In this episode of the Ever Be podcast, host Mari Wagner sits down with holistic nutritionist Ashley Rowland to discuss practical steps for supporting your body during stressful seasons. With today's hustle culture leading many to chronic stress, Ashley shares how simple lifestyle changes, such as increasing mineral intake, prioritizing outdoor time, and focusing on a nutrient-rich diet, can significantly improve well-being. The conversation also touches on the importance of eliminating environmental toxins and integrating spiritual practices like prayer to achieve a balanced, healthy life.
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Hello.
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:And welcome to another episode of ever
be this episode has so much valuable
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:information in it that is applicable
to so many of us in today's society
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:that glorifies hustle culture, being
as busy as possible and outdoing
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:Let's be real.
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:We are so stressed and so
overworked and it's just not okay.
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:And I know that a lot of us feel
like we are in really stressful
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:seasons of life and then maybe just
don't know what to do with that.
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:Don't know how to get out of it and think
that it's just the way life should be.
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that that's not true.
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to support your body in seasons of stress.
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:Um, really easy practical steps
that you can take to start reducing
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:it and really just bring your
body back to a good stable state.
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:I brought on my friend, Ashley Rowland.
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:She is a holistic nutritionist.
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:A mother, wife, educator,
speaker, and more.
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:She has so much knowledge to share,
and today we're going to be diving
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:into specific ways that you can
support your body through stressful
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:seasons and actively reduce it.
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:Like I said, stress is correlated
to disease and mental illness
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:and hormone imbalances.
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:And so much more and if there's one thing
that I've learned is that I know that we
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:all need to focus on reducing our stress
levels in our lives and truly leaning into
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:a well ordered, balanced life where we can
have all the right priorities in order.
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:God, our vocation, our family,
and then work or whatever
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:it is that is next for you.
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:I encourage you to listen all the way
through to the end to learn every tip
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:plus get some discounts on some major
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:support your body in a more natural way.
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:So without further ado, let's dive in.
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:Speaker 2: Hey, I'm your host, Mari
Wagner, and you're listening to the ever
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:be podcast where faith meets lifestyle.
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:and actionable steps on how to claim
the full life God created you for.
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a Christ centered life in today's
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:Welcome to Ever Be.
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:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734:
All right.
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:Well, Ashley, welcome to ever be.
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:We are so excited to have you
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:here.
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:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734:
Thanks for having me.
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:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734: We're
excited to talk about stress today.
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:Right?
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:Just a very, um, common issue,
unfortunately, for some.
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:So, so many of us and just different
ways that we can support our
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:bodies through times of stress.
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:Um, maybe even reduce it.
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:If you know that you're in a time
where it's kind of unavoidable, um,
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:just like ways that we can reduce it.
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:Um, I think too, it's just going
to be so good to talk about.
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:in general and how we've
become so accustomed to it.
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:It's kind of like that thing.
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:And we see in the wellness world, a
lot of like common, but not normal.
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:Like, I think we all live
with levels of stress that we
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:think are so normal and okay.
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:When the reality is like, we should
all be living on way off, way
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:less stress than we do right now.
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:Um, so before we dive in, I know you
have so much amazing knowledge to share
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:on this topic, but for the gals that
are listening, may not know you yet.
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:Can you introduce yourself a little bit?
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:Um, maybe give us a little bit of
your story and what you do now.
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:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: Yeah.
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:So I'm Ashley.
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:I'm a holistic nutritionist by trade.
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:And it's funny though, because
most of what I learned in school,
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:like I don't actually use now.
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:And so I actually preface with that
because anybody can take You know, all
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:of the knowledge and things we have
these days and, um, become well versed
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:in all this information that I now get
to work with women like on a daily basis.
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:And so I have a private nutrition practice
where we do things very differently.
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:And if you go on my Instagram
or anything, you'll see that.
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:We do things very differently and I have
my bare naked hormones course, which we'll
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:talk about a few times in this podcast.
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:I have a pretty crazy health story.
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:Won't go too much into it, but
just a lot of autoimmunity and
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:fertility, um, celiac PCOS, you know,
Hashimoto's, all of those things.
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:And now if you're watching, you can
see there's a little one right here.
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:So this is my second.
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:After I was diagnosed with infertility
and I have, um, my other little boy is
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:three and yeah, it's, it's just really
lovely to watch the bodies that God has
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:designed, like, So wonderfully like to
be able to live in that design and to
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:believe that we're designed to be well
And it's a whole new level of freedom
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:And it's a huge stressor removed once
you actually do believe that your body
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:is designed to be well and because then
that kind of quiets a lot of noise and it
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:makes it to where Other people's opinions
or thoughts don't really matter because,
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:you know, you're designed to be well.
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:Um, my brain is very foggy right now.
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:So we'll probably experience
that in this call.
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:For those who don't know, my house
is full of toxic mold and we were
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:Praise God it wasn't longer, but.
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:all of my family, including this
little boy is we're pretty sick.
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:So, um, we will talk a lot about
that specifically, like what we're
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:doing, you know, in a time of
chronic, um, Almost like inescapable.
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:So we were like in like physical
stressor, environmental stressor.
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:And, um, I'm really excited to just
equip and empower your audience with
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:simple takeaways that don't cost extra
money and, um, anybody can do anywhere.
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:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734: Yeah.
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:That's what I love about you too, Ashley.
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:I feel like the things that you share,
you, you know, prioritize sharing
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:like simple cost effective things
that people can start doing tomorrow.
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:And that's just what's most encouraging
about learning from you is that, you
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:know, you get out onto Instagram or
all these blogs and start, you know,
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:reading the list of supplements you
have to take the list of like all these
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:different things that you have to like
buy or do and, and really reducing
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:The best, most, um,
encouraging way to start.
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:And so if maybe you're listening to
this and you're just starting out in
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:your health journey, or just starting to
learn about how to live a more natural
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:lifestyle, if you feel like, yeah, I have
been living in a time of like chaotic
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:stress, like it's okay, we're going to
dive into like some really easy tangibles.
