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Andrew:all right, so on the show today, I have Faust Ruggiero, welcome, Faust, uh,
Faust:great to have you on the podcast.
Faust:It's a pleasure to be here, Andrew.
Faust:Thanks for asking me to come on board.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:So, maybe if we, , before we dive into, this, topic of anxiety and
Andrew:overwhelm that can happen, for us as clinicians, I think.
Andrew:Really an, uh, an exciting and, and interesting topic.
Andrew:Um, maybe just share with, uh, with the audience a little bit about your
Andrew:background, um, before we dive in.
Andrew:Sure.
Andrew:I've
Faust:been a clinical psychologist, uh, for the last 40 years.
Faust:33 of them in, uh, private practice.
Faust:Um, everything from individual family, uh, substance abuse,
Faust:women's issue, you name it.
Faust:And I've done a lot of training for professionals, helping them to
Faust:be, uh, become, uh, better, more efficient, um, happier professionals.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, Andrew: that's interesting that you
Faust:one of the things we lose in, uh, the longer we practice is actually being
Faust:happy in, in the work that we do.
Faust:Right.
Faust:So that's, uh, I think that's a, a really good point.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:You know, I, I think that if, if you don't like what you're doing, particularly
Faust:if you're working with people, you know, their lives depend on it.
Faust:If, if you don't like it, they're gonna pick up that vibe right away.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, you know, it doesn't take long.
Faust:And, and then, and then they ask themselves if they did
Faust:something wrong or, or is there, you know, what's going on here?
Faust:Sometimes they don't come back, you know, and, uh, I just, I always
Faust:tell people, ask yourself first, is this the profession you wanna be in?
Faust:And if you do, Then there are a number of things you can do to be happy in it.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:. And sometimes it's the profession.
Faust:Sometimes it's, it's your own personal life or the way you, you know, you
Faust:allow stress and things like that to build, you know, uh, you know,
Faust:it's that old thing, you know, we have to take care of ourselves
Faust:before we take care of other people.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:. Andrew: Yeah.
Faust:And you've written a book called Fix Yourself Handbook and uh, we were
Faust:just chatting before we hit record.
Faust:You've got a new book coming out that specifically speaks to anxiety, so
Faust:maybe, maybe tell me a little bit about.
Faust:what that book's about and, and what sort of prompted you
Faust:to, to write this follow up.
Faust:You know, uh, Andrew, I wrote the first book de deciding that I
Faust:wanted to do something different.
Faust:The te self-help books tend to do, uh, one topic at a time
Faust:or two, something like that.
Faust:Uh, my first book, the Fix Yourself Handbook, is 36
Faust:chapters, 36 different problems.
Faust:Uh, I keep them small and I give the advice at the end of the chapter.
Faust:Uh, in terms of what people should do, when, um, we were gonna go
Faust:forward, we thought, we thought about a sequel to that book.
Faust:Then I decided, well, you know what?
Faust:I'm gonna turn this into a series and, you know, we'll, we'll make that
Faust:the flagship book because it is so diverse, and then start picking out.
Faust:Uh, chapters or, you know, problems we see that are more important.
Faust:So we now talk, talk about the fixture.
Faust:Uh, an, uh, fixture self empowerment series.
Faust:So it's gonna be about eight, nine, maybe 10 books.
Faust:Uh, anxiety came next.
Faust:I, and I looked at what happened after the pandemic and all those
Faust:c you know, all the things going into the way the world's changed.
Faust:Anxiety has just, you know, re risen tremendously, so, mm-hmm.
Faust:. Now it was time to say, all right, let's start looking at.
Faust:And, uh, you know, we have people that are doing what I do, what you do for
Faust:a living, and they're doing it online and they're, and they're staying home
Faust:and they're saying, this is great.
Faust:It's so much easier.
Faust:And I say, yes, and you're isolated and you're not seeing people and
Faust:you're not going to, the places used to go there , it's not good.
Andrew:Yeah, yeah.
Andrew:It's interesting.
Andrew:I came across a stat of, uh, Canadians, uh, in terms of anxiety levels, and it
Andrew:was between 18 and, uh, 39 years old.
