

that I might not completely agree with

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on things before I brought you on, but

really wanted to have the conversation

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because we might, I don't know.

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But it ultimately is gonna

depend on some of the things.

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So are you…

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I mean, I would say that the

entertainment element is still

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relevant in speaking, it's just

not the most important part of it.

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Like, there still has to be some

entertainment factor, and it sounds

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a bit like you're saying maybe

there doesn't need to be that.

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Is, is that right or would that would

that just be the extreme of what, to

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take where, to what you were saying?

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Brian Miller: So here's my

position: if given the choice,

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choose design over delivery.

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In a perfect world, I would like to

listen to an incredibly charismatic,

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engaging, entertaining performer

deliver a masterfully built speech.

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It is rarely the choice

that speakers have.

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You tend to have one of two things:

somebody who comes from entertainment

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and has to find a message, or, like

I did, or somebody who is an expert,

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a, an academic, a scientist, a

researcher, an industry leader, someone

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who's an expert in their topic but

is now being asked or told to speak.

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And what happens is the experts who are

being told, "You have to speak because

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there's gonna be stakeholders in the

room, there's gonna be politicians who

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can fund our research," those people turn

down speaking opportunities because they

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think they're not entertaining enough.

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They don't think they have the

charisma to carry the room,

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and they're wrong, sort of.

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They're not wrong that

they're not charismatic.

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Most of them are incredibly dull,

boring people who are just geniuses.

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They're wrong that they can't

deliver a powerful, engaging,

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and important presentation that

moves the needle on their work

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simply because they lack charisma.

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On the other hand, the people that

come in like I did, that come in

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from entertainment, what I find is

when audiences watch them, they enjoy

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it, they laugh, they, quote-unquote,

"engage" in the most superficial

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sense, and they leave the room.

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And I do this at every conference.

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I ask people after one of those

people has spoken, "Hey, what

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did you take away from that?

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What was the big lesson?

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What was the learning?"

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Most people within minutes of

leaving one of those talks cannot

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give you an explicit answer.

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They say, "Oh, it was just so inspiring.

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It was so great.

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I just loved their energy."

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And, like, pardon me, but so what?

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Like, if you're not producing action, if

the audience isn't leaving knowing exactly

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what they should do, think, or rethink

as a result of your talk and putting

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it into practice, what are we doing?

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Like, so that's how I feel about it

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John: Maybe we don't disagree

too much then after all.

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I, I was, I was just recently

writing about, a speaker I once saw.

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he was-- like she'd been

speaking a long time.

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She was great on stage.

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Presence was there.

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The drama was there in her presentation.

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She delivered fantastically, and the

whole talk made not one lick of sense.

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Like I couldn't connect

the beginning to the end.

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And every- I was looking around thinking

everyone else in there is just nodding

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and going, "Oh, yeah, really great talk."

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And there was just one or two other people

who were looking a bit nonplussed, like,

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"What is she actually talking about?"

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And I to this day, I still have no idea

what that, what that talk was about.

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But, but I get what you're saying,

it's like all style and no substance.

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This is something that even Marcus

Aurelius talked about back in the day

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of like the sophists and, how it was

all performance and no, no substance

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to it, and he didn't like that

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Brian Miller: Yes.

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And so that my mission is essentially

for the people who have charisma,

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performance chops, whether they

come from entertainment or not.

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Some people don't come from

entertainment, but they just have

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that thing, whatever that is.

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it's teachable, sort of.

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You know, there's, there's

some natural element.

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There's quite a bit, teaching.

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Those people, what I want them to do is

go, "Imagine the impact that you could

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make on the world if you paired that

with a masterfully designed speech."

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Right?

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Like, what if we took-- What, what if

you designed a speech that actually

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made sense, that had a core message,

that moved the audience to action?

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Imagine how much easier your career

would be and how much better the impact

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you would make on the world would be.

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And on the other hand, my message to the

experts, which are mostly our clients.

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We mostly serve properly

credentialed experts who have to

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talk, not people who want to speak.

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and so my message to them is, "You do

not need to become a charismatic jump

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kicks, laughter, interaction performer

to make, to get your work into the hands

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of the people who need to hear it."

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Right?

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You can simply deliver the talk.

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If, if you design your talk

properly and simply do it,

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John: Yeah.

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Brian Miller: it will work

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John: I, I think this is all

something that took me way too long

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to realize in the speaking world.

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You know, I can, I can remember,

being back at speaker trainings

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with, with Julian Treasure, who

like we, we did training together.

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And like in, in the, in the

competition within one of the

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trainings, I beat out Julian.

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I'm thinking, "Wow, I beat out…

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Beat him out in the training."

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And then sort of look, but he's

massively more successful, than me.

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but he had the content

and I didn't have that.

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I had the performance skills, I

had the charisma, the presence,

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all that, but I didn't have the,

the other stuff that was missing.

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Like trained, corrected

that issue since then.

