Teen Life in 2025: Wrestling, Phantom of the Opera & 6-7 with Mia

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Step right up, it's the show you adore It's onefjef, episode 24 Deep chats, big laughs,

and we're glad you're here Cause cousin Mia's in the spotlight this year She's a freshman

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star with the sacks in hand On the wrestling match she takes a stand Just don't you loud

or she'll give you a glare

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But Phantom of the Opera, she'll take you there.

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He's got Zany Vox, there to spare.

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It's onefjef, where the convo goes there.

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So ring that bell and open the door.

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It's onefjef, episode 24.

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This is episode 24 of onefjef.

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The number 24 has always carried a sense of completeness.

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Time itself revolves around it.

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24 hours in a day.

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A system that began with the Egyptians dividing daylight and darkness into two sets of 12.

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In numerology, its digits add to six.

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A number ruled by Venus and tied to love, harmony and domestic balance.

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That makes 24 the caretaker number.

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Dependable, protective and devoted to maintaining connection and stability.

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cousins and I were really close when we were growing up.

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We all lived in the Cleveland area and we were all pretty close in age.

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So we'd celebrate all our birthdays and holidays together.

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We'd go on vacations together.

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We'd have these amazing sleepovers at our grandmother's house.

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It was pretty magical, to be honest.

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And I remember growing up and finding out that most people didn't have such a close

relationship with their cousins.

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And I realized that it was special.

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this connection we'd forged as kids.

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Now we're all in our 40s and 50s, and we've dispersed to different parts of the country.

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And some of us have husbands and wives and kids and jobs, and it's not as easy to see each

other and stay in touch.

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But the connection I feel and the love I have for this group of people is still there.

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It'll always be there.

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When we were in our 20s and early 30s, my cousin started a contest, a betting pool, if you

will.

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about who would be the first of us to reproduce.

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It was funny at the time, and it still is funny, frankly, because none of us seemed

anywhere close to having kids, in spite of the fact that we were all in the relative age

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range of when people start to reproduce, and also because we were betting on this.

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I'm not sure our parents found it quite as funny as we did, but that was often the case.

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One Christmas, we took an empty vodka bottle.

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and filled it with water and then closed it back up and wrapped it up as a gift for my

cousin Sarah, who was I think 18 at the time, maybe 17.

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And we gave it to her in front of everybody and she opened it up.

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We told her beforehand and she opened it up and she says, oh boy, I love vodka.

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And she just starts chugging it in front of everybody.

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And the look on our parents' faces.

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I mean it was...

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I'll never forget the look.

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I'll never forget it.

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Anyway, the first cousin baby was born in June of 2010 to my cousin Mike.

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My sister had hers in August of that year and then my cousin Brian had his first a year

later in: 2011

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Our youngest cousin Rachel won the pool, which was about a thousand bucks, I think.

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Which brings me to my guest today...

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who is my cousin Brian's firstborn child, Mia, who is now 14 years old and a freshman in

high school, which is wild.

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Mia was actually one of the first people that I booked for this podcast.

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I was at a minor league baseball game with her and her family, and I was telling her about

this podcast I was planning to start.

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And she was like, can I come on?

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Can I come on?

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And I was like, of course.

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And so last Saturday,

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We made it happen.

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I really enjoy talking to young people.

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Maybe I'm just trying to maintain my relevance in this increasingly confusing world of

ours, but I enjoy hearing their perspective about all the things.

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So this conversation with Mia is no exception, and I hope you'll enjoy listening to it as

much as I enjoyed having it.

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Thank you for listening.

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Thank you for being here.

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Here is my first cousin.

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once removed.

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Mia.

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Do you remember when we first met?

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I not tell you.

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No, no do I ah I Think you were drooling a lot at that age you were a big drool Well, it's

all right.

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You were very baby.

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You and Matt both drooled.

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I don't know which one was the bigger drool Yeah, well, we'll find out I'll ask your

parents um So tell me about tell me about Mia

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Okay, sure.

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I'm 14.

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I'll be 15 next year.

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I like that's kind of a no-brainer.

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Yeah.

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Well, I'm in high school.

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I am a freshman.

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Let me see.

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Right now it's wrestling season, so that's like the sport I'm in.

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Yeah, I have a nice friend group.

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I have nice friends.

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I hang out with them when I'm not doing a sport or homework really.

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support to you playing.

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Well, right now I'm in wrestling season, so I'm wrestling.

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that's right.

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And in the fall I did golf.

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And these are all new sports to like I've never played them before.

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Right.

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But it's interesting, it's new.

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And it's mainly it's like the people that I do it for.

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Yeah.

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But it's also interesting to try something new and also meet new people.

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Sure, sure.

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Do you like wrestling?

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I yeah, we'll see if I do it next year but it's fun this year and I'm kind of stuck with

it so I'm gonna try it.

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uh Wrestling, I never would have thought of wrestling.

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I never really wanted to wrestle when I was a kid.

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You know, me neither, but then my best friend's older sister comes up to me and she's

asked me about it and she talked to me about it for a while and so did my friend.

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ah And then I convinced my other best friend to join.

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So me, my two best friends did it with one of their older siblings.

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Right, right.

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So there was a first person who wanted to do it.

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Yeah.

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And that person got everybody else wanting to do it as well.

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Do you feel like you're good at it?

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How many matches have you had?

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Three, and how have you done?

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All right.

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You're giving me a blank stare right there, Right, we'll avoid that one.

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And the golf thing hasn't started yet.

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That wasn't, how'd that go?

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Also not bad, but I was like learning, you know?

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But that was fun.

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I got to drive a Golf.

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Right and your dad likes to golf too, so that's fun.

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Yeah Right, right, right.

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Probably not a good idea He's not a big wrestler either too.

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So I don't think

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He said he did.

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Did he really?

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Yes.

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One I asked him one day he was like, yeah, I did.

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I was good.

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And I had no idea.

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I was very surprised.

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Huh, I had no idea either.

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I can't really picture your dad wrestling, but...

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Me neither.

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No.

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I guess you knew.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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So what's it like being a teenager in 2025?

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It's pretty cool, you know?

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It's also interesting because we have the internet and phones and that kind of thing.

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So it's interesting to see other people and you know, like the same.

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yeah.

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How do you feel about the social media?

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I enjoy it.

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I don't like post anything.

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Okay.

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But like I it's interesting to like see other stuff and like like TikTok and Instagram.

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TikTok.

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Yeah, that's the one that's super addictive.

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That's like, yeah.

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Yeah, that's the one that I can't have on my phone because it's too much.

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Although I did start a TikTok account for this podcast and I'm not sure what to do with

it.

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I feel like I should do dancing or something, but that was some dance numbers.

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no, we'll find Matt.

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He likes the choreo- choreography.

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Right, and then they'd go to the podcast though, they'd see you and Matt dancing and maybe

me as well.

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uh But then they'd go to the podcast and they'd be like, this is nothing like what I saw

on TikTok.

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But it's just pulling them in, that's all you really want.

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So once you've got them.

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You got him hooked.

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I feel like the dancing, that's really neat.

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well we'll talk to Matt about that.

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See if he can do some choreography for us.

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I didn't realize your brother was also a choreographer.

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Is he really?

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I didn't know that.

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mean, according to himself.

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Of course, of course.

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But you're vouching for him here.

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I mean, I kind of have to.

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He's gonna listen to this and be like I am a good choreographer.

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I heard you Mia.

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Yeah Do you feel that social media is like ah I mean there's bad things about it, right?

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Right and how is that in high school?

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Like I can't imagine I didn't have we'd have phones of course when I was in high school or

anything So I can't imagine this house how like social life works when you have all the

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social media all the time

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It is interesting and I think for me, I do so many other things that there's enough time

where I'm not on social media.

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And like it's just regulated because of all the other activities I do and like the time I

don't have to spend on social media.

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But it definitely does affect our generation, like my generation and like, you know, it's

like, I know a lot of my friends don't have social media, which I fully understand because

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you have your parents.

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You know, like I can see both ways um and like I think that's kind of where I stand like I

don't post anything because I'm like I don't want it to I Don't want myself right affected

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by like what other people think of me.

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Do you feel like, mean, have you experienced any or known anybody who's been affected

negatively by like social media stuff?

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not that I can think of any of my friends That's good like any of my close friends because

they just like again none of my friends.

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We just don't Right.

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I mean we'll watch but like we don't you

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Yeah, you know that the people who invented these products like who invented Instagram and

all these tick-tock They don't let their children use them It says a lot about how

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nefarious they are uh And what was it like you've been in high school what for about?

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three four months now

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Like, three, two?

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How has that been?

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It's a big change.

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It's nice.

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mean, I definitely miss things at my middle school that like, I really just like the

people and also honestly the building was kind of nicer, like the building.

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The one thing I've noticed about high school is that like grades don't really separate.

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Like the whole school is kind of just together.

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Like I have some, I'm really close with some of the seniors, but I'm also close with some

of the freshmen and you know, like other grades, they all kind of mixed together, which I

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think is interesting.

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And like, I also have classes with the juniors and seniors.

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that's interesting.

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They didn't have that.

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That was not the case when I was in high school.

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We were all with the same.

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What classes do you have with upperclassmen?

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Oh, right.

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Okay.

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and then outro two and Spanish.

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Okay, yeah, I guess choir and band I had with other yeah with older kids.

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Yeah

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But it's definitely, I like that more.

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And like in middle school, I mean, we still had that, but you never had classes with any

of them.

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So it's hard to see them throughout the day.

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right, Is it different or the same as you expected?

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Like when you went in, did you have expectations about it?

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I didn't really know what to expect.

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I didn't have a preset thought of what heist could be.

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I I saw this stuff in movies, but I never really expected that to be the same.

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Right, right, right.

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ah So has it been better or worse?

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um I think better.

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I think one thing I guess one expectation I had was more classes like more homework sure

But that's not really how it's been like honestly interesting.

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I haven't had much like I could be wrong.

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Maybe it's coming but like I just the teachers are like more chill honestly weird so

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Huh, I don't know if your parents are gonna wanna hear that, but.

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They really will.

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It's probably the.

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I mean they know I don't I don't do any homework at home.

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I just don't have any huh.

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I do it at school

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I mean there's mixed feelings about homework these days in the sense that like, know

You're at school all day and then should you really be going home and then doing school

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again?

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I mean it seems a little bit I feel like there should be a little homework But to a degree

that I had it when I was in high school.

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We had a lot of homework And I hated doing it

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I don't like you either.

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can only the only homework I can understand is if you didn't finish it in class and it's

just something that's like Carries over.

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Yeah, or like a project right but like they're like, hey, I need you to do this outside of

school Like I really don't understand that especially since I know People who have like

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jobs and sports and like have other things going on in their lives.

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They just don't have time.

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So yeah

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Yeah.

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Are you a good student?

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I mean, yeah.

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Yeah, if I got anything below an A, I think I'd cry.

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Oh really?

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Yeah.

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Oh you're that good of a student.

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That's great.

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That's good to know.

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It's good to know what's your favorite subject.

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Oh, that's true.

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Honestly, for me to change, it's like depending on the teacher.

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Okay, that makes sense.

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But honestly, right now, one of my favorite classes is probably Spanish 3.

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Oh, It's right before lunch, which...

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Boy, no.

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Yeah.

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Sorry, I wasn't expecting that.

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And like, just like I have friends in that class and the teacher's nice, so...

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And are you learning Spanish?

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Yeah, well yeah, I guess, I guess so.

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You're getting pretty good at it.

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I'm trying to learn Spanish and it's not going well.

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I have labels all over the house as you'll see of things that I've labeled.

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Not in this room.

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Behind you there's a poster that I got in uh Columbia.

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What does it say?

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ah I also...

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Yeah.

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I also lived the life.

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Good job.

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Good job.

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Good job.

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Hey, you got an A.

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Well, la de da.

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So what's something that you feel like adults don't understand about what it's like to be

a teenager right now?

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Um, I think they just forget honestly, okay I could be wrong about this, but I feel like

teenagers have heightened emotions and like, you know, generally that's just kind of how

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it is I mean, I think they kind of forget that and then it's like You know, I might care a

lot about something but they don't really understand that right and it's like it'll seem

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like the smallest little thing and like it doesn't make sense to them But to me, I mean,

this is my whole world.

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Like I don't know anything else besides what?

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Right, high school and so forth.

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So like that's what matters most to me right now and I think No offense to my parents.

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I'm not calling them old but like they haven't been in high school for a nice chunk of

time

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A nice chunk of time.

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That's a great way of putting it.