Andrew:They, they're 33% of them, uh, reported having, dealing with anxiety,
Andrew:like that's, uh, that's a high
Faust:number.
Faust:That's huge compared to what it was.
Faust:You go back, uh, before the pandemic and it was in the teens, 17, 18%.
Faust:We've almost doubled it.
Faust:And, and again, that's.
Faust:You know, uh, youth, it's not estimated.
Faust:It's actually what's reported, uh, what, what's not reported with anxiety.
Faust:It's make it much, much higher than that.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:. Andrew: And so do you think
Faust:contributing to some of that increase?
Faust:Or, or what, what's your, uh, hypothesis as to why we're seeing such an
Faust:increase?
Faust:Yeah, it is, uh, because what.
Faust:As you start to develop a pattern where you like to stay home, uh,
Faust:you're not challenging yourself.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:. So that's gonna bring on anxiety.
Faust:You're not in social situations as much.
Faust:Um, so now we have social anxiety developing.
Faust:When these things start happening now, we stay home and home.
Faust:Looks like it's great and it's a comfort zone and everything's there,
Faust:but those walls start getting, you know, closer and closer.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:And, and, and your world becomes very small.
Faust:You're not challenged.
Faust:And then when things do challenge just a bit, you overreact as
Faust:it takes you right out of that.
Faust:Of that comfort zone, and you haven't been practicing all the things you do
Faust:that normally, uh, you know, are there to deal with anxiety or, or, or risks,
Faust:or change, all those kinds of things.
Andrew:Mm-hmm.
Andrew:. Yeah.
Andrew:So let's, let's sort of talk a little bit more about this anxiety as it relates
Andrew:to, you know, uh, as a professionals.
Andrew:Uh, you know, I, I talked to, you know, a variety of physiotherapists who.
Andrew:Uh, you know, share their, their struggle with anxiety.
Andrew:Uh, they often can feel overwhelmed, especially when you're dealing with,
Andrew:um, you know, a heavy caseload.
Andrew:You're dealing with complex problems with people who are in pain.
Andrew:Uh, you're trying to sort out what, uh, what's going on for people.
Andrew:Plus you have this expectation of, you know, I've gotta get results
Andrew:cuz they're paying me to, to, to get, you know, help them get better.
Andrew:And, um, and so, you know, I, I really, I'm hoping that to, you know, today our
Andrew:conversation can really help that that clinician who finds themselves really
Andrew:struggling with how to manage, um, one's emotional state, um, and I think anxiety
Andrew:can often really, uh, be at the forefront of that experience, uh, for them.
Faust:And it can, and it also has a tendency to transition
Faust:itself into depressive states.
Faust:You know, now you're, you, you're, you're, you're so worried and you're
Faust:doing so many things and trying to be perfect and balance this and
Faust:balance that, and then you just crash.
Faust:And then you get to the point where I don't want to do anything at all.
Faust:And you know, you have to, you know, the first key, and with all
Faust:of us, we're human beings first.
Faust:We have personal lives, we have physical bodies that sometimes.
Faust:doing okay and sometimes not doing so.
Faust:Okay.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:Uh, you know, we have to take care of ourselves physically, intellectually,
Faust:emotionally, spiritually, uh, you know, we, we need to take,
Faust:make sure those parameters, those life parameters are addressed.
Faust:That's the first thing I tell everyone.
Faust:You know, when, when I do, uh, workshops with, uh, uh, healthcare
Faust:people and, and other professionals, they all come in, they talk about the.
Faust:And the profession and you know, the managing the books and all the, and,
Faust:and those are legitimate pressures.
Faust:But what I'll say to this is, how come some people don't get burdened by that?
Faust:They know they're there, but they don't get overwhelmed.
Faust:And you're doing that.
Faust:It's, you know, what's your stress level when you walk in the door in the
Faust:morning, when you walk into your office?
Faust:What's your stress level like?
Faust:You know, that's the first check you have to.
Faust:If you're, if you're getting up and saying, oh man, it's Monday,
Faust:I gotta go in the office again.
Faust:Boy, that's a, that's a powerful statement.