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But if you don't recognize that,

you, you can end up in this position

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like I did of thinking, "How come all

these people are so successful when

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I know that I'm a better speaker?"

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Brian Miller: Yes.

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And that, that is exactly

the thesis of the book.

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It is, it's not-- Basically,

it's not you, it's not the

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speaker, it's the speech, right?

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I, especially when, experts come up

sometimes, and I've had people say

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this, they come up and, there was a

financial advisor walked up to me after

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I had given my own keynote one time.

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and I speak on human connection.

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I have my own personal brand.

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I do corporate culture,

healthcare, stuff like that.

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And I had given a talk, and he

came up and he said, "Man, I wish

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I was as entertaining as you.

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I have to give talks on personal finance

to try to get people to understand

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why they should care more about

this and pay more attention to it."

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And he goes, "I just, you know,

finance is just so boring."

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And I just stared at him going-- I

thought for I thought, "First of all,

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you've made finance your life's work.

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Presumably, you don't think it's boring."

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He's like, "Well, no,

I find it fascinating."

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I'm like, "Okay, let's start there.

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of entertaining things.

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way to be entertaining.

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they will be entertained.

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I, I definitely agree with that.

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There's so many different ways

to do it, and everyone thinks

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you have to be this or the other.

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reinforced in the industry somewhat.

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go around about, you know, you need to

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be able to make your audience laugh if

you wanna get paid and stuff like that.

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but maybe no as well.

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let me ask you though, I mean,

you, I, I'm sure you would've come

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across, if not read, Dan and Chip

Heath's book, "The Power of Moments."

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Brian Miller: I don't actually

think I've read it, so give me

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the context that I would need

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So, ultimately that book is about

creating these powerful moments, these,

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Talk where he released the mosquitoes

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or, the, there's the one, I forget

the, lady's, full name, but, Dr.

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Jill something where she brought

out a live brain on the stage.

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moments within a presentation.

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Like a lot of people say that's essential,

and certainly that seems to be one of the

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things that they allude to in that book.

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that isn't quite so important after all

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Brian Miller: It's-- I, I wouldn't say

that bringing out a prop essentially is

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to support your point.

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in this new book I've got coming

out, at the very end of it, I've

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got a chapter on, like, all the

creative ways to support your points.

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support it with data.

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I have a whole chapter on data,

but I introduce the chapter on

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today's world, data is not enough.

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It's necessary, but not sufficient, right?

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It's not-- You know, I, had a line

that was cut from the book actually.

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like, two years' worth of edits

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what's actually in there anymore.

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cut where I basically introduced the

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chapter on data saying, "In a world

where everything's made up and the

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facts don't matter," which was, a

reference to Whose Line Is It Anyway?

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made up and the points don't matter.

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y- you know, facts don't move people.

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but they have an even smaller

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your points creatively.

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describing, there's so many ways to do it.

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it is with storytelling, right?

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We were talking before we started

recording about Francisco Mahfuz.

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He's a renowned storytelling specialist.

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He works with me and my clients,

which you did not know before

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you mentioned him, which was fun.

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so stories are real-life

examples that make a point.

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They can be funny.

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they can simply just paint

a picture in someone's head.

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but I love having props.

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I encourage lots of our clients to use

a physical prop on stage, and for most

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of them, it never even occurs to them.

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very-- it's something that Like,

it, it wakes the audience up when

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you introduce a prop, especially

uh, I have these moments where…

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worked on a bunch of years ago,

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one of my favorite ones we ever

worked on from uh, Peter Telefsted.

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communication specialist, but he

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Brian Miller: You know Peter?

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If you've followed him, he's

off doing in- incredible things.

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worked with him on his first

book and all these things.

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In Peter's TED Talk, which is on

forgiveness, he wanted to do a talk

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not on granting forgiveness, which

is what you always hear about, why

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it's useful to grant forgiveness.

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need to learn and practice the

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It was a very different way of

thinking about it, and it now has, you

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to me when we were working on it at one

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point, that, at the end of his forgiveness

journey, basically, his father had had

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two commissioned paintings done, like

physical paintings framed, done for him,

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and showed him and said, "Here, this

one, Peter, this one represents when you

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moving in a different direction.

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when you found yourself, when

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you came home, and you…"

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the photos of these paintings up

on the screen during my talk?"

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I said, "Probably, yes."

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you know, we have a, we have a

no slides rule unless absolutely

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I said to him, "But wait.

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incredibly valuable to you.

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They're one of a kind.

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How comfortable or not would you feel

actually bringing them to the TEDx event?"

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I, I could bring them."

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you and on the other side of you two

easels, each with a painting, but

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the audience won't know that 'cause

they'll have been covered completely,

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top to bottom, in a sleek black sheet.

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entire talk until you hit the conclusion.

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the first painting, you will take

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the sheet off of it and reveal it.

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and that moment of physically

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revealing the paintings on stage

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emotional, so much more engaging than

simply clicking them onto a slide.