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I haven't been in high school in a larger nice chunk of time than your parents, but not

that much.

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No, I don't want to go back to high school.

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High school is interesting, Mia, because it's like the only time in your life that you

will be around the same group of people, your class, for all the time.

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Like you're just kind of, and it's really interesting once you get out and looking back,

cause you're like, oh,

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I didn't really appreciate that when I was in it.

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I mean, it's good and bad because you don't like everybody.

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How many people are in your class?

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200 something.

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200, 300.

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Probably something around there.

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ah But yeah, it's interesting.

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Some of the people, I enjoy.

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Some other people, not so much.

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you find your people, you pick and choose.

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eh But then you'll get to go to high school reunions in like 10 years after you graduate

and 20 years and you'll see how these people have grown up and that's the interesting

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part.

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That will be interesting.

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I'm I will be there.

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I will like to see that

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You'll find a lot of like the jocks because I was not athletic in high school at all.

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I was a theater nerd and uh and all and show choir as well.

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uh and a lot of the jocks like the football jocks had become fat and bald, which gave me

pleasure.

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And that most of them have been through a divorce as well, which also gave me pleasure.

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But that will be interesting to see what relationship lasts.

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really is interesting, yeah.

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Because there were a few that people who met in high school were still married.

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Not very many, but a few.

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And a surprising amount of people who hadn't left the town, like Westlake.

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No, most of them had not.

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They still lived in the area, I found surprising.

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Yeah, what do you think?

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Do you think you're going to leave Columbus at some point?

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What do you think?

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I know.

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I like Glendale.

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um But like I also do want to see the world because like For me, there's not a point in

staying in one place the whole time.

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That just seems like a waste of my time Exactly, so I would definitely like to see other

parts of the world, but I don't know where if I'll You know come back to her and live here

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or yeah, I'll move elsewhere.

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Yeah

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I I went and lived all over and then came back to Ohio.

319

: 00:17:32

Right now I'm kind of just thinking about my test next week.

320

: 00:17:34

I was in band.

321

: 00:17:38

you have a test in band.

322

: 00:17:39

I don't think we had those.

323

: 00:17:41

You have to like play a piece basically.

324

: 00:17:43

Yeah.

325

: 00:17:43

And that's marching band.

326

: 00:17:46

All right.

327

: 00:17:48

Oh, all right.

328

: 00:17:49

Then what do you play?

329

: 00:17:52

all right.

330

: 00:17:52

Why'd you choose the alto sax?

331

: 00:17:54

Not really sure, it's kind of coming back to bite me now.

332

: 00:17:58

No, it's because it's heavy.

333

: 00:18:00

Like the case.

334

: 00:18:02

It's a big yeah.

335

: 00:18:03

Yeah.

336

: 00:18:03

Yeah.

337

: 00:18:04

Well hindsight.

338

: 00:18:04

Yeah.

339

: 00:18:05

Yeah

340

: 00:18:06

Really kinda should've thought one.

341

: 00:18:07

Should've thought that one.

342

: 00:18:09

I mean, yeah, it's fun.

343

: 00:18:10

All right.

344

: 00:18:10

I never could play.

345

: 00:18:11

I played a like a I could play cornet like it's a small trumpet and then I a valve

trombone and marching band, which I really didn't care for.

346

: 00:18:20

But I never learned how to play like the reeded instruments.

347

: 00:18:23

Yeah, I could play all the other instruments pretty much pianos and all that kind of

thing, but never any reeded things.

348

: 00:18:28

Yeah, I never tried.

349

: 00:18:30

So maybe I should try sometime.

350

: 00:18:31

Now think about it, I chose this in fifth grade, I don't really remember why I chose it.

351

: 00:18:37

I could not tell you, but it's, I mean, I like it.

352

: 00:18:41

Like it's, I feel like playing a brass instrument, I wouldn't like that, like on your

lips, like that sounds...

353

: 00:18:48

I know, I wouldn't.

354

: 00:18:50

doesn't sound too...

355

: 00:18:51

Yeah, when I got braces, I couldn't really do it as well because that makes it very hard

to go...

356

: 00:18:55

I know I've been through a few rounds of races and I like in middle school I had this

friend and she was another Alistair Saxon and we'd sit together You know, we both like

357

: 00:19:03

we're going through races and we'd be like, sorry I just got my braces tight and I can't

play today

358

: 00:19:09

You gotta take up my slack.

359

: 00:19:11

Yeah, I mean, probably could have, but you know.

360

: 00:19:14

I've never been, and this is no offense, I've never been a fan of the sound of saxophones.

361

: 00:19:19

That's fair.

362

: 00:19:19

I think you just have to play specific piece.

363

: 00:19:22

Like, I feel like saxophones, they can't play everything, but if you give them the right

music, it can sound really pretty.

364

: 00:19:28

Absolutely, there's definitely like, you know, you're John Coltrane and so forth, like,

given the choice, I'd go with like brass.

365

: 00:19:35

Like when I went to New Orleans and like the brass bands everywhere that really like gets

me.

366

: 00:19:41

Loud brass music, like marching, like the marching band, the Ohio State.

367

: 00:19:44

I think saxons I just this could be me, you know, because I play play it but like I think

they're kind of just like this left out instrument because they don't fit into a concert

368

: 00:19:53

band like they're just they're never part of like a symphony orchestra or anything.

369

: 00:19:56

Right.

370

: 00:19:57

I mean they're a jazzy instrument.

371

: 00:19:58

Yeah, you think of that when you think of jazz, but it's not like, you know, they'll be

all brass bands, but you don't have a saxophone in all brass bands, right?

372

: 00:20:06

You know It's a jazz

373

: 00:20:09

they're trying to kind of fit it in somewhere in high school bands

374

: 00:20:12

Yeah, so it's like I always do feel a little like a little left out because like we're

with the woodwinds, but The woodwinds are they're an odd group like with the whole flute

375

: 00:20:23

clarinet

376

: 00:20:24

don't get me started on the oboe.

377

: 00:20:25

I mean that's...

378

: 00:20:26

Yeah, well actually I can't say much bad stuff about that life one of my best friends

plays the elbow I do know

379

: 00:20:32

Well, I mean, no offense to her, of course.

380

: 00:20:34

I find that in general, your friend accepted.

381

: 00:20:37

The oboe community is a strange one.

382

: 00:20:40

I can see that.

383

: 00:20:43

some would Windsor.

384

: 00:20:45

I feel bad, but I feel like the stereotypes do fit a lot of the instrument.

385

: 00:20:49

Well it's a strange word to oboe.

386

: 00:20:52

Oboe.

387

: 00:20:53

mean if you say, you know how when you say a word over and over again it loses its meaning

and you're like, what are we even saying anymore?

388

: 00:20:58

Oboe is one of those.

389

: 00:21:01

Who thought of that?

390

: 00:21:01

Like saxophone, that's a legit word, but oboe.

391

: 00:21:05

I mean, generally with instruments, they're named after the person who made them.

392

: 00:21:08

Bob.

393

: 00:21:10

Yeah, that's probably was probably Robert.

394

: 00:21:12

But yeah.

395

: 00:21:15

There's Robbie.

396

: 00:21:16

have to look that up after the show.

397

: 00:21:18

um

398

: 00:21:19

Oboes, I think they're always really good at their instrument.

399

: 00:21:21

for sure.

400

: 00:21:22

Never met a bad oboe.

401

: 00:21:23

No, if you're gonna choose the oboe you're gonna commit to the oboe.

402

: 00:21:26

You really have to want to play the oboe.

403

: 00:21:30

Church is.

404

: 00:21:32

And that can be beautiful depending on the piece as well.

405

: 00:21:36

um I can imagine it'd be hard to listen to somebody practicing that if they're not very

good though.

406

: 00:21:41

A lot of squeaking.

407

: 00:21:42

Yeah.

408

: 00:21:43

Yeah.

409

: 00:21:43

Yeah.

410

: 00:21:44

Huh.

411

: 00:21:45

Band.

412

: 00:21:45

Yeah, I was in marching band for one year and I didn't care for it at all.

413

: 00:21:49

Yeah, I was in the freshman year and I just didn't care for it so I switched to show

choir.

414

: 00:21:53

Singing and dancing was more my game.

415

: 00:21:55

I mean it does take away a lot of Friday nights, which is right not great But I do like

being there like it's a fun time and especially all the people are you know nice and

416

: 00:22:05

funny, so Yeah, our football team sucks, so

417

: 00:22:11

well, you know, but you're the highlight then.

418

: 00:22:13

Yeah.

419

: 00:22:13

No, we are.

420

: 00:22:14

are.

421

: 00:22:14

Yeah.

422

: 00:22:15

It's the funny part, but.

423

: 00:22:17

We had to do like a whole summer thing too.

424

: 00:22:19

It was like weeks and weeks of practice in the summer.

425

: 00:22:21

Ben camp.

426

: 00:22:21

camp, yeah.

427

: 00:22:23

What are your friends like?

428

: 00:22:24

My friends?

429

: 00:22:25

Yeah.

430

: 00:22:26

Well, I do.

431

: 00:22:29

They're all a little different.

432

: 00:22:30

have some friends who are like really into theater, like that's their thing.

433

: 00:22:34

And like I am too, but like I doubt one a little bit of.

434

: 00:22:38

And I have two friends that I can think of.

435

: 00:22:40

They're crazy good at sports.

436

: 00:22:41

Like they are just, that's their thing.

437

: 00:22:42

Like that's, mean, they do other stuff, but like they're really good at sports.

438

: 00:22:46

And you know, my oboe friend, she's really good at the oboe.

439

: 00:22:49

Like that's her main thing.

440

: 00:22:52

But she's also one of my wrestling friends.

441

: 00:22:56

So...

442

: 00:22:56

Goal.

443

: 00:22:58

We play a lot of the same sports.

444

: 00:23:00

well that's fun.

445

: 00:23:01

That's fun.

446

: 00:23:01

um What do you think you're the best at?

447

: 00:23:04

Um, that's hard question for me because I think personally I'm just kind of okayed

everything I just do so many things that there's no I can't really be great at one thing

448

: 00:23:13

because I just focus on too many things at once Which is probably that probably tells you

something about me, but like ah

449

: 00:23:22

I kind of the same way I relate to that.

450

: 00:23:24

Yeah.

451

: 00:23:25

So it's like, I don't think there's any one thing that I'm just great at, but I'm just,

okay, a lot of things.

452

: 00:23:31

And I think that's kind of what I've accepted.

453

: 00:23:33

And that's just what I do.

454

: 00:23:35

It's a good realization to have at your age uh and high school is a great place to like,

know Try to do all the things because it's one of the like you won't have a chance to be

455

: 00:23:43

in like a marching band when you're an adult or like, you know all these things and it's

crazy because you don't think about that but then you get into older age and you're like,

456

: 00:23:50

you know, found a choir here but like in general people don't go into choirs as you know,

so Yeah, do all the things while you can

457

: 00:23:57

That's kind of my mindset.

458

: 00:23:58

good philosophy.

459

: 00:23:59

Really, I've done everything.

460

: 00:24:02

Yeah, I mean you're wrestling for crying out loud, which is never a thing I'd imagine

you're doing so yeah and what do you do you have like a Plan do you want what do you want?

461

: 00:24:12

Any ideas what you want to do after this high school scenario?

462

: 00:24:15

Know I want to go to college like I that's definitely one thing I wanted to do I'm not

quite sure oh what I'd want to major in There's like a lot of different things that I

463

: 00:24:25

would you know, let's what I guess film that'd be Like not on the acting side, but like

behind the scenes production.

464

: 00:24:34

Yeah

465

: 00:24:35

I can give you some background on how that life will be

466

: 00:24:37

And then I thought about engineering a lot and specifically aerospace engineering.

467

: 00:24:41

That's what sounds like.

468

: 00:24:44

I think that's the front runner in my head right now.

469

: 00:24:46

Like I'm that's my best subject is probably math and like the science sciences and stuff

in school.

470

: 00:24:52

So I think that would fit me well.

471

: 00:24:57

I've also thought about like forensic science and stuff.

472

: 00:24:59

Interesting like crime stuff.

473

: 00:25:01

do you listen to crime podcast?

474

: 00:25:03

uh It's weird women generally listen to those more than men like that's a very the

audience for female listening to it and it's just and like who knows why that is it's

475

: 00:25:14

interesting

476

: 00:25:15

and more men commit the crime so...

477

: 00:25:17

Right, right, right.

478

: 00:25:19

What do you think is the appeal to you of listening to true crime?

