What if your recipe for 2026 didn’t come from an influencer—but from your own messy, delicious, real-life wisdom?

In this warm and thoughtful New Year’s Eve episode, Michael offers a refreshing alternative to the typical goal-setting frenzy: a metaphor of baking cookies. With humor and heart, he shares why crafting your own “recipe for life” might just be the best way to welcome a new year—especially when the world keeps shouting at you to be a whole new you.

1. Discover why someone else’s formula for success may leave you feeling hollow
2. Learn how to create a life recipe that fits your reality, strengths, and joy
3. Reframe New Year’s reflection with curiosity, compassion, and maybe a warm cookie

Press play now to reimagine your New Year’s approach with grace, flavor, and full permission to burn a few batches along the way.

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 Hey there, it's Michael. Welcome to Whole Again and New Year's Eve Day. If you celebrate Christmas last week, I hope it was a meaningful celebration, and now you might be thinking about going out tonight as you welcome the new year. Or you might be in the camp of, I can't make it to midnight, so I'm going to bed early, which is totally cool.

You know what color will be hot, what trends will be happening. All of it. We have the dueling forces of Pro New Year's resolutions and those that say, stay away, you'll break them anyway. They're like Heat Miser and Mr. Snow, Mr. White Christmas. They can't seem to get along. All of it. All the noise about the new year can feel overwhelming.

You would be completely human if you say enough. I'm just gonna continue to do what I'm gonna do into the new year, and that is certainly an option. But today I'd love to share a different perspective. I wanna talk about cookies. Yes, cookies. I know that was a weird segue into our topic. Personally, there isn't a cookie that I don't love.

Nutter butter Oreo. A tart cookie molasses, but the gold standard Tollhouse chocolate chip. Forget about it. It's the cookie people go to when they want something reliable, familiar, sweet. It's like coming home. It's like feeling whole again when you bite into a Tollhouse chocolate chip cookie. Here's the cool thing about them.

Even though the recipe's right on the bag, almost no one makes it the same way. Some people swap out margarine for butter. Others cut the sugar a bit. Some add oats as my wife does. Some of the cookies will be made with dark chocolate chips. Others butterscotch plus chocolate or m and ms. Some will get. A little fancy.

They'll put a little sea salt for a salted chocolate chip cookie. So good. By the way, others will make their cookies gluten-free. Some will include nuts. Others will say no way to nuts. It's against their beliefs. And what's common about all of them? Well, almost all of them. Is that when that first batch of gooey and warm cookies come out of the oven and someone takes their first bite, they will say, oh my gosh, this cookie is amazing.

The best cookie ever. Now, I said, almost everyone, because there was a time during my recovery from my accident, they asked me to make cookies as part of my occupational therapy. And I'll just tell you that those cookies were horrible. You could not eat them. So that's why I say almost every batch that comes out of the oven that fills the house or the apartment with that beautiful aroma.

Oh, so good. And every batch is like their own version using their own recipe? Yes. We have the standard recipe, the foundation. But a lot of people will play with their recipe to make it their own according to their liking and what's been passed on from generation to generation. So as we approach the new year with all the noise around goals and resolutions, and doing this and doing that new year, new you vibe, I wanna offer this simple reminder.

We all have our own recipe, and I'm not talking about cookies right now. Of course. Although all this cookie talk is making me a bit hungry, I'm really talking about for life to come up with your own recipe for life next year. That's how we grow. That's how we rest. That's how we succeed and find joy and happiness.

That's how we figure out how to get through the tough moments because there will be tough moments. It'll even help us understand what truly matters and know this, that what works for someone might not work for you. That's not a flaw. That doesn't mean you're less than or broken or any of that. It's what we call freedom.

It's what we call agency because you don't have to follow their recipe. You can make your own so you don't have to copy and paste someone else's recipe or some influencers, productivity hacks or wellness routine or. There are 5:00 AM wake up calls that include burpees. You don't have to do any of that.

The thing is with influencers on social media, they only give you a filter view of their cookies. You don't know what is really inside all of them, and you hardly see them eat a cookie or two. And I think life is way too short not to have a cookie or two. You have to enjoy life, and you don't need to force yourself into a mold.

That looks successful. On the outside, it looks like a pretty good cookie, but when you bite into it not much there, it can feel hollow inside. It's not very satiating. You're certainly not gonna have another one. So the invitation as you welcome the new year is to find a recipe that nourishes you. That reflects where you are in life, your season, if you will, and your taste and your strengths and your reality.

Those cards are precious and. Every now and again, you'll burn a few batches of cookies. Now, I happen to like burnt cookies. It makes me a bit weird. So if you burn a few cookies, give me a call. I know a guy who can take them off your hands, and as you experiment, as you play around with your recipe, you'll determine what's missing or what you added.

Too much of. Slowly, slowly, you'll let go of the need to be perfect because there are no perfect cookies and there's no perfect life. All of it is perfectly imperfect. So as you welcome the new year as you get ready for whatever festivities you have going on tonight, you might wish to spend a moment in reflection to reflect on.

What's working with your recipe right now? Or what would you leave out of your recipe for next year? Or what could you add to give your recipe a bit more flavor? And most importantly, what would it look like if you could trust yourself fully as your head chef, the head chef of your own life? I'm not really good at making predictions, but I will say this, if you thought this year was a bit bananas, next year it'll still be bananas.

It'll still be crazy. And to enjoy it, to navigate it with a bit of grace as we do here at whole. Again, we understand. We fully accept that everybody's recipe will be different, and that's the beauty of life. We don't have to do it in just one way. You can bring your authentic self to your own recipe. How cool is that?

It's amazing. So I'll encourage you to lean into that. And if you're going out tonight, whip up a batch of cookies because you don't wanna be the person that comes to the party empty handed. If you're staying in tonight, what a perfect opportunity to whip up a batch of Tollhouse cookies. You can throw a couple back as you watch the crazy people in Times Square and wonder, why are they out there when they could be here having a delicious cookie.

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