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interaction, live polls,

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do any one of these things.

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right, the right thing to support

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your point at every moment

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Yeah, and I've got a, a client

right now who's, a professional

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saxophonist and, moving into speaking.

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that he doesn't want to do is

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play the sax on his keynote tours.

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He's like, he wants to get up and speak.

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It's like, absolutely you

do not have to do that.

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and ability doesn't mean you

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need to bring it into that.

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people who've brought in, like

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she spent probably about 10

minutes of her keynote playing

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piano, and it was kinda boring.

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Brian Miller: Well, so

that, there you go, right?

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what we're actually dancing

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around is not the question should

you play your saxophone or not.

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The question is, is there a moment

in this talk where the point, you

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would land the point better and more

memorably by playing the saxophone?

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So that is how I think through

the magic in my keynotes.

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When I'm on stage for an hour, there's

probably about eight total minutes of

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magic over the 60 minutes I'm on stage.

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are in there is not for entertainment.

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I don't need it.

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I do talks.

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I have a bunch of talks

I do with no magic.

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talk on human connection I've been

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booked for for the last 11 years

since the TED Talk, there are

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moments that I use a magic trick.

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But the question for me is never how can

I shove a magic trick into this keynote?

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It's always at this moment of

my talk, what element can I

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pull from to make this point?

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Sometimes it's straight teaching.

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You're just teaching.

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Other times, you're using a GIF

or a video to support something.

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Other times, I'm doing direct

audience interaction, a live

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poll, a stand and share.

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Sometimes I have an easel I'm

writing things down on physically

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on stage, and sometimes I

choose a magic trick or a story.

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saxophonist without knowing what his

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topic is or his content at all, missed

opportunity for not doing it at all.

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John: And look, he knows.

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ultimately it's up to him.

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that that becomes relevant at some point.

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but he, you know, I, I get what you're

saying, it's like kind of transitioning

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from one career into another is like

make, wanna make that transition.

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yeah, I mean, it, it's the same kind

of principle as when you're deciding

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what stories to use in your talk.

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You have to decide what stories make the

most sense and fit with what you're doing.

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But there's just this whole world of

other tools that can help you deliver,

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more effectively and make bigger

impacts or emphasize something in a

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way that's gonna make it more memorable

or more relevant to, to the audience.

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So I, I definitely

particularly appreciate that.

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It's given me something

to, to think about as well.

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When it comes to something like PowerPoint

though, I mean, not getting TED Talk

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short, you don't really want to have that.

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I know although I have

seen some that, that do.

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But what's your general

take on those anyway?

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I mean, I know some people tend to

rely on them, and I've always sort

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of advised clients, make your talk…

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but make your talk so that you

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can deliver it without them.

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But where, where would you sit with that?

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Brian Miller: It's what you just said.

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I mean, my, our rule of thumb is this:

if the talk doesn't work without your

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slides, the talk doesn't work, right?

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That the, the-- You should be able to

stand up in a room that lost power,

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there's no microphone, there's no slides.

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You should be able to be as effective

as a speaker with no supports.

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The me- the mess…

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And that's why we prioritize

design, design of the talk.

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The talk should work regardless

of the external conditions.

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And then if it works, slides are

just another tool like all those

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other ones we just talked about.

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they're most useful in talks

that are I would say talks

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that are over 20 minutes long.

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If you're speaking for less than 20

minutes, generally we will say to

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you, "No slides unless absolutely

necessary," and even then I'm

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gonna try to convince you not to.

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Like, that's, that's usually my line.

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And the times that it's

absolutely necessary is, for

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example, I have a scientist, Dr.

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Jacob Levenson, he worked-- he's

a marine biologist collaborating

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with NASA on the next generation

of animal tracking technology.

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It's very complex.

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And so we're already doing a lot of work

to help general audiences or politicians

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or science, you know, interested

individuals understand this work.

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But when he goes to explain a concept,

it's almost impossible to really convey

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it to a non-marine scientist without

putting up a simple diagram that just

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helps them orient themselves, like

visually when he's talking about time of

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arrival technology is the inverse of GPS.

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And here's-- it's like putting

arrows on the screen that

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show you the opposite of GPS.

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It's just very useful for people.

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over 20 minutes Slides become more

useful, and once you're in the 40

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plus, where you're doing like a paid

professional keynote, it's almost

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impossible not to use them in 2026.

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I would've answered

differently pre-pandemic.

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pre-pandemic, I had never used

a slide once in a one-hour

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speech in my entire career.

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I had never used slides at all.

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It was 100% me and the audience

for 60, 70, 80 minutes.

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and I was always asked to do

long keynotes, probably because

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I came from entertainment, so I

could, they figured I could do it.

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I never used slides.

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The virtual world and the pandemic

and the rapid, you know, AI, and

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all the other things that we know

about, they did noticeably change

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how people engage and how long they

can engage with only one medium.

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so slides, I think for longer

talks are necessary today.

