Welcome to the first episode of our brand new podcast! We’ve learned a lot about our podcasting journey over the past few years, and what we’re really good at. So let us reintroduce ourselves. We are Matt & Dynae, a couple of elder millennials just trying to navigate (gasp!) midlife. From how we manage a 20+ year relationship starting as high school sweethearts, parenting teens when we barely feel like adults ourselves, to the absolute crazy train that is life now. Come follow along as we do this thing with a relatable take on life, love, and relationships, always with a healthy dose of humor.
In this episode, we also introduce how we parent teens and how we've had to approach it entirely different than we did when our kids were younger.
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Welcome to the Happily Ever Laughter podcast.
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:Dynae: A positive space where we try to
find the humor in the craziness of life.
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:Matt: Because life is crazy.
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:Dynae: That's for sure.
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:Matt: I'm Matt.
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:Dynae: And I'm Dynae.
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:Matt: And now on with the show.
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:I haven't taken my
medication this morning.
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:Dynae: You should have.
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:Matt: Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the
first ever Happily Ever Laughter podcast.
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:I'm matt.
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:Dynae: And I'm Dynae.
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:Matt: Welcome.
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:Dynae: Welcome everyone.
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:We're excited to be here.
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:Matt: Indeed.
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:Dynae: What are we gonna talk about?
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:Matt: I don't know.
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:We're gonna talk about this new podcast
endeavor that we're probably going to
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:expand this journey of our horizons.
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:Dynae: Yeah.
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:Well, that was a weird way to put
it, but, , this is actually our, uh,
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:Matt: I haven't taken my medication
this morning, so there's a lot of
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:stuff happening in my brain right now.
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:Dynae: Just so you know, anyone
that has not listened to us in the
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:past, because this is actually our
third endeavor in doing a podcast.
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:Matt: We should probably start with that.
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:Dynae: Yeah, so...
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:Matt: And that's part of the
ADHD you're talking about.
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:I have ADHD.
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:Dynae: And that explains
everything that's happened so far.
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:Matt: Yes.
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:let's journey to the beginning.
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:Okay, so this is our third podcast that
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:we've...
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:Dynae: Technically, yeah.
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:Matt: Technically.
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:Dynae: It's been the third iteration.
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:Matt: That's true.
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:So we basically started our
first ever podcast, which was
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:called Couple Thoughts Podcast.
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:And Dynae and I are both self
employed small business owners.
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:Dynae: Creatives.
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:Matt: Creatives.
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:So I'm an entertainer for a living.
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:I travel around, do comedy and music
and, you know, like normal people.
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:Dynae: Yeah, and I'm a photographer
and graphic designer, so work at
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:home a lot and do a lot of that
kind of creative work for me.
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:Matt: Yeah, so basically the
first iteration of our podcast
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:was us trying to give advice to
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:Dynae: Well, it happened during the
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:Matt: For sure.
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:Yes.
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:Dynae: Because we were literally
locked down, could not work.
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:Cause we're non essential workers.
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:And so we needed a, we needed a
creative outlet to do just stay sane.
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:So that's what we started with.
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:Matt: Well, and I bought both
of these microphones we're using
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:because during lockdown, I wasn't
able to travel and perform.
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:And so I wanted to start trying
to get into voiceover work because
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:I've always kind of had, I've
always had that radio voice.
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:Dynae: Yeah.
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:Matt: So I was like, well,
let me just jump into that.
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:So I bought some microphones.
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:. You already had a bunch of
stuff for your photography.
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:Dynae: Yeah.
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:Matt: So it was like, we
already have the capability, why
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:don't we just start a podcast?
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:We're both relatively
entertaining to listen to.
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:Dynae: Hopefully.
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:Matt: Hopefully.
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:Dynae: If you've made it this far.
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:Matt: If anybody has made it 38
seconds into this podcast, welcome.
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:Dynae: Woohoo!
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:Matt: But yeah, so we were like,
well, let's start a podcast.
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:So we started that one.
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:That one was all about.
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:Self employment.
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:Yeah.
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:And trying to help small businesses
go through the struggles that
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:you and I went through at the
beginning of our companies and how
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:we kind of persevered through that.
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:So we wanted to help people.
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:And then we realized that wasn't
as fun because we could never
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:talk about movies or pop culture.
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:Or any other stuff?
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:Dynae: Really?
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:Anything interesting
after a certain point?