Faust:Yeah, it really is.
Faust:Versus it's mundane, you know, I know who I'm seeing and I'm
Faust:really looking forward to seeing that person, and I like what I do.
Faust:You know, um, I, I, I was, I've been doing this over 40 years.
Faust:I was thought about retiring last year, but someone said, why don't
Faust:you, I said, beside the outcry of people who said what, you're gonna
Faust:go where, you know, I love doing it.
Faust:I still have, you know, after I've been doing this since 1979 and,
Faust:you know, I still look forward to sitting with people, um, even though.
Faust:I did take a semi-retirement, I moved things into my house and
Faust:I'm seeing people here, and I saw people throughout the pandemic.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:Uh, you know, so I love what I do and you know, that's what I, I tell
Faust:'em, the ingredients are a, keep your personal life, uh, in balance.
Faust:And if not, get help for that.
Faust:B, if you're not in the profession, you wanna be.
Faust:It's either a different profession or make changes.
Faust:Maybe you don't wanna work for this, this company, or maybe you want to go
Faust:private, or whatever it is that you want to do, make some adjustments that,
Faust:that are gonna make that better for you because, uh, you know, these are
Faust:moments of your life going by and boy, you know, why spend them like that.
Andrew:You bring up an interesting point about, you know, make sure that you're in
Andrew:a place that you know is suitable for you.
Andrew:Like, whether that's a, the workplace setting or whether
Andrew:that's, you know, professionally.
Andrew:And I know for myself in, in my own sort of career, it's, it's often been
Andrew:hard to know, you know, is this just uh, a me issue or is this a, is this
Andrew:a workplace or is this a profession?
Andrew:You know, like when do I have to make a change and when is it that I
Andrew:have to actually stick something out?
Andrew:Right.
Andrew:Do you know what I mean?
Andrew:Like, there's that often that.
Andrew:That, uh, hard balance to find, you know, what, you know, do
Andrew:I need to just persevere here?
Andrew:Uh, do I, is this workplace really unhealthy for me?
Andrew:So, is there anything that you, you can suggest as, you know, sort of
Andrew:some litmus test to say, okay, you know what, this is, this is where, you
Andrew:know, it makes sense to, to persevere.
Andrew:This makes sense to actually, you gotta, you gotta switch it up, right?
Faust:Oh, I just lost everyone.
Faust:Oh, there we go.
Faust:Everyone come, come, uh, you know, comes up with that point.
Faust:Is it me?
Faust:Is it the place?
Faust:I said, well, if, if you've switched three or four times and you're
Faust:still not happy, then I'm probably thinking there's something with you.
Faust:If you're willing to stay where you are, uh, but you're saying, gee, you
Faust:know, I'm working for maybe this doctor or this, this, uh, corporate leader,
Faust:whatever it may be, and I don't like this.
Faust:Then you then that, that's a different set of circumstances for all of us in he.
Faust:We all know in, in, in here, in this phase, and I'm sure in Canada
Faust:it has changed so dramatically.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:I mean, I can go back five years ago and in the area where I live in,
Faust:which is about 90 minutes, um, west of New York, 90 minutes east of Philly.
Faust:So I'm right in, I'm outside of Metropolitan, but it's all right there.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:In this area alone, there were about five, six hospitals, um, six, seven years ago.
Faust:Now there are.
Faust:Not that they've closed up tho.
Faust:The other two, these two are monsters now that are fighting each other.
Faust:And, uh, it's a now a huge corporate structure.
Faust:Doctors offices are being swallowed up.
Faust:They're working for a few hospitals now.
Faust:Uh, they are told how long they can see patients, uh, how much, how many
Faust:patients they have to see in a day.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, how much revenue has to come in.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, um, uh, and, and they, and they must now, Medicine with a corporate model.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, which is, you know, it's, it's burning people out.
Faust:You know, I thank, I always say thank God for me, I went, uh, you know,
Faust:independent and stayed that way.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:I didn't have to answer to anyone, but, you know, uh, you go into a doctor today,
Faust:many times they're on the computer while you're talking cuz they have to put your
Faust:information in the computer where we used to have that eye contact, that slow
Faust:kind of bedside manner as we call it.