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Not, there's certainly could do

it without it, but I think for

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most people, slides are necessary.

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Also, the larger the group, this

sounds-- I think this would sound

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weird to speakers, to, to people

who are not professional speakers.

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The larger the audience, the

more slides are necessary.

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Because if you have just 20 people

in front of you in a boardroom, you

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can, the, you can physically with

your energy, just being a human in

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close proximity, keep everyone's

attention for an hour if you need to.

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Once there's 1,000 or even like 200, the

people towards the back just have more

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opportunities to get distracted simply

'cause they're not up close to you.

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And so slides can just help

them stay focused, or when they

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do get distracted, click back

into the talk without losing it.

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So that, that's, those are

my thoughts around slides.

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John: I, I appreciate that.

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so, for a show that's about

professional speaking, it's weird

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that you're gonna be the first guest

I've ever asked this question to.

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but but it does, but it does very

much rely on the book that you've

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written that's coming out soon,

the, "The One Page Keynote."

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How would you define a keynote?

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What's its purpose, and what

what actually is a keynote?

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Brian Miller: It's a great question,

and I'm so glad that you asked.

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What is a keynote, and

what is its purpose?

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Yeah.

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It's funny that you said you've

never asked that once before on a

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show about professional speaking.

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I had never heard anybody ask this

question, which is why a few years ago

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I started running workshops on what is a

keynote speech and what's the difference

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between it and other types of speeches.

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So, the first thing that we should

be very clear about is I define a

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keynote as at least 20 minutes long.

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Now, this will shock … This will,

this will sound very If you go read the

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book, you will be, you will, you will

think I'm, I'm, contradicting myself

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here, 'cause every example in the

book is from a TED Talk we've worked

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on, which are all under 20 minutes.

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The reason the examples in the book are

from TED Talks is one, they're short

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enough that the reader of the book can go

watch them in its entirety and understand

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the system I'm teaching them, right?

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Because they're only

10 or 12 minutes long.

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And two, they are public,

they are available.

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Whereas most of the keynotes

we've worked on with people, they

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are not fully available for the

reader of a book to go watch.

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So, the reason the TED Talks are

in the book as examples is not

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because they're actually keynotes.

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They're not.

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Now, a keynote speech is at

least 20 minutes long, where the

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audience is fully focused on you.

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You are at the front of the

room, and you are there, you

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are there to teach, essentially.

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but more than teaching, you are there to

change people's perspective on something.

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The number one goal of a keynote

speech is to shift perspective.

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You will not create actual change.

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It's very unlikely that you can create

actual change during a keynote speech.

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From the front of the room, in

20 or 30 minutes, the likelihood

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you're gonna complete, you know,

create real change … Real change

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takes repetition and reinforcement.

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That's why we do workshops and

consulting, all this stuff.

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The main goal of a keynote speech

is to change how somebody thinks so

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that they can change what they do.

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People will not do something new

if you don't change how they think.

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And so, most keynotes

fail, just right away.

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They fail because they don't

change people's thinking at all.

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They're … Most keynotes, even really

enjoyable ones, are merely interesting.

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But people don't walk away thinking that,

or having a new set of beliefs, right?

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There's no actual paradigm

shift for them in their world.

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So, that's the first thing.

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But if you're a professional

speaker, if you're being paid,

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because again, I, I work with a

lot of people who are not paid.

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That's not why … They're

not professional speakers.

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They're experts who have to speak.

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If you're a paid professional speaker,

which is most of your audience, right?

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If not all of your audience wants

to be paid professional speakers.

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Do I have that right?

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John: Yes.

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I hope so, yeah.

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Brian Miller: So, right.

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Well, right, okay.

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So if the people listening are all

trying to get paid to speak, the

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actual question you have to ask is

not what does the audience need?

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It's what does the what

do the buyers need?

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And so if you…

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I've asked every event planner for

the last, you know, 11 years, so

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thousands of event planners, I've asked

them the same question, which is a

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version of, "What would success look

like to you when my speech is done?

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Like, what are you actually looking for?

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How are you going to track the success?

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How will you know if we've done the job?"

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And I'm telling you, nine

out of 10, if not 9.9

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out of 10 of them all

answer the exact same way.

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They say some version of, "I will know

your speech was successful if I hear

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people talking about it in the coffee

breaks, at the dinner, in the Slack

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channel, at the Monday morning meeting.

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If I hear people talking about it, your

speech was successful," which is why I use

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the phrase, "The buzz is the business."

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The business of professional speaking is

to get people talking about it, because

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if they're talking about it later, they

there's a higher chance they will actually

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do something with what you taught them.

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And if people don't know how

to talk about what you do, they

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will not talk about what you do.

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And as we said earlier, most speakers,

you get to the end, and no matter how

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entertaining they were, you have no

idea how to describe what you just saw

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apart from fun, interesting, engaging.

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And so that's the purpose of a keynote

speech if you're a professional speaker.

