In this special replay episode of 1,000 Waking Minutes, Dr. Wendy Bazilian joins Jenny Hutt on the Just Jenny podcast for a real, energizing, and thoughtful conversation about midlife, metabolism, hormones, GLP-1 medications like Ozempic and Mounjaro, and what it truly means to feel good in your body.
Originally recorded for Jenny’s “Weight Wednesday” series, the recent conversation explores the evolving ways we think about weight, wellness, and identity in the shifting seasons of life. From the emotional complexity of body changes to the science of food, cravings, muscle, and movement—it’s an unfiltered, honest exchange between two women with decades of lived and professional experience (and a shared Tufts University connection).
Whether you’re navigating midlife, feeling overwhelmed by wellness headlines, curious about medication, or looking for a grounded perspective on your health—this conversation brings science, strategy, and self-compassion together.
It’s exactly the kind of episode that belongs here on 1,000 Waking Minutes: real life, lived well.
(8:21) The public scrutiny around how people lose weight—and why it’s no one-size-fits-all
(10:50) GLP-1 medications like Ozempic and Mounjaro—how they help, how they don’t, and what still matters most
(16:55) “Resizing” vs. 'losing' weight and why words matter when it comes to health
(20:57) A superfood brownie debate, and the role of food joy
(31:43) The role of nutrition during weight loss, especially with medication support
(37:37) A refreshing take on movement and exercise: finding what you’re “least allergic to”
(42:05) Midlife metabolism shifts, cravings, and hormonal realities
(36:07) The value of humor, honesty, and hope in navigating body changes and self-talk
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Today I'm sharing a conversation
Speaker:from a recent episode of
Speaker:the Just Jenny Podcast with
Speaker:Jenny Hutt.
Speaker:We talked about how our
Speaker:bodies change in midlife, the
Speaker:buzz around GLP-1s, and
Speaker:how we're thinking differently about
Speaker:health, food, and feeling good
Speaker:in our own skin, within
Speaker:this season of life, and
Speaker:during our 1,000 waking
Speaker:minutes each day.
Speaker:We experience 1,000 waking
Speaker:minutes on average every day.
Speaker:How are you spending yours?
Speaker:I'm Dr. Wendy Bazilian, and
Speaker:you're listening to 1,000
Speaker:Waking Minutes.
Speaker:I can't wait to connect
Speaker:with you here with practical
Speaker:ways to eat well, move
Speaker:daily, and be healthy, to
Speaker:optimize every waking minute you
Speaker:live for a happier, healthier
Speaker:life.
Speaker:Thank you for sharing some
Speaker:of your waking minutes with
Speaker:me today.
Speaker:Let's get started.
Speaker:I'm saying yes to better
Speaker:days, yes.
Speaker:I'm on my way, yes.
Speaker:It's gonna be okay, yeah.
Speaker:Hello and welcome to 1
Speaker:,000 Waking Minutes.
Speaker:I'm Dr. Wendy Bazilian, your
Speaker:host.
Speaker:Today's episode is a little
Speaker:bit different.
Speaker:A few weeks ago, I
Speaker:had the true pleasure of
Speaker:joining Jenny Hutt on her
Speaker:podcast, Just Jenny, for a
Speaker:Wait Wednesday.
Speaker:This was a conversation, and
Speaker:I'm going to air that
Speaker:episode for you today with
Speaker:her blessing.
Speaker:Thanks, Jenny.
Speaker:Now, if you don't know
Speaker:Jenny, you're in for something
Speaker:special.
Speaker:She's a longtime radio and
Speaker:podcast host.
Speaker:She has a smart, bold,
Speaker:and completely unfiltered style, and
Speaker:a real gift for making
Speaker:complex topics feel personal, relatable,
Speaker:and raw in all the
Speaker:best ways.
Speaker:She's had a long-running
Speaker:show on SiriusXM, and is
Speaker:now bringing the same sharp
Speaker:honesty to her podcast, where
Speaker:she talks about weight, health,
Speaker:life, pop culture, her own
Speaker:story, all along the way
Speaker:and everything in between.
Speaker:It was a total joy
Speaker:to talk to her, and
Speaker:also kind of thrilling, because
Speaker:we didn't hold back.
Speaker:We really got into it,
Speaker:from the rise of the
Speaker:GLP-1 medications like Ozempic
Speaker:and Manjaro, to the realities
Speaker:of perimenopause and our midlife
Speaker:body changes that many of
Speaker:us undergo and are somewhat
Speaker:inevitable because of some of
Speaker:the hormonal changes, and how
Speaker:we think about health and
Speaker:nutrition now, not 10 years
Speaker:ago, not someday either, but
Speaker:right now, today.
Speaker:And what I appreciated so
Speaker:much about the conversation was
Speaker:that it wasn't one note.
Speaker:It wasn't oversimplified.
Speaker:It wasn't just a single
Speaker:take on things.
Speaker:We talked about the nuance.
Speaker:We talked about adding nourishing
Speaker:foods and not just cutting
Speaker:things out, a favorite of
Speaker:mine to talk about, as
Speaker:you know.
Speaker:We talked about cravings, about
Speaker:guilt, and the gifts of
Speaker:nourishing.
Speaker:We talked about the shifting
Speaker:metabolic changes that happen with
Speaker:time.
Speaker:We talked about our feelings,
Speaker:real feelings, and real life.
Speaker:And Jenny also shares a
Speaker:lot about her own journey,
Speaker:which is so refreshing.
Speaker:She has her own major
Speaker:weight loss story.
Speaker:She has her own relationship
Speaker:to movement and talks about,
Speaker:and we talked about the
Speaker:complexity of thinking and trying
Speaker:about doing it right in
Speaker:a world full of mixed
Speaker:messages.
Speaker:Oh, and I have to
Speaker:mention, she's a fellow alum
Speaker:of my own alma mater,
Speaker:where I and we both
Speaker:received our bachelor's degrees at
Speaker:Tufts University in Medford, Massachusetts,
Speaker:which is right outside of
Speaker:Boston.
Speaker:And we were one year
Speaker:apart, no less.
Speaker:So though we didn't know
Speaker:each other at the time,
Speaker:we connected on many memories
Speaker:of our times there, before
Speaker:the episode, after, and a
Speaker:little bit during as well.
Speaker:And I am absolutely convinced,
Speaker:I think we are both,
Speaker:that we must have been
Speaker:in each other's company at
Speaker:least a couple times during
Speaker:our years there.
Speaker:Our conversation on this episode
Speaker:of Just Jenny fits really
Speaker:within the 1,000 waking
Speaker:minutes ideology on what we
Speaker:talk about, and it fits
Speaker:really beautifully because we touch
Speaker:on so many of the
Speaker:themes that we come back
Speaker:to again here, how we
Speaker:move through the minutes of
Speaker:our day with intention, how
Speaker:we live in our bodies,
Speaker:and how we can do
Speaker:it with more compassion and
Speaker:clarity, and how we can
Speaker:collect tools that we need
Speaker:now and over time to
Speaker:live well, even if those
Speaker:tools might change or modify
Speaker:over time and adapt to
Speaker:us in our seasons of
Speaker:life now.
Speaker:So a couple things to
Speaker:listen for in this episode.
Speaker:One is why it's not
Speaker:helpful, maybe, maybe, to rush
Speaker:to judgment when someone shares
Speaker:how they lost weight.
Speaker:So while we might be
Speaker:interested and we might sort
Speaker:of jump to conclusions, they
Speaker:must have done it this
Speaker:way or this trend or
Speaker:that diet we've heard about,
Speaker:why we maybe shouldn't judge
Speaker:or jump to judgment, and
Speaker:maybe how we feel when
Speaker:others might do that or
Speaker:have done that to us.
Speaker:We talk about a distinction
Speaker:I make somewhat often here
Speaker:on this show, and we
Speaker:discuss the idea about resizing
Speaker:the body versus trying to
Speaker:become something totally different, and
Speaker:how resizing, whether it's for
Speaker:weight or performance, can be
Speaker:words that have empowerment and
Speaker:health inspiration and motivation, and
Speaker:how the words we choose
Speaker:are super important when we're
Speaker:discussing things like weight and
Speaker:health.
Speaker:And a fun story, a
Speaker:true story, about how I
Speaker:learned from the very best.
Speaker:So I share how a
Speaker:mentor of mine, and I've
Speaker:mentioned her here, of 103
Speaker:years young and still out
Speaker:there talking about health and
Speaker:wellness, an advocate for the
Speaker:wellness industry, how to find
Speaker:the exercise that you're least
Speaker:allergic to in order to
Speaker:build a life and a
Speaker:long, vital life with these
Speaker:choices.
Speaker:So let's get into it.