Faust:Well, that's.
Faust:You know, been, been pretty much, pretty well phased out because the,
Faust:uh, you know, when they're more concerned about when someone calls
Faust:your information's in the system.
Faust:Uh, yeah.
Faust:That type of thing.
Faust:And, and, yeah.
Faust:So, so you're gonna see a lot of people are gonna, are gonna say,
Faust:this is, I'm so stressed out.
Faust:Well, you're not going in.
Faust:To a relaxed environment.
Faust:So now I go back to that first ingredient.
Faust:You've gotta get yourself in order.
Faust:Do I wanna do this?
Faust:Do I wanna practice?
Faust:Whether it's physiology, whether it's, uh, taking care of people's bodies,
Faust:whether it's their minds, whatever.
Faust:Do I wanna be in this field?
Faust:Because if you're just coming into it, maybe you can adjust to those things.
Faust:Those of us have been in a while, say, man, this is changing.
Faust:It is not what I signed up for.
Faust:You know, my whole thing was people and dealing with people
Faust:and you know, hello Mrs.
Faust:So-and-so.
Faust:Gee, it's good to see you again.
Faust:And you, and you might do, as you and I, when we started this, this podcast,
Faust:we talked for five minutes before we even got started with the podcast.
Faust:Yeah, yeah.
Faust:That's typical what a doctor would do.
Faust:You get that warmup phase and they talk and you might be there
Faust:20 minutes and that's gone.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:Because you gotta be in and out in seven or eight minutes.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:Uh, so you know, you have to know, do I want to do this in this environment
Faust:and am I built to be able to do.
Andrew:So it sounds like you gotta really, you know, do a gut check for
Andrew:yourself to say, okay, let's, let's have some real honesty with ourselves in
Andrew:terms of knowing if, if this is really the right place, you know, whether
Andrew:that's at a workplace level or whether that's at a, at a profession level.
Andrew:Um, so that you're not sort of, uh, deceiving yourself in a way.
Andrew:Right.
Faust:You know?
Faust:Yeah, absolutely.
Faust:And it's an interesting point because, you know, I look back 20 years ago, I rarely.
Faust:Uh, medical professionals in my office, people, they don't, we don't seek help.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:We are people that help.
Faust:There's that posture, there's that thing.
Faust:I don't do that.
Faust:And now, you know, in the last seven, eight years, I'm doing a lot more
Faust:counseling with, and it, it, it's not that it's always long term, but it might.
Faust:Two, three months where people are saying, Hey, I gotta get in
Faust:there and see what's going on.
Faust:Because, you know, I, I got maybe 20 or 30 years to work yet I got a family, I've got
Faust:a home, uh, all this, and this has changed so drastically and I'm working more
Faust:hours and, uh, you know, I'm not happy.
Faust:And when I get home, my spouse or significant other says, you know, I,
Faust:this is, I can see you're not happy.
Faust:Down and you're burned out and you know, so what they're doing is coming
Faust:in and, uh, and, and we're spending time, you know, getting to those
Faust:core issues they themselves have.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:You know, and, um, you know, people go into our profession, like it
Faust:or not, we're, we're caregivers.
Faust:We like to help other people.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:And we know when we're not.
Faust:Yes.
Faust:And it
Andrew:doesn't feel good.
Andrew:No, it doesn't.
Andrew:And, and it's true.
Andrew:It's, it's hard to ask for.
Andrew:When it's yourself that needs . Yes.
Andrew:When you're on the receiving end, right, because it's, there's definitely that
Andrew:you, you know, you can, you can feel comfortable in the giving part of it, but
Andrew:then it's like, well, hang on a second.
Andrew:How, what am I doing to, to stay healthy?
Andrew:How, how can I actually stay in a place that can give me some longevity
Andrew:in the, in the work I'm gonna do?
Faust:You know, I, I, I always use the analogy of people, I say,
Faust:well, I assume you have a car.
Faust:And they say, yes.
Faust:And I say, well, it it, you need that to get you from point A to B.
Faust:If you don't give it any attention.
