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Belling the Kitten | Series 8.1
Episode 116th May 2022 • Enjoy More 30s: Family Finance • Joseph P. Okaly
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It's one thing to say a task should be done but it's a different matter to actually do it!

  • But in the midst of the rejoicing over the good fortune, an old mouse rose and said, "I will say that the plan of the young mouse is very good. But let me ask one question, who will bell the cat?" (02:59)
  • "...if you actually go out with that bell, more times than not, it's not as hard or as scary as you may think." (04:13)

Quote for the episode: More times than not it's not a scary cat with giant claws, it's a little cute kitten, and you're gonna leave saying 'why didn't I do that earlier?' (04:20)

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Welcome to the Enjoy More 30s Family Finance

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podcast. The only podcast dedicated to making life more

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enjoyable for young families by hitting on the financial topics

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that tend to weigh on us, stress us out, and distract our focus

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from simply enjoying life.

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Hello, and welcome to the next series here on the

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Enjoy More 30s Family Finance podcast. This series is called

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The Financial Parables of Your Life. I try to keep pretty much

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every episode short, because you know, we're all having our kids

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kind of scream in our ear as we're trying to work from home

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or do whatever we're doing so who has time for an hour

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podcast? But this season is going to be even moreso because

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what I'm going to do is have a weekly parable for you to digest

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and just try to make your life a little bit better through it.

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Now, some of these are actually fables, some are actually

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parables. I'm not going to get all caught up in those literary

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semantics though. I picked one word and threw it in the title

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of the series. They are stories to help so hopefully that's what

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they do. Now each week, like I said, I'm going to be sharing

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what may be a somewhat altered version of a story that you're

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familiar with because stories are just easier. They're easier

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to remember. That's why we tell our children's stories at night.

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That's how our grandparents share about the past. I mean,

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the human race for generations has been passing on information

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through stories. That was the best way to do it. The Boy Who

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Cried Wolf, we all know that story. We can remember that

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story. Me talking about, say standard deviation and how it

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relates to an expected range of returns, which also changes in

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respect to time horizon. While that may be very important, it

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will also perhaps put you to sleep. So I guess maybe that

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would be a better one save for like a bedtime stories series.

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But yeah, that's not where we are today.

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So as I begin, or before I begin, I should say as always,

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please share please like, please leave reviews. I'd love to be

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able to reach as many young families out there and help them

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as possible just like you. So today, please join me for our

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initial story Belling the Kitten.

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The mice once called a meeting to decide on a plan to free

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themselves of their enemy, the cat. At least they wish to find

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some way of knowing when she was coming. So they might have time

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to run away. Indeed, something had to be done for they lived in

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such constant fear of her claws that they hardly dared stir from

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their dens by day or night. Many plans were discussed, but none

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of them was thought good enough. At last, a very young mouse got

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up and said, "I have a plan that seems very simple but I know it

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will be successful. All we have to do is hang a bell about the

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cat's neck. When we hear the bell ringing, we will know

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immediately that our enemy is coming." All the mice were much

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surprised that they had not thought of such a plan before.

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But in the midst of the rejoicing over the good fortune,

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an old mouse rose and said, "I will say that the plan of the

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young mouse is very good. But let me ask one question, who

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will bell the cat?"

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So it's one thing to say that something should be done but

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it's quite a different matter to actually do it. You're listening

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here today and other days I hope and many other days to come

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because you're looking to improve. You're looking to have

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less anxiety and worry. You're looking to have more confidence

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in your life and freedom to go out and enjoy what you want to

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enjoy. You don't want that cat to come out and grab your goals

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away from you. You don't want to be afraid. It might be

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retirement, it might be protecting your family. It might

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just be not knowing if there is even a cat on the other side of

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the wall that you can't see. Is there anything out there? My

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story is called Belling the Kitten because when you go out

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and do it. So whether that be meeting with an advisor, just

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listing out your goals, seeing what you can save every month,

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getting that will or some other document doesn't really mean

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anything else that might be detracting from you enjoying

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life as much as possible today, if you actually go out with that

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bell, more times than not, it's not as hard or as scary as you

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may think. More times than not it's not a scary cat with giant

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claws. It's a little cute kitten. And you're gonna leave

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saying "why didn't I do that earlier?"

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So thanks for tuning in today and join us for next week's

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story Great Grandma's Roast. I hope you enjoyed today's story

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and please remember again to review and share for others. And

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if you need any help, don't hesitate in reaching out. I

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probably have helped someone just like you. Until next week,

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thanks for joining me today and I look forward to connecting

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with you again soon.

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The conversations on this show are

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Joe's opinions and provided for general information purposes

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only. They do not constitute accounting, legal, tax, or other

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professional advice for your specific situation. You should

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always seek appropriate advice from a financial advisor,

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accountant, lawyer, or other professional before acting upon

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any content or information found here first. Joe is affiliated

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with New Horizons Wealth Management LLC, a branch office

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of TFS Securities Inc., and TFS Advisory Services an SEC

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Registered Investment Advisor, Member FINRA/SIPC.

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