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:Um, so hopefully that's encouraging.
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:But before we really dive in, can
you start by sharing kind of how you
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:approach a more natural lifestyle?
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:I think by us hearing a little bit more
of your philosophy on living naturally and
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:holistically, we're going to get a better
understanding of kind of the foundation of
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:this conversation where we're coming from.
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:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: Yes.
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:So when it comes to my health, my
family's health, the health of,
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:You know, God puts in my path.
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:I approached in the same way that I wish I
would have had someone to walk me through
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:when I first began my health journey.
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:And that was just like simplified because
my health journey was not simplified
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:as many, and I was doing the most
ridiculous things in the name of health
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:that were actually not helping me at all.
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:And so now how I look at
everything kind of frustrates me.
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:A lot of my clients sometimes
because they want me to give
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:them a long list of supplements.
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:They want me to give them a long
list of like, do this, this, this,
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:this, um, because they would rather
get that list or those supplements
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:than make a lifestyle change because
it's usually more difficult for them.
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:And that's how I approach it
is from the ground up, or you
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:And that means literally healing the
furthest down we can begin because.
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:focusing on band aiding things is
not going to do anything for you.
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:It might temporarily relieve symptoms
or whatever, um, but it's not going to
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body because Even like healing a food
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:allergy by eliminating all these things.
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:And okay, but why do we develop the
food allergy in the first place?
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:Like we're still not even focusing
on the root cause of what's going on.
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:And so my protocols for my clients
or my course, or the way I speak to
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:Simple and difficult to believe, because
I know when I finally discovered like,
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:Like I couldn't believe it because I
had done all this research and spent
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all these things that didn't work.
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to heal me be something that's free
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:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734:
and less, it's almost that
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:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: Yes.
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:So clients are often like shocked when
they get a protocol back and they're like,
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:Um, because also like approaching a
body that is unwell and unbalanced
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bunch of supplements and detoxes and
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:So then instead, when we say, all right,
we're going to focus from the ground up,
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what we have control over.
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work on the extra things.
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attainable and it actually.
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:So that's kind of my approach to wellness.
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:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734:
I love it.
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:So let's get into the stress conversation.
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:Um, can you define stress for us?
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of stress, we just kind of think of
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on, you know, or just, there's just a
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lot more different components to stress.
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:There's regular stress, there's chronic
stress, different types of stress.
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touch a little bit about
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:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: Yes.
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:Hans seal, I don't actually know how
to say his last name, but basically
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in terms of a body's physiological
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handle that then affects us.
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:And so when I think of stress, I
think, okay, stress is something
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physical, mental, spiritual, emotional,
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our bodies and our, um, resiliency.
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stress is what is going to dictate
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:And so if we're lacking minerals, we're
not eating enough, we're already running
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getting added into our stress bucket.
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:That's when we become like, I just can't.
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:People, I can't, I can't handle this.
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it feels like you can't because
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your body, within yourselves.
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acute stress, chronic stress.
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in a toxic moldy home.
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exposure while we were sleeping, while
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taking in and it was depleting minerals,
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vitamin C, every single moment of the day.
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um, illness or an infection,
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depleting the body.
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you're driving down the road and you have
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see your toddler on the counter about to
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of them can have a severe impact on us.
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have the capacity to deal with them.
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family, we're not perfect.
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fact that we aren't more sick than
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fungus and bacteria and mold in our
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pretty resilient to the stress that
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compiles, like, so the mold and then maybe
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maybe now you're displaced from your home.
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really close to home right now.
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really feeling the stress and that's,
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this is too much because it's not too
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and we need to do something about it.
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supportive in those times.
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extra getting outside, extra breath, and
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you that you do have control over.
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a few, like, physical stressors, right?
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you be in a state of chronic stress?
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or like work is really crazy or,
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situations that aren't physical that
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would you say that's mostly just
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:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: Absolutely.
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:So a poor work environment, like, I'm not
talking like toxic chemicals in a work
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or Maybe your spouse doesn't support you.
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sources of chronic stress.
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:And those are the things that, you
know, now you see people doing,
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healing generational traumas.
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they're realizing that the impact
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affecting them at a cellular level.
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not designed for this kind of stress.
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what we can to manage it.
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stress and that it's not normal.
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you're feeling really shaky in between
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out of the situation or two, if you
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to have an outlook on it because the
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:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734: Totally.
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such a hustle culture now too.
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how long our to do list is.
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on how busy we are.
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like pride ourselves like,
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things to, I'm getting through
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for the longest time too.
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girl, you know, like I said yes to
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and leading this thing and starting
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my business and all this stuff.
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I could pack a whole schedule and like
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like our lifestyle, the first few
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having our business and starting
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cycle of like almost being addicted
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busy schedule that I'm like, Oh
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on our own health journey, dealing
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that we've had on like, okay, like,
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changes, not just like medicine or
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can just like quickly add to car,
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done, but I'm glad that we're talking
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ways that this can look like.
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will relate to this and then you'd
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are probably living in chronic
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:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: Yeah.
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:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734: So what
are some practical tips that you have that
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:we can share with women for how to support
their body during stressful seasons?
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:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: when you're
in a stressful period, there are specific
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be implementing in your lifestyle.
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:Obviously, above that is that your
lifestyle outside of the times
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that's your preparation time.
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Which maybe some people are like, I'm
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stress is less, it's really important
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to build resiliency because you can
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a tire, a small pinhole in a tire.
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:Air is slowly letting out in
the air in this analogy would be
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being depleted over time, over
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the tire starts getting floppy.
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is like completely deflated.
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you're like at rock bottom or like
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when symptoms begin to appear.
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it's just a freebie that's like
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stress, what I do after stress.
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like I said, the preparation.
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stressed, like right now would
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be enough to sustain me right now because
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like the physical things, like from the
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things happening within me as well.