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It's to create buzz after

you've left the room

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John: It's, it's a,

it's a great definition.

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I, I just make me think what I always

say to, to my clients who I work with

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though, if your, if your audience leaves

the talk in the room, what was the point?

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Brian Miller: Exactly.

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Yeah, 100% agree

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John: very, very much with you there.

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Okay.

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So, so with that, your focus with the book

is very much on the content of the talk.

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What is the right way to go about

creating a keynote, especially when…

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Well, firstly, do you need to be an

expert in something to create that?

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And if, if you are,

what-- where do you start?

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Brian Miller: Yeah, so do you need to be

an expert to create that kind of a talk?

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That's, it's, that's a tough question.

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I, I will say All of the least

successful talks we have helped people

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build are the clients that we no

longer accept into working with us.

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We, we-- I am now at a point where we

turn down about 70, 60 or 70% of everybody

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who comes into our discovery calls.

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we're very curated, and it's because

every time I've ever worked with a

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motivational speaker, an inspirational

speaker, or a speaker whose entire

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speech is essentially, "I have a story

that's either tragic and I've overcome

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it," or, you know, "I, I, you know,

I ran, you know, seven marathons in

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seven days on seven continents, and

that's what I wanna talk about."

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anybody who's speaking because of either

just pure life experience, a unlucky,

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tragic story, or just they're just

such a motivational person, they just,

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people love having them on stage, we

don't work with those people anymore.

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And it's not because they

aren't capable of building great

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professional speaking careers.

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They absolutely are.

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They can get paid, make

a living, do their thing.

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They don't create change, though.

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They just don't.

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People after those speeches do not

do new things as a result, and that

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is why, and I heard you and, just

in the previous episode you had,

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John: Elliot

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Brian Miller: was

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John: Kay

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Brian Miller: Elliot, talking about that.

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I was so thrilled to hear Elliot

talking about that, saying,

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"You have to demonstrate an ROI.

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It's not 1987 anymore."

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Right?

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It, it's just you, you have to.

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You have to demonstrate that

there's a return on investment.

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If you are not actually an expert,

and I don't mean you have a PhD.

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:

There are lots of ways

to become an expert.

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:

I don't have a PhD.

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:

I have a bachelor's degree in

philosophy that I've never used, right?

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It's just, it was a tough

phone call home to Mom and Dad.

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"I'm gonna abandon my PhD in philosophy

to do card tricks for a living."

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:

so how did I become expert

in human connection?

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I don't have a PhD.

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I didn't go to grad school.

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I didn't build a-- I'm not an

organizational psychologist.

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Well, there's a different way to become

an expert, which is you've spent an

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unreasonable amount of time on an

incredibly niche subject more than

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anyone could possibly expect, right?

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I like, just by obsessing over that topic,

reading everything I could read, talking

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to anyone I could talk to, listening

to every podcast, interviewing people.

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Over years of doing that over

a topic that didn't even have

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a name when I started doing it.

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:

In 2015, human connection

was not a category.

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I kind of became the expert people thought

I was when they started booking me.

713

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But it was my effort to know more about

that topic, to understand it at a level

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that nobody else seemed to, and from a

different perspective than someone who

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was properly credentialed would have.

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They understand it from

their academic perspective.

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:

I understand it from a lifetime of

being a professional magician, right?

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:

So- I believe that you have to be an

expert in some way in the topic that

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you speak about to create real change.

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Because if you are not, then you

don't understand the nuance of what

721

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it takes someone to change their

behavior as well, well enough to

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actually make that behavior change

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John: Yeah.

724

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Brian Miller: I think it's

very hard to hear for people.

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:

It's not to say you shouldn't speak.

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:

Speak, go speak.

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:

You don't have to be an expert to speak

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:

John: I, I think it's really important

for, for people to get that as well

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:

because, imposter syndrome kicks

in even for people who have all

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the credentials, and it's like,

731

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Brian Miller: Mostly for people, more

often for people who have the credentials.

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It's

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John: the

734

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people who are least

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Brian Miller: effect.

736

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That's right, it's the inverse of

the Dunning-Kruger effect, right?

737

:

The Dunning-Kruger effect is

you have to be pretty smart to

738

:

know how dumb you are, right?

739

:

And so that when you know very little…

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When I first started talking about human

connection, I thought I was a genius.

741

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I knew a couple of things

from having been a magician.

742

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And the further you get into it and you

discover the nuance and the edge cases

743

:

and when good advice to most people

would be bad advice to somebody else.

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:

For example, one time I gave a speech,

went really well, everybody loved it,

745

:

feedback forms are great, but one very

shy person came up to me after the talk,

746

:

waited for everyone else to be gone, came

up and said, "I really enjoyed the speech.

747

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I learned a lot.

748

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Thank you.

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however, you recommended at one

point, you talked about eye contact

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for a while and how beneficial

that is to human connection."

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And, and they said, "That's clearly true.