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:Matt: Cause who wants to listen to
you talk about your business all day?
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:Dynae: I mean, no offense.
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:There are some very, very good and popular
business podcasts out there for sure.
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:Matt: Yes.
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:Dynae: We just figured as we were
working on this, we were like, okay,
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:that's not really our personalities.
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:I mean, we do have a lot
of good advice and we'll.
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:Pepper it in here and there.
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:Matt: Ooh.
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:Dynae: Pepper it in.
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:Matt: Delicious.
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:Dynae: Get a little spice going.
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:It was more just like, you know, after a
while, there's nothing else to talk about.
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:You've already hit all
of the basic things.
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:And then it's just like, okay,
well, what else can we talk about?
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:We're also entering our
forties and have teenagers now.
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:And so we've got three kids
and , well, we should, we do like
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:more parenting kind of content.
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:Matt: That was before the first one.
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:We are now both into our forties.
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:Dynae: Yeah.
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:That's true.
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:Yeah...
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:boo
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:Matt: So basically a couple thoughts
then turned into Self Made Misfits
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:because where we live, , we kind of
feel like we don't certainly fit in.
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:There's a lot of whether it be political
differences or all kinds of just different
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:stuff that we have, you know what I mean?
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:Like we just felt like we didn't belong.
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:Kind of in our area.
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:And then we had a lot of other
things happening, which we
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:might get into in this podcast,
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:Dynae: Which we will, I believe
that was kind of the evolution
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:of how everything's been going.
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:, because at first you're like, well, we
want to keep things you know, certain
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:things in our life private and probably
should remain that way but at the other
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:time there is a lot of stuff that we've
been going through personally that I think
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:Is helpful To the greater conversations
that are happening in the world today
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:Matt: That is true.
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:Dynae: And so while we don't want to
get our podcast name is Happily Ever
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:Laughter we have a healthy dose of
comedy and humor going on in here because
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:you're literally a comedian for a living
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:Matt: well, and that's my trauma
response is anytime something
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:goes wrong or something is rough.
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:I tend to be like, I'm going to
do something funny because I want
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:Dynae: Yeah.
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:Matt: Lighten the mood.
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:Dynae: And so while there's that,
we also want to talk about the
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:real stuff and let's just say
shit that has been going on.
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:Matt: Oh my goodness.
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:Dynae: Yeah.
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:I threw it out there.
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:This isn't going to be
like a mostly PG 13.
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:Matt: I was going to say, we didn't
say any swear words in our first two
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:iterations and you were right off the bat.
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:Dynae: Yes, we did.
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:You had to put explicit on
the last one a few times.
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:Matt: What?
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:Dynae: Yep.
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:Matt: Okay.
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:I see how it is.
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:Dynae: So while we do take a humorous
approach to life in general, I mean,
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:that's, I feel like go back even further.
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:We're high school sweethearts.
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:Matt: Yep.
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:Dynae: We met when we were 15, 16.
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:I
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:Matt: was 15.
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:I think you were 16.
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:Dynae: Yep.
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:And we were friends for a little
while and then just started dating and
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:we've been together ever since that.
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:So this has been a like, what?
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:I was calculating it up, 25 years
we've been a couple, something like...
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:Matt: you remember when we met
each other in high school...
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:Dynae: Anyway, we're coming up,
this next year will be our 20th
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:year married, which is just like
mind blowing to me a little bit.
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:Matt: Is it?
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:Dynae: Yes.
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:Matt: Oh.
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:Dynae: So there is definitely the
relationship component of like, , people
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:always ask us, how did we make it?
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:, what makes a good relationship last?
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:Matt: Hmm.
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:Dynae: So we can talk about a
lot of stuff like that, about
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:like how we navigate stuff.
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:Matt: Yeah.
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:Dynae: You know, and deal with everything.
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:The biggest thing is that we're
just partners and friends.
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:We love certain things and we're
on the same page about certain
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:things and that certainly helps
our relationship in general.
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:Matt: Correct.
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:. So that's basically why we've
decided to do this third iteration
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:of Happily Ever Laughter because now
we can talk about whatever we want.
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:Dynae: Don't feel like we're boxed in.
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:Matt: Yeah, for sure.
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:Dynae: It's one of those things.
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:There's so many different topics that
we'd like to talk about, which is like
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:movie reviews, but also the real in depth
stuff and like mental health and things
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:that we've been going through in our
personal life that is tough and relatable.