479

: 00:25:22

I always just find it fascinating like on how such terrible people can do such terrible

things sure it's I don't know it's interesting to go into like the psychology part of it

480

: 00:25:31

and like Understand why they would do that and like right?

481

: 00:25:35

It's just it's crazy

482

: 00:25:36

Right, I often wonder if some people are just like born bad.

483

: 00:25:40

I know.

484

: 00:25:41

Like, that's a question I've heard a lot of people ask.

485

: 00:25:45

It's like, do people change or is it, you know, is it affected by other things or is it

how they are?

486

: 00:25:51

How much about how they were raised had this to do with us things like that but like it

does seem like there's a certain number a small number of people who just are Bad and even

487

: 00:26:01

seem to enjoy being bad.

488

: 00:26:03

It's like that.

489

: 00:26:04

They like it.

490

: 00:26:05

Yeah

491

: 00:26:06

Yeah, yeah, they find joy in that it's it's definitely interesting to see how people You

know are and just like what they enjoy.

492

: 00:26:14

I guess.

493

: 00:26:15

Yeah certain things

494

: 00:26:16

It's I watch these my latest little YouTube addiction is these They take these that you

know the body cam footage from the police officers and now they're putting these videos

495

: 00:26:26

You probably seen them, but they're all over the internet There's so many of them and it's

like fascinating for some reason to me to watch these like police go to the crime the

496

: 00:26:34

crime scene in person and see all the I don't know why but yeah, very strange

497

: 00:26:38

I think my least favorite job would be a crime scene cleanup.

498

: 00:26:42

yeah, that sounds terrible

499

: 00:26:43

No, you're hosing down the blood and stuff.

500

: 00:26:45

Yeah, no, no, no, no, no somebody though wants that job.

501

: 00:26:49

It's like I want to clean up the blood

502

: 00:26:50

That's what makes it interesting on how different people are and like how someone would

like that job.

503

: 00:26:55

That's a great job.

504

: 00:26:56

I would worry about that person a little bit though.

505

: 00:26:59

Like if I was a parent and you were like, I want to clean up the blood after the crimes.

506

: 00:27:03

You'd be like, what have we done wrong?

507

: 00:27:05

Yeah, it's like they don't even want to commit it they wanted

508

: 00:27:07

No, they don't even want to research it.

509

: 00:27:08

They don't know anything.

510

: 00:27:09

They just want to clean up the mess which yeah, no um So where do you see yourself?

511

: 00:27:15

Let's say 10 years down the road

512

: 00:27:18

10 years away.

513

: 00:27:19

That's a long time.

514

: 00:27:21

years old just out of college.

515

: 00:27:22

Right.

516

: 00:27:23

Well, maybe not just out but I mean I was in college for six years, but we don't need to

talk about that.

517

: 00:27:30

I you know, I was I was a bit of a slacker in college and some of the classes that I

couldn't decide what to major in because I thought to major in one thing would be to

518

: 00:27:39

exclude like I'm a dabbler too.

519

: 00:27:41

So I felt like if I major in political science say then I'm gonna be a political scientist

most likely.

520

: 00:27:47

Yeah.

521

: 00:27:47

And what but then what if I want to do all these other things?

522

: 00:27:50

Right?

523

: 00:27:50

What if I want to do films?

524

: 00:27:51

So I couldn't, I had trouble choosing a major and then, you know, it's a long story.

525

: 00:27:56

And then I was having too much fun and so I just, six years, yeah.

526

: 00:27:58

And I'm not a doctor.

527

: 00:28:00

No.

528

: 00:28:00

No.

529

: 00:28:00

No.

530

: 00:28:01

24 years let me or 10 years.

531

: 00:28:03

Um, well, I'll probably be broke.

532

: 00:28:05

I feel like that's It is a great stuff.

533

: 00:28:08

Yeah, I'm just trying to accept that I can yeah, but like you know the job and like all

that debt from college Yeah, I've heard

534

: 00:28:18

Yeah, no, I still have student loan debt.

535

: 00:28:21

Yeah, it's a real, don't get me started.

536

: 00:28:23

Don't get me started.

537

: 00:28:25

Yeah.

538

: 00:28:26

Just don't go to like film school for grad school.

539

: 00:28:29

And also don't go to the most expensive art school in the country as well.

540

: 00:28:32

would just like to just.

541

: 00:28:34

Yeah, don't do that.

542

: 00:28:35

Yeah.

543

: 00:28:37

No, no, I would not recommend that.

544

: 00:28:39

I mean, they give scholarships, but yeah.

545

: 00:28:41

I would really hope to get a scholarship.

546

: 00:28:43

That's kind of, that's kind of why.

547

: 00:28:45

That's not why I'm doing all that I'm doing in high school, but I think it helps having a

lot of stuff in.

548

: 00:28:51

Yeah, it like you'll have a very well-rounded uh college application essay.

549

: 00:28:56

That's, I would like to be well rounded.

550

: 00:28:57

That's my goal.

551

: 00:29:01

That's what I think.

552

: 00:29:02

Yeah, so I don't know exactly what I'd be doing, but I think probably something in

science.

553

: 00:29:07

Okay, okay, let's say 20 years.

554

: 00:29:11

in one year, so I'll be thirty-

555

: 00:29:13

34 years old it'll be it'll be it'll be 2045

556

: 00:29:20

Don't say that!

557

: 00:29:21

Don't say that!

558

: 00:29:22

crazy to me ah I'll be 71.

559

: 00:29:26

Oh, so we be married with kids

560

: 00:29:30

Probably yeah, maybe I don't you don't know.

561

: 00:29:32

I don't know.

562

: 00:29:33

I definitely want to travel I do want a family like this.

563

: 00:29:36

I enjoy kids

564

: 00:29:38

Yeah, I do too.

565

: 00:29:41

Yeah, not really young kids, but like, you know, I've always liked talking to younger

people It's like my jam any boys.

566

: 00:29:47

No, no interest in boys

567

: 00:29:49

I not right now.

568

: 00:29:50

No.

569

: 00:29:52

I'm more focused on other things.

570

: 00:29:55

I mean, yeah.

571

: 00:29:56

Yeah, I mean, that started like middle school.

572

: 00:29:58

It's it's getting more serious now, but.

573

: 00:30:02

Yeah, I didn't have a girlfriend I think I could take a sophomore or something.

574

: 00:30:05

Yeah.

575

: 00:30:06

Yeah, and she didn't even go to my school She was from theater stuff.

576

: 00:30:08

Okay.

577

: 00:30:09

Yeah, you want to have kids though?

578

: 00:30:11

Yeah.

579

: 00:30:11

Yeah

580

: 00:30:13

I think everyone's kind of goal is to be rich.

581

: 00:30:15

So that'd be kind of cool, but.

582

: 00:30:17

thing is that money doesn't it's true what they say.

583

: 00:30:19

It doesn't it doesn't give you happiness It just gives you like at a certain point some

comfort, but really like if you want to live your life, it's a balance for me really and

584

: 00:30:31

I've always kind of leaned towards like experience and fun opposed as opposed to You know

accumulating wealth because then you don't what are you gonna do something with the money?

585

: 00:30:41

Like if you do get rich, what are you gonna do with that money?

586

: 00:30:43

So you have all the money.

587

: 00:30:43

What do you get all the money?

588

: 00:30:45

all the money.

589

: 00:30:45

Well, I'd want to travel.

590

: 00:30:47

That's definitely one thing I'd want.

591

: 00:30:48

are we gonna go?

592

: 00:30:49

Where's the first place we're gonna go?

593

: 00:30:52

Europe, any particular country?

594

: 00:30:54

this came up at dinner last night and grandpa he just started talking about his like

heritage and stuff right and I guess he's a half Finnish but I right no one ever told me

595

: 00:31:03

that so I mean I guess I'd be go that'd be interesting go to Finland and like he has all

the places like where his family was from and stuff so it'd be interesting to go there and

596

: 00:31:13

like see that absolutely more Germany yeah you know also we're German yeah

597

: 00:31:20

Yeah, good sausages there.

598

: 00:31:23

Yeah, if like sausage, sauerkraut, probably not at your age sauerkraut's fine.

599

: 00:31:26

Not quite here.

600

: 00:31:27

You'll like it as you get older.

601

: 00:31:28

in I heard they have good waffles.

602

: 00:31:30

Yeah, I'm not sure if Like I've been I think I've been through Belgium and I don't think

that I had a waffle but I don't know that They have better waffles than any other places,

603

: 00:31:40

but I don't know maybe maybe they do Yeah, and there's only one way to find out by going

well or asking the internet really yeah, but right You don't say The internet can be dodgy

604

: 00:31:54

by Mia Bifus, that's a great one.

605

: 00:31:56

It's that's a great one.

606

: 00:31:58

What's yeah.

607

: 00:31:59

Yeah

608

: 00:32:00

um Is there something that you're excited about in the future?

609

: 00:32:03

Um, well, one thing I'm doing is I'm doing history day.

610

: 00:32:06

It's like this thing where, there's a theme every year and then you like, you can do it by

yourself or like with a small group.

611

: 00:32:14

Um, and you like pick a topic that fits the theme and you like make this whole big project

about it.

612

: 00:32:19

There's like multiple different entries, entry styles that you can do.

613

: 00:32:23

You can do like an exhibit board, a documentary, a performance.

614

: 00:32:28

Like there's more, think there's something there's like five.

615

: 00:32:31

Right.

616

: 00:32:32

Um,

617

: 00:32:33

Anyways, but my friends and I were doing, we're gonna do it.

618

: 00:32:37

I mean, it's required for humanities, but like, we're gonna enter in the competition and

like.

619

: 00:32:43

Well, the theme this year is revolution, reaction, reform.

620

: 00:32:48

And so our plan, it could change.

621

: 00:32:51

But I think we were gonna do like the Code Girls.

622

: 00:32:54

were like this group of women during World War II who like were hired to be code breakers.

623

: 00:33:01

It's really interesting that they like couldn't tell their families is very secret.

624

: 00:33:04

They were like teenagers, like they were young adult women.

625

: 00:33:08

um So we thought that would be really interesting.

626

: 00:33:12

Something we're interested.

627

: 00:33:13

Sure, sure, Like what would you make?

628

: 00:33:16

Like a documentary or like a...

629

: 00:33:18

do an exhibit board.

630

: 00:33:20

exhibit So it's like a trifold.

631

: 00:33:22

Yeah, it's a good one because I think it's a thing people don't a lot of people don't know

about Yeah, yeah, and I think I'd heard something about something like that, but I didn't

632

: 00:33:28

know that that was just a big thing back then

633

: 00:33:31

Yeah, so we'll see how that goes.

634

: 00:33:35

Well, I guess the men were in the war,

635

: 00:33:37

Right, right, right that makes sense.

636

: 00:33:38

Yeah.

637

: 00:33:39

Yeah, you know women were the first side note but like women the first people who were the

big film editors back in the day when you were actually cutting film were almost all women

638

: 00:33:48

because they thought it was like knitting like sewing ah So some of the earliest like big

editors were women, which I always thought was interesting, isn't it?

639

: 00:33:57

Yeah.

640

: 00:33:58

Yeah What's your favorite song right now

641

: 00:34:03

favorite song?

642

: 00:34:04

ah That's a good question.

643

: 00:34:07

Can I really come back to that?

644

: 00:34:09

I need to like think about that.

645

: 00:34:11

Alright, you don't have to come up with favorite.

646

: 00:34:13

You can just be like one of the big ones on your playlist.

647

: 00:34:16

Something on rotate.

648

: 00:34:17

Okay, well, this is gonna sound really really odd.

649

: 00:34:21

Okay No, well, you know, we'll see um, but that one song from phantom of the opera is like

really sick Uh the one

650

: 00:34:33

Not the Phantom of the upper That's the main one.

651

: 00:34:36

Yeah inside my mind

652

: 00:34:38

It's like been stuck in my head for a while because it was like went viral.

653

: 00:34:41

I was like, it's cool.

654

: 00:34:43

You know viral like recently I'm don't know why huh, but it's really interesting and it's

like been really stuck in my head

655

: 00:34:51

That's crazy because that musical was huge when I was in high school like all the theater

kids knew all of that.

656

: 00:34:56

Yeah

657

: 00:34:57

Yeah, it's kind of died down.

658

: 00:34:58

It has.

659

: 00:34:59

Is it still?

660

: 00:35:00

I don't think so.

661

: 00:35:01

I think it closed just last year and year before yeah, it's one of the longest running

things I didn't see it on Broadway.

662

: 00:35:06

I saw it in Toronto.