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notice my body and I'll notice, Oh,
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or, you know, my hands falling asleep
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doesn't normally happen.
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notice in yourself, because when you do
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is normally to up mineral intake.
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taking a bunch more supplements.
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teas, drinking more broths, adding like.
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really making sure that every single
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to be rich in minerals because
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:Um, vitamin E is something that I really
recommend in times of stress just because
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the body and stress just causes oxidation.
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Oh, Your cells are beginning to rust
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:And when things kind of fall apart, so the
vitamin E, the minerals and the minerals
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the next thing is your relaxation
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I can't even brush my teeth because my
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they don't feel good because of the mold
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that I can when I go and look
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and I'm like, okay, yeah, I can.
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:And even if I'm holding my baby while
my feet are in a tub of salt, like
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:Um, two other things I highly recommend,
like in times of active stress is like
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if it's raining, doesn't matter if it's
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or if it's sunny, getting that light in
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and then double it up if it's warm enough
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:for whatever for you, putting your feet
on the earth, that's just free medicine.
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regulate because anything we can do to.
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:Generally down regulate our nervous
system in times of active stress is
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:We don't have to be taking
like all these things.
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:People say we need to like do all
these, you know, crazy things.
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it or not, like simplify.
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I said, drink herbal tea and put some
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and maybe some like Nervine herbs, um,
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is really, really important.
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:And then avoidance I would
avoid extra stressors.
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:So if you know that hosting people
stresses you out, like I wouldn't host
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:people while you're, you know, in a
really active state of stress or over
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:committing to things, if you know that,
Oh, my schedule's already full or.
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:Um, I'm like looking around at things
that would maybe stress me out.
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:Like, it like Kim, like,
obviously we don't.
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:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734:
travel maybe?
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:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: Yeah.
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:Travel and, um, like EMFs even
like from your phone, those.
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:those deplete further.
394
:So avoiding any additional
stressors that you can control.
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:And I, I really believe that if
someone were to sit down right now
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:and be like, I'm an active stress,
but I can't control any stressors.
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:I can be like, actually I could control
the fact that there's like a glade plugin
398
:in my house, or I could control the fact
that, um, You know, so and so is supposed
399
:to come over for dinner on Wednesday, and
I'm just going to have to rain check it
400
:because I need to take care of myself.
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:So we all, we always have ways
that we can help our bodies.
402
:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734:
Yeah, totally.
403
:One thing I would add too, and I know
that You know, this is like all Christian
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:based for both of our lifestyles, but
even just like time for prayer and
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:meditation, I think is so important.
406
:I think that like, we're like, I said,
we're so used to like the busy day to
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:day that we forget the most basic things
that our mind, body, and soul need.
408
:And you mentioned some of them,
like, we've been hearing this
409
:since we were little, but it's
like, we don't believe it.
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:Like get outside, move your body.
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:Fresh air, sunlight on your skin.
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:Like these are such simple things that
I feel like I even heard my parents
413
:say here and there growing up or
like that you just kind of learn, but
414
:you don't actually believe is true.
415
:So one, remembering that like these
simple things that our body needs
416
:is true, but same with like our
soul, like the Lord, like doesn't
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:separate like our body and our soul.
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:And like, it's so intertwined and
if our body's unrest, our soul
419
:might be on unrest and our soul's
unrest, our body might be at unrest.
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:So taking time.
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:To be with the Lord, taking time for
silence, peace, solitude, prayer, um,
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:every day, I think is so, so important.
423
:I mean, I just noticed it in my own
life too, and like in busy seasons,
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:that's the easiest thing to say no to.
425
:The easiest thing to say
no to is like time for like
426
:rest, relaxation, and prayer.
427
:Because you're like, I
don't have time for that.
428
:Like I don't, I don't have time
to sit down and like pray for 20
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:minutes or journal or like go on
a walk or something like that.
430
:But that's when your
body needs it the most.
431
:Um, And so, yeah, just having
this mindset of like mind, body,
432
:soul, all interconnected, like the
Lord wants me to be well as well.
433
:So like invite him into that process,
invite him into those stressful times
434
:in your life where you can just be like,
okay, Lord, I feel like I have no control.
435
:Help bring me clarity.
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:Help bring me peace.
437
:Help bring me stability so that I
can see things clearly and see what
438
:I can control and what I can't.
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:And if there's something that I can't,
like allow me to surrender it to
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:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: Yeah.
441
:I mean, even the fact that you just
asked me what to do, and I didn't
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:mention that, like, duh, but it's
like, still, all the things that I
443
:just shared are things that I'm doing
when I know at the end of the day, I'm
444
:like, I didn't want to read the Bible
today, or I like didn't even breathe.
445
:Like I'm like laying in
my bed, like tight chest.
446
:And I'm like, if I would've just like.
447
:Taking five minutes to breathe, to pray,
like it really does change the trajectory
448
:of the entire day, but we just forget it.
449
:And that's what the enemy wants, so
we have to like fight against that.
450
:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734:
Yes, totally.
451
:Okay.
452
:I think throughout our conversation
so far, you've mentioned, you
453
:know, toxins here and there.
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:So can you talk a little
bit more about that?
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:I think that's getting more and more
popular in like the mainstream world.
456
:People are kind of finally opening
their eyes up to all the toxins in our
457
:environment and in like just our day to
day products that we put in our body.
458
:So how are those actually
contributing to stress?
459
:Mm
460
:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: So when it
comes to environmental toxins, I guess
461
:I would call it, I'm not just talking
like, Chemicals and chlorine and things.
462
:I'm talking like things in our home,
like our dish soap and, um, our
463
:air quality and EMF and blue light.
464
:Those are actually environmental toxins.
465
:And so when we first, I guess,
understand what environmental toxins are.
466
:So we can like address them and then
we know that environmental toxins
467
:have an impact on our bodies at a
cellular level and this disrupts our
468
:hormones, our thyroid metabolism,
like this is not, um, new information.