Speaker:I hope you enjoy this
Speaker:conversation as much as I
Speaker:had having it with Jenny.
Speaker:And I'm truly honored to
Speaker:have been invited, and I'm
Speaker:so grateful for Jenny's environment,
Speaker:her community, and for creating
Speaker:the space for these important
Speaker:and often complicated conversations.
Speaker:You can always catch Jenny
Speaker:on her Just Jenny podcast,
Speaker:wherever you get your podcasts.
Speaker:Definitely follow her on
Speaker:@JustJennyHutt, and you can also
Speaker:visit her website at jenniferhutt.com
Speaker:.
Speaker:Subscribe to her, and you'll
Speaker:hear more of her candid
Speaker:and smart and refreshing real
Speaker:conversations.
Speaker:Now, my guest appearance on
Speaker:Just Jenny.
Speaker:Welcome to the podcast on
Speaker:this Wednesday.
Speaker:I have with me Dr.
Speaker:Wendy Bazilian.
Speaker:...Like Brazilian, but I
Speaker:actually prefer Wendy, being it's
Speaker:like bazillion dollars.
Speaker:I was listening to your
Speaker:podcast, and 1,000 Waking Minutes
Speaker:is the podcast, and I
Speaker:love that you're like, and
Speaker:I can tell you three
Speaker:things or a bazillion things,
Speaker:and it works, totally, totally
Speaker:works, and makes your name
Speaker:even more memorable.
Speaker:You are a doctor of
Speaker:public health, a registered dietitian,
Speaker:an award-winning journalist, and
Speaker:the author of Eat Clean,
Speaker:Stay Lean series, and the
Speaker:Superfoods Rx Diet.
Speaker:So welcome to my podcast,
Speaker:and I want to get
Speaker:right into it, because this
Speaker:morning, and I know you've
Speaker:done a lot of television,
Speaker:so you're no stranger to
Speaker:sort of the pop culture
Speaker:angle of all the diet
Speaker:culture and weight conversation and
Speaker:just all of it, and
Speaker:just this morning, I was
Speaker:reading that Chrissy Metz, who's
Speaker:a friend of the show
Speaker:and a friend of mine,
Speaker:and I think she's just
Speaker:a wonderful actor and singer
Speaker:and all that, artist, came
Speaker:out saying she lost 100
Speaker:pounds, and then went further
Speaker:to say, and I did
Speaker:it without the use of
Speaker:a GLP-1, and I
Speaker:know that the internet is
Speaker:sort of, per usual, on
Speaker:fire about it with the
Speaker:naysayers and the cheerleaders or
Speaker:whatever, and so starting right
Speaker:there, why do you think,
Speaker:and what has been your
Speaker:experience and your practice, why
Speaker:do you think that people
Speaker:are so caught up in
Speaker:the method in which somebody
Speaker:loses weight or maintains weight?
Speaker:Yeah, it's a great, it's
Speaker:a bazillion-dollar question there.
Speaker:There we go.
Speaker:Go right there.
Speaker:Go straight for it.
Speaker:There we go.
Speaker:I would say I have
Speaker:a bazillion ideas, not a
Speaker:bazillion dollars, but a bazillion
Speaker:ideas.
Speaker:I think that that is
Speaker:such an interesting one because
Speaker:I think part of it
Speaker:has to do with us
Speaker:being sort of indoctrinated at
Speaker:methods and stories and titles
Speaker:that are like, this is
Speaker:the way.
Speaker:Here's the best diet.
Speaker:This is the way.
Speaker:No, no, this is the
Speaker:way to lose weight.
Speaker:So people are always intrigued,
Speaker:and people who are health
Speaker:-inspired or trying to resize
Speaker:their bodies are always looking
Speaker:for a way or a
Speaker:hook.
Speaker:I find it sometimes a
Speaker:little bit sad that we
Speaker:feel that we have to
Speaker:justify any of us, let
Speaker:alone a celebrity out there
Speaker:to say how you did
Speaker:it or didn't do it.
Speaker:Maybe that's sort of none
Speaker:of your business.
Speaker:However, knowing that the next
Speaker:question is going to be
Speaker:how did you do it
Speaker:or making assumptions, which I
Speaker:think is a little more
Speaker:dangerous.
Speaker:So people try to cut
Speaker:it off at the chase
Speaker:by addressing the hard questions
Speaker:or what they can predict
Speaker:coming in.
Speaker:But I think it's baked
Speaker:into our society about the
Speaker:ways to lose weight, and
Speaker:it must be this way
Speaker:and that way.
Speaker:We know that GLP-1s
Speaker:and all the new therapies
Speaker:that are related to the
Speaker:drug-related weight is on
Speaker:people's minds, so they're making
Speaker:a lot of presumptions and
Speaker:it's probably a protective stance,
Speaker:if nothing else.
Speaker:And I don't know her
Speaker:at all, though I love
Speaker:and respect her very much,
Speaker:but sort of probably PR
Speaker:programming as much as anything
Speaker:to sort of say, hey,
Speaker:I'm proud of how I
Speaker:did it.
Speaker:I know.
Speaker:Listen, I believe her, and
Speaker:I also don't care in
Speaker:the best way, meaning I
Speaker:care about her health and
Speaker:her well-being and I
Speaker:want her to be happy
Speaker:because I really like her.
Speaker:But I don't care whether
Speaker:she takes a medication or
Speaker:she doesn't take a medication.
Speaker:She gets to choose how
Speaker:she lives in her body
Speaker:and whatever she accomplishes or
Speaker:doesn't accomplish, again, I don't
Speaker:really feel it's my business.
Speaker:I've never been of the
Speaker:ilk that if somebody is
Speaker:a public figure, they owe
Speaker:full disclosure about everything at
Speaker:all times.
Speaker:I just, you know, and
Speaker:- You're doing a great
Speaker:thing here then, Jenny, also,
Speaker:because it's so refreshing.
Speaker:Your Weight Wednesday, you're able
Speaker:to get into these questions
Speaker:and talk about it, and
Speaker:it's refreshing to be able
Speaker:to have a conversation and
Speaker:actually give the vocabulary like
Speaker:you just gave it because
Speaker:some people don't know not
Speaker:to judge or not to
Speaker:enter the conversation with a
Speaker:presumption, and you're giving sort
Speaker:of the language and tools
Speaker:to be able to say,
Speaker:oh, yeah, you know, maybe
Speaker:I should just be, like,
Speaker:psyched because they're happy about
Speaker:where they're at with their
Speaker:body and talking about it.
Speaker:And I think, Wendy, I
Speaker:look at it through a
Speaker:different kind of lens because
Speaker:when I lost weight, I
Speaker:lost 70, 80 pounds about
Speaker:15 years ago, and maybe
Speaker:more.
Speaker:It depends on the, you
Speaker:know, weight is so f-ing
Speaker:fluid, the number.
Speaker:So, like, it's always, I
Speaker:go back and forth because
Speaker:one year it's this amount,
Speaker:the next year it's this
Speaker:amount, et cetera.
Speaker:But at the time, I
Speaker:remember people thought that I
Speaker:had had gastric sleeve or
Speaker:gastric bypass.
Speaker:I never had surgery.
Speaker:It just wasn't, it just
Speaker:isn't how I lost weight.
Speaker:And I didn't feel the
Speaker:need at the time to
Speaker:sort of be like, yay
Speaker:me.
Speaker:Like, I, because again, I
Speaker:didn't feel anything more or
Speaker:less than any other person
Speaker:who had lost weight with
Speaker:any other method.
Speaker:I just remember at the
Speaker:time being terrified when I
Speaker:first lost a lot of
Speaker:weight and was in sort
Speaker:of the quote unquote healthy
Speaker:body range that I would
Speaker:gain it back.
Speaker:Like, I didn't have a
Speaker:moment, certainly not early on,
Speaker:where I could take a
Speaker:deep breath and say, oh
Speaker:God, okay, I lost all
Speaker:that weight, I'll be fine.
Speaker:It's never coming back.
Speaker:I'm good, so good.
Speaker:No, it was just sheer
Speaker:terror.
Speaker:And so I think that
Speaker:that feeling of sheer terror
Speaker:made me really feel for
Speaker:who, like whoever did what
Speaker:to lose weight because it's
Speaker:just not easy.
Speaker:It doesn't matter how you
Speaker:get there.
Speaker:It's just not easy.
Speaker:And as years went by
Speaker:and different life events happened
Speaker:and different stressors, my husband
Speaker:and I separated a little
Speaker:while ago and I dropped
Speaker:a quick 10 or 15
Speaker:pounds.
Speaker:Like I couldn't eat.
Speaker:I just couldn't eat the
Speaker:quote unquote divorce diet, whatever.