Faust:Either you're going to lose it or it's going to go into the
Faust:shop for that two or $3,000 bill.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:And while it's in there for the week or two or three, whatever it takes to get
Faust:your parts, now, you don't have that.
Faust:Your body, your mind, your emotions are the same way you're going.
Faust:You're going in there and using them every day.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, you think a tune.
Faust:Is a good idea.
Faust:And that doesn't mean you have to go see a psychologist.
Faust:You may form a group of 10 or 15, uh, men and women who sit down and just
Faust:say, Hey, let's meet once a month, once every other week, and let's just
Faust:throw some stuff out there and talk.
Faust:You need to get that energy outta yourself because otherwise it spins
Faust:inside you and, and it just, it does it, it just gets very negative after a.
Faust:. Yeah.
Andrew:And then, and then you couple it, couple it with what you said earlier
Andrew:about this increasing isolation mm-hmm.
Andrew:that we experience, right?
Andrew:So not only are we having to give and we don't have a, a good, uh, you
Andrew:know, healthy outlet, uh, for that.
Andrew:Um, but then you, you increase the isolation that we have, you know,
Andrew:socially, uh, you know, outside of work.
Andrew:And so that, yeah, that's, uh, definitely sounded like a , an unhealthy recipe
Andrew:for . For, for a professional longevity.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:Yeah.
Faust:And again, it's not something that has to challenge,
Faust:uh, your feelings about yourself.
Faust:You don't have to be calling the, uh, the psychologist, the psychiatrist
Faust:and saying, I gotta get in there.
Faust:I'm falling apart.
Faust:You may, you know, you may be in that hospital system or wherever you may, and
Faust:you may know, uh, other professionals, and then you might say, Hey.
Faust:You know, why don't we sit down, you know, and we can discuss
Faust:what's changing in the field.
Faust:We can discuss our own personal stuff, put together a support group.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, I've, I've seen a number of, uh, groups, you know, get
Faust:together and do those things.
Faust:And it's, you know, it, it's, it's, instead of, uh, gee, I leave work
Faust:and I go out for a few cocktails.
Faust:Uh, you know, I, I go to my group and we once a, uh, every other week for
Faust:an hour, We sit down in a room and we just throw information back and forth.
Faust:Several things happen.
Faust:Number one, you're with other professionals, so now you
Faust:realize what you're experiencing is not, you're not alone.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:It's not specific to you.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:You have a network of people that will support you and they're in
Faust:your field understanding what you do, so they also understand you.
Faust:You know, you can talk to your spouse at home or whoever, but they're, if they're
Faust:not in it with you every day, they don't.
Faust:They don't understand it.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, uh, you get to then step out of the self, you know, I must care for others and I
Faust:got some self-care going on in my life.
Faust:So not only does that work well for me, it really, the reciprocity between
Faust:me and the clients or patients I'm dealing with actually goes up because.
Faust:I'm taking care of that part of me.
Faust:I'm healthier.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:. So it's just, and, and again, you're not alone.
Faust:It's, there's so many good things to do it so you don't have to check into
Faust:the place, you know, where, you know, you know, the people say, oh, he's
Faust:going for counseling over there, cuz you know, we don't do those things.
Faust:We're above that sort of stuff.
Faust:So.
Faust:But when, but when, uh, the high and mighty get together as a group that's
Faust:accepted, you know, . Exactly, exactly.
Faust:And now you can cry and do whatever you want behind the closed doors.
Faust:. Andrew: That's right.
Faust:That's right.
Faust:Now it's approved.
Faust:. There you go.
Faust:. So, you know, um, I was reading in your book, uh, that's coming out,
Faust:uh, about how you believe anxiety is actually a physical problem.
Faust:Um, and I I thought that was really interesting and I was hoping that
Faust:you could unpack that a little bit because, you know, to me, when I think
Faust:of anxiety, I think of it as, you know, You know, it's an emotional issue.
Faust:It's, it's my thinking that's going too fast.
Faust:It's, you know, all those things.
Faust:And so I, I'd really love for you to share what you're, uh, what
Faust:you were meaning behind that.