469
:So this isn't like some crazy,
like, oh my gosh, this is like like
470
:they impact our bodies and like.
471
:This is known as like a carcinogen, like
it just is, but nobody wants to, yeah,
472
:my phone, nobody wants to hear that.
473
:And so when we have all of the stress
that we've been talking about, you
474
:know, maybe the inescapable work
relationship, um, maybe we have
475
:physical stress from a sickness.
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:Maybe we have, you know, like a
family member that's just really.
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:Really not, you know, vibing with us.
478
:And then now we take all those things
that maybe seem out of control.
479
:And we now are inviting all of these
environmental toxins into our life.
480
:That's when I say, all right, these
are the things you have control over.
481
:There's always a situation.
482
:There's always going to be someone that's
like, Oh, well, I, I don't actually
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:have control over that, but like, you'll
figure it out if it's important to you.
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:And so this could look like tap water.
485
:This could look like and that means
like even what you're bathing in like
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:not just what you're drinking what
you're bathing in because your skin,
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:you know See, like brain fog, fog.
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:I can't even think of the word absorb.
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:Um, you have like, you can go deeper,
like the cookware, you know, in your
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:kitchen and then the fragrance in
your home and your products that
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:are technically green and whatever.
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:Cause there's all the greenwashing now.
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:And then you have your
clothes and your mattress.
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:I mean, like you can
really get overwhelmed.
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:Um, but the fact of it is, is that
the things That usually people
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:are talking about most normally.
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:I wouldn't agree with this, but just
like they've got to go, like you
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:don't need fragrance in the home.
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:You don't need like the
bath and body works lotion.
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:I know a lot of us are past that,
but like even these now like
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:greenwash brands that are using
these lotions and these hair things.
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:And like, we don't need
this fragrance in our body.
503
:Fragrance is a huge one that if you
eliminate a lot of the products in
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:your home will be gone because a lot
of Stuff has fragrance in it like
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:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734: Yeah.
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:So for just a quick, quick note, for
those of you who are listening, you're
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:like, what does she mean by fragrance?
508
:Like literally like turn the product
over to the ingredients list.
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:If it says fragrance, that's actually.
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:Pretty like a pretty red flag
because it's not outlining
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:like what is in the fragrance.
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:And so while brands can put fragrance,
they're actually not required to disclose
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:all the different chemicals and toxins
that were used to make up that fragrance.
514
:So even like natural fragrances,
like what does that mean?
515
:You know, like, so that's a really
easy way to just eliminate some things.
516
:Turn, turn the product over.
517
:If it says fragrance, it's,
it's probably not great.
518
:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: Yeah,
it's like:
519
:ingredients for fragrance.
520
:And I think like 95 percent of them
are toxic, like known carcinogens.
521
:Um, so that would be like, if I could
just say two things right now, it
522
:would be like, get rid of the tap
water, get rid of the fragrance.
523
:And you're going to be
like, leveling up a lot.
524
:If you're more advanced in your
wellness journey or whatever, yeah.
525
:Um, then you can say, oh, okay, well, you
know, I've, I've cleaned up the kitchen.
526
:I've done this.
527
:So now maybe you look at your
furniture, you look at your mattress.
528
:I mean, there's like, Um, things you
can do, then you can start looking
529
:at your paint and whatever, but
it's not things we need to do all
530
:at once, unless you're into that.
531
:Um, but just knowing that they are
impacting us and all of it comes
532
:down to God's design and like, we
weren't designed to live like this.
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:We aren't designed to be
inundated with these toxins.
534
:We're not designed to, um,
mess with the earth so much.
535
:Use science to create these fake
ingredients to put, to make plastic
536
:soft, to put it on our, on our
skin, to our skin, to absorb it.
537
:Like the further we get away
from nature and God's design,
538
:I mean, the sicker we get.
539
:And so if we can live as close
to his design as possible,
540
:we really do see healing.
541
:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734: Totally.
542
:Talk to us a little bit
more about minerals.
543
:You've mentioned that a couple of
times as kind of like your go to,
544
:especially in times of stress of like
replenishing the minerals in your body.
545
:And I know that when I, you mentioned
your course earlier, I took it last
546
:year and learned so much from it.
547
:And you mentioned that the importance
of minerals a lot in there as well.
548
:So can, in a nutshell, can you just kind
of share like, why are they so important?
549
:Um, how do they support our body?
550
:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: Yes.
551
:So minerals are my obsession because
they're what finally changed, like I had
552
:been eating like 100 percent organic, uh,
even like seasonal only from my farms,
553
:like organic mattress, organic clothes.
554
:I mean really going through it and
people are like, how are you still sick?
555
:And I'm like, I do not know.
556
:And then I, I never been, no one ever
told me about minerals, no naturopath,
557
:functional chiropractor, anyone,
no one ever told me about minerals.
558
:And so I was introduced to the
RCP, which I talk a little bit
559
:about in the course as well.
560
:And then that's all about minerals.
561
:And within two months of, you know,
incorporating some of the changes
562
:that I talk about in the course I got
pregnant after four years of infertility.
563
:And so now I just like, cannot
stop with the minerals because they
564
:really are the foundation of all
life, like our cells, which are.
565
:The foundation of our life
are dependent upon minerals.
566
:And so if my cells need minerals,
then why wouldn't I need minerals?
567
:You know, and we have, we have minerals.
568
:We know a lot about like magnesium
and calcium and potassium, and then
569
:there's some less known ones like
boron and silica and phosphorus, you
570
:know, but all of these minerals play.
571
:a crucial role in our health and
they all work synergistically.
572
:Um, maybe some antagonize the others,
but that's not the point here.
573
:The point is that we need
minerals to live and to be well.
574
:And when people start focusing on
remineralizing their bodies the way that
575
:I approach it, which is very simple, not
like a bunch of supplements, their bodies
576
:begin to heal because if we don't have
enough potassium, if we don't have enough
577
:magnesium, if we don't have the right
ratios of these things in our bodies.