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:And I feel like there's just
a lot of people that could use
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:that support out there too.
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:Matt: Yeah.
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:And because we've gone through a lot
of different stuff with us or with the
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:kids or going through therapy or some
of these things that we feel like.
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:Man, this has really strengthened
a lot of family dynamics, the
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:way we interact with the kids.
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:You know, there's kind of that no handbook
that they ever give you when you become a
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:parent to be like, Hey, this can happen.
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:And then this can happen.
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:And then how do you handle it?
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:Dynae: And we have been
thrown some curve balls.
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:So it's definitely not a one size fits
all when it comes to parenting and
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:everybody's different and everybody
has different life experiences.
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:But I feel like at the same time,
we can all learn from each other
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:and help each other through the hard
times when you realize that you're
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:not the only one going through it.
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:Matt: Correct.
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:And I've actually had family members and
, , well, I should go into what I do too.
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:I was headlining.
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:on a Disney cruise.
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:Me and my buddy have a show
called Buckets N Boards.
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:Dynae: There's a lot of people that
are probably listening that kind of
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:already know this, but obviously for
new listeners, for people who have never
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:heard of us and know what we're all
about, that's what you do as your day job.
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:Matt: Well, and the reason I brought
that up, I will go into Buckets N Boards
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:here in a second, but one of my friends
who is sign language interpreter on
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:the ship, Was asking me what are you
guys gonna start your podcast back?
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:Dynae: Oh, cool
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:Matt: so I already had somebody
within this last week going Hey,
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:when is your podcast coming back?
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:Cuz I really miss listening to you guys
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:Dynae: and honestly It's taken us a song
because life just got in the way life,
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:Matt: life is life
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:Dynae: and we got a lot busy The kids got
busy and you know how it is When you're
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:a parent or just in general, , with
job changes or anything that happens,
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:we were building our whole recording
studio in the basement of our house.
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:Matt: So we're sitting in an
area right now where our oldest
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:Camryn and I do a YouTube . It's
called Matt and Camryn react.
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:Dynae: You have a channel.
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:Matt: A YouTube channel.
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:So it's all heavy metal
reactions for the most part.
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:And so we were trying to set that
up and then I travel so much for
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:work, so I'm editing those videos.
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:I'm doing my own graphics
for the business.
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:, Dynae's going to kind of take
over a little bit on the podcast,
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:I'm going to teach her how to edit all
of these , so it should be really fun.
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:Dynae: We like to learn new things.
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:Matt: Yeah.
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:Like, I'm always interested in, , what
is something new that I can learn?
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:I recently, six months ago, bought a...
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:3 D printer.
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:That's the most fun I've
ever had in my life.
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:Dynae: By the way, if there's a person
in your life that has ADHD, that's
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:probably the best thing you could
ever buy them is something like that.
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I have a new project I can do.
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:Matt: Well and the cool thing is
if there's something in your house
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:you're missing and you're going,
man, I wish I had a part for this.
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:Guess what?
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:Dynae: You can make it.
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:Matt: I can just go design it
and print it in my own house.
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:Dynae: The amount of time since
he's gotten this thing, he's come
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:to bed at night being like, I just
can't believe what I just did.
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:Matt: So if you have an ADHD person
that needs to feel amazed with
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:Dynae: It'll, , return its
investment , quite thoroughly for you.
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:Matt: For sure.
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:So we were talking about Buckets N Boards.
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:I was talking about the Disney Cruise.
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:For those of you who are joining
us once again, if you ever
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:listen to Couple Thoughts or
Self Made Misfits, welcome back.
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:We are super excited
to have you guys again.
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:But I am a professional entertainer.
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:So I'm a comedian, musician.
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:My show is called Buckets N
Boards Comedy Percussion Show.
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:And my buddy and I, it's a two
man comedy show, all based around
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16 years doing our show.
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touring around the United States.
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:We've headlined for Disney
Cruise Lines for about 12 years.
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headline entertainers.
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:It's just been a crazy journey that I get
to professionally goof off and get paid.
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:One of our main numbers in our show,
we play recorders like you do when
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:you're in school, but we play them
out of both nostrils while beatboxing.
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:Dynae: And there's videos online
if you want to go check that out.
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:Matt: True story.
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:Dynae: It is so funny when we
try to explain to people what
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:What generation are you from?