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I, I know the, you know,

I've seen the data."

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They said, "However, I'm on the spectrum.

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I am not capable of making eye contact,

certainly not sustained eye contact.

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It's just not something I can do.

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It would be great if you mentioned that

when you talked about eye contact."

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:

And I apologized to them, said thank

you, and then kind of forgot about it.

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:

And then two months later,

I was giving a talk.

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It went great.

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:

Somebody came up to me.

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:

It was like deja vu.

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:

Same exact conversation.

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Said the exact same thing to

me, "I'm on the spectrum."

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And I went, "Once is a fluke.

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Twice is not."

766

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If two people summoned the, the courage

to walk up to me after I'd just got

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a standing ovation on that stage and

tell me something that made them feel

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:

a little uncomfortable, or they wished

I had said something different or

769

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explored a different aspect of this,

then there's probably dozens over the

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years that have felt like that and

never came up to me, maybe hundreds.

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:

So, I modified that.

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First I went and looked at the research,

talked to people who are on the spectrum.

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My wife is a therapist, so I'm

able to use her a lot to, like,

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help me understand some of that

world that I don't know about.

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:

And then after that, my speeches, when I

get to eye contact, there's an asterisk on

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:

the slide next to the word, and I say, I

say, "Eye contact," and I go, "Now, just

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:

everybody see the asterisk next to that?

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:

I'm coming back to that.

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Don't forget about it."

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And I talk about eye contact,

and then I come back to it.

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I go, "That asterisk, if you're

someone who is either on the spectrum

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or neurodivergent or doesn't feel

comfortable making eye contact or

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sustained eye contact, then instead of

E standing for eye contact," I clicked

784

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it, and it changes it to engage.

785

:

It goes, engage.

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:

Just think, stay engaged, right?

787

:

And that's, that's, that's more about

your energy than it is about your, eyes.

788

:

And people started coming up to

me in droves after speeches going,

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:

"Nobody has ever recognized us.

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Nobody has ever made that caveat."

791

:

And that's what being

an expert actually is.

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:

It's knowing the edge cases.

793

:

It's understanding the nuance and

making sure that while you do deliver,

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like assertively so that people can

take your advice and do something with

795

:

it, that you also recognize when that

advice would not be right for someone

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:

else and what they should do about it.

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:

John: Yeah.

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:

That's a great, a great point, and

great that you evolved and, and

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delivered something that actually

increased the audience, the audience's

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:

ability to be involved in that as

well, and to feel, to feel seen.

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:

I think what, one, one thing that…

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:

Well, I think just one thing to

just say for our, for our listener

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:

particularly is like you, you undoubtedly

have the credentials here as well.

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:

I've seen that you've recently

won like several Cicero Awards

805

:

for speech writing and stuff.

806

:

This isn't just all like, "Oh,

I'm telling you how to do this."

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:

It's like, no, you're, you're out

there showing people how it's done as

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:

well and being, and being recognized

for that, which is great, and the

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:

book's coming up pretty soon as well.

810

:

Now, I'm not gonna ask you to condense

that whole book into a couple of minutes.

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:

I'm sure that's not possible anyway.

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:

But where, as a starting point for

people who are looking to get paid

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:

for their keynote speaking, where

should they really begin in, in your

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:

estimation in creating a keynote?

815

:

Brian Miller: Yeah, where

should people begin?

816

:

So, I mean, the, the first place that

people should begin is if you're if

817

:

you're at the stage where you're dreaming

of being a speaker, so you're not an

818

:

someone who's already an expert on

the topic or has been asked to speak.

819

:

If you're just like, like, "I would

love to do that," then the first thing

820

:

you have to do is step way back from

this conversation we've been having,

821

:

'cause we're in the weeds of…

822

:

We're, we're multiple levels in.

823

:

What you need to do is step a

few levels back and go, "Okay.

824

:

One, which, which topics do I

feel qualified to talk about?"

825

:

And you don't have to have a PhD,

but you do need to be qualified.

826

:

Not, it, it just, it

shouldn't be merely anecdotal.

827

:

Like, if you just…

828

:

Like some people are like, "I

just, I feel like if more people

829

:

were nice to each other, like,

the workplace would be better."

830

:

I'm like, " That's probably true.

831

:

Can you back that up?"

832

:

And it's like if you can only point

to, like, famous books that have

833

:

already come out, the likelihood

you're gonna break into the speaking

834

:

market is very low, 'cause there's

already famous people talking about

835

:

that with the research and the data.

836

:

You need to have something

to bring forward.

837

:

But you start to go, "What am I

actually qualified to talk about?"

838

:

So that's your topic.

839

:

And then you're looking for

essentially your differentiator, or

840

:

you could say your perspective on it.

841

:

So you go, "This is the topic.

842

:

Now, what's the perspective that

I'm gonna bring that would make

843

:

it feel different from the most

famous person in this field?"

844

:

Because to be honest, I, I get booked

at the same kinds of events that

845

:

can also afford to book Brené Brown.