Speaker:And I just remember people
Speaker:like side-eyeing me because
Speaker:this is in recent, this
Speaker:is in the years of
Speaker:the GLP-1.
Speaker:And it wasn't until like
Speaker:a few months ago where
Speaker:I just started taking Manjaro
Speaker:because perimenopause and menopause is
Speaker:kicking my ass and that
Speaker:divorce weight started to creep
Speaker:back, right?
Speaker:So here I have this
Speaker:hundred pound weight loss, which
Speaker:is amazing.
Speaker:And it's starting to creep
Speaker:a little bit.
Speaker:And so I'm like, well,
Speaker:for the first time in
Speaker:my life, I have a
Speaker:small sense of relief that
Speaker:I have this possible, like
Speaker:this thing that could help
Speaker:me keep this weight off
Speaker:in a way that may
Speaker:not keep me up at
Speaker:night worrying, right?
Speaker:In a way that I
Speaker:still have to do everything.
Speaker:And I guess the lens
Speaker:through which I see all
Speaker:this is it's not a
Speaker:quick fix.
Speaker:The GLP-1s, they're just
Speaker:not magic because they're not
Speaker:magic for me.
Speaker:I mean, they're not magic
Speaker:for me.
Speaker:I would love to tell
Speaker:you that I don't think
Speaker:about food, that I eat
Speaker:like what we deem as
Speaker:perfectly, whatever that means, that
Speaker:my weight doesn't fluctuate, that,
Speaker:okay, well, here's the thing.
Speaker:Like my weight went up
Speaker:four pounds last week on
Speaker:a GLP-1 because my
Speaker:period showed up after being
Speaker:gone for a month.
Speaker:It just said, hi, I'm
Speaker:back after, well, two months.
Speaker:I was a month late.
Speaker:And here I was like,
Speaker:finally menopause.
Speaker:And it was like, no,
Speaker:just like, and so it
Speaker:doesn't matter, the GLP-1.
Speaker:I still needed to eat
Speaker:the noodles and the butter
Speaker:and whatever else my body
Speaker:was telling me I had
Speaker:to eat.
Speaker:And I listened to it.
Speaker:But the sense of relief
Speaker:I have that I'll never
Speaker:feel like it's going to
Speaker:get out of control because
Speaker:I won't let it get
Speaker:out of control.
Speaker:And there are resources for
Speaker:me that didn't exist years
Speaker:ago is like, I want
Speaker:to shout it from the
Speaker:rooftops.
Speaker:That's my experience, right?
Speaker:That's great.
Speaker:I mean, it's not magic
Speaker:and it's not a villain,
Speaker:right?
Speaker:Correct.
Speaker:That's right.
Speaker:But it's not magic.
Speaker:And so there's this part
Speaker:of me that wants to
Speaker:sort of say to the
Speaker:people that want to malign
Speaker:anyone who chooses these medications
Speaker:to lose that weight.
Speaker:I just want it.
Speaker:Like, I don't know how
Speaker:to say it every other
Speaker:way.
Speaker:Like, it's just not magic.
Speaker:They're not, yes, they're the
Speaker:most effective of these medications
Speaker:you can get with the
Speaker:least, you know, scary profile
Speaker:side effects, whatever.
Speaker:I know the side effects.
Speaker:I'm not go to a
Speaker:doctor.
Speaker:Don't just take these.
Speaker:Don't, you know, don't go
Speaker:to some back alley and
Speaker:get yourself a syringe filled
Speaker:with JLP ones.
Speaker:No, but we're doing before.
Speaker:So it's nice that I
Speaker:think that's, you know, correct.
Speaker:And, and now they're peptides,
Speaker:which I want to get
Speaker:into with you also, which
Speaker:I didn't talk to you
Speaker:about when we spoke before
Speaker:we recorded this whole like
Speaker:peptide thing people are doing.
Speaker:Cause when it makes me
Speaker:think of HCG, when people
Speaker:were taking that and then
Speaker:they found that that wasn't
Speaker:good for you, like don't
Speaker:do things that haven't been
Speaker:regulated and tested people.
Speaker:It's just not a great
Speaker:idea.
Speaker:But my point is that
Speaker:like you just said, we
Speaker:don't have to like heroify
Speaker:these meds and we don't
Speaker:have to vilify these meds.
Speaker:And I think just letting
Speaker:people do what they choose
Speaker:to do with their doctor's
Speaker:help without stigma would be
Speaker:really great.
Speaker:And enough of like getting
Speaker:mad at somebody who was
Speaker:plus size or whatever, as
Speaker:you said, reshaping or re
Speaker:what did you do?
Speaker:You said something so good.
Speaker:I love that expression.
Speaker:I've not heard it before.
Speaker:And I so prefer it
Speaker:to the sort of like
Speaker:I lived in a larger
Speaker:body.
Speaker:Now I'm in a smaller
Speaker:body.
Speaker:It's the same body.
Speaker:I get it.
Speaker:It was bigger.
Speaker:I don't know.
Speaker:I like the resizing concept.
Speaker:It allows for, you know,
Speaker:muscle shaping.
Speaker:It allows for performance athletes.
Speaker:It allows us all to
Speaker:act in the same space
Speaker:because we resize for different
Speaker:reasons.
Speaker:Exactly.
Speaker:And I think what you're
Speaker:saying, what I'm hearing is
Speaker:what is a basic tenant
Speaker:of what I always talk
Speaker:about, that health is dynamic.
Speaker:And so you collect tools
Speaker:along the way.
Speaker:We've got a great new
Speaker:tool on the toolbox that
Speaker:can be medication related, but
Speaker:all the things leading up
Speaker:to now in your, in
Speaker:your story or in anyone's
Speaker:story, When they've gone through
Speaker:different life stages, we're always
Speaker:dynamic.
Speaker:So you're never just, and
Speaker:hopefully that can bring a
Speaker:little peace of mind over
Speaker:time because we can get
Speaker:so anxious that certainly when
Speaker:you first get the weight
Speaker:loss, it's anxiety.
Speaker:That can be quelled over
Speaker:time.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Well, it, but I'm telling
Speaker:you, it took me years
Speaker:and I have.
Speaker:Back when blogging was a
Speaker:thing, I have blog posts
Speaker:from a year or two
Speaker:years after I'd first lost
Speaker:weight.
Speaker:And it was all about
Speaker:how I didn't feel like
Speaker:a weight loss success.
Speaker:And I wasn't going to
Speaker:feel a weight loss success
Speaker:until I was, I made
Speaker:up numbers like five years
Speaker:in six years.
Speaker:And then I got to
Speaker:the five years and I
Speaker:still didn't feel like, Hey,
Speaker:I've got this licked.
Speaker:And I still don't really
Speaker:feel like I have it
Speaker:because that what you're talking
Speaker:about, this idea that it's,
Speaker:it is dynamic, that we
Speaker:don't, everything changes.
Speaker:Everything's in flux in our
Speaker:bodies and in our lives.
Speaker:So we don't really know
Speaker:some of it does go
Speaker:beyond our control, especially as
Speaker:women can be water retentive
Speaker:and have no idea why.
Speaker:One food can work great
Speaker:in your body.
Speaker:And then two weeks later,
Speaker:it doesn't, it is the
Speaker:strangest thing and cravings are
Speaker:real and the older, certainly
Speaker:at 55 and we went
Speaker:to the same university.
Speaker:So I know around what
Speaker:your age is trailing one
Speaker:year, just one small year
Speaker:behind you.
Speaker:I wasn't even outing you,
Speaker:but I'm just saying, I
Speaker:know, but, but like, I'm
Speaker:aware that some of it
Speaker:does sort of go beyond
Speaker:my control and that there
Speaker:is this, this physiological response
Speaker:to the changes in our
Speaker:bodies and stuff.
Speaker:And so, yes, I do
Speaker:feel more.
Speaker:Now there's a sense of
Speaker:relief or hope because there,
Speaker:there are these medications and
Speaker:there's more stuff coming on
Speaker:the horizon that if you
Speaker:want to fight it in
Speaker:a way that involves big
Speaker:pharma, everyone's so mad about
Speaker:big pharma.
Speaker:And I'm like, well, we
Speaker:have a life expectancy of,
Speaker:you know, in the seventies,
Speaker:instead of till you're 24,
Speaker:like I'm happy with the
Speaker:big pharma that exists and
Speaker:chemotherapy, et cetera.
Speaker:But, but yeah, I just
Speaker:feel like everything keeps morphing
Speaker:for me and I just
Speaker:do the best that I
Speaker:can.
Speaker:And all about, you know,
Speaker:our intentional living.