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:Because, , if you're older, then you might
recognize the name Smothers brothers.
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:Matt: And that was a big inspiration
in what we started the show with.
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:Smothers Brothers vibe where
they're always kind of, uh,
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with each other to messing with the crowd
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:Dynae: And then also like
if you're our age, you might
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:Matt: or Tenacious D
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:Dynae: Tenacious D that kind of vibe
back and forth on each other where
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:it's musical, but also comedies,
you know, throughout the whole show.
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:Matt: One of our social media
pages says, Tap and Percussion
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:Duo of Unparalleled Duo-ness.
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:Dynae: It's just really funny, but
it's one of those things, you know,
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and Gareth, your business partner
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:You went to school for it, . And you met.
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wanted to create something.
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:We were starting to have kids about the
time that you guys all met and you wanted
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:to create something that was family
friendly, but also our kind of humor.
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our area that was like that.
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:I was like, what would our kids
want to watch and sit through?
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:Matt: That was literally the
way we created the show was
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:going, what would I want to see?
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:And what would my kids think is funny?
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:So our show is like a live action
Shrek movie in a way where....
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:The kids are loving it, there's
lights, there's glow in the
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:But every once in a while, Gareth and
I throw in these little jokes that
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:just go over their heads that are
specifically right to the parents.
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:Dynae: Yeah, that's super fun.
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:So, , you could go to their
website, bucketsnboards.com.
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:We can put that in the show
notes , and you can check out some
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:of their demo videos if you want to.
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:Matt: Buckets, the letter N, Boards.
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:com.
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:Dynae: Honestly, it will help
explain a lot of what happens.
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:of while you're listening to us.
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:Matt: That's true.
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:Or you can go to our YouTube
channel and watch some videos and
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:Dynae: and then there's me on the other
side, which I'm the creative graphic
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:So now you can do it on your
own and all of that good stuff.
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gone and all that kind of stuff.
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:Matt: Oh, I have one more on here.
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:I should probably read through your notes.
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we're going to realize.
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the notes before the show.
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:Dynae: Though at the same time, I have
to give you an outline of some sort, or
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:Matt: That is very true.
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here, and I did kind of talk about it,
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page, it's just MatthewLevingston.
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that in the show notes.
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something that I've been doing
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:Dynae: Not that we're trying to pitch
everything we do here, but it explains...
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:Matt: that's what it is...
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:Dynae: All of the different things
and outlets that we have creatively,
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things you can be like, yep, That's
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:Matt: By the end of it, you'll go,
how many hobbies do these people have?
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:Dynae: Too many.
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:Matt: Indeed.
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:Dynae: And so we kind of talked about
that's where we're at with this whole
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for this whole podcast to begin with now
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:Matt: And I believe this
will be the FINA era.
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:Did I say FINA?
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:Dynae: You did.
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:Matt: This'll be the final era.
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:Final era.
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:Dynae: He also beatboxes
from time to time.
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:Sorry about that, guys.
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:Matt: So if you're in
your car, you're welcome.
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:Dynae: Mm hmm.
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:Matt: No, we're hoping
this is the last rendition.
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:Dynae: I feel like we finally
found our podcasting personality.
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:Matt: That's really what it was.
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:The first two podcasts were
to find out what we do best
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:Dynae: And what our listeners
wanted to hear out of us.
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:Matt: That's true.
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:Yeah, we did gain a pretty decent
fan base throughout those first two.
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:The unfortunate thing with this one
is we're going to have to wipe all the
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:Dynae: We might talk about some of the
same concepts and topics and stuff that we
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finding ourselves, I guess, so to speak.
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:Matt: Finding ourselves.
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:Dynae: it'll be interesting for us going
back even a year or two removed how things
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:Matt: It's true.
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:Dynae: Some of these topics I
was going back and looking at.
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definitely need to redo that.
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again and, you know, build on them.
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:Matt: Correct.
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:Dynae: It'll be interesting
for us too, guys.
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:Matt: Yeah, for sure.
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:Dynae: More than anything, I feel
like Our main goal is to just build
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:community, talking about all these
things, helping each other through these
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everybody else, but I know Matt and I,
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entered our 40s now, dun, dun, dun.
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and let's be honest, The world is
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if you're, on social media at all.
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that we've had from being high school
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15 and like how we've grown as a
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this now that we're entering midlife.