Faust:That's the question I get a lot.
Faust:I go, oh, no, no.
Faust:It's, uh, yeah, it's in my head.
Faust:I start worrying and I said, let me ask you a question.
Faust:I, here's how I tell everyone.
Faust:Let me ask this question.
Faust:If I, while you're dealing with all those things you think in your head, if
Faust:I could snap my fingers and take your, your body level, all that acceleration,
Faust:you feel right down, how would you feel?
Faust:Could you sort that stuff out a little better and then it clicks?
Faust:That's why go to the doctor and they'll say, here, here's your whatever medication
Faust:out of an Xanax, whatever it may be.
Faust:Or people are taking CBD oils and THC and whatever.
Faust:It the, because what are they doing?
Faust:They're not, that's not, that's not going in your head and
Faust:sorting all your problems out.
Faust:That's taking your body down.
Faust:Gotcha.
Faust:So it's not that, that's the only thing.
Faust:Anxiety.
Faust:It just has to be started.
Faust:The treatment modality has to start there.
Faust:We get people to learn how to calm themselves down.
Faust:Then, you know cuz, cuz it starts in the body, it hits the emotions, and
Faust:now you're reacting and then your head doesn't know what to do because your
Faust:emotions have now taken all the energy that your brain is supposed to have.
Faust:for your intellect.
Faust:I mean, and that's the, the thing people have to understand is that, you know, we
Faust:think emotions are in the heart and all that it, emotions and intellect are, are
Faust:reasoning, abilities, are always fighting for space in the brain, so to speak.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:If your emotions are impacted, they're using up the energy of the brain
Faust:needs to sort things out, which is why you feel the conflict and what
Faust:it's all based upon is going too.
Faust:Mm.
Faust:Anxiety accelerates the body.
Faust:That's what it does.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:It goes and everything amps.
Faust:And anytime we're amped up, emotions get amped up.
Faust:You, you, you, I don't, people have five cup of C cup, uh,
Faust:cups of coffee in the morning.
Faust:Their emotions are going up.
Faust:I guarantee it.
Faust:All you have to do is say the wrong thing,
Andrew:Exactly.
Andrew:Exactly.
Andrew:. Faust: So, and they'll
Andrew:You know, so my point is you start dealing with it first.
Andrew:Learn how to, you know, decelerate.
Andrew:Breathe a little differently.
Andrew:Don't put the accelerants in that are.
Andrew:Continue to accelerate your body, and then you're gonna try to mm-hmm.
Andrew:, uh, calm down.
Andrew:Um, be able, you know, put things that worked for you besides breathing.
Andrew:Maybe it's meditation or prayer or yoga or whatever it does to calm your body down.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:Get those things in your world.
Andrew:Exercise, get your body healthy.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:Um, get enough sleep.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:You know, a proper diet.
Andrew:All those things.
Andrew:When I, when I deal with people and they're, and they have anxiety, almost
Andrew:everything I just mentioned isn't
Andrew:working.
Andrew:Hmm.
Andrew:Even though we think that it's working.
Andrew:Right, right.
Andrew:Because we have, we do.
Andrew:I'm eating well, I'm doing this.
Andrew:Are you eating well?
Faust:Well, yeah.
Faust:Okay.
Faust:And then I go through the diet and, you know, 80% of it's carbs, you
Faust:know, . And I said, are you getting up when you get up in the morning?
Faust:Are you fresh?
Faust:Yeah, after my cup of coffee or two, I said, yeah, okay.
Faust:How many of those do you have?
Faust:You know, and it's that, and maybe it's a couple of those energy drinks and the
Faust:sugar and the carbs that are going in.
Faust:So you, you're not getting a good diet.
Faust:You're eating late at night.
Faust:Uh, maybe.
Faust:And you now have some, uh, a GERD that's going on.
Faust:Uh, yeah.
Faust:So you're not sleeping well now you've got medications to medicate this and that.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:And they're interfering with some sleep.
Faust:You get up in the morning, you feel lousy, and you start the cycle all over You.
Faust:That, you know, the, the, the coffee pot is on automatic, so when you get up you
Faust:don't even have to wait five minutes.