Speaker:So it moves away from
Speaker:how we talk about our
Speaker:bodies to how we live
Speaker:in the bodies, you know,
Speaker:it does require us to
Speaker:adjust and adapt on a,
Speaker:like I always, like I
Speaker:use, do you take ruins?
Speaker:Do you take any of
Speaker:the green stuff?
Speaker:Like, probably not.
Speaker:Cause you're a.
Speaker:No, I mean, absolutely.
Speaker:I, I know you will.
Speaker:And I'll think of good
Speaker:things.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:So like I eat gruins
Speaker:because they taste like candy
Speaker:and I'm like, I'm trying
Speaker:not to eat as much
Speaker:candy.
Speaker:I don't eat Scooby snacks
Speaker:anymore because my kids are
Speaker:grown.
Speaker:So like I do these
Speaker:little stupid switches that these
Speaker:have vitamins in them for
Speaker:me, they make me happy.
Speaker:Do I need everyone to
Speaker:take?
Speaker:No, I don't care what
Speaker:someone else does, but like,
Speaker:I like to use certain
Speaker:supplements, like, but few and
Speaker:far between to like makes
Speaker:me happy.
Speaker:I eat it.
Speaker:It's yummy.
Speaker:I also don't make like
Speaker:super food brownies.
Speaker:I make a f-ing brownie.
Speaker:Like, because I, I feel
Speaker:like we get crazy.
Speaker:We make these calorie dense
Speaker:that we think that we're
Speaker:having a diet food because
Speaker:the brownie is made with
Speaker:45 dates, you know, two
Speaker:cups of almonds and like,
Speaker:I don't know, maple syrup
Speaker:versus sugar.
Speaker:And I'm like, well, wait,
Speaker:I'm in flour calorie for
Speaker:Cal.
Speaker:It's way more calorie dense
Speaker:than regular flour.
Speaker:I know glycemic index.
Speaker:I get it.
Speaker:It is a morning nutrients
Speaker:for sure.
Speaker:But if you want a
Speaker:brownie, have a brownie, you
Speaker:don't have to have a
Speaker:brownie.
Speaker:That's 4,000 calories of
Speaker:a brownie.
Speaker:That's 2000 calories.
Speaker:Right?
Speaker:Like I agree.
Speaker:I think we over supplement
Speaker:and fortify our, you know,
Speaker:our foods.
Speaker:However, I will say that
Speaker:I am very in favor
Speaker:of like logical swaps.
Speaker:So if you're like craving
Speaker:a certain thing and the
Speaker:groom's suit, you know, fits
Speaker:that, it's not correcting, you
Speaker:know, it's not saying instead
Speaker:of a salad, I'll have
Speaker:one of those.
Speaker:No, it's it's instead of
Speaker:having the 80 calories of
Speaker:straight sugar, I'm having the
Speaker:50 calories of fortified.
Speaker:It tastes like the same.
Speaker:It tastes, this is the
Speaker:first like chewy gummy thing
Speaker:I've had.
Speaker:I've had been using them
Speaker:for years.
Speaker:That doesn't taste like ass.
Speaker:Like it tastes, it, they
Speaker:taste like candy.
Speaker:They taste like the baby,
Speaker:the things my kids used
Speaker:to eat and I used
Speaker:to eat them off their
Speaker:plate.
Speaker:But yes, correct.
Speaker:Sort of calorie for right.
Speaker:Like not calories, but if
Speaker:it's an even swap in
Speaker:a sense, go for the
Speaker:healthier option.
Speaker:If you were in the
Speaker:mood, yes.
Speaker:For the thing and you
Speaker:can tolerate the lower sugar
Speaker:and it tastes as good.
Speaker:Great.
Speaker:It's my issue when you
Speaker:would be having a 400
Speaker:calorie brownie and then instead
Speaker:you have an 800 calorie
Speaker:brownie because you may think
Speaker:it's made with the super
Speaker:foods.
Speaker:You're not really benefiting.
Speaker:That's a surprise.
Speaker:You know, I mean, I
Speaker:find that so many people
Speaker:do that.
Speaker:They become sort of shocked
Speaker:to learn, you know, I
Speaker:mean, you can, you can
Speaker:talk up the nutrients.
Speaker:I can do that as
Speaker:good as any person can
Speaker:about what's in nutrient wise,
Speaker:something might offer, but if
Speaker:you're looking at the overall
Speaker:energy or the portion that
Speaker:would be And if it's
Speaker:like a lot more hassle
Speaker:and you're really not enjoying
Speaker:it, you might end up
Speaker:having the other brownie anyway,
Speaker:then, you know, that is
Speaker:all in my book, all
Speaker:the wrong reasons for going
Speaker:for that super foods or
Speaker:whatever brownie.
Speaker:Although I have to say
Speaker:on this topics of brownies,
Speaker:this is one exception that
Speaker:I will say, I will
Speaker:definitely check, you know, check
Speaker:the box on have the
Speaker:brownie that you love the
Speaker:most period.
Speaker:I also do have a
Speaker:really cool way of adding
Speaker:pumpkin into brownies, which is
Speaker:not intended to be sneaky.
Speaker:It's different.
Speaker:That boosts the fiber content
Speaker:with you.
Speaker:It's moisture.
Speaker:And it actually cuts like
Speaker:60 grams of fat.
Speaker:And like, it really, it
Speaker:really does.
Speaker:That's a good.
Speaker:Okay.
Speaker:That's a good swap.
Speaker:That's not what I'm talking
Speaker:about.
Speaker:That makes perfect sense.
Speaker:That's like making two ingredient
Speaker:bagels.
Speaker:That's like making, you know,
Speaker:my daughter now loves making
Speaker:two ingredient bagels because she
Speaker:loves the taste.
Speaker:She puts cottage.
Speaker:She calls them cottage cheese
Speaker:bagels.
Speaker:She puts cottage cheese and
Speaker:flour together.
Speaker:She makes herself a bagel
Speaker:and she's happy and it
Speaker:tastes good.
Speaker:And it's a little more
Speaker:nutrient dense than a regular
Speaker:bagel and calories are pretty
Speaker:close and it's great.
Speaker:This is adding pumpkin to
Speaker:something is only a benefit.
Speaker:That's I use egg whites
Speaker:instead of eggs and certain
Speaker:things.
Speaker:Of course you can make
Speaker:oat pancakes instead of plain
Speaker:white flour pancakes.
Speaker:Sure.
Speaker:It's sort of not the
Speaker:disparity between the amount of
Speaker:calories and nothing crazy.
Speaker:And also it's just when
Speaker:people think.
Speaker:You see like million dollar
Speaker:bars.
Speaker:What were those calls called
Speaker:those like shortbread cookies with
Speaker:chocolate on the top, the
Speaker:caramel, and then the bottom.
Speaker:A hundred grand.
Speaker:No, no, no.
Speaker:This is the one it's
Speaker:like a shortbread pastry type
Speaker:thing.
Speaker:And it's made with like
Speaker:the Twix.
Speaker:It's like a Twix, but
Speaker:homemade.
Speaker:And people are like, well,
Speaker:Cashews and date syrup and
Speaker:dates.
Speaker:And, and at the end
Speaker:of the day, it's more
Speaker:calories than the regular version.
Speaker:And you're not really getting
Speaker:anything, you know, sugar, sugar,
Speaker:it ends up being sugar,
Speaker:sugar.
Speaker:So that's all I'm saying.
Speaker:But when you're talking about,
Speaker:yeah.
Speaker:How do you make those
Speaker:brownies?
Speaker:I had to tease that
Speaker:in though, because it's a
Speaker:really good, please explain, please
Speaker:explain.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Well, in that recipe, you
Speaker:can take a commercial brownie
Speaker:mix.
Speaker:So, you know, like I'm,
Speaker:I I'm where you're at,
Speaker:you know, where we all
Speaker:are at, you know, commercial
Speaker:brownie mix.
Speaker:You have your homemade brownie
Speaker:mix.
Speaker:You can literally have the
Speaker:butter or the oil, even
Speaker:though I'm a big advocate
Speaker:of healthy oils in the
Speaker:diet, I can talk at
Speaker:length about that.
Speaker:For sure.
Speaker:You have that and you
Speaker:put in the pumpkin and
Speaker:it boosts the fiber and,
Speaker:you know, five to 7
Speaker:% of us are getting
Speaker:enough fiber, not the other
Speaker:way around.
Speaker:So like 93% of
Speaker:us in America are falling
Speaker:short on fiber.
Speaker:So there are a lot
Speaker:of people in the world
Speaker:who are like, It retains
Speaker:the moisture.
Speaker:It tastes delicious and it
Speaker:cuts out 60 grams of
Speaker:fat in the recipe, which
Speaker:is monumental.
