In this episode, Kellan goes deep - nothing he says in this episode is meant superficially. Why do we get stuck, what prevents us from breaking loose, and how do we move forward?
Kellan defines getting stuck as doing the same thing over and over, and not moving forward. We need to think about an upward spiral - we all make mistakes, but an upward spiral indicates that we’re in good shape. Kellan tells us that the only way to have an upward spiral is to have upward goals.
Kellan reminds us that we get stuck because either we don’t have goals that are meaningful or we don’t pursue goals at all, and that’s because we’ve never decided who we are. In order to break loose, Kellan tells us that we need to focus on two questions: who do I declare myself to be? And what does that being do?
Focus on those questions, and watch it build Your Ultimate Life.
Key Takeaways:
• “Sometimes it seems hard to be happy. We’ve tied our happiness to having things.”
• “The only way to have an upward spiral is to have upward goals.”
• “A context straight jacket are those beliefs, definitions, experiences, expectations, and perceptions that keep you from reaching up, rising up, and doing the best you can at any moment to live into your full potential.”
• “The key first ingredient is not finding someone to tell you you’re wonderful, it’s for you to declare that that’s who you are.”
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