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E 209: Healing Begins With Truth: Heidi Yewman’s Journey from Shame to Strength
Episode 2091st August 2025 • Adult Child of Dysfunction • Tammy Vincent
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In this deeply moving episode, we welcome Heidi Yewman—author, filmmaker, and survivor—to share her powerful story of transformation. Growing up in a chaotic and abusive home, Heidi spent years in silence, navigating the emotional fallout of generational trauma. Her memoir, Dumb Girl, traces the journey from internalized shame to radical truth-telling, offering a compelling reflection on the cost of silence and the healing power of speaking out.

A former student of Columbine High School, Heidi was profoundly impacted by the 1999 shooting—an event that not only triggered her own unresolved trauma but also launched her decades-long advocacy in gun violence prevention and trauma recovery. Her professional life in trauma storytelling eventually led her to turn the lens inward, confronting the emotional wounds she had long suppressed.

In this conversation, Heidi shares what it’s like to break the silence after decades of magical thinking and people-pleasing, how trauma shows up in our adult lives, and why sharing our stories from a place of lived experience—not just about pain, but from it—is one of the most courageous things we can do.

She offers both wisdom and tenderness for anyone navigating the lifelong process of healing after a dysfunctional childhood. This episode is an invitation to shed shame, own your truth, and discover that you’re not alone on the journey toward wholeness.

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