Speaker:What's that?
Speaker:Six times, nine, 500 calories.
Speaker:Plus out of the recipe.
Speaker:In something that if you
Speaker:pass it off and I
Speaker:don't mean to pass it
Speaker:off in sneaky way.
Speaker:You pass it off, but
Speaker:people would be coming back
Speaker:for more because they're like,
Speaker:gosh, that's great.
Speaker:Then we'd have to talk
Speaker:about portions if people are
Speaker:working on their weight.
Speaker:Otherwise, have at it.
Speaker:Not my place to judge.
Speaker:But they're that good, and
Speaker:it's a solid nutrient boost
Speaker:and swap, plus carotenoids.
Speaker:That pumpkin helps our skin
Speaker:health, helps our eye health,
Speaker:helps our immune system.
Speaker:And I think those are
Speaker:as important as these.
Speaker:So talk about some of
Speaker:the superfoods, because I know
Speaker:you did write a book,
Speaker:Superfood Rx, and I know
Speaker:some superfoods do really exist.
Speaker:I know blueberries are real
Speaker:good for you.
Speaker:Certain things, fiber is a
Speaker:superfood in general.
Speaker:And then certain foods have
Speaker:been recently very vilified, like
Speaker:seed oils.
Speaker:And I get confused because
Speaker:we can eat sunflower seeds
Speaker:and that's fine, but don't
Speaker:have sunflower oil.
Speaker:So talk a little bit
Speaker:about superfoods.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:So when I got involved
Speaker:with superfoods, it wasn't even
Speaker:a word.
Speaker:We sort of put it
Speaker:on the map.
Speaker:So the first superfoods book
Speaker:came out and I did
Speaker:all the menus and the
Speaker:daily plans for it and
Speaker:worked on the team that
Speaker:put out superfoods, which went
Speaker:sort of blockbuster.
Speaker:And I was a little
Speaker:bit hesitant, to be honest,
Speaker:at calling certain foods out
Speaker:as super.
Speaker:I had to really write
Speaker:my own mind knowing how
Speaker:important the science was and
Speaker:that all foods can fit.
Speaker:However, what I started to
Speaker:see is that certain foods
Speaker:had more research, were accessible,
Speaker:were convenient, were affordable, and
Speaker:weren't a one-trick pony.
Speaker:Those are components of superfoods
Speaker:to me.
Speaker:That could be like a
Speaker:gateway to other foods that
Speaker:had research and support.
Speaker:So the blueberry sort of
Speaker:stood out because we had
Speaker:a lot of research out
Speaker:of Tufts, come to mention
Speaker:it from the USDA Aging
Speaker:Center with great researchers there
Speaker:who talked about blueberries and
Speaker:memory and cardiovascular health.
Speaker:Well, blueberries are sort of
Speaker:like the benchmark of other
Speaker:berries that have their own
Speaker:unique traits.
Speaker:And we called those the
Speaker:sidekicks.
Speaker:They have their own unique
Speaker:traits, but they have things
Speaker:in common.
Speaker:And so the superfoods were
Speaker:really all those things and
Speaker:they were real food.
Speaker:Come 15, 20, 15, 18
Speaker:years later, since we were
Speaker:doing that, a lot of
Speaker:people use that term.
Speaker:And so a lot of
Speaker:people sort of get ornery
Speaker:about a pill or bottle
Speaker:that's talking about superfoods and
Speaker:they put in a trace
Speaker:ingredient at the bottom that's
Speaker:so-called blueberry extract or
Speaker:something.
Speaker:Is that really a superfood?
Speaker:That was never the intention
Speaker:with me because I'm so
Speaker:vested in the evidence.
Speaker:And if you don't eat
Speaker:it, it's not enough to
Speaker:read about it.
Speaker:You're not going to get
Speaker:healthier.
Speaker:So that's where it all
Speaker:started with sort of identifying.
Speaker:And what I found and
Speaker:sort of was surprised is
Speaker:that readers in a sea
Speaker:of choices, you know, at
Speaker:the time it was like
Speaker:60,000 options in the
Speaker:typical supermarket to choose from.
Speaker:By giving like 14 of
Speaker:them at the time, you
Speaker:know, and then we evolved
Speaker:it and there were like
Speaker:seven more and then some
Speaker:sidekicks, people could like start
Speaker:to see clearer, you know?
Speaker:And I said, okay, I'm
Speaker:okay with this term, you
Speaker:know, now let's build it
Speaker:into an eating pattern that
Speaker:makes sense.
Speaker:You know, how do you
Speaker:do that at breakfast and
Speaker:lunch and dinner?
Speaker:How do you get more
Speaker:oranges and citrus, you know,
Speaker:obvious things, tomatoes and other
Speaker:lycopene sources, you know, how
Speaker:do you get these foods
Speaker:and their sidekicks into and
Speaker:married into a diet that,
Speaker:diet in the best ways.
Speaker:I know you're saying diet
Speaker:isn't actually how we eat.
Speaker:Yes, you talk about that
Speaker:on your podcast too.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah, exactly.
Speaker:That how we can manage
Speaker:our weight, manage our energy,
Speaker:manage our performance, manage all
Speaker:these things and feel happy
Speaker:about it.
Speaker:So, you know, that's, that's
Speaker:where it all came from
Speaker:really.
Speaker:And I still stand, you
Speaker:know, stand tall on the
Speaker:superfoods idea, even though, oh
Speaker:man, it's gotten really, uh,
Speaker:you know.
Speaker:Well, never.
Speaker:Well, I think your intention,
Speaker:your intention is right.
Speaker:Your intention is look in
Speaker:you, you, this is what
Speaker:you eat every day, right?
Speaker:You have a set amount
Speaker:that you, your body consumes.
Speaker:You're going to eat your
Speaker:breakfast.
Speaker:You're going to eat lunch.
Speaker:You're going to eat dinner,
Speaker:whatever it is, the way
Speaker:that you eat.
Speaker:Why not try to incorporate
Speaker:the foods that are better
Speaker:for you that we know
Speaker:we're going to do right
Speaker:by your body.
Speaker:If you can do that,
Speaker:like that's, there's no harm
Speaker:in doing that.
Speaker:That's only sort of a
Speaker:beneficial idea.
Speaker:It's not, yeah, it's not
Speaker:hocus pocus.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:And then it became a
Speaker:very positive era because,
Speaker:it was right when some
Speaker:really important research was coming
Speaker:out and now thankfully a
Speaker:lot more, it was coming
Speaker:off the like cut fat.
Speaker:Well, it was still happening.
Speaker:Cut, cut fat or the
Speaker:intermittent, you know, we keep
Speaker:going back and forth with
Speaker:the cut, cut, cut fat,
Speaker:cut carbs, cut, whatever, cut
Speaker:salt, all that.
Speaker:It was a time when
Speaker:some important research was coming
Speaker:out, looking at the idea
Speaker:that the nutrients on your
Speaker:plate may be more important
Speaker:than the nutrients you're trying
Speaker:to get off the plate.
Speaker:And so I was just
Speaker:trying to add layers, you
Speaker:know, I was saying more
Speaker:of this do add this
Speaker:as opposed to people still.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:I think people still don't
Speaker:really understand what that's about.
Speaker:And I, and actually it
Speaker:ties into where we are
Speaker:societally because we're back sort
Speaker:of on the thin train,
Speaker:it seems because of the
Speaker:meds, you know, the sort
Speaker:of the dark side of
Speaker:that, that we're in this
Speaker:direction of Twiggy as best
Speaker:again, which again, that's not
Speaker:my direction.
Speaker:It's just like this weird
Speaker:societal shift that's happening again
Speaker:about that sort of not,
Speaker:I don't know, beauty at
Speaker:every size, right now it
Speaker:should be, but we're a
Speaker:little bit over-correcting and
Speaker:this is trends.
Speaker:This is what happens.
Speaker:But to your point, and
Speaker:I've been saying this all
Speaker:along, even with the emergence
Speaker:of the GLP-1s, nutrition
Speaker:is as ever important, if
Speaker:not more.
Speaker:And a dietician like you
Speaker:is crucial because especially if
Speaker:we're consuming fewer calories than
Speaker:shouldn't those fewer calories be
Speaker:foods that matter and foods
Speaker:that do benefit us.
Speaker:And the idea of adding
Speaker:in makes total sense because
Speaker:what you add in makes
Speaker:your body work more efficiently,
Speaker:right?
Speaker:So why not put in
Speaker:the things that are going
Speaker:to benefit us overall?