578
:All of the other things we're doing
are futile because we're literally
579
:not absorbing the food we're eating.
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:We're not able to digest properly.
581
:We're not able to use the restroom,
eliminate, detox properly.
582
:Our pathways are closed.
583
:And so basic things like incorporating
a half a gallon of herbal tea a
584
:day, which is like super easy.
585
:You don't even have to go as far
as I do with like Loose leaf herbs.
586
:You can go buy some tea bags
from the store, put them in
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:water and put them outside.
588
:And that's it.
589
:People are like, how long,
how much this, how much water?
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:Just like fill a jar up with water, good
water, not tap water and put your tea
591
:bags in it and let the sun infuse it.
592
:The sun is healing and
drink that every single day.
593
:And like, you will notice differences.
594
:My nails and my hair and like
throughout all this mold and the
595
:doctors are literally like, They're
like, this is a medical miracle that
596
:you guys aren't hospitalized because
of what was found in your home.
597
:And I'm like, it's because of minerals,
the minerals that God gave us, that we
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:have been so adamant about incorporating
into our lifestyle and just like eating
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:for minerals, drinking for minerals,
living for minerals, like my bath.
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:I'm like, what can I put in this bath?
601
:I'm like putting milk and, and
roses and like breast milk.
602
:I mean, like whatever,
whatever I dandelion.
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:all in the bathtub.
604
:Um, and then like the teas,
it's like, Oh, what's outside.
605
:Like most people can walk out in their
yard as long as it's not sprayed,
606
:grab some dandelion greens, grab
some cleavers, grab some pine tips.
607
:I mean like it's all medicine that
God gave us and it all blooms at
608
:certain times for certain reasons.
609
:So if you're using that, like,
God knows your body needs that.
610
:And so the tea is one that we do a lot,
like Oregon meats are so high in minerals
611
:and so I really not just liver, you know,
like all of them are really important.
612
:And so when we kind of get
out of like the space of.
613
:Oh, I'm not an herbalist or
I'm not going to eat liver.
614
:That's disgusting.
615
:It's a, it filters toxins.
616
:Like once we just reconnect again
with nature and with God's design, we
617
:begin to heal and it's super cheap.
618
:Like my, my like 5, 700
milligrams of potassium a day.
619
:I don't pay a cent for essentially,
like I'm not taking a supplement.
620
:I'm just drinking bone
broth that the bones are.
621
:are basically free because
they just come with the animal.
622
:And then the herbs I've picked
from outside and I've dried them.
623
:And if not, you buy tea,
which is really inexpensive.
624
:And it's like these simple
changes that are profound.
625
:They are so impactful for our health.
626
:Um, that when I started focusing on
those kinds of things, I saw results.
627
:Whereas when I was doing paleo
keto fasting, cold dunking sauna.
628
:I mean, like I didn't see the
results that I'm seeing by.
629
:Simply breathing, being in
prayer, getting my feet on the
630
:earth and drinking herbal tea.
631
:Like, obviously there's a little
more to it than that, but that's,
632
:you know, that's the basics.
633
:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734: Yeah.
634
:I love that you, yeah, the, and
this is a goal to strive for.
635
:I know a lot of us listening
are probably like, oh my gosh,
636
:I'm such a long way from there.
637
:So it's a goal to strive for.
638
:But can you, so I, I'm very
interested about this tea thing.
639
:I've seen you post about it on
your stories a lot, and I feel like
640
:I haven't heard a ton of people
talk about just all the benefits
641
:of that K that can come from tea.
642
:And this is coming from a
girl, I'm like, I love tea.
643
:Like, I love having tea.
644
:Yeah.
645
:And I, I feel like it's so soothing.
646
:Um, and I like it much more than coffee.
647
:So for someone who's just going to go
to the store and buy a couple of teas
648
:and kind of start introducing this more
into their day to day, do you recommend
649
:specific like kinds of tea or any tea?
650
:Like which ones do you
651
:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: Yeah.
652
:So number one, like with everything,
when it comes to what you're putting
653
:in your body, quality matters.
654
:So like, I don't recommend going
and buying like Tazo tea, like
655
:they're just really high in
pesticides and things like that.
656
:Um, so traditional medicines or
medicinals or whatever, they're
657
:like a, they're a great brand.
658
:Um,
659
:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734: Yeah.
660
:I think it's traditional
medicinals or something like that.
661
:We have
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:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734:
So they're lovely.
663
:And like, if you're buying
teabags, it's going to be more
664
:expensive than buying loose leaf.
665
:But if that's where you start, whatever.
666
:And if money is not an
issue, then whatever.
667
:Um, I would recommend like right away you
get nettle, you get, um, like rose hip and
668
:you get, I'm trying to think if they have
like oat straw in a teabag, um, nettle,
669
:oat straw, rose hip, You can do like dried
flowers, like calendula, um, rose petals.
670
:These things are all like fill full
of minerals, like so full of minerals.
671
:And then, so I mix them all.
672
:So like right now I have some hibiscus
calendula, a bunch of dandelions that I
673
:had the kids pick, like just the flowers,
the weeds, um, dried dandelion green.
674
:So like the leaves of the dandelion, I
have oat straw, nettle and orange peels.
675
:I just shoved orange peels in there
and they're just, they've been soaking
676
:overnight and we put them outside in
the sun and you can do it that way.
677
:Or you can steep it normally
like hot if you want it.
678
:And you can add some raw honey to it.
679
:And it's medicine.
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:Like I wish there was like a
meter I could put in and like
681
:read how much minerals is in this.
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:half a gallon of basically, I don't know,
maybe it costs like 30 cents or 50 cents
683
:to make this whole half a gallon of tea.
684
:And so I normally will make up
like two to three half gallons at a
685
:time, and that will be three days.