846

:

I'm not saying I get booked over her.

847

:

I'm saying I get booked by the same kind

of clients that could have hired her.

848

:

She's clearly more qualified

than me in many ways to talk

849

:

about, say, human connection.

850

:

why am I getting booked?

851

:

It's not that I'm competing with her.

852

:

I'm not competing with her at all.

853

:

It would never occur to people to debate

between her and me, because I'm coming

854

:

to human connection from the perspective

of what I learned as a magician.

855

:

She can't compete with me,

I don't compete with her.

856

:

We're just two different people

talking about the same topic.

857

:

So you have your topic, and then

what's your unique angle on it?

858

:

So you're looking for

a topic and an angle.

859

:

That's the first thing.

860

:

Start there, but then, and I've heard

you talk about this with folks plenty

861

:

of times, John, so this is gonna

be a little bit of repetition, but

862

:

it's probably useful for listeners.

863

:

You then must identify the problem

that you solve that the, not

864

:

the audience, that the buyer is

aware of and is trying to solve.

865

:

It doesn't matter if the audience

has this problem if the buyer

866

:

doesn't think it's a problem or if

the buyer isn't trying to solve it.

867

:

The person writing the check or

inviting people to speak, they

868

:

have to be aware of the problem and

they have to care about solving it.

869

:

There's lots of problems that

people have that no one has any

870

:

interest in actually solving.

871

:

Like, that's a huge mistake I see.

872

:

They're like, "Well, this is a problem."

873

:

I'm like, "Yes, but the person who

writes the checks doesn't care about it."

874

:

They're perfectly happy

leaving that problem alone.

875

:

Like, it's, you know, it's-- And I'll,

this will make that more concrete.

876

:

When I first started selling human

connection as a, as a speaker,

877

:

it was very hard because in 2015,

:

878

:

about connection in the workplace.

879

:

That they were I was pushing a

boulder up a hill like Sisyphus, man.

880

:

Nobody cared.

881

:

You know when they started booking me?

882

:

When I started talking about

attract and retain top talent,

883

:

generate sustainable repeat

business, eliminate costly turnover.

884

:

When I started talking about the

problems they actually have, and then

885

:

human connection was merely my way to

get them to that, and I have a take

886

:

on that from being a magician, that's

where my speaking career took off

887

:

John: Yeah.

888

:

Man, there's so, so many other questions

that could lead me into, I think we might

889

:

just have to try and get you back onto the

show again in the future to, But, but lots

890

:

of really good stuff here, and I, I…

891

:

It's been, been a very

enjoyable conversation.

892

:

I do think that just to, onto that

point, I think our the people who

893

:

listen to the show regularly will

have heard recently, and will hear

894

:

upcoming episodes as well, about how

the information speaking age is done.

895

:

It's like if you are an information

speaker, that's kind of over, and,

896

:

well, not kind of over, it is over.

897

:

So, so when I see people who are still

trying to make their speaking case

898

:

in, in that sort of way, it's like

you, you, like, it's like trying to

899

:

push a double-decker bus up a hill.

900

:

It's, You, you're not

901

:

gonna get very far.

902

:

It's probably gonna run you over.

903

:

So, so very, very important stuff that you

say there, and I, I can't wait to get my

904

:

hands on the book when it does come out.

905

:

Tell, tell us a bit more about that.

906

:

Tell about, the, when the book's

available and how best for people

907

:

to find out more about that.

908

:

Brian Miller: Yeah, thanks so much.

909

:

this was just a great conversation.

910

:

So the book is called "The One Page

Keynote: How to Design a Speech That

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:

Works Every Time, No Charisma Required."

912

:

That is the title of the book.

913

:

And the core thesis, as we discussed,

is design beats delivery every time.

914

:

If you have to choose, choose design.

915

:

And this book teaches you from start

to finish exactly how to design an

916

:

entire keynote speech from a blank page.

917

:

And once you understand the system,

the entire talk, whether it's 20

918

:

minutes or 60 minutes, can fit on

a single typed, printed piece of

919

:

paper if you needed an outline.

920

:

Most people don't do that.

921

:

But you absolutely can.

922

:

You can do it.

923

:

You can put the whole 60-minute

thing there, and you'd be able

924

:

to walk up and deliver that talk

with no other notes if you had to.

925

:

the reason for this book is primarily

that I have shelves of books, I'm

926

:

sure you do out as well, on speaking.

927

:

Lots of excellent ones,

many more terrible ones.

928

:

Even the excellent ones don't do this.

929

:

In other words, there are many

excellent books on the business

930

:

of speaking, on storytelling, on

performance, on presence, on slides,

931

:

on there's so many books on those

topics, on how to be funny in speeches.

932

:

You cannot find a book that

teaches you how to build an entire

933

:

keynote speech from scratch.