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and I feel like helping other people
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:try to navigate that and maybe our
opinions and things have changed quite
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:a bit on what have you I mean religion
politics life in general how we parent
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:Matt: Yeah
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:Dynae: You know we've evolved a lot
over the past few years and kind of
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feels like we're alone in it We're
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:like, are we in the twilight zone?
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:This can't be, we're not the only
people that are thinking these things.
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:Matt: So we kind of started the podcast
to put our own stuff into the universe
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stuff that you guys talk about And so
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relatable But also pepper in that humor
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:that like guys you can't get through
this life the way that it is without
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:that humor either Yeah, you know, we
want to spread that positivity We want
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:to have a good sense of humor about even
the bad stuff that happens while still
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:Matt: For sure.
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:So we want this to be a
community thing together.
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:So follow our social medias if you
haven't yet, because every podcast will
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spin if you guys throw us information
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a podcast about a haunted mansion.
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:Dynae: Well and that's
getting into the next step.
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some of the things that you're
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:Matt: Oh, did I jump ahead?
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:Dynae: Just a tiny bit, but it's like
one of those things like here's what
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from the jump It's gonna be all over the
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:So Matt what some of the things
that we love that we built on this
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:Matt: Well one thing that we are huge
in our family is we're big into movies
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:Dynae: And, and TV, , that kind of
thing now that there's streaming
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and stuff that's come out.
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of reviews that we end up doing
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Matt: That would be fun
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:Dynae: Because it's just fun for us.
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in between the heavy stuff.
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:Matt: But that's something we do really
big time as a family, like us and the
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nights because that's something we
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kids really enjoy that we really enjoy.
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:Dynae: Yeah.
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:It's kind of our family time.
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:A lot of that is.
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:, , spooky season is our favorite.
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right in the thick of it.
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:Matt: So starting right at Halloween
is kind of a perfect timing.
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be about Halloween movies.
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:Dynae: We're also, we've got
the three kids we mentioned
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a cat, that's why they like to try
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like being behind closed doors.
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:Matt: Correct.
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:Dynae: So that's always fun.
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:Matt: if you hear George, Fred,
or Katniss, those are the cat's
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Cora, those are the kids names.
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:Dynae: And it's difficult now that
we're old to keep them all straight.
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:Matt: But I just wanted to let you know,
so once we start yelling, You'll know
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:We are also huge Kansas City Chiefs fans.
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that was kind of still okay.
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and we won our first Super Bowl
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:Dynae: Yeah.
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:Matt: So we kind of talked
about that a little bit.
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:Now we're to the point of how I feel
about Patriots fans because they were
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we don't want to hear about it anymore.
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:Dynae: Yeah, we'll keep it to a minimum
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:Matt: at this point
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:Dynae: now It's hard with the
whole Taylor Travis stuff going on.
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:Matt: Oh, there's nothing I want
to talk about more than Taylor and
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:Travis And that's not being facetious.
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:Dynae: We are we're also
swifties a little bit
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:Matt: Funny story.
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:I took chloe our middle
daughter to school this morning.
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:We have to leave at about 6:50am
I got back, uh, I took a nap and
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:I had a dream and you and I were
hanging out with Travis and Taylor.
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:Dynae: You always have
dreams about celebrities.
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:Matt: I do.
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:Dynae: I don't get it.
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:Matt: We were at this
big, long table and it
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:Dynae: Oh no, here we go guys.
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:Was just, it was just so, we're going
to also do dream interpretations
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:Matt: If anybody listening is a dream
interpreter, I have the most vivid,
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lucid and I can control them this
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:Dynae: I would hope so because we
don't really know them in real life.
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:Matt: We don't know Travis and Taylor
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:Matt: that's true But we
were at this big long table.
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:They kind of sat us down It was me at
the end, you were next to me, Taylor was
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:Dynae: I think that my interpretation
is that you've just been
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pair since this all went down.
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:Matt: That's probably true.
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:Dynae: Anyway, it is hilarious to see a
grown man come to me and be like, I am a
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:Matt: There's nothing more
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:Dynae: that you want more world right now
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:Matt: currently than for this
relationship to succeed because I've
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know how hilarious he is.
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like, oh, he's now dating the most
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:Dynae: Yeah, arguably the most, for sure.
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:Matt: And the fact that all of the
Swifties are now jumping on the bandwagon.
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:Dynae: And learning football.