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:So I drink half a gallon every single day.
687
:That's like my non negotiable.
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:And I have my kids and my
husband participate as well.
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:And it.
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:Yeah, I use it as the base for smoothies.
691
:If we're making smoothies or, um, you
know, if you're going to have like a
692
:mocktail, I'll use that instead of water.
693
:Like I'll put it in like a soda stream
and sparkle it instead of water.
694
:Yeah.
695
:It's just like, Oh, instead of having
water that has, I think like 0.
696
:001 percent of minerals in it, usually.
697
:This has like full minerals in
it, um, because most water people
698
:are drinking like RO water, we
can just quickly say like RO water
699
:does not have minerals in it.
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:So if you're drinking RO water, you
need to be adding minerals back in and
701
:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734:
What is, what is RO
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:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734:
reverse osmosis.
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:So it's one of the filtration
processes for water and it's removing.
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:everything, including the good.
705
:So yes, you're getting all the
contaminants, birth control,
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:pesticides, fecal waste, whatever,
out of your water, but you're also
707
:getting all of your minerals taken out.
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:And so people are trying to do the
right thing by drinking Berkey water
709
:by drinking RO water from the store.
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:Um, but it's actually depleting
them further because it's
711
:taking out the minerals.
712
:So you're drinking water that's
thirsty water or empty water.
713
:That's going into your body,
pulling minerals from your
714
:cells to try to rehydrate it.
715
:And so it further dehydrates you.
716
:Um, so if you are drinking RO water,
Berkey, RO system, whatever, which
717
:is the most common type of water,
um, you need to be definitely adding
718
:minerals back into it or herbs.
719
:Herbs are putting the minerals
back into it, which is really cool.
720
:And it's, there's so
many different healing.
721
:Constituents in it.
722
:So, you know, some herbs are
going to be, um, supporting you
723
:against allergies in the season.
724
:And if you're collecting them
from outside, they're going to
725
:have a little pine pollen, like
up here in the north where I am,
726
:and that's really good for now.
727
:So you can build up an
immunity to pine pollen.
728
:So you're not reacting
so poorly in the spring.
729
:And, um, the rose hips
are like the highest.
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:In vitamin C, nobody ever talks about
roses, but they're like way higher in
731
:vitamin C than oranges or other fruit.
732
:Um, the dandelions, the greens are
gonna be helpful in the spring for
733
:combating like lymphatic stagnation
and, and they're all very purposely
734
:intentionally designed like me and.
735
:I'm staying at my friend Natalie's.
736
:I'm like, she has this
huge spruce tip in yard.
737
:We're like outside picking spruce
tips off of it, putting it in the
738
:tee and it just tastes so delicious.
739
:So it's, it's a fun thing.
740
:And it's part of my July
wellness challenge that I do
741
:the free challenge in July.
742
:Um, is make, have people just like go.
743
:Pick stuff from their yard and
they're like, freaked out and iPhones.
744
:Luckily now you can take pictures
and it'll like identify the plan.
745
:Like, so be careful.
746
:Um, but don't be freaked out.
747
:Most, most of what's growing
around you is edible.
748
:And if it's not, you probably
know, like you probably know.
749
:I
750
:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734: Um, okay.
751
:So you mentioned T is part of
your non negotiables right now.
752
:Share kind of like, what are
your other non negotiables?
753
:Like, what is your wellness routine
look like during this state of stress?
754
:And maybe we can draw some inspiration
if, you know, you're listening and
755
:you You feel like you're also in
kind of a season of craziness, utter
756
:chaos that you can't get out of.
757
:Um, yeah.
758
:Can you just kind of share what your
wellness routine looks like right
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:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: can.
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:Um, so my.
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:I have like a baseline for myself
and we eat food from around us.
762
:We don't eat 100 percent seasonally.
763
:Like I make sourdough and actually
that's not a good example.
764
:The flour is from here, but if the
flour wasn't from here, I would eat it.
765
:The salt is not from here.
766
:You know, like we don't eat a hundred
percent seasonally, um, or locally.
767
:And so, but we have a baseline for
the food that we bring into our home.
768
:And, and that, you know, goes
basically like, I don't believe
769
:that God intends for us to eat, um,
conventionally factory grown foods.
770
:I just don't, some people
don't have that conviction.
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:I do.
772
:So all of our food is the highest quality.
773
:It can be essentially, we
do like full nose to tail.
774
:We're really getting all of it
because we want to have the full I
775
:mean, God gave us the whole animal.
776
:He didn't just give us ground beef.
777
:He gave us the bones.
778
:He gave us the cartilaginous pieces.
779
:He gave us the gelatin, all of that.
780
:So we, that's how we eat as our baseline.
781
:Um, we don't have toxins in
our home, like in regards to
782
:cleaners or, uh, things like that.
783
:And then we, are very cautious
about the things we bring into
784
:our ears and see with our eyes.
785
:So those are kind of our basics.
786
:And then my non negotiables on top
of those things are, like I said,
787
:the half gallon of tea every day.
788
:Um, my vitamin E.
789
:Is something that I do every day and
magnesium, whether it's from like
790
:master mineral drink or magnesium,
bicarbonate, or Epsom salt, like getting
791
:magnesium in some way or another, because
that's one of the, that's one of the
792
:things that I generally have everyone
supplement because it's so depleted
793
:in soils and it's, and it's the first
to go with stress, um, any kind of.
794
:Toxic, physical, mental, relational,
any kind of, any kind of stress it goes.
795
:Um, we do sunrise in the morning right
away and then feet on the earth, even
796
:if it's cold and snowy and sucks.
797
:Uh, we just go put our feet on the
earth because God made the cold too.
798
:So if we're up in the
north, that's for us.
799
:And I'm trying to think of what
my, Oh, my other one is 120
800
:to 150 grams of protein a day.
801
:And so if I keep it that with all of
those things, it keeps me alive and
802
:like feeling pretty good generally.