934

:

Go to all the books on your shelf,

and you will find that at best they're

935

:

given a single in other words, the, the

writing of the speech is given a single

936

:

chapter in an entire book on speaking.

937

:

And I just think to myself every time

I see that, if you're on stage for 30

938

:

minutes, and you talk at the average 150

words a minute, you will say 4,500 words

939

:

while you were on stage in 30 minutes.

940

:

And you're telling me that in this entire

400-page book on speaking, there's only

941

:

been 15 pages dedicated to the words

you're gonna say while you're on stage?

942

:

This is crazy.

943

:

So I wrote the book to solve that problem

944

:

John: Well, it's, it's much anticipated,

and for our listener who'd maybe like

945

:

to just find out more about you, what's

the best way for them to do that?

946

:

Brian Miller: Right.

947

:

So best way actually right now,

it-- the book's coming out May

948

:

27th, just in, just in a few weeks

from the time we're recording this.

949

:

If you go to keynotedesignbook.com,

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:

keynotedesignbook.com,

951

:

you can, just jump on the wait list,

and I'm just hoping that folks will…

952

:

It will be $1 on launch

day, the digital copy.

953

:

If you can buy it on launch day, if you're

interested, there's your $1 version.

954

:

Everybody who buys it on launch day

will actually also get access to a,

955

:

full free half-day virtual intensive

on how to build your keynote speeches.

956

:

I will personally be leading,

if you buy it on launch day.

957

:

And you can find me by just looking

up Brian Miller speaker, Brian Miller

958

:

consultant, Brian Miller connection, Brian

Miller magician, anywhere on the internet.

959

:

John: Awesome.

960

:

Well, I'm happy to say I am on that wait

list, and I'm very much looking forward

961

:

to getting my hands on that as well.

962

:

Bryan, this has been a

fantastic conversation.

963

:

I'm so glad you agreed to come on the

show and, I look forward to having

964

:

another conversation with you at some

point in the future 'cause I know

965

:

there's much more we could go into.

966

:

But, to wrap this up for today,

thank you for coming on "The

967

:

Professional Speaking Podcast."

968

:

Brian Miller: Thanks so much for having me

969

:

John: Now, I don't know about you,

but I'm almost a little disappointed

970

:

that Brian and I didn't have a

bit more disagreement about the

971

:

importance of delivery and charisma,

stage presence in terms of keynotes.

972

:

So I mostly agree that if you have

to make the choice between design

973

:

and delivery, if that's a real choice

for you, design matters more than

974

:

delivery if you don't have any of those

other skills to bring to the table.

975

:

Where I might differ somewhat

really is that it shouldn't ever

976

:

really be the case that your keynote

could be delivered by anyone.

977

:

I think there has to be an essence of

you in there for it to be the kind of

978

:

keynote that can connect with people.

979

:

I have bought and read Brian's book since

this episode was recorded, and I have to

980

:

say there's lots of great stuff in there.

981

:

It is absolutely worth getting

yourself a copy of that.

982

:

sadly the sale price is no

longer available, so it is

983

:

now available at full price.

984

:

But I think it's highly

worthwhile, and completely

985

:

recommend getting yourself a copy.

986

:

I do plan to do an episode review

of Brian's book as well to go into

987

:

some more of my thoughts about it,

and perhaps some of the areas where

988

:

we do differ in our thinking on this

as well as what I found particularly

989

:

valuable and helpful from the book.

990

:

Now, I would say that if you are planning

to do twenty, thirty-minute talks as

991

:

part of your offering, then that is a

great structure for you to implement

992

:

and use and follow some of those TEDx

guidance elements that work so well

993

:

and have won Brian and his speakers

several Cicero Awards just this year.

994

:

So my plan for the next episode is to

dive a little more into what a keynote

995

:

is, what keynote speaking really is all

about, and whether keynote speaking is

996

:

the right career for you and what elements

of that you might want to look at.

997

:

I want for you to be able to know

if you're just coming into this or

998

:

considering speaking as a business

or career for yourself, what you

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:

would actually be getting into.

:

00:52:52,515 --> 00:52:57,145

And if you hadn't previously thought

that this could be an actual career

:

00:52:57,145 --> 00:53:00,845

and business for you, then definitely

you and I should have a chat.

:

00:53:01,015 --> 00:53:04,165

You can get in touch with me from all

the details in the show notes, as well

:

00:53:04,165 --> 00:53:07,385

as finding all of Brian's information

and the link to buy the book there.

:

00:53:07,815 --> 00:53:10,415

And I hope that you will

come and join me next time.

:

00:53:10,425 --> 00:53:13,285

Do keep an eye on some of my

social media stuff right now.

:

00:53:13,285 --> 00:53:16,995

I'm putting out a lot of content

around speaking and growing speaker

:

00:53:16,995 --> 00:53:19,375

businesses that you won't want to miss.

:

00:53:19,675 --> 00:53:21,675

I look forward to seeing

you on the next episode.

:

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In the meantime, go and do

something worth speaking about.

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