“If I deeply loved myself, would I allow this in my life?” This is one of the first questions we explore in Master Coach Training, and it sits at the heart of life mastery. All of us have experienced allowing situations, relationship dynamics, and commitments to seep into our lives in ways that disrupt our peace and well-being. In this episode, we’re slowing down to consider this question in the context of your relationship dynamics, your schedule, your energy, and the patterns you may be tolerating.

You’re here because you want a better quality of life—because you want to feel authentic, grounded, and alive. If that’s true, then this question is worth asking. It isn’t about perfection or unrealistic expectations, but understanding how we often allow things to continue simply because we don’t realize we have more choice. When you recognize that you can love yourself enough to choose differently when it comes to the things that are causing you stress and overwhelm, everything shifts.

You may feel stuck, obligated, or unsure where to begin, but you have more choice in what you continue to allow in your life than you realize. You are more empowered to change your life when you let go of self-judgment and expectations and step into greater awareness, self-compassion, and an understanding of how your nervous system, beliefs, and habits work together.

Life is messy. It rarely unfolds the way we once imagined. Yet, you still have the capacity to curate an amazing life. Life mastery isn’t about perfection or checking boxes—it’s about consciously choosing what belongs in your life and setting boundaries around what doesn’t. More peace is possible for you, and it begins with remembering that you have more choice than you think. Let’s get started!

What you’ll learn:

1. How to remove judgment and create space for curiosity as you evaluate what you’re allowing into your life
2. How to examine your relationship dynamics without blame or unrealistic expectations
3. Why you have more choice than you realize when it comes to your boundaries
4. Why shifting your thoughts about your life often requires deeper nervous system and emotional work
5. How asking “If I deeply loved myself…” is an invitation to self-compassion rather than self-criticism

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