663

: 00:35:09

Yeah, have you seen it?

664

: 00:35:11

I mean, I've seen bits and pieces.

665

: 00:35:12

right.

666

: 00:35:13

Never I've never sat down and watched the full thing, but I've seen

667

: 00:35:16

Yeah, it's a spectacle.

668

: 00:35:17

Yeah, you know, it's been chandelier come all that kind of things.

669

: 00:35:19

yeah, yeah How do you feel about your parents?

670

: 00:35:25

What's your relationship like with your parents?

671

: 00:35:27

I enjoy them.

672

: 00:35:27

They are my favorite people.

673

: 00:35:32

If you decide, you know, you don't want to talk about it, we don't have to talk about it.

674

: 00:35:35

Mean I I think I have a good relationship with my parents.

675

: 00:35:38

Yeah.

676

: 00:35:39

Yeah, I value them.

677

: 00:35:41

Yeah

678

: 00:35:42

Yeah, yeah, it's hard being parents.

679

: 00:35:44

I think I have no idea of course Yeah Yeah, and how are things with your brother?

680

: 00:35:51

Oh, that thing.

681

: 00:35:56

It's a tricky one.

682

: 00:35:57

Yeah, it's not like a love hate relationship.

683

: 00:35:58

I think that's how most siblings are.

684

: 00:36:02

He's also at the age where it's like, I don't I feel bad because I'm always mad at him,

but it's just like he's just like at an annoying age right now.

685

: 00:36:09

He's just annoying.

686

: 00:36:10

Yeah, he's just really wants attention and uh he's got such a big heart that one

687

: 00:36:16

He's very sensitive and it's like that's not a bad thing, but it's just like it can

688

: 00:36:20

Yeah.

689

: 00:36:21

Yeah.

690

: 00:36:22

Like I'm sensitive and like I think he's sensitive.

691

: 00:36:25

So that's saying quite a bit.

692

: 00:36:26

Yeah.

693

: 00:36:26

It's like, it's nothing bad, he just, he just can be a lot sometimes.

694

: 00:36:30

It's like, you know, I think he'll, it'll get better as he gets older, but he's just, he's

young right now.

695

: 00:36:37

He's a very interesting kid.

696

: 00:36:39

And I'm very curious to see what he'll be like in like 10 or 15 years.

697

: 00:36:43

I'm dying to know.

698

: 00:36:44

um Like it's so, more than almost any of my friends or relatives' kids, he's the one I'm

like, I wanna know what that kid's doing in 10 or

699

: 00:36:56

True he's so complicated Yeah, yeah, but you were very emotional and sensitive when you

were like five years ago I remember like you were like, uh, were like an open raw nerve,

700

: 00:37:05

but you really kind of yeah It really has and i'm and it's really been fun to see actually

because I remember when I first moved here Which was now six seven years ago.

701

: 00:37:15

um What?

702

: 00:37:22

did say that um, but not on purpose

703

: 00:37:25

Does make me legit?

704

: 00:37:26

Am I cool now?

705

: 00:37:27

Yeah.

706

: 00:37:27

Yeah.

707

: 00:37:29

No cap, bro.

708

: 00:37:30

Oh, that's the perfect word.

709

: 00:37:33

Fire no cap.

710

: 00:37:34

yeah.

711

: 00:37:35

That's...

712

: 00:37:35

I'm doing it right.

713

: 00:37:36

Doing it right.

714

: 00:37:36

You're...

715

: 00:37:38

It's like if you didn't see me here, you'd be like, is there another teenager here?

716

: 00:37:41

Anyway, yeah.

717

: 00:37:46

ah

718

: 00:37:49

So when I moved here, you were having a very difficult time at the time and you were very

emotional.

719

: 00:37:55

And I was worried about you.

720

: 00:37:56

was, because whenever I'd see you, you'd be very either happy or sad, but usually not the

happiest.

721

: 00:38:01

No.

722

: 00:38:02

But yeah, it's been great to see you kind of grow out of that phase.

723

: 00:38:05

I think one thing that affected my generation at least a lot was covid like I mean you met

me like

724

: 00:38:12

Right before COVID.

725

: 00:38:13

Yeah.

726

: 00:38:13

Well, I met you when you were a toddler.

727

: 00:38:15

yeah, I moved like 2018.

728

: 00:38:17

Yeah, so like I was you know, definitely affected me a lot and just like not being by

anybody I didn't know like what was like socially I I just didn't know I didn't learn

729

: 00:38:28

because like that was kind of like third and fourth grade for me like a little bit of

fifth too That was all like COVID.

730

: 00:38:36

So like I didn't I saw nobody I saw my neighbors and that was it

731

: 00:38:40

Right, and you saw your aunt and uncle.

732

: 00:38:43

Yeah, and just like family.

733

: 00:38:44

Like I would see family and then like my neighbors.

734

: 00:38:46

Like there were like two neighbors that that was the only people I would see.

735

: 00:38:49

Yeah.

736

: 00:38:50

family.

737

: 00:38:51

um So that was like, I, that took a while to grow out of.

738

: 00:38:56

Yeah, yeah, yeah I can imagine I mean I can't imagine actually but um Did you learn a lot

during those periods when you're No, no, no, no Did your parents lose their minds having

739

: 00:39:07

you?

740

: 00:39:07

Yeah I can't imagine having kids during that age and having to like do a job at home and

then have to make sure your kids are doing school and like, you know, blah blah blah blah

741

: 00:39:16

blah

742

: 00:39:16

is we're also like trying to find a bigger like another house to So that was also

743

: 00:39:22

right, guys were in that small house during covid which is insane.

744

: 00:39:25

was, it was rough, it was rough.

745

: 00:39:27

Or else now it's a lot better, but.

746

: 00:39:29

For sure.

747

: 00:39:29

Yeah, that was a rough time and you guys moved right around the time I moved in here.

748

: 00:39:32

like 2021 wasn't it?

749

: 00:39:33

Yeah, we've been in our house for probably three or four years, I think.

750

: 00:39:36

yeah now you got all sorts of room.

751

: 00:39:38

Yeah.

752

: 00:39:38

Yeah.

753

: 00:39:39

Yeah, but your dad said your room is an uh incredible mess

754

: 00:39:43

He needs to shut up because I fixed it.

755

: 00:39:48

I'll send you a picture.

756

: 00:39:49

don't have to send me a picture.

757

: 00:39:50

I had a messy bedroom when I was a kid and I said that to him I was like, you know, I had

a messy bedroom when I was a kid and he's like no, no, no, you don't understand.

758

: 00:39:58

You don't stand it's like

759

: 00:40:00

bad.

760

: 00:40:00

But I just don't...

761

: 00:40:02

it doesn't bother me.

762

: 00:40:05

I just don't care.

763

: 00:40:06

I mean it's better when it's clean but like I just don't really care if it's messy.

764

: 00:40:09

And it's better now I cleaned it.

765

: 00:40:11

He said that it was even hard for them to find a place to sleep on the bed.

766

: 00:40:15

Okay, that's stretchy.

767

: 00:40:16

oh

768

: 00:40:16

Okay, I assumed there was a little exaggeration going on there.

769

: 00:40:23

I'm sure he does.

770

: 00:40:23

Yeah, I mean, he's your daughter.

771

: 00:40:24

My parents had very strong opinions about my filthy bedroom when I was a kid,

772

: 00:40:28

But also just my dad, like he's just very structured and organized.

773

: 00:40:32

like, if I could describe with one word, it'd be spotless.

774

: 00:40:35

If you could describe your dad with one word, would be spotless.

775

: 00:40:39

Interesting.

776

: 00:40:40

Because he just, he's not a clean freak, but like, he likes structure and order.

777

: 00:40:45

Uh-huh, that's interesting.

778

: 00:40:47

I never thought about that with your dad.

779

: 00:40:49

Like I obviously see a different side of your dad than you do.

780

: 00:40:52

Yeah.

781

: 00:40:53

What about your mom?

782

: 00:40:53

What's the one word?

783

: 00:40:56

Heart felt.

784

: 00:40:58

Oh, that's nice.

785

: 00:40:59

Yeah, because I think that's this again.

786

: 00:41:01

This isn't a bad thing, but she also has a lot of emotions like my dad He tends to bottle

things up So I've which I've noticed but my mom she is very she's more open about her

787

: 00:41:13

emotions.

788

: 00:41:13

Um, so that's

789

: 00:41:15

Yeah, that's the thing that i'm trying to change about I think growing up in the midwest.

790

: 00:41:19

It's a lot of people we don't do well with I mean at least in our family too like even the

extended family.

791

: 00:41:25

We don't do a lot of like talking about our feelings.

792

: 00:41:27

No, no Yeah, and I don't love that about it but um, and i've tried to you know Change

myself and that's all you can do really because people are either going to come to you and

793

: 00:41:38

that's part of the reason i'm doing this podcast is because like I feel like not even not

even talking about feelings just talking about

794

: 00:41:45

You I've never sat down and talked to you like this.

795

: 00:41:47

You know, it's learning new things about you.

796

: 00:41:50

You have any questions for me?

797

: 00:41:52

Well, what was it like starting the podcast?

798

: 00:41:54

Like how is this?

799

: 00:41:55

Oh, that's an interesting question.

800

: 00:41:58

It's been good.

801

: 00:41:59

It's you know, I started it in early June.

802

: 00:42:01

In fact, I remember when I was about to start it.

803

: 00:42:03

Remember we were at that baseball game.

804

: 00:42:05

Oh, we were.

805

: 00:42:05

And we were talking about when the thunderstorm came in and we had to run for you.

806

: 00:42:09

And I told you, you could be on the podcast.

807

: 00:42:10

And here we are.

808

: 00:42:13

But yeah, I started early June.

809

: 00:42:14

And so it's been five months now and it's been good, you know.

810

: 00:42:19

It's been good for my brain to have a creative thing to work on because it's been a while.

811

: 00:42:24

Since I had a creative project.

812

: 00:42:25

So that's been really good and it's really like the best part is like getting to like have

excuses to like get people like friends and family in here to have interesting

813

: 00:42:33

conversations and get to know them because you don't often do that, right?

814

: 00:42:36

It's not right.

815

: 00:42:38

It's not often, right?

816

: 00:42:39

I mean I'll sit down with my friends and have a good conversation But like I'm not gonna

do that with like my brother

817

: 00:42:44

But even then it's like when the conversation ends with your friends, you're just like,

okay if the conversation starts to die out You're like, all right.

818

: 00:42:50

I see you later.

819

: 00:42:51

Yeah with this we got to keep it going.

820

: 00:42:52

Yeah, you know what mean?

821

: 00:42:53

Yeah, we got to keep talking.

822

: 00:42:55

Yeah So but yeah, it's been good I just need to keep my dabbling brain from wanting to do

something else or pull whatever it is Maybe I'll start playing music on this because you

823

: 00:43:04

know, knows start doing a song and dance or the tick-tock videos your career play brother.

824

: 00:43:09

Yeah What makes you

825

: 00:43:13

Genuinely happy.

826

: 00:43:14

What's the thing that makes you like joy genuinely happy, whatever

827

: 00:43:17

This is gonna sound odd, when the setting is just right.

828

: 00:43:21

when it's like falling into, it actually feels like fall.

829

: 00:43:24

There's like, maybe like jazz in the background and like all the leaves are falling and

it's like evening.

830

: 00:43:29

when the vibe is right.

831

: 00:43:30

Yes.

832

: 00:43:31

Right.

833

: 00:43:31

When's the last time you had that?

834

: 00:43:34

Well, we were like on the bus to one of the football games it was an away football game

our last away football game and that was like I feel like right now we're kind of just

835

: 00:43:44

getting over but it was like peak fall, you know, and like I could like smell a fire

There's like a like a cookout or like something going on There's like the kids behind me

836

: 00:43:53

like talking on the bus and I was looking out the window and we're like passing all these

like leaves It was like evening time like the Sun hadn't fully set

837

: 00:44:01

And I just like knowing where we were going and it was just like, it was very fall.

838

: 00:44:04

Like the perfect moment.

839

: 00:44:05

Yeah.

840

: 00:44:06

I love that.

841

: 00:44:07

I love that It also like speaks to like being present in the moment as well, which is a

good thing.

842

: 00:44:12

Yeah.

843

: 00:44:12

Yeah

844

: 00:44:13

Another thing I like is when the food just tastes so good.

845

: 00:44:16

Like, it could be the s-

846

: 00:44:17

hate that.

847

: 00:44:18

I hate when food tastes good.