803
:And if I don't like, if I don't eat
at least 120 grams of protein a day,
804
:it doesn't matter if I ate like 6,
000 calories, I would still be hungry.
805
:It's like the protein personally
for me is what is satiating.
806
:I don't know if that's for everyone.
807
:Um, but when I meet that, like half
gallon tea, the protein, the feet
808
:on the earth, the sun in the eyes.
809
:I notice that I'm at a pretty
good baseline and I'm able to keep
810
:all of those things up anywhere,
anywhere I am, wherever I go.
811
:Like if we travel, I used to travel
with a suitcase full of supplements.
812
:Now I travel with a stasher
bag full of herbs, like leaves.
813
:Basically it always gets taken
by today and they, you know, swab
814
:it or whatever, but that's like,
yeah, so that's my supplement.
815
:And, and.
816
:And, it's light, it's easy to travel with.
817
:And I know I have that.
818
:And I know that wherever
I am, I'll have that.
819
:And I know that once I am traveling or
displaced, whatever, I can always have
820
:meat, variety of meat, eggs, dairy,
whatever, to get in that protein.
821
:And that keeps me.
822
:grounded enough to be able to function
when, like I said, these doctors are
823
:saying, Oh, you should be hospitalized.
824
:You should this.
825
:I'm like, I don't believe that to be
true because I believe that God is good.
826
:And even though this, I don't think is
part of his, um, Design for us to be
827
:like living in like moldy houses and
living with by toxic plants and like
828
:all these, you know, chemical exposures.
829
:I believe that our bodies have resiliency.
830
:If we give them, you know, some
basic things that they need
831
:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734:
Yeah, totally.
832
:No, that's great.
833
:Um, out of all the things you shared,
if you were to recommend like one to
834
:three of just like, if you are just
starting, if you're listening and
835
:this is like your first step, what are
the top things you would recommend?
836
:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734:
in regards to stress.
837
:Um, I would non negotiable get outside
first thing in the morning, feet
838
:on the earth, light in the eyes.
839
:So glasses off contacts off.
840
:Um, You know, people will ask,
what if I'm a night shift worker?
841
:What if I'm with this?
842
:What if I'm with that?
843
:There's always like, what
ifs, but get outside.
844
:If, if you're only going to get your eyes
in the light or to like outside, even
845
:the moonlight, whatever, get your eyes,
roll your window down on the way to work.
846
:Like the point is, is you're
getting close to nature and do
847
:that for at least five minutes.
848
:Every single morning.
849
:Um, normally when people are stressed,
their sleep becomes a problem.
850
:And this keeps that from happening because
it helps with your circadian rhythm.
851
:The second thing would be the
nutritious liquids, like the mineral
852
:liquids like I'm talking about.
853
:So having at least half a gallon of
like a mixture of like herbal tea,
854
:raw milk, bone broth, not water.
855
:Don't put water in that.
856
:If you want water, drink that after, like
if you're still hungry or still thirsty.
857
:But having these nutritious liquids.
858
:Um, even mocktails, like with fresh,
free, fresh squeezed fruit juice and salt,
859
:things like that, like half a gallon of a
mix of those a day in your cells are going
860
:to begin to hold on to the minerals you're
taking because it needs the solvent.
861
:in order to uptake them.
862
:Like your skin will start to feel better.
863
:Your hair will start to feel better.
864
:You'll begin to be hydrated
because you need those minerals.
865
:And the third thing would be
maintaining blood sugar, which
866
:is where that protein comes in.
867
:And so you don't have to aim for
like the one 50 that takes time.
868
:Like I used to eat like 30 grams
of protein a day and that makes
869
:sense why I was like disintegrating.
870
:Um, but I would, I would say like
non negotiable a hundred grams
871
:of protein a day is like a good.
872
:Place that I require it of my clients,
because if you're not eating a
873
:hundred grams of protein a day, I
don't really know what you're eating.
874
:You're eating a bunch of carbs and a
bunch of fat maybe, um, which is normally
875
:where people experience the weight gain.
876
:And so this is mixed protein.
877
:This can be from dairy.
878
:If you can handle it
like high quality dairy.
879
:Um, the broths, like bone broths, the
gelatin, the collagen, I'm not talking
880
:like all the powders, I'm talking the
meats, you know, the oxtail cuts, this can
881
:be red meat, this can be fish, this can
be eggs, it can be, um, chicken, you know,
882
:just a mixed variety, a hundred grams of
protein a day, those would be my three.
883
:So the nutritious liquids, the
simple morning sunrise with
884
:the feet on the earth, and then
the hundred grams of protein.
885
:And that's.
886
:That's a huge, that's a huge
accomplishment and it's going to
887
:make a huge change in your life.
888
:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734:
absolutely.
889
:Yes.
890
:I feel like we're all walking away with
encouragement and some good practical
891
:things that we can start implementing.
892
:I know that I have some new things
that I can start implementing.
893
:So this has been so, so good.
894
:I think before we kind of wrap up.
895
:Is there any sort of encouragement
that you have to share with people who
896
:maybe just feel really overwhelmed?
897
:Um, I know that you're like in a state
like this right now, just like dealing
898
:with a lot with, um, your home and
this time of transition where you guys
899
:are trying to figure out what to do
next and how to solve this problem.
900
:So any words of encouragement
that you have to someone who
901
:might relate to that state?
902
:Mm
903
:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: Yes.
904
:My number, like my first part would
be like to just go through it.
905
:It's really healthy to feel your
emotions, like to experience the
906
:emotions that we've been given.
907
:Um, that's really important.
908
:So it's important to cry.
909
:It's important to feel stressed.
910
:It's important to feel overwhelmed.
911
:Um, but it's also important to notice
those things and then to say, like,
912
:I'm going to cry and I'm going to be
stressed and I'm going to whatever, but
913
:then I'm going to do something about it.