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:Matt: And learning football and
learning how amazing Travis is.
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of the happiness that they're bringing.
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crud that's happening in the
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to begin with, is I feel like my whole
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that's part of why I did the show.
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about whatever's happening in
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span that they come and watch me.
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:Dynae: And just feel some joy.
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:Matt: And just laugh , and remember
they had a great experience.
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:Dynae: Yeah.
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:Matt: So that's also what
we want with you guys.
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:Are you having a great experience
right now listening to this podcast?
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:Dynae: Let us know.
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:Matt: Leave a review.
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:Dynae: So other than keeping tabs
on Taylor and Travis, we're also
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all of that kind of stuff too.
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health and the, , kind of stuff that
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in general, because that stuff's just.
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the psychology of like conspiracy
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lot of true crime stuff and that
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:Matt: well and another thing we want to
do with this iteration of the podcast
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more interviews and more people come
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of mine from high school named Addie
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:Matt: and we did a whole episode on
tarot cards and readings and doing
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:Dynae: Mm hmm,
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:Matt: and there were some audio issues
and it never got posted and it was
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maybe we can see if she'll want to come
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:Dynae: Yeah, all of the kind of things
that's like very interesting to us I'm
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just feel like we're not the only ones and
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:it's like things that were I don't want
to say necessarily taboo, but things we
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we were younger is interesting to us now.
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:As you get older, I hope
that you keep a curious mind.
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:I hope that you stay open minded
because there are so many more lived
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:Matt: Right.
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:Dynae: The paranormal.
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:Matt: Paranormal stuff.
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:I'm hoping that we can get
into some paranormal stuff.
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:Dynae: So, you know, and that's the
goal here is like, it would be funny
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:for us if this, , ends up going
anywhere to be able to take trips
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:and . Would you go to a haunted house?
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:Matt: Now?
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:Dynae: Yeah.
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:Matt: You mean like a real
one, not like a fake Halloween?
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:Dynae: Hey, well, I know you
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because you don't like those.
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:Matt: Well, I used to be, but
then we went to Universal.
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:Dynae: Not the like dark tourism where
you have to sign the waivers and they're
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:Matt: Why would you do that?
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:Dynae: I don't know but people
have a waiting list for like two
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:Matt: If people really, really
wanted it for the podcast
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:Dynae: I'm not doing that.
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there on a limb, guys.
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my life to go to a haunted house,
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:Matt: Maybe not sign a
waiver for my life, but
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:Dynae: I'm not going to
eat my own vomit either.
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:They do that in these things.
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:We're going to do a whole episode
on one of these at some point.
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:Matt: We're going to do a whole
episode on eating your own vomit.
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:Dynae: No, On these types of like
crazy haunted houses and stuff.
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:Matt: Oh my goodness.
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:Dynae: they're nuts, man.
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:Matt: So you've already realized
how scatterbrained we are just
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:How scatterbrained we are.
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:Dynae: I was going to say I'm
going to try to keep it on task,
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:Matt: That's true.
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:So for this first episode, this is
basically what wanted to get into.
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:Who we are, why we started this
third iteration of the podcast
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:Dynae: What you can expect.
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:Matt: What you can expect.
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:We're very excited to have all of
you guys along for the journey.
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:Feel free to find our social media
pages, write comments or post, let
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:We are more than welcome to do specific
episodes that people recommend.
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:Dynae: So yeah, go follow us on Instagram
at Happily Ever Laughter podcast.
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:Uh, we got a Facebook page called
Happily Ever Laughter podcast.
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:Matt: What?
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:Dynae: you can email us if you've got
topic suggestions or stories yourself
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:that you'd like to share, email us at
happily ever laughter podcast at gmail.
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:And we're also on TikTok right now.
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:It's at self made misfits because
I cannot for the life of me.
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:They will not change our
name for some reason.
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:Matt: That's weird.
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:Dynae: They keep telling me, okay,
every 30 days you can change it.
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:I try and then they say
I already changed it.
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:Matt: So eventually our TikTok will go
to Happily Ever Laughter podcast as well.
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:Dynae: Yep.
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if you're looking for us on that.
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:So that is how you get in contact with
us and we hope to hear from you guys.
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:Matt: Yes.
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:Thank you for joining us and we
will catch you on the next episode.
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:Episode of the Happily
Ever Laughter podcast.
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:Bye guys!