848

: 00:44:19

I'm kidding.

849

: 00:44:21

I'm I'm kidding.

850

: 00:44:22

It just seems like that's a pie.

851

: 00:44:24

think that most people would say yes good tasting food

852

: 00:44:26

That's what saying, it can be the simplest, but when it just hits right.

853

: 00:44:29

When's the last time?

854

: 00:44:30

When's the last thing you ate where you were like, my god, this is...

855

: 00:44:34

was a few days ago that tasted really good.

856

: 00:44:36

I think I had the same, some from the same batch because I think they were from Halloween.

857

: 00:44:40

Yeah.

858

: 00:44:41

Yeah.

859

: 00:44:42

You're a Twizzler fan then.

860

: 00:44:43

Yeah.

861

: 00:44:44

Yeah.

862

: 00:44:44

Yeah.

863

: 00:44:45

What's your favorite candy?

864

: 00:44:46

Do you have a favorite?

865

: 00:44:47

I do like twizzers.

866

: 00:44:48

Those are one of my favorites.

867

: 00:44:50

One I get hate for a lot is peeps.

868

: 00:44:52

I like peeps.

869

: 00:44:53

I'm sorry.

870

: 00:44:53

I mean, I like a peep maybe two peeps, but too many peeps

871

: 00:44:58

I'm not just gonna like spam peeps, but I do enjoy them.

872

: 00:45:02

It's funny the name of my last episode was peeps.

873

: 00:45:04

Really?

874

: 00:45:04

Yeah, but it was about no it was about people was called peeping because I was talking

about how I hate the term leaf peeping.

875

: 00:45:09

Oh, okay.

876

: 00:45:10

Yeah, I don't like it.

877

: 00:45:11

You know, it seemed leaf peeping leaf peeping.

878

: 00:45:14

I don't like it.

879

: 00:45:15

don't like it.

880

: 00:45:16

No, I mean, I like looking at the leaves.

881

: 00:45:17

Yeah, and I'll go out and take a walk and look at the leaves, but I'm not gonna call it

leaf peeping.

882

: 00:45:22

It is and it didn't it wasn't a thing when I was a kid.

883

: 00:45:25

It's a newer thing.

884

: 00:45:26

I've never heard this until right now.

885

: 00:45:28

I've leaf peeping?

886

: 00:45:28

No.

887

: 00:45:29

that's great actually.

888

: 00:45:30

Maybe it's going away.

889

: 00:45:32

What does your generation have a term?

890

: 00:45:33

Of course your generation doesn't have a term for leaf looking at.

891

: 00:45:37

Leaf checking out leaves, brah, bro.

892

: 00:45:39

No.

893

: 00:45:40

No, no, it's pretty bad.

894

: 00:45:42

Fire, no cap.

895

: 00:45:43

uh Yeah.

896

: 00:45:46

Is there any like specific things that you really dislike?

897

: 00:45:48

I'll give you an example from my life that I was thinking about.

898

: 00:45:51

I don't like sticky.

899

: 00:45:53

I don't like when my hands are sticky.

900

: 00:45:55

I don't like if there's a sticky spot on the floor and I walk over it all the time, like

all day, it drives me nuts.

901

: 00:46:00

And it's always been like that, like eating syrupy things and I get the sticky stuff.

902

: 00:46:05

I don't like it.

903

: 00:46:05

What do you got?

904

: 00:46:06

I get that.

905

: 00:46:07

Hmm.

906

: 00:46:08

Oh, I hate loud chewing.

907

: 00:46:10

And it's like really bad.

908

: 00:46:12

oh

909

: 00:46:13

condition though, there's a term for that even.

910

: 00:46:15

I a friend who hates- I can't even meet in front of him because he drives me crazy.

911

: 00:46:18

not good and like i've gotten better like not saying anything because like I know it

bothers people like when i'm like commenting on their chewing um But no, it's bad and it's

912

: 00:46:28

like I just I genuinely feel bad like for the people when i'm like, like can you chew

quieter but Because i'm like i'm sorry like

913

: 00:46:36

I have a condition, I can't chew any quieter.

914

: 00:46:39

My jaw's broken.

915

: 00:46:42

Some people do chew really loudly though.

916

: 00:46:45

Yeah, and like sometimes it is like, okay, you actually need to shut your mouth.

917

: 00:46:48

Right.

918

: 00:46:49

But

919

: 00:46:49

Yeah, chewing with your mouth open at this time period like were we still doing that?

920

: 00:46:53

Yeah, we kind of stopped with that

921

: 00:46:54

No, I feel bad because my mom and my brother are like the biggest victims to my...

922

: 00:46:59

there's their loud shivers in your life.

923

: 00:47:01

Well, okay, that's how I hear them.

924

: 00:47:02

They probably aren't to other people, right?

925

: 00:47:05

Like it's probably just me and I'm like

926

: 00:47:07

Yeah, I've never noticed them chewing loudly, but there's a word for that.

927

: 00:47:11

There's definitely a word for people who can't deal with the sound of mouth sounds.

928

: 00:47:16

All mouth sounds like that's probably what I should add like yeah lip smacking

929

: 00:47:20

Yeah, yeah, no, I don't nobody wants to hear that uh but your dad's not allowed to

930

: 00:47:26

He also doesn't like loud chewing, so his is better.

931

: 00:47:30

I've noticed people who don't like loud chewing tend to be really quiet.

932

: 00:47:38

Yeah, Aunt Tara, she doesn't like it either, um but she's quiet.

933

: 00:47:43

Right, right, Interesting, it's like a thing that runs through your family.

934

: 00:47:46

It really does.

935

: 00:47:48

Something with the bifis bloodline.

936

: 00:47:50

Yeah, I never uh, ever thought that I don't think I have an issue with that I've never I

mean certainly some people when it's really loud that's a lot but um What about like

937

: 00:47:59

you're reading pretzels?

938

: 00:48:00

Is that also problematic?

939

: 00:48:02

It just depends on like, cause like if someone's just eating chips really loudly it's

gonna bother me but it's not gonna like-

940

: 00:48:08

I mean it's hard to eat chips quietly to be clear

941

: 00:48:11

and like that won't bother me too much.

942

: 00:48:12

It's really just like the bath sounds like I think go with it, you know, Like I hate when

people like are sucking on a lollipop loudly

943

: 00:48:20

Right, or popsicle.

944

: 00:48:21

Yeah.

945

: 00:48:21

um

946

: 00:48:23

Yeah, but like it's more just like crunching.

947

: 00:48:26

It's gonna annoy me but not like it's not gonna bother me.

948

: 00:48:29

Right, right,

949

: 00:48:30

Like if you're eating a steak and slapping your lips.

950

: 00:48:34

Yeah, that's a good one.

951

: 00:48:35

What are you worried about?

952

: 00:48:37

What am I worried about?

953

: 00:48:39

Like even on the small level or like really on a big level like about your future or

whatever it is.

954

: 00:48:45

Well, there's something I've noticed and it's like something that bothers me or not

bothers but worries me.

955

: 00:48:51

uh And it's like, it's kind of just like a self-conscious thing.

956

: 00:48:55

But I worry about like saying the right thing, you know?

957

: 00:48:57

Cause I feel like sometimes I am not the best picking up social cues or like understanding

what is the right thing to say and what's not the right thing to say.

958

: 00:49:07

And it's sometimes it's interesting cause like it all is the same in my head, but

sometimes I'll say one thing and people will be like kind of quiet after I say it.

959

: 00:49:14

then I'll say another thing, and then they think it's funny, they'll laugh and stuff.

960

: 00:49:18

But it's it's the same in my head.

961

: 00:49:20

So what I'm kind of trying to learn right now is like how to pick up on that, and like

what is good to say and what's bad to say, you know?

962

: 00:49:28

Yeah, I would say don't I mean certainly there's a definitely a very strong line in some

way but also in a smaller way I wouldn't overthink it because uh

963

: 00:49:37

But I also tend to overthink things.

964

: 00:49:39

That's it.

965

: 00:49:40

You gotta control that mind.

966

: 00:49:42

Yeah.

967

: 00:49:43

Yeah, your dad has that ruminating mind as well Yeah, but he doesn't talk about it, but he

just thinks but his brains always go He's like Batman.

968

: 00:49:52

How is your dad like Batman?

969

: 00:49:54

Well have you not seen LEGO Batman?

970

: 00:49:57

Oh, nevermind.

971

: 00:49:58

But I mean explain still I'm dying to know what I mean, so he's not like Batman.

972

: 00:50:02

He's like Lego Batman.

973

: 00:50:03

Yes.

974

: 00:50:04

wow I'll be surprised

975

: 00:50:07

I don't care about other Batman a Lego Batman is very like monotone does not share his

feelings not monotone but like Because my dad he'll have a good laugh but like it's like

976

: 00:50:17

Bothering him on like a very deep level.

977

: 00:50:19

He's not gonna tell anybody.

978

: 00:50:20

Yeah, but like he'll tell you if Again, if my room's messy, he'll tell me if he doesn't

like that but like he's not gonna tell me if something else is wrong like on an emotional

979

: 00:50:33

level

980

: 00:50:33

Yeah, I mean, that's a Midwestern thing.

981

: 00:50:35

You my dad didn't really talk about his emotions, you know.

982

: 00:50:38

So, yeah, interesting.

983

: 00:50:40

Lego Batman.

984

: 00:50:41

That was just my first thought.

985

: 00:50:43

No, it's a good one.

986

: 00:50:45

what other there's no other um like giant fears or anxieties about, you know, the future

or whatever.

987

: 00:50:53

It's like doing well, um and I hate I like been but like it's kind of a love-hate thing

there because I Despise I hate playing my saxophone alone Like in front of people it's my

988

: 00:51:06

worst.

989

: 00:51:07

It's genuinely my worst fear.

990

: 00:51:08

Um, but like You know taking a test in math.

991

: 00:51:13

I don't care

992

: 00:51:14

Why do think the saxophone thing is such a big fear?

993

: 00:51:17

I don't know, because like I I'm fine.

994

: 00:51:21

It's like moderate.

995

: 00:51:22

Yeah.

996

: 00:51:24

But like it's kind of public speaking as well.

997

: 00:51:27

Like I've had a fear of public speaking, but it's only gotten better.

998

: 00:51:30

Yeah.

999

: 00:51:31

Like it used to be a lot worse.

: 1000

00:51:32,662 --> 00:51:34,112

But like that thing, that's kind of.

: 1001

00:51:34,112 --> 00:51:35,716

that's the biggest fear for everybody.

: 1002

00:51:35,716 --> 00:51:36,628

I think it's public speaking.

: 1003

00:51:36,628 --> 00:51:37,429

Yeah.

: 1004

00:51:37,570 --> 00:51:38,931

And like it depends on what I'm doing.

: 1005

00:51:38,931 --> 00:51:42,692

Like if it's something, if I'm talking about something that I know well, it's fine.

: 1006

00:51:42,692 --> 00:51:48,535

But if it's like, I have to make something up on the spot, you know, but that fluctuates.

: 1007

00:51:48,535 --> 00:51:55,734

playing my saxophone, it's like I can have the piece of music right in front of me, but

it's just like, I'm scared of like criticism for it.

: 1008

00:51:55,734 --> 00:51:57,659

And just like, I don't know.

: 1009

00:51:57,659 --> 00:51:58,890

It is just my worst fear.

: 1010

00:51:58,890 --> 00:52:04,662

And I remember my middle school band director, was sitting down, I was doing this test.

: 1011

00:52:04,878 --> 00:52:08,138

And I was like, but he would make us play in front of the whole class.

: 1012

00:52:08,138 --> 00:52:10,198

Like the whole class, was like 50 kids.

: 1013

00:52:10,958 --> 00:52:13,278

And I broke down in tears playing.

: 1014

00:52:13,278 --> 00:52:16,838

Like I was sobbing, I was crying, it was not good.

: 1015

00:52:16,838 --> 00:52:19,118

I somehow finished the test, I'm not really sure.

: 1016

00:52:19,118 --> 00:52:24,518

My friends were like comforting me, but like the whole class was comforting me, which was

nice, also bad.

: 1017

00:52:25,258 --> 00:52:28,598

Anyway, so he's like, stay after class, I need to talk to you.

: 1018

00:52:28,598 --> 00:52:30,698

So I'm like, okay, this is just getting worse.

: 1019

00:52:30,698 --> 00:52:34,318

And he comes up to me, he's like, hey, you know, I got nervous.

: 1020

00:52:34,318 --> 00:52:39,986

When I was a kid, you know, playing too, it's like, don't worry, but I wouldn't get as

worried as you.