Speaker:What the GLP-1s and
Speaker:that category of medication has
Speaker:done for me and how
Speaker:I've been working with clients
Speaker:is interesting because I used
Speaker:to say, I guess I
Speaker:would still say this, if
Speaker:I could, you know, someone
Speaker:who is looking to resize
Speaker:their and they're like unhappy
Speaker:with their weight, or maybe
Speaker:they're suffering from joint issues,
Speaker:blood sugar issues, whatever it
Speaker:is that starts that journey.
Speaker:Often I'll get to a
Speaker:place where I say, well,
Speaker:first of all, I'm in
Speaker:no judgment zone.
Speaker:I am like, not the
Speaker:tough love, you do not
Speaker:get that with me.
Speaker:So people who just say
Speaker:like, lay it on me,
Speaker:doc.
Speaker:You know, I'm like averse
Speaker:to that.
Speaker:I'll give you a hug
Speaker:on that one.
Speaker:But I will say, you
Speaker:know, sometimes if I could
Speaker:give you your weight loss
Speaker:or that resizing this second,
Speaker:but you would have to
Speaker:commit for every pound or
Speaker:however we're measuring an inch,
Speaker:whatever, that many weeks plus
Speaker:another one of commitment to
Speaker:doing the work, you know,
Speaker:but I'll give it to
Speaker:you today.
Speaker:Then, then I would, you
Speaker:know, that I would feel
Speaker:like magic.
Speaker:And I feel like this
Speaker:is about as close as
Speaker:we can get to that
Speaker:because like you said before,
Speaker:you can't not do lifestyle
Speaker:with the GLP ones.
Speaker:I mean, it is very
Speaker:clear right now that when
Speaker:you're on this, and if
Speaker:you have reduced appetite, your
Speaker:every bite matters more maintaining
Speaker:lean muscle, muscle, the intake,
Speaker:the quality of what's on
Speaker:your plate is probably even
Speaker:more important.
Speaker:And this is a tool,
Speaker:not the solution, you know,
Speaker:so that's super important.
Speaker:And I think that that's
Speaker:sort of how I, I,
Speaker:I think about this when
Speaker:I'm working with people who
Speaker:are intrigued or starting on
Speaker:a course with right.
Speaker:And the idea of adding
Speaker:in foods is also because
Speaker:that can help oddly enough,
Speaker:it can help you end
Speaker:up in a, in the
Speaker:right, in a better calorie
Speaker:deficit because the food that
Speaker:you're eating is supporting your
Speaker:efforts to feel satiated with
Speaker:fewer calories because fiber takes
Speaker:up space in your belly
Speaker:and protein sustains you longer.
Speaker:And therefore maybe if you
Speaker:eat those two foods, you'll
Speaker:have fewer inclination or you'll
Speaker:have less inclination to eat
Speaker:more sugary carbs or, or
Speaker:whatever is the thing that
Speaker:is your poison, fewer potato
Speaker:chips.
Speaker:You'll eat fewer.
Speaker:And we've become what we
Speaker:practice.
Speaker:So it gives you time
Speaker:to practice those things too,
Speaker:which I think is a
Speaker:nice thing about those kinds
Speaker:of tools.
Speaker:By the way, practice is
Speaker:a wheel that I, had
Speaker:I not turned myself into
Speaker:an exerciser six years ago,
Speaker:I would not believe, and
Speaker:I've exercised on and off
Speaker:forever.
Speaker:I mean, forever.
Speaker:It's not that I wasn't
Speaker:an exerciser, but I was
Speaker:the kind of exerciser that
Speaker:my listeners know this since
Speaker:I started on air, that
Speaker:to move my body was
Speaker:pain, to move my body
Speaker:was emotional torture, to have
Speaker:to exercise as a purpose
Speaker:of exercise made me want
Speaker:to die.
Speaker:It was the very worst
Speaker:until something clicked in my
Speaker:brain and I realized it
Speaker:was actually the key to
Speaker:my feeling okay.
Speaker:And psychologically, okay, I'm not
Speaker:talking about, you know, sort
Speaker:of the physical benefits and
Speaker:little by little I retrained
Speaker:and it is a practice
Speaker:myself to move every day.
Speaker:And that was six years
Speaker:ago.
Speaker:And now maybe one day
Speaker:every 30 comes around that
Speaker:I don't move, but it's
Speaker:so, it's like brushing my
Speaker:teeth, taking steps is brushing
Speaker:my teeth.
Speaker:And it's not about the
Speaker:numbers that like, I know
Speaker:that's arbitrary.
Speaker:It's just movement.
Speaker:It's the movement for me
Speaker:is so key to my
Speaker:overall sense of being okay
Speaker:in my mind.
Speaker:And so good, but it's
Speaker:linked chemically also.
Speaker:So, I mean, that's what
Speaker:I mean.
Speaker:Well, that's where it is.
Speaker:I said, I'm going to
Speaker:give myself 30 days.
Speaker:When I started, I said,
Speaker:I'm giving myself a month
Speaker:of every day doing something
Speaker:that's movement.
Speaker:I don't have to sweat.
Speaker:I don't have to care
Speaker:what it is, but I
Speaker:have to move.
Speaker:I can find joy while
Speaker:I'm doing it.
Speaker:I have to move my
Speaker:body.
Speaker:And it now is like
Speaker:brushing my teeth.
Speaker:I don't, you know, I
Speaker:really, unless I'm sick, unless
Speaker:there's a reason, unless there's
Speaker:a, you know, there something
Speaker:that makes me really unable
Speaker:to do it.
Speaker:I have to, I have
Speaker:to do my brain to
Speaker:like, I'll start, you start
Speaker:craving it.
Speaker:I crave movement, which is
Speaker:the opposite of like the
Speaker:who that I was for
Speaker:most of my life.
Speaker:And so I understand this
Speaker:idea of practice.
Speaker:If the practice is eating
Speaker:vegetables and the practice is
Speaker:adding in things like that,
Speaker:we know are going to
Speaker:be good for your body.
Speaker:That's, that's like everything else.
Speaker:It will eventually become like
Speaker:brushing your teeth.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Well, let me share something
Speaker:funny.
Speaker:Interesting.
Speaker:Maybe not.
Speaker:Well, it is fun, but
Speaker:this part's funny.
Speaker:but what my basic
Speaker:tenants that we talked about
Speaker:in my practice for over
Speaker:20 years is eat well,
Speaker:move daily, be healthy.
Speaker:And they were very specific
Speaker:because move daily is exactly
Speaker:what you said, you know,
Speaker:does exercise on purpose does,
Speaker:does intensity matter?
Speaker:Of course it does.
Speaker:If you're running a marathon,
Speaker:do you need to, you
Speaker:know, work out on a
Speaker:certain schedule?
Speaker:Absolutely.
Speaker:The move daily has no
Speaker:rules, you know?
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:But the funny thing is
Speaker:that, my, uh, one
Speaker:of my many mentors, the
Speaker:so-called godmother of the
Speaker:spa and wellness industry, she
Speaker:just turned 103 a couple
Speaker:of days ago.
Speaker:Her name is Deborah Szekely.
Speaker:She's still lectures.
Speaker:She's still out there doing
Speaker:it.
Speaker:Founder of Rancho La Puerta
Speaker:and Golden Door, who I've
Speaker:known.
Speaker:Oh, I know her.
Speaker:I went to Golden Door
Speaker:when I was a child.
Speaker:For many, I've known her,
Speaker:you know, I worked for
Speaker:her in a variety of
Speaker:capacities.
Speaker:Lots of great stories.
Speaker:She is this sort of
Speaker:OJ.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Yeah, absolutely.
Speaker:But you know what she
Speaker:said to me one night
Speaker:we were doing what we
Speaker:called, my husband and
Speaker:I were leading a week
Speaker:long retreat at Golden Door
Speaker:and we did evening talks
Speaker:every night.
Speaker:And one of the nights
Speaker:we invited her to talk
Speaker:with us and we called
Speaker:it a 'trialogue'.
Speaker:I don't know if that's
Speaker:a made up word or
Speaker:not still to this day,
Speaker:but it was three of
Speaker:us, having a conversation
Speaker:around a said topic and
Speaker:we were doing our preparation
Speaker:and I already had known
Speaker:Deborah and worked with her
Speaker:in a different, totally different
Speaker:discipline also, but in the,
Speaker:the, the destination spa world,
Speaker:I had been with her
Speaker:for five plus years, but
Speaker:we were doing some pre
Speaker:-talks and I said, Deborah,
Speaker:you know, "why did
Speaker:you originally put all these
Speaker:daily choices for guests who
Speaker:come to Rancho la Puerta and Golden
Speaker:Door?"
Speaker:And for those of your
Speaker:listeners who may not know,
Speaker:it's a place you go
Speaker:live for a week and
Speaker:every day there's 15 to
Speaker:39 different classes you can
Speaker:do that are fitness.