914
:Not like as like a, I am in control kind
of way, but like, okay, if I'm feeling so
915
:stressed and so overwhelmed and so this,
and I can't change the circumstances.
916
:I can't change the fact
that my house is moldy.
917
:I can't change the fact that I've moved
eight times in the last three months.
918
:Um, I can't change like the toxic
levels of things in my body, but.
919
:I can get outside more.
920
:I can, you know, drink more tea
or take a bath or read the word or
921
:sit and play with my kids when I
feel like I need to be making calls
922
:around to like remediation companies.
923
:So like feeling it, going
through it, taking ownership and
924
:then making conscious choices.
925
:Um, and then knowing truly knowing
and resting in the fact that God
926
:designed your body to be well.
927
:And if you give it what it needs, which
people are like, well, what do I need?
928
:We just talked a lot about that in here.
929
:Um, What it needs is to be as
close to God's design as possible,
930
:which means it needs to be as
close to his creation as possible.
931
:And if you rest in that and believe that
your body will begin to heal, because
932
:a lot of people don't heal because
they do not believe that they can heal.
933
:And, um, I was stuck in
that for a long time.
934
:I literally was like, Maybe I'm just
supposed to be sick like forever.
935
:I'm never gonna have kids.
936
:I'm always gonna have Hashimoto's
I'm always gonna only eat seven
937
:foods and and that's not true.
938
:So just Trusting and knowing that
God has created you to be well and
939
:like really letting that sink in
and say, okay what does that mean
940
:and And then like acting from there.
941
:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734: hmm.
942
:Yeah, that's so good.
943
:I think mindset is, is more
important than we think.
944
:And I think when we're stuck, we get
stuck in a rut, honestly, that's just
945
:like the most simplest ways to put it.
946
:Like we get stuck in a rut in our
health journeys because it gets tiring.
947
:And if it's something that's drawn
out for a long time, it's easy to just
948
:kind of be like, well, I guess, you
know, this is where I'm supposed to be.
949
:I guess I can't really get out of
this and I just have to deal with it.
950
:And I think mindset.
951
:Yeah.
952
:And I think that combined with
prayer, like we talked about earlier
953
:in the letting the Lord, like bring
you that clarity and that healing,
954
:even in your heart and your mindset
can be really, really helpful
955
:and more impactful than we think.
956
:So
957
:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: Yeah,
and I would be here for this
958
:Episode is that this is like
people's like, get out of the rut.
959
:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734: Yes.
960
:Yes.
961
:Hopefully this has been a source of
encouragement for anybody listening.
962
:Um, so where can people find you if
they want to learn more from you?
963
:Um, I know we've mentioned
the course a couple of times.
964
:Can you just tell us a little
bit more about all that?
965
:ashlee_1_05-31-2024_110734: Yeah.
966
:So simplistic is my business.
967
:It's the word simple, no E
holistic that's Instagram.
968
:That's my website.
969
:Um, and then bare naked hormones
is my course where it's like.
970
:Stress, sleep, exercise, diet, nature,
everything in relation to hormones.
971
:And, you know, we're
women, we have hormones.
972
:And so it's for everyone.
973
:People say like, Oh, is
it for post menopause?
974
:Is it for teenagers?
975
:Is it for, it's like for anybody?
976
:I mean, even men and like kids.
977
:Um, so yeah, the, the course is like the
foundational, everything I did to become
978
:well, and now I've watched like a thousand
women do as well because it's nothing
979
:that I've created or, you know, like made,
it's all just things I've rediscovered
980
:that have always been, and that I've kind
of like simplified and made kind of a
981
:path for people to, um, simply go through
it that makes sense and is attainable.
982
:mari-wagner_1_05-31-2024_120734: Yeah.
983
:And I'll just speak a little bit
to my own experience there too.
984
:I think that when, you know, we started
our wellness, really, when it comes
985
:to infertility and kind of starting
to dig into like, what are the reasons
986
:why we're not getting pregnant?
987
:You know, what's going on?
988
:And I found your course.
989
:Uh, one of the things that I loved
was that you not only talked about
990
:Like explain what are good practices
to have, but the impact and like the
991
:science behind them, like the, why,
why, this practice is, you know,
992
:supports , your metabolism, why this
practice supports yourselves, why this,
993
:you know, why these minerals to do this.
994
:And so that was helpful for me because
it's easy to hear a bunch of information
995
:and just kind of be like, Well, how do
I know this is going to work for me?
996
:What's true?
997
:What's not?
998
:Why does it work?
999
:Um, and so that just gave
me a lot of confidence.
:
00:52:47,746 --> 00:52:51,776
Like it was just a source of knowledge
all in one single resource, which
:
00:52:51,776 --> 00:52:56,366
is so much easier to stick to, to
actually learn things from instead of
:
00:52:56,366 --> 00:52:59,246
like following a bunch of different
accounts on Instagram and trying to
:
00:52:59,256 --> 00:53:00,496
take a little bit from everybody.
:
00:53:00,496 --> 00:53:05,086
So actually learning the behind the
why of things and the science behind
:
00:53:05,096 --> 00:53:07,266
things was super just like empowering.
:
00:53:07,326 --> 00:53:12,081
And, um, Yeah, I just walked away
learning a lot and I thought that was
:
00:53:12,151 --> 00:53:12,311
great.
:
00:53:12,691 --> 00:53:13,371
Great resource.
:
00:53:13,441 --> 00:53:13,861
-:you for sharing.
:
00:53:14,786 --> 00:53:17,556
-:much, uh, Ashley for being with us today.
:
00:53:17,556 --> 00:53:20,476
This has been a wonderful
conversation and we hope to
:
00:53:20,486 --> 00:53:21,696
have you on again in the future.
:
00:53:21,696 --> 00:53:23,516
I know you have so much to
share, so I'm sure this won't
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00:53:23,516 --> 00:53:24,436
be the last time we have you.
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00:53:25,246 --> 00:53:26,206
-:Thank you for having me.