: 1021

00:52:40,118 --> 00:52:41,759

And then he kind of just sent me off to class.

: 1022

00:52:41,759 --> 00:52:42,190

I was like.

: 1023

00:52:42,190 --> 00:52:42,730

Great speech.

: 1024

00:52:42,730 --> 00:52:43,310

What did you say?

: 1025

00:52:43,310 --> 00:52:45,414

Thanks for

: 1026

00:52:45,812 --> 00:52:46,763

okay.

: 1027

00:52:47,617 --> 00:52:58,798

So I have a story about that I took piano lessons when I was a kid and then we had to have

a recital and The recital was like, you know in front of about you know, I don't know 30

: 1028

00:52:58,798 --> 00:53:02,338

40 people whatever it was and at this point I've been doing theater and stuff.

: 1029

00:53:02,338 --> 00:53:06,358

So it wasn't like I wasn't comfortable on stage or whatever.

: 1030

00:53:06,358 --> 00:53:17,222

Yeah, but like I Got up there and I was so nervous and I like completely had practiced so

many it's furlies, you know And I had practiced it so many times

: 1031

00:53:17,704 --> 00:53:22,520

And uh I just completely, once it got off the rails, it just went way off the rails.

: 1032

00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:23,962

And like, I had a meltdown.

: 1033

00:53:23,962 --> 00:53:25,783

Like I was like crying hysterically.

: 1034

00:53:25,783 --> 00:53:29,288

I was crying and I was like, so yeah, I can relate to that.

: 1035

00:53:29,288 --> 00:53:30,069

I will never forget that.

: 1036

00:53:30,069 --> 00:53:32,511

And then my parents pulled me out of the piano lessons.

: 1037

00:53:32,993 --> 00:53:34,654

Did you think of your favorite song?

: 1038

00:53:34,964 --> 00:53:37,906

Oh, well I was kinda still thinking the family opera thing.

: 1039

00:53:37,906 --> 00:53:39,026

the Phantom of the Opera, that was it?

: 1040

00:53:39,026 --> 00:53:40,146

Phantom of the Opera.

: 1041

00:53:41,646 --> 00:53:42,346

No, that's a good one.

: 1042

00:53:42,346 --> 00:53:42,906

That's a good one.

: 1043

00:53:42,906 --> 00:53:43,718

I forgot about that.

: 1044

00:53:43,718 --> 00:53:45,109

But it's not my favorite song.

: 1045

00:53:45,109 --> 00:53:47,096

mean, I don't think I have a favorite song of all time.

: 1046

00:53:47,096 --> 00:53:50,850

me one of these songs that's like a favorite that I would not probably know about.

: 1047

00:53:51,891 --> 00:53:53,233

Or maybe I would, I don't know.

: 1048

00:53:53,233 --> 00:53:54,526

I'm trying to stay hip.

: 1049

00:53:54,526 --> 00:53:56,251

Another one it's not my favorite song.

: 1050

00:53:56,251 --> 00:53:58,435

It's like Taylor Swift's new album.

: 1051

00:53:58,678 --> 00:53:59,720

I don't think it's your best one.

: 1052

00:53:59,720 --> 00:54:00,311

I don't know

: 1053

00:54:00,311 --> 00:54:04,886

She's kind of she's kind of just kind of drifting along doing the same kind of thing over

and over

: 1054

00:54:04,886 --> 00:54:10,392

I think, okay, this could be a hot take, but I think what she needs to do is she needs to

act her age.

: 1055

00:54:10,392 --> 00:54:21,224

And that sounds odd, but I feel like she's trying to act younger, like stay hip or

whatever, but I feel like she would be more popular if she played music that was her age,

: 1056

00:54:21,224 --> 00:54:22,606

that was like fit her.

: 1057

00:54:22,606 --> 00:54:24,926

And what kind of music do you think fits her?

: 1058

00:54:24,926 --> 00:54:26,830

Like she's about 30, 35 or something?

: 1059

00:54:26,830 --> 00:54:34,841

oh And like she's like still in the pop genre, which I think is good, but she also doweled

in country, you know I Think was good.

: 1060

00:54:34,841 --> 00:54:36,303

But like, know Adele.

: 1061

00:54:36,303 --> 00:54:37,484

Yeah, I feel like Adele.

: 1062

00:54:37,484 --> 00:54:39,977

It's a perfect example of people playing music.

: 1063

00:54:39,977 --> 00:54:41,249

That's their age.

: 1064

00:54:41,249 --> 00:54:42,100

Does that make sense?

: 1065

00:54:42,100 --> 00:54:42,613

It does.

: 1066

00:54:42,613 --> 00:54:43,490

Yeah.

: 1067

00:54:43,490 --> 00:54:44,660

Yeah.

: 1068

00:54:44,660 --> 00:54:47,342

It's the topics, I think more than anything that she's singing about.

: 1069

00:54:47,342 --> 00:54:50,690

And just like the way the the music is written and like, you know

: 1070

00:54:50,690 --> 00:54:53,529

I mean, she's trying to have a wide appeal and all these kind of things.

: 1071

00:54:53,529 --> 00:54:54,338

ah

: 1072

00:54:54,338 --> 00:54:56,374

I think it would be better if she played.

: 1073

00:54:56,374 --> 00:54:58,382

What's your favorite album of Taylor Swift?

: 1074

00:54:58,382 --> 00:54:59,676

oh That is a good question.

: 1075

00:54:59,676 --> 00:55:05,742

Yeah, I it changes I think I just like specific songs of hers rather than like the entire

album

: 1076

00:55:05,742 --> 00:55:06,112

agree.

: 1077

00:55:06,112 --> 00:55:08,093

I'm a song person and not an album person.

: 1078

00:55:08,093 --> 00:55:11,405

think there's two kinds of people in this world, which maybe your generation isn't as

much.

: 1079

00:55:11,405 --> 00:55:16,008

I think your generation is probably more much more song related because of way music is

distributed.

: 1080

00:55:16,008 --> 00:55:22,502

But like, yeah, I've always been more of like a highlight, you know, I'll watch baseball

highlights, but I won't watch the whole game.

: 1081

00:55:22,502 --> 00:55:26,925

I'll listen to one song, you know, uh, watch.

: 1082

00:55:26,925 --> 00:55:27,195

Right.

: 1083

00:55:27,195 --> 00:55:28,576

know you Yeah.

: 1084

00:55:28,576 --> 00:55:32,856

favorite, but I would go with: 1989

: 1085

00:55:32,856 --> 00:55:33,818

That's that's

: 1086

00:55:33,818 --> 00:55:37,226

was my entry point to her that was when I was like, this is good stuff

: 1087

00:55:37,226 --> 00:55:40,729

Yeah, um, I think her newer stuff has drifted a little bit.

: 1088

00:55:40,729 --> 00:55:49,147

Yeah, so I don't think it's her best quite boring But I do like folklore and ever more

they're like twin albums essentially those two albums I think those two are probably my

: 1089

00:55:49,147 --> 00:55:49,602

favorite

: 1090

00:55:49,602 --> 00:55:50,412

Huh, interesting.

: 1091

00:55:50,412 --> 00:55:51,723

Yeah, I think I like folklore.

: 1092

00:55:51,723 --> 00:56:00,545

think if that's the one with the song the one on it, which I think it is I think so

there's another version of that whole album that she recorded during kovat in like a

: 1093

00:56:00,545 --> 00:56:01,165

cabin.

: 1094

00:56:01,165 --> 00:56:10,198

just Yeah, yeah, that's really good um That I really like that's like maybe my favorite

thing because I think her music is a little overproduced sometimes and I feel like pairing

: 1095

00:56:10,198 --> 00:56:14,109

the songs down because some of the songs are well written It's just like they're

overproduced.

: 1096

00:56:14,109 --> 00:56:18,460

And anyway, yeah, we don't need to go down that I don't think Taylor's quisp and talk

about in podcasts enough.

: 1097

00:56:18,460 --> 00:56:19,342

So I think

: 1098

00:56:19,342 --> 00:56:22,382

Good we got it.

: 1099

00:56:22,502 --> 00:56:30,542

Now then we talks about Taylor Swift nearly enough Yeah, it'll be interesting to see what

she's doing when she's like 80 or something You know still singing shake it off or

: 1100

00:56:30,542 --> 00:56:33,356

something at that point on the stage barely able to walk and yeah

: 1101

00:56:33,356 --> 00:56:41,690

No, because like I'm gonna add on to what I said earlier with music that's more her age I

think she did was doing really well with like a word folklore like that slower more like

: 1102

00:56:41,690 --> 00:56:43,671

piano Yeah centered music.

: 1103

00:56:43,671 --> 00:56:49,560

I think that would be really good now and especially since like I don't think we're gonna

hear another breakup album soon like

: 1104

00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:50,321

Well, who knows?

: 1105

00:56:50,321 --> 00:56:50,742

don't know.

: 1106

00:56:50,742 --> 00:56:52,444

It's gonna be hard to be dating a football player.

: 1107

00:56:52,444 --> 00:56:56,059

We're right, but I mean, who knows how long?

: 1108

00:56:56,059 --> 00:56:56,830

Well, we'll see.

: 1109

00:56:56,830 --> 00:56:58,882

I hope for them the best.

: 1110

00:56:59,364 --> 00:57:01,987

I don't know much about Travis Kelce.

: 1111

00:57:02,829 --> 00:57:04,902

That's pretty much where I'm at, yeah.

: 1112

00:57:04,902 --> 00:57:06,724

And he's from Ohio, like Cleveland.

: 1113

00:57:06,724 --> 00:57:07,547

yeah.

: 1114

00:57:07,547 --> 00:57:10,354

I think he's a fan of the Guardians, I'm pretty sure.

: 1115

00:57:11,421 --> 00:57:12,319

He doesn't.

: 1116

00:57:12,319 --> 00:57:13,740

Yeah, and they have a podcast.

: 1117

00:57:13,740 --> 00:57:14,760

They do.

: 1118

00:57:15,380 --> 00:57:15,850

Who doesn't?

: 1119

00:57:15,850 --> 00:57:17,141

Everybody's got a podcast now.

: 1120

00:57:17,141 --> 00:57:19,282

um We're coming for you though.

: 1121

00:57:19,282 --> 00:57:20,803

We are Jeff is coming for you.

: 1122

00:57:20,803 --> 00:57:23,003

this is gonna, yeah.

: 1123

00:57:23,003 --> 00:57:26,665

We'll get Taylor Swift on here and that will make them get divorced.

: 1124

00:57:26,665 --> 00:57:29,396

then maybe I marry Taylor Swift.

: 1125

00:57:29,396 --> 00:57:30,457

Wouldn't that be a weird twist?

: 1126

00:57:30,457 --> 00:57:30,787

Yeah.

: 1127

00:57:30,787 --> 00:57:34,708

And then I bring Taylor Swift home for Christmas or something.

: 1128

00:57:34,708 --> 00:57:36,729

Yeah, she's tall too.

: 1129

00:57:36,729 --> 00:57:38,009

She's like my height.

: 1130

00:57:38,690 --> 00:57:39,833

Sure, I mean, I would hope so.

: 1131

00:57:39,833 --> 00:57:41,358

She's probably like mean about it.

: 1132

00:57:41,358 --> 00:57:44,596

She's probably like, um I don't sing when I'm not getting paid.

: 1133

00:57:45,740 --> 00:57:46,581

I'll

: 1134

00:57:47,286 --> 00:57:47,768

Right.

: 1135

00:57:47,768 --> 00:57:48,399

It's Christmas.

: 1136

00:57:48,399 --> 00:57:50,054

Can't you just sing a few Christmas songs, Taylor?

: 1137

00:57:50,054 --> 00:57:50,516

No.

: 1138

00:57:50,516 --> 00:57:51,439

No, I will not.

: 1139

00:57:51,439 --> 00:57:52,020

Who knows?

: 1140

00:57:52,020 --> 00:57:54,366

eh Hopefully she would.

: 1141

00:57:54,392 --> 00:57:58,926

Yeah, I never know what to think about slowries, because I never know which ones are like

genuine.

: 1142

00:57:58,926 --> 00:58:06,082

uh I think most of it is kind of uh like you can kind of guess but I feel like Yeah, it's

yeah

: 1143

00:58:06,082 --> 00:58:08,243

You know, I hate to be a celebrity.

: 1144

00:58:09,084 --> 00:58:16,346

Because like, there's a lot of attention, but like I don't want people making false, like,

assumptions about me.