Speaker:And then there's spa wellness,
Speaker:there's nutrition, there's eating all
Speaker:these things.
Speaker:But I said, "why did
Speaker:you put so many?"
Speaker:And you know, there's a
Speaker:tendency, especially in your younger
Speaker:self, to almost put
Speaker:the words in the mouth.
Speaker:Like I know what she's
Speaker:going to say.
Speaker:And I, but I sat,
Speaker:I sat back cause she's
Speaker:a woman of wisdom and
Speaker:she's the founder.
Speaker:And I thought what she
Speaker:was going to say, of
Speaker:course, was "...because I wanted
Speaker:people, I wanted guests to
Speaker:find the exercise they loved.
Speaker:I wanted them to find
Speaker:that."
Speaker:That's what I thought she
Speaker:would say.
Speaker:Instead, she turned it on
Speaker:its head.
Speaker:And to this day, I
Speaker:use this, I'm going to
Speaker:say this to you today,
Speaker:and I hope it connects
Speaker:with some of your listeners.
Speaker:She said, "I wanted guests
Speaker:to find the exercise they're
Speaker:least allergic to and then
Speaker:do it every day."
Speaker:I love it.
Speaker:And I agree with that
Speaker:philosophy.
Speaker:And I agree with that
Speaker:philosophy that it works.
Speaker:We don't inherently, I mean,
Speaker:you love it because you
Speaker:know, what it gives you
Speaker:and grant gives me back,
Speaker:but that, but I have
Speaker:to do that.
Speaker:My brain is so weird
Speaker:that there are days that
Speaker:I will get on my
Speaker:treadmill and I'm like, I
Speaker:can't, I can't be on
Speaker:here another second.
Speaker:I got to get off
Speaker:this thing.
Speaker:And then I get on
Speaker:my little mini stepper that
Speaker:changed my life.
Speaker:So my shout out to
Speaker:Kim Shapira, who sent me,
Speaker:you know, told me I
Speaker:needed this teeny tiny hundred
Speaker:dollar little non-electric stepper
Speaker:changed my life.
Speaker:I can jack up the
Speaker:resistance, take it down.
Speaker:I watched tell it's like
Speaker:a mini elliptical.
Speaker:I watched television on it.
Speaker:And that's, it's become, I
Speaker:have a much easier time
Speaker:consuming junk content while I'm
Speaker:moving than sitting on the
Speaker:couch.
Speaker:It's great.
Speaker:No guilt.
Speaker:I can watch hours of
Speaker:television if I'm on my
Speaker:stepper.
Speaker:It's fantastic.
Speaker:And, and it's, I don't
Speaker:know.
Speaker:It's like, uh, yeah, I
Speaker:find the thing that I
Speaker:hate the least depending on
Speaker:the day.
Speaker:And sometimes I have to
Speaker:go through four different tries
Speaker:of different equipment or different
Speaker:methods of moving.
Speaker:Sometimes it's dancing.
Speaker:Sometimes it's actually trying to
Speaker:learn a TikTok dance in
Speaker:this old lady body.
Speaker:And I will, but that
Speaker:works and that's movement.
Speaker:And I sweat.
Speaker:It makes me sweat because
Speaker:my brain is working my
Speaker:body.
Speaker:I don't know how to
Speaker:kick or, you know, step
Speaker:like that.
Speaker:And so I'm not a
Speaker:dancer.
Speaker:And so, but you're right.
Speaker:It's sort of the thing
Speaker:that you're yeah.
Speaker:That you're least allergic to
Speaker:is so fair.
Speaker:She was, she is correct.
Speaker:Not golden doors.
Speaker:I mean, I, I used
Speaker:to go with my mom
Speaker:and my sister when we
Speaker:were kids.
Speaker:And then, I went
Speaker:a couple of times as
Speaker:a grownup.
Speaker:It's a very special, but
Speaker:I mean, it's a very,
Speaker:very special place for you
Speaker:get to, if you get
Speaker:to go there, it's so
Speaker:special.
Speaker:And, so yeah, but
Speaker:she really knew she was
Speaker:really one of the original
Speaker:is one of the original
Speaker:people who, really had
Speaker:the right idea of the
Speaker:concept of what wellness should,
Speaker:should be.
Speaker:Cause it's over, it's all
Speaker:of it.
Speaker:It's your mind, it's your
Speaker:body.
Speaker:It's now we're learning.
Speaker:And she had certainly meditation
Speaker:and all that long before
Speaker:other people talked about it,
Speaker:but the mind body connection
Speaker:and lessening our stress.
Speaker:And, and I know people
Speaker:are like, oh, cause cortisol
Speaker:cortisol, it's not really, you
Speaker:know, I think our bodies
Speaker:are just so responsive to
Speaker:what we tell them.
Speaker:So I don't even know
Speaker:that it's exactly cortisol.
Speaker:I think it's more of
Speaker:the idea that if you're
Speaker:self-talk, even on a
Speaker:subconscious level is my body's
Speaker:going to be crappy and
Speaker:it's not going to work.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:Then it might not work.
Speaker:Right.
Speaker:Yep.
Speaker:But if, well, you know,
Speaker:I just did two episodes
Speaker:on criticism on my podcast,
Speaker:you know, like sometimes when
Speaker:we self critique versus changing
Speaker:the, changing the, the, the
Speaker:internal, uh, monologue dialogue, I
Speaker:don't know how to say
Speaker:it.
Speaker:And, you know, the hormonal
Speaker:shift is not to minimize
Speaker:it because that physiological shift
Speaker:is real, especially around the
Speaker:perimenopausal menopausal period.
Speaker:and it can make
Speaker:you feel like you're doing
Speaker:everything wrong or right at
Speaker:a given moment.
Speaker:But the thing is that
Speaker:hormones are there for a
Speaker:reason they're supposed to go
Speaker:up and down.
Speaker:They're just not supposed to
Speaker:be peaked all the time.
Speaker:And we can, we can
Speaker:do things to help, help
Speaker:them along in our dynamic
Speaker:state.
Speaker:So there's biology and then
Speaker:there's intention.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Just like you said, and
Speaker:that you can shift, shift
Speaker:the messaging.
Speaker:So it's not to diminish,
Speaker:you know, cause some people
Speaker:I'm sure are swearing like
Speaker:it's my hormones.
Speaker:Let me have my hormonal
Speaker:reason.
Speaker:No, no, that's real.
Speaker:I'm not, I'm not I'm
Speaker:living it.
Speaker:I mean, I can't exactly.
Speaker:I, I didn't, our generation,
Speaker:at least mine with my
Speaker:mother, you know, she didn't
Speaker:talk about menopause.
Speaker:She had a prophylactic hysterectomy
Speaker:and she went on Premarin
Speaker:and it was never, nothing
Speaker:was really discussed.
Speaker:We knew she would sometimes
Speaker:feel crazy, but nothing was
Speaker:really discussed.
Speaker:It was sort of more
Speaker:like the curse of the
Speaker:period.
Speaker:And then menopause, you know,
Speaker:she just, it was more
Speaker:that she was either unhinged,
Speaker:which meant she was quote
Speaker:unquote hormonal, but nothing was
Speaker:really ever explained.
Speaker:And as I go through
Speaker:it myself with my son
Speaker:is 26 and my daughter,
Speaker:who's 24, like I, we
Speaker:get into the nitty gritty.
Speaker:Like I want to explain
Speaker:how weird it all is
Speaker:so that there's an understanding
Speaker:of biology.
Speaker:Like it is weird.
Speaker:And yeah, you're lucky.
Speaker:I mean, you're lucky now
Speaker:or your kids are lucky,
Speaker:especially because it is becoming
Speaker:something that we can, we
Speaker:will talk about and that
Speaker:we are talking about.
Speaker:You're seeing it in the
Speaker:media.
Speaker:It's not as stigmatized, even
Speaker:though in the workplace, I'm
Speaker:giving a talk in about
Speaker:a month in a workplace
Speaker:setting.
Speaker:And it's tricky to, you
Speaker:know, people want to listen,
Speaker:but they don't want to
Speaker:say the words because there's
Speaker:still that perception of aging
Speaker:and are we relevant and
Speaker:do we matter and can
Speaker:we be visible post periods?
Speaker:And our reactions, you know,
Speaker:I mean, think about it
Speaker:in a, in, you know,
Speaker:we're working with men and
Speaker:women and if women somehow
Speaker:admit that they're in a
Speaker:menopausal stage or show it
Speaker:in some way, then are
Speaker:their reactions to certain, you
Speaker:know, responses to meetings, are
Speaker:they perceived as unhinged because
Speaker:of that?
Speaker:Or are there really good
Speaker:points, you know?