: 1145

00:58:16,346 --> 00:58:17,447

Right and that's gonna happen.

: 1146

00:58:17,447 --> 00:58:25,490

I mean there's some celebrities out there who just don't really talk to the press or

anything and just avoid it Which I'd probably what I would do frankly because some people

: 1147

00:58:25,490 --> 00:58:35,504

really some people like, you know I think everybody's got like a Like something that

they're trying to fill in their in their soul, you know Some people are trying to fill it

: 1148

00:58:35,504 --> 00:58:35,944

with money.

: 1149

00:58:35,944 --> 00:58:43,127

Some people think if they get famous, they'll be happy some people blah blah blah blah But

ultimately, I don't think that any of these things will make you happy.

: 1150

00:58:43,127 --> 00:58:44,158

You got to work on yourself.

: 1151

00:58:44,158 --> 00:58:44,610

Yeah

: 1152

00:58:44,610 --> 00:58:47,936

That's my little mindfulness lesson for today.

: 1153

00:58:48,359 --> 00:58:48,802

C.

: 1154

00:58:48,802 --> 00:58:51,010

should make this podcast about mindfulness.

: 1155

00:58:51,010 --> 00:58:52,850

is quite a bit actually, if you've listened.

: 1156

00:58:52,850 --> 00:58:56,930

There's a lot of, I kind of interspersed and I've interviewed like yoga teachers and

stuff.

: 1157

00:58:56,930 --> 00:58:57,550

far so good.

: 1158

00:58:57,550 --> 00:58:57,750

Yeah.

: 1159

00:58:57,750 --> 00:58:58,930

Do you ever meditate?

: 1160

00:58:59,216 --> 00:59:00,798

I've mentioned probably once my

: 1161

00:59:00,798 --> 00:59:02,460

That's more than I had done it by your age.

: 1162

00:59:02,460 --> 00:59:12,008

So Yeah, but the overthinking brain Mia I recommend it, you know What just saying or yoga

you can do yoga too.

: 1163

00:59:12,008 --> 00:59:14,410

It's not good for me before have you?

: 1164

00:59:14,951 --> 00:59:22,979

Good for you Well, I mean if you've done it then you know what it is and you can go back

to it when you get older because I feel like maybe it's the thing that older people

: 1165

00:59:22,979 --> 00:59:25,738

be more like early 20s things for me.

: 1166

00:59:25,738 --> 00:59:27,408

uh

: 1167

00:59:27,408 --> 00:59:27,728

Yeah.

: 1168

00:59:27,728 --> 00:59:34,546

Well, it's more yoga than I had done at your age We didn't even really have I mean there

was it In general

: 1169

00:59:34,546 --> 00:59:35,486

Yeah, just like what?

: 1170

00:59:35,486 --> 00:59:36,594

I don't know.

: 1171

00:59:36,594 --> 00:59:37,855

sure.

: 1172

00:59:37,975 --> 00:59:41,157

Well, in school, I was very much an outcast.

: 1173

00:59:41,157 --> 00:59:46,881

Like middle school was terrible for me because I was very much like the nerd of the nerds.

: 1174

00:59:47,322 --> 00:59:53,386

Yeah, because I was in theater and there'd be pictures of me in the paper as dressed as

like Pinocchio, which was just not good for a social life.

: 1175

00:59:53,386 --> 00:59:57,068

um I had great friends at the theater.

: 1176

00:59:57,068 --> 00:59:58,689

You those are my those are my friends.

: 1177

00:59:58,689 --> 00:59:59,049

Yeah.

: 1178

00:59:59,049 --> 01:00:00,230

um

: 1179

01:00:00,460 --> 01:00:03,392

But yeah, I was doing theater stuff and then high school started off bad.

: 1180

01:00:03,392 --> 01:00:11,757

But then as I started to find my people and like mostly the theater crowd and the show

choir crowd, I really started to kind of fall into myself.

: 1181

01:00:11,757 --> 01:00:20,182

And by the end of high school, was like, I was the person that kind of everybody knew who

I was because I'd been in all the plays and blah, blah, blah, blah.

: 1182

01:00:20,182 --> 01:00:24,845

So nobody, yeah, so everybody was kind of, everybody was kind of nice to me and like me.

: 1183

01:00:24,845 --> 01:00:27,666

I was voted most likely to be, what was it?

: 1184

01:00:28,266 --> 01:00:39,380

I don't know it was rich and famous or if it was something else, but I was one of those

and I was voted wittiest Like funniest because I was yeah um Yeah, and beyond that like I

: 1185

01:00:39,380 --> 01:00:42,271

played some sports, but I never was very good sports.

: 1186

01:00:42,271 --> 01:00:50,194

I played soccer um And mostly because I think I mean I did enjoy it I think but mostly it

was my father's encouragement

: 1187

01:00:50,399 --> 01:00:52,457

sport you'd be rock climbing.

: 1188

01:00:52,672 --> 01:00:55,565

If I was a sport, I'd be rock climbing.

: 1189

01:00:57,008 --> 01:00:57,989

Interesting.

: 1190

01:00:57,989 --> 01:00:59,190

What would you be?

: 1191

01:00:59,882 --> 01:01:00,486

I don't know.

: 1192

01:01:00,486 --> 01:01:01,516

You tell me.

: 1193

01:01:01,516 --> 01:01:04,106

I don't know what that even means though.

: 1194

01:01:04,106 --> 01:01:05,486

Cause I have rock climbed.

: 1195

01:01:05,486 --> 01:01:06,198

Yeah.

: 1196

01:01:06,198 --> 01:01:07,159

Yeah.

: 1197

01:01:08,244 --> 01:01:09,706

It's like bouldering.

: 1198

01:01:10,183 --> 01:01:16,018

Do you know that that one thing in the Olympics last year where they just like try to go

at the Wallace Festival?

: 1199

01:01:16,018 --> 01:01:16,438

right, right, right.

: 1200

01:01:16,438 --> 01:01:17,198

Yeah, wall climbing.

: 1201

01:01:17,198 --> 01:01:17,458

Yeah.

: 1202

01:01:17,458 --> 01:01:18,878

Yeah, with the harness and everything.

: 1203

01:01:18,878 --> 01:01:18,918

Yeah.

: 1204

01:01:18,918 --> 01:01:20,678

Yeah, I've tried that.

: 1205

01:01:20,738 --> 01:01:22,720

Yeah, it's kind of fun, but it's kind of scary,

: 1206

01:01:22,720 --> 01:01:26,564

I did that but then I got to the top and I looked down and that wasn't a good idea.

: 1207

01:01:26,658 --> 01:01:26,958

Yeah.

: 1208

01:01:26,958 --> 01:01:27,638

It's so high.

: 1209

01:01:27,638 --> 01:01:28,418

Yeah, it is.

: 1210

01:01:28,418 --> 01:01:29,998

If I was a sport, I'd be rock climbing.

: 1211

01:01:29,998 --> 01:01:30,838

Interesting.

: 1212

01:01:31,018 --> 01:01:31,158

Yeah.

: 1213

01:01:31,158 --> 01:01:32,058

I mean, I bike more.

: 1214

01:01:32,058 --> 01:01:32,858

I'm a big biker.

: 1215

01:01:32,858 --> 01:01:34,418

So that's kind of a sport.

: 1216

01:01:34,418 --> 01:01:34,838

Yeah.

: 1217

01:01:34,838 --> 01:01:36,814

Or is that like a leisure activity in your mind?

: 1218

01:01:36,814 --> 01:01:40,854

Yeah, um, why they can pet like what level you're doing it at?

: 1219

01:01:40,854 --> 01:01:46,054

Hmm, you know cuz like you were just going through a stroll Going for a stroll through the

neighborhood.

: 1220

01:01:46,054 --> 01:01:47,034

I don't know.

: 1221

01:01:47,034 --> 01:01:52,846

That's just like a hobby But like if you're actually biking multiple miles and like yeah

pushing yourself.

: 1222

01:01:52,846 --> 01:01:56,206

Yeah, so I'm sporting I did 1,500 miles last year.

: 1223

01:01:56,206 --> 01:02:01,106

Yeah, this sure not so many but last year Yeah, I've been falling off the rocker off the

rocker.

: 1224

01:02:01,106 --> 01:02:01,906

What does that mean?

: 1225

01:02:01,906 --> 01:02:03,006

I don't know what that means.

: 1226

01:02:03,006 --> 01:02:06,126

We're just gonna disregard that Okay, I can edit that out.

: 1227

01:02:06,126 --> 01:02:10,854

Is there anything you wish people would ask you about that nobody ever asks you about?

: 1228

01:02:11,150 --> 01:02:18,473

I don't know, but I feel like I know a lot of people, but there are certain things that

people just don't know about me.

: 1229

01:02:18,473 --> 01:02:21,214

It's not something you're like, hey, do you do this?

: 1230

01:02:21,214 --> 01:02:23,990

That's not a question that you'd ask normal people.

: 1231

01:02:23,990 --> 01:02:31,997

a lot of people don't know I'm a figure skater, or yeah, or a lot of people don't know

that I am a huge baseball fan.

: 1232

01:02:31,997 --> 01:02:34,188

But it's not a question you'd ask.

: 1233

01:02:34,274 --> 01:02:35,868

how often do figure skates?

: 1234

01:02:36,078 --> 01:02:41,070

I've kind of lost it recently, oh but like, yeah.

: 1235

01:02:41,070 --> 01:02:43,936

I mean, it would be like world's first week.

: 1236

01:02:43,936 --> 01:02:44,686

wow.

: 1237

01:02:44,768 --> 01:02:47,226

Yeah, you know my sister did that was a big figure skater.

: 1238

01:02:47,226 --> 01:02:51,454

should tell her that next time we'll see Mitch at the clan bay because she'll be

interested in that

: 1239

01:02:51,454 --> 01:02:59,494

did not know that about her like you just don't know if someone's a figure skater unless

is there cuz like that's the thing figure skating is hard for me because You have to

: 1240

01:02:59,494 --> 01:03:10,234

devote yourself to it generally like you have to You have to put in the work and do it or

else you just kind of stall yours at this Yeah, that's where I was for a while and now I'm

: 1241

01:03:10,234 --> 01:03:12,910

taking break from it I hopes you go back to it soon, but

: 1242

01:03:12,910 --> 01:03:15,689

I feel like it's the kind of thing you can go back to whenever you want, in a way.

: 1243

01:03:15,918 --> 01:03:18,780

Cause if you're not doing it constantly, you lose procs.

: 1244

01:03:18,870 --> 01:03:21,973

Right and there's no figure skating team at your school now.

: 1245

01:03:21,973 --> 01:03:22,853

No.

: 1246

01:03:23,914 --> 01:03:24,775

Yeah.

: 1247

01:03:24,775 --> 01:03:25,395

Yeah.

: 1248

01:03:25,395 --> 01:03:28,207

And what about the um the baseball?

: 1249

01:03:28,207 --> 01:03:29,398

How did that happen?

: 1250

01:03:29,580 --> 01:03:33,289

I mean just like growing up, you know my dad always having it on I just

: 1251

01:03:33,346 --> 01:03:35,132

When did you first start to really get into it?

: 1252

01:03:35,132 --> 01:03:35,766

would you remember?

: 1253

01:03:35,766 --> 01:03:37,699

Like a year or two ago, three years ago?

: 1254

01:03:38,825 --> 01:03:39,685

Yeah.

: 1255

01:03:39,950 --> 01:03:43,850

It's like, don't really enjoy watching any other sports, unless like the Olympics.

: 1256

01:03:43,850 --> 01:03:45,090

I love the Olympics.

: 1257

01:03:45,450 --> 01:03:48,812

But like, I don't really watch any other sports, just baseball.

: 1258

01:03:48,812 --> 01:03:56,059

Yeah, baseball, I don't really watch much of it unless it's like an important game because

it kind of is a very long boring game in my mind.

: 1259

01:03:56,059 --> 01:03:57,510

Yeah.

: 1260

01:03:57,510 --> 01:04:04,116

But your dad, of course, is the biggest baseball fan of anybody I think I ever know or

will know.

: 1261

01:04:04,116 --> 01:04:04,517

Yeah.

: 1262

01:04:04,517 --> 01:04:06,094

He really likes the baseball.

: 1263

01:04:06,094 --> 01:04:08,419

I definitely get that from him and we both enjoy it.

: 1264

01:04:08,419 --> 01:04:10,342

um

: 1265

01:04:10,458 --> 01:04:13,528

Well, he probably helps you understand it better so you can appreciate it more.