Speaker:Well, honestly, it's a superpower.
Speaker:So I actually think, I
Speaker:mean, I've said also for
Speaker:years, like sometimes I think
Speaker:PMS is a superpower when
Speaker:you just don't give a
Speaker:about anybody's response.
Speaker:And the same thing when
Speaker:you have a decrease in
Speaker:estrogen and nothing protecting your
Speaker:brain and telling your brain
Speaker:to calm down and soothe
Speaker:and soothe others, that that's
Speaker:actually a superpower.
Speaker:That's how men live.
Speaker:And so like, how cool
Speaker:is that to just not
Speaker:care about how somebody's going
Speaker:to react when you make
Speaker:an actual good point in
Speaker:a meeting or, or, right.
Speaker:Or say the thing that
Speaker:needs to be said, but
Speaker:no, I, I, I really
Speaker:am so appreciative that women
Speaker:are talking more about it.
Speaker:I talk about it too
Speaker:much, but only because I
Speaker:can't, like, I can't believe
Speaker:what, how my, what my
Speaker:body's been going through.
Speaker:Like, I'm, I can't believe
Speaker:what the past few years
Speaker:have been like with my
Speaker:periods.
Speaker:It's so weird.
Speaker:Like, it's so distressing and
Speaker:that's not talked about enough.
Speaker:Like how sick I feel
Speaker:when my period shows up.
Speaker:Like, I can't wait for
Speaker:it to all end because
Speaker:I, it takes me out.
Speaker:Why should it take me?
Speaker:Because that's a physiological response
Speaker:that some women have at
Speaker:this age.
Speaker:Like that's just real.
Speaker:And if we don't, I
Speaker:mean, if we shrouded in
Speaker:secrecy and we don't share
Speaker:it, then I think that's
Speaker:cruel because then women are
Speaker:feeling crazy.
Speaker:They're feeling like they're the
Speaker:only ones.
Speaker:Like I'm the most competent,
Speaker:non-lazy, get up and
Speaker:go get shit done type
Speaker:of person.
Speaker:Like that is how I'm
Speaker:wired.
Speaker:I get my period.
Speaker:I want to crawl up
Speaker:in a ball, not leave
Speaker:my house until it's over.
Speaker:I can't, I feel so
Speaker:sick from head to toe.
Speaker:It's just real.
Speaker:There's little I can do
Speaker:until it ends.
Speaker:So I can't wait for
Speaker:it to end knowing that
Speaker:it's good for me to
Speaker:still have it at this
Speaker:age.
Speaker:I still need it to
Speaker:end.
Speaker:And I'm going to talk
Speaker:about it because that's fair.
Speaker:Good that you're doing that
Speaker:because it's giving that I'm
Speaker:not alone feeling to so
Speaker:many people, you know, our,
Speaker:our culture, you know, the
Speaker:sort of Western, if we
Speaker:can just broadly generalize, but
Speaker:our sort of American culture
Speaker:really does shroud that more
Speaker:than other cultures.
Speaker:So, I mean, not to
Speaker:go deep into deep cultural
Speaker:dive, but other places in
Speaker:the world don't look at
Speaker:menopause the same way, or
Speaker:don't even have words for
Speaker:it because not because they
Speaker:eliminate it, you know, ignore
Speaker:it, but because it's a
Speaker:next life stage and it's
Speaker:more of a shared experience.
Speaker:Just like breastfeeding in America
Speaker:is still very isolating for
Speaker:women unless someone joins a
Speaker:group or is of a
Speaker:different cultural origin that has
Speaker:internal groups that they can
Speaker:rely on around the world.
Speaker:That's a very common thing
Speaker:for people to experience and
Speaker:go through together.
Speaker:And I think menopause and
Speaker:perimenopausal period is, is so
Speaker:would still benefit from that.
Speaker:And I think that there's
Speaker:quite a bridge to get
Speaker:there, you know, in our
Speaker:society, just because of, you
Speaker:know, we're just, just starting
Speaker:to open.
Speaker:We're just at the beginning
Speaker:of the conversations.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:There's still a little too
Speaker:much to me, emphasis on
Speaker:like staying sexy after menopause,
Speaker:like, like how long do
Speaker:I have to fight to
Speaker:be sexy?
Speaker:Like, can I just be,
Speaker:you know, there's this, it's
Speaker:just exhausting.
Speaker:And that, you know, it
Speaker:just still exists for women.
Speaker:We have to constantly, I
Speaker:don't know, be morphing into,
Speaker:and I'm right there doing
Speaker:it.
Speaker:I might, I might complain
Speaker:about it, but you will
Speaker:not see me have a
Speaker:chin hair.
Speaker:You'll, I, you know, I'm
Speaker:going to take care of
Speaker:the things that are important
Speaker:to yourself is not, you
Speaker:know, succumbing to a societal
Speaker:norm, you know, I really
Speaker:don't.
Speaker:I agree.
Speaker:No, I agree with you.
Speaker:I'll never have gray hair.
Speaker:Cause I will not.
Speaker:It's a choice and that's
Speaker:mine, but you have such
Speaker:a great energy.
Speaker:Wendy, you, you are so
Speaker:open and clearly don't have
Speaker:judgment.
Speaker:You are obviously a very
Speaker:smart, kind soul.
Speaker:And I think people will
Speaker:benefit from listening to a
Speaker:thousand waking minutes, which is
Speaker:your podcast and how, how
Speaker:can they work with you?
Speaker:Can you work with people
Speaker:virtually?
Speaker:Yeah, I do.
Speaker:I've had a long sort
Speaker:of interesting path as we
Speaker:all do in our careers.
Speaker:And I work virtually with
Speaker:individuals all over the world.
Speaker:So I'm pretty good at
Speaker:time zones.
Speaker:You know, even my Chilean
Speaker:friends who have sometimes a
Speaker:three hour difference, sometimes four
Speaker:and sometimes five, depending on
Speaker:what week we're on.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:Yeah.
Speaker:I work virtually, I work
Speaker:in person.
Speaker:Sometimes I travel to individuals.
Speaker:Sometimes we do retreats, you
Speaker:know, sometimes I do private
Speaker:or I create retreats at
Speaker:different places.
Speaker:And so there's a variety
Speaker:of ways.
Speaker:I'm, I'm, I'm just not
Speaker:a one size fits all
Speaker:type of gal.
Speaker:So, you know, cause we're
Speaker:all unique.
Speaker:But I work with individuals
Speaker:and then I just really
Speaker:hope that my podcast has
Speaker:become a forum for community.
Speaker:So it's small.
Speaker:It's not like yours, Jenny,
Speaker:it's growing, but I feel
Speaker:like it's an environment that
Speaker:can build community where conversation
Speaker:can start to happen.
Speaker:Even though it's broadcast out,
Speaker:as you all know, you
Speaker:know, it's there, it's not
Speaker:the channel like you've had
Speaker:in live broadcasts in your
Speaker:experience.
Speaker:I have some ideas moving
Speaker:forward on how we can
Speaker:get a little bit more
Speaker:interaction and conversation going there
Speaker:as well.
Speaker:I have no doubt you'll
Speaker:do that.
Speaker:How can people find you?
Speaker:Thanks.
Speaker:Well, they can go to
Speaker:wendybazilian.com and that's my
Speaker:website.
Speaker:And my last name is
Speaker:spelled just like Brazilian from
Speaker:Brazil, but without an R.
Speaker:So wendybazilian.com and people
Speaker:can email, I love emails
Speaker:at 1KWM.
Speaker:That's like 1,000 waking minutes,
Speaker:a short acronym,
Speaker:1KWM@wendybazilian.com.
Speaker:So pretty easy to find.
Speaker:If you sort of, you
Speaker:probably could put Wendy Bazilian
Speaker:and you get to me
Speaker:too.
Speaker:And you do.
Speaker:Yeah, I think you probably
Speaker:would.
Speaker:Uh-huh.
Speaker:I think you're right.
Speaker:I'm at Just Jenny Hut
Speaker:on Instagram and TikTok at
Speaker:Jenny Hut.
Speaker:And any questions or comments
Speaker:about this episode or really
Speaker:anything you can email justjennypot
Speaker:at gmail.com.
Speaker:Thank you, Wendy, for being
Speaker:on the podcast.
Speaker:I hope people check out
Speaker:1,000 Waking Minutes.
Speaker:It's really good.
Speaker:You're very soothing and smart
Speaker:and reasonable.
Speaker:All things that I like.
Speaker:And I really appreciate you're
Speaker:talking with me today.
Speaker:I'm so grateful, Jenny.
Speaker:Thanks for having me on
Speaker:your show.
Speaker:It's wonderful.
Speaker:Thank you for tuning into
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