: 1266

01:04:13,528 --> 01:04:15,819

But it's like I'm trying to get my friends into it.

: 1267

01:04:15,819 --> 01:04:17,890

Like it's a tough one.

: 1268

01:04:17,890 --> 01:04:21,011

But I, they definitely have latched on a little bit.

: 1269

01:04:21,011 --> 01:04:23,943

Like my one friend, I got her to watch the world series.

: 1270

01:04:23,943 --> 01:04:28,445

um Or she did it all on her own.

: 1271

01:04:28,445 --> 01:04:30,986

mean her dad is also a baseball fan.

: 1272

01:04:31,534 --> 01:04:33,114

And Guardians are your team, I would imagine.

: 1273

01:04:33,114 --> 01:04:33,934

Yes.

: 1274

01:04:35,914 --> 01:04:37,494

Yeah, I've never been a fan.

: 1275

01:04:37,494 --> 01:04:38,914

Never been a fan of the Reds.

: 1276

01:04:38,914 --> 01:04:42,002

But I know, I feel like a lot of people from the club are Reds fans.

: 1277

01:04:42,002 --> 01:04:43,670

But it's big crowd.

: 1278

01:04:43,670 --> 01:04:47,054

Yeah, I think mostly it's an Ohio State University thing.

: 1279

01:04:48,497 --> 01:04:54,836

Really just love and I don't you know, I root for the team, you know, but it's not

exciting because they win every game.

: 1280

01:04:54,836 --> 01:04:57,629

So what what where's the excitement in that to me?

: 1281

01:04:57,750 --> 01:05:01,871

I'm just because like like my mom's deep family history with Ohio State.

: 1282

01:05:01,871 --> 01:05:02,742

Yeah

: 1283

01:05:02,806 --> 01:05:07,145

Yeah, and my dad went here there and my sister went there.

: 1284

01:05:07,145 --> 01:05:08,076

Yeah, so,

: 1285

01:05:08,076 --> 01:05:10,614

My uncle has a national championship ring.

: 1286

01:05:10,614 --> 01:05:12,338

Right, right, that's crazy.

: 1287

01:05:12,338 --> 01:05:16,595

And your great, your grandfather, think, was the marching band guy?

: 1288

01:05:16,595 --> 01:05:17,226

Yeah.

: 1289

01:05:17,226 --> 01:05:18,127

Yeah.

: 1290

01:05:19,150 --> 01:05:20,353

There's a lot of connections to it.

: 1291

01:05:20,353 --> 01:05:22,477

Yeah, your mom said the family's real connected to that school.

: 1292

01:05:22,477 --> 01:05:22,797

Yeah.

: 1293

01:05:22,797 --> 01:05:22,934

Yeah.

: 1294

01:05:22,934 --> 01:05:23,512

oh

: 1295

01:05:23,512 --> 01:05:28,400

Mike grandpa he was on the one of the teams that won the national championship.

: 1296

01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:29,201

wow for baseball.

: 1297

01:05:29,201 --> 01:05:31,654

So wow I

: 1298

01:05:31,906 --> 01:05:32,650

Wow.

: 1299

01:05:32,650 --> 01:05:33,041

Wow.

: 1300

01:05:33,041 --> 01:05:33,635

Yeah.

: 1301

01:05:33,635 --> 01:05:34,499

I wonder, they playing?

: 1302

01:05:34,499 --> 01:05:36,255

I think they're playing right now, aren't they?

: 1303

01:05:36,613 --> 01:05:38,185

oh, yeah.

: 1304

01:05:38,913 --> 01:05:40,430

I'm sure they're winning, I mean...

: 1305

01:05:40,430 --> 01:05:43,430

There was a 97 % chance they won.

: 1306

01:05:44,078 --> 01:05:47,621

Yeah, they win every game until towards the end then they start to lose a game or two.

: 1307

01:05:47,621 --> 01:06:00,429

uh Yeah, yeah Yeah, and people really like I remember When they if they lose a big game

the entire town feels like it's deflated.

: 1308

01:06:00,769 --> 01:06:01,806

It's really strange

: 1309

01:06:01,806 --> 01:06:04,206

Especially Living Beer Ohio State.

: 1310

01:06:04,366 --> 01:06:06,706

It's like you see it a lot.

: 1311

01:06:06,806 --> 01:06:08,129

The X's over the L's.

: 1312

01:06:08,129 --> 01:06:09,040

man.

: 1313

01:06:09,361 --> 01:06:15,445

Yeah, it's very, I didn't even know what that X over the thing was for my first two years

here and I would see it everywhere and I'd be like, what's going on here?

: 1314

01:06:15,445 --> 01:06:20,399

And then I'd be like, oh, then I saw it in the news and I was like, my goodness, people

are really putting effort into this.

: 1315

01:06:20,399 --> 01:06:22,080

Gonna cross up all the M's.

: 1316

01:06:22,126 --> 01:06:23,652

It's like a grade into us.

: 1317

01:06:23,652 --> 01:06:26,141

Like if you're born here or just like, you know, go to Ohio State.

: 1318

01:06:26,141 --> 01:06:26,865

Right.

: 1319

01:06:26,865 --> 01:06:27,572

It's a big thing.

: 1320

01:06:27,572 --> 01:06:29,364

Yeah, it's unusual.

: 1321

01:06:29,364 --> 01:06:30,665

Yeah.

: 1322

01:06:30,665 --> 01:06:31,546

I like the band.

: 1323

01:06:31,546 --> 01:06:37,191

always keep wanting to go see one of those skull sessions just because I love the loud,

but I haven't done it.

: 1324

01:06:37,191 --> 01:06:38,182

But I do enjoy the band.

: 1325

01:06:38,182 --> 01:06:40,654

One of the best marching bands in the entire world.

: 1326

01:06:40,654 --> 01:06:41,546

They're very good.

: 1327

01:06:41,546 --> 01:06:43,919

I know a bunch of people who've been in the band.

: 1328

01:06:44,419 --> 01:06:45,992

Yeah, it's very hard to get into that band.

: 1329

01:06:45,992 --> 01:06:51,892

There's a documentary on YouTube about how to get in, how to get like about getting into

the band.

: 1330

01:06:51,892 --> 01:06:52,466

was really interesting.

: 1331

01:06:52,466 --> 01:06:54,650

crazy, I know like four people who've been in the van.

: 1332

01:06:54,650 --> 01:06:55,331

Right.

: 1333

01:06:55,331 --> 01:06:59,155

It was also like rehearsals for the guy who like has to do the baton thing.

: 1334

01:06:59,656 --> 01:07:03,280

Yeah, which was a big one because they have to do all sorts of crazy stuff with that

baton.

: 1335

01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:04,322

Yeah.

: 1336

01:07:04,322 --> 01:07:04,920

Yeah.

: 1337

01:07:04,920 --> 01:07:07,032

We had a good drum major for our high school.

: 1338

01:07:07,032 --> 01:07:08,608

I mean, he would use like fire.

: 1339

01:07:08,854 --> 01:07:11,395

Oh they would let them do that at the high school?

: 1340

01:07:11,395 --> 01:07:12,596

That's crazy.

: 1341

01:07:13,517 --> 01:07:14,715

Wow, that's pretty cool.

: 1342

01:07:14,715 --> 01:07:15,756

They should do that all the time.

: 1343

01:07:15,756 --> 01:07:16,678

I that's exciting.

: 1344

01:07:16,678 --> 01:07:17,439

I know, it is cool.

: 1345

01:07:17,439 --> 01:07:20,540

I would go see more sports if they had fire, you know?

: 1346

01:07:21,321 --> 01:07:24,122

Flaming baseballs, I see all sorts of great ideas here.

: 1347

01:07:24,654 --> 01:07:26,494

Yeah, I guess I never really thought about that.

: 1348

01:07:26,494 --> 01:07:28,054

you could do all sorts of things.

: 1349

01:07:28,254 --> 01:07:28,854

Yeah.

: 1350

01:07:29,014 --> 01:07:29,834

All right, Mia.

: 1351

01:07:29,834 --> 01:07:35,254

Well, do you have anything else to say to to my audience here?

: 1352

01:07:35,254 --> 01:07:35,854

I think so.

: 1353

01:07:35,854 --> 01:07:37,394

Before we wrap it up?

: 1354

01:07:37,394 --> 01:07:37,932

No.

: 1355

01:07:37,932 --> 01:07:41,068

I I'm good, I just think I should say that I should come back again.

: 1356

01:07:41,324 --> 01:07:43,817

Okay, yes, you can come back again for sure.

: 1357

01:07:43,817 --> 01:07:46,220

I might try to get your brother on too.

: 1358

01:07:46,220 --> 01:07:47,983

I think that would be interesting.

: 1359

01:07:47,983 --> 01:07:51,136

I think it'd be interesting, He'd be asking all the questions.

: 1360

01:07:51,776 --> 01:07:54,640

I would I'd be very interested to yeah, I like coffee.

: 1361

01:07:54,640 --> 01:07:56,058

I just like sit no

: 1362

01:07:56,058 --> 01:08:01,671

No, that's that's why that's why I want to do it cuz I can't know you can't you can hear

it afterwards You can't sit in the room.

: 1363

01:08:01,671 --> 01:08:02,282

Yeah.

: 1364

01:08:02,282 --> 01:08:11,697

Yeah, you understand though No, it'll come out though, I don't I don't live stream yet I

don't live stream uh Mia thank you for coming on my podcast.

: 1365

01:08:11,697 --> 01:08:12,517

I really appreciate it.

: 1366

01:08:12,517 --> 01:08:21,933

I'm so happy that you did this so and look at this I remember talking to you about at the

baseball game and then five months go by and here we are Yeah, yeah, I love you.

: 1367

01:08:21,933 --> 01:08:24,439

Thank you for coming to the podcast Thanks

: 1368

01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:26,765

you very much for having me.

: 1369

01:08:26,765 --> 01:08:27,150

You got it.

: 1370

01:08:27,150 --> 01:08:27,797

You got it.

: 1371

01:08:27,797 --> 01:08:28,905

I got it out.

: 1372

01:08:31,886 --> 01:08:33,206

And that was Mia.

: 1373

01:08:33,807 --> 01:08:36,467

Thank you again for coming on, Mia.

: 1374

01:08:36,467 --> 01:08:39,588

It was a real joy for me and hopefully for you as well.

: 1375

01:08:39,588 --> 01:08:47,950

And if it was a joy for you, the listener, I'm pointing to you, but you can't see me,

please share this episode with somebody else who might enjoy it.

: 1376

01:08:47,950 --> 01:08:49,350

Maybe your cousin.

: 1377

01:08:49,391 --> 01:08:51,631

Maybe your first cousin once removed.

: 1378

01:08:51,631 --> 01:08:54,192

Maybe your first cousin twice removed.

: 1379

01:08:54,212 --> 01:08:55,092

Is that a thing?

: 1380

01:08:55,092 --> 01:08:55,972

I don't know.

: 1381

01:08:55,972 --> 01:08:57,953

Anyway, share it with somebody you know.

: 1382

01:08:57,953 --> 01:08:59,443

Share it with somebody you love.

: 1383

01:08:59,650 --> 01:09:03,913

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: 1384

01:09:03,913 --> 01:09:12,339

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: 1385

01:09:12,339 --> 01:09:13,579

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: 1386

01:09:14,080 --> 01:09:22,966

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: 1387

01:09:22,966 --> 01:09:28,750

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: 1388

01:09:29,324 --> 01:09:31,981

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: 1389

01:09:32,365 --> 01:09:34,400

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: 1390

01:09:36,907 --> 01:09:48,545

And I'll leave you today with a short poem by Rumi, which he wrote in his parents'

basement instead of taking out the garbage.

: 1391

01:09:49,426 --> 01:09:51,427

I said, what about my eyes?

: 1392

01:09:51,808 --> 01:09:53,889

He said, keep them on the road.

: 1393

01:09:54,290 --> 01:09:56,031

I said, what about my passion?

: 1394

01:09:56,031 --> 01:09:57,832

He said, keep it burning.

: 1395

01:09:58,053 --> 01:09:59,814

I said, what about my heart?

: 1396

01:09:59,814 --> 01:10:03,056

He said, tell me what you hold inside it.

: 1397

01:10:03,056 --> 01:10:06,038

I said, pain and sorrow.

: 1398

01:10:06,634 --> 01:10:08,315

He said, stay with it.

: 1399

01:10:08,495 --> 01:10:11,118

The wound is the place where the light enters you.

: 1400

01:10:11,659 --> 01:10:12,880

I'll see you soon.

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