Faust:That's right.
Andrew:Just how about IV
Andrew:? Faust: You know, so I, I, I teach
Andrew:Let's get your body healthy first.
Andrew:Hmm.
Andrew:Okay.
Andrew:Now if there are, you know, extenuating circumstances, you know, someone's
Andrew:being abused or, or you know, those, you know, they're gonna lose the house.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:Okay.
Andrew:About, by all means, those are things that we need to deal with right away.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:But for most people, let's get the body in order.
Andrew:Mm-hmm.
Andrew:and then we're gonna deal with all those things.
Andrew:And, and when I have people in the office, and I've been using this
Andrew:program for about 20 years, no, I've never had a person not get better.
Andrew:Never.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:But you know, it's a program that you're gonna work.
Andrew:It's not the, uh, you know, um, the quick fix or fix me in
Andrew:10 quick steps kind of thing.
Andrew:And I Exactly.
Andrew:It's not, it's a lifetime.
Andrew:It's what the, our bodies are there for our lives, and we have to be able
Andrew:to treat them well for that time.
Andrew:So if we, if I think about, you know, sort of, uh, work life and, and
Andrew:how, how, uh, you know, sometimes you're in a, in a treatment room with a patient
Andrew:and, uh, your anxiety starts to ramp.
Andrew:uh, you know, you're, you're feeling like you're running behind.
Andrew:You're not figuring out what's going on.
Andrew:Exactly.
Andrew:Uh, maybe you're, you know, maybe your perfectionist tendency is kicking
Andrew:in, like, I gotta figure this out.
Andrew:You know, in those moments, like, do you, like, what would you say to that?
Andrew:Uh, professional is like, I just feel my anxiety skyrocketing and I
Andrew:don't know what to do in that moment.
Andrew:Right?
Andrew:Like, you know, how, what, what can you do in that moment to
Andrew:slow yourself down physically?
Andrew:Yeah.
Faust:If you have the option, the first thing to do is say, I'll be right back.
Faust:Mm.
Faust:Step out of the door and catch your breath.
Faust:You know, if, if you're near an exit where you can get some
Faust:fresh air, that's wonderful.
Faust:And it might be 60 seconds.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:People are people, people are, are, are trained to wait in our
Faust:waiting rooms for a half hour.
Faust:I mean, yeah.
Faust:So when you, they're already back there.
Faust:They're in examining our treatment room.
Faust:They're already there far as they're concerned.
Faust:They crossed the first big hurdle.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:And, and you just say, I'm gonna step out for one minute, just gotta get something.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:. And you go out and remove yourself from, from that environment so you
Faust:can catch your breath, you know, uh, stretch is, uh, you know, stretch your.
Faust:Get, get some of that and go, what what'll happen is those things right
Faust:away typically take you down 10 or 20%.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:Enough to get through that patient.
Faust:Then you've gotta figure out, okay, how am I, you know, what do I need?
Faust:And then, and, and so, That, that's the first step in those situations.
Faust:But that should lead you to, to be able to say, okay, that's happened.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, if I'm jumping outta my skin, is it just high anxiety?
Faust:Am I getting a panic attack here?
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, what's going on with my body?
Faust:You may need to start seeking that help you've been putting off.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:Because if you're to the point of anxiety attacks, either at work or at.
Faust:You're in a dangerous place as far as physically, and also in terms
Faust:of your ability to treat people.
Andrew:Yeah, absolutely.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:Cause how are you gonna be able to think clearly?
Andrew:Exactly.
Andrew:Anxiety is ramping up that high.
Andrew:Right.
Andrew:And, and you mentioned an interesting, uh, point earlier about, you know,
Andrew:our tendency to, uh, be perfect.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:Um, and, and I was curious to, to, cuz I think that, uh, you know, as professionals
Andrew:I think we can, we often can have a bit of this perfectionist tendency in ourselves.
Andrew:And so I was hoping, you know, to maybe just make, share that linkage in
Andrew:terms of, you know, with anxiety and perfectionism and, and how do we sort
Andrew:of combat that tendency when we feel like we need to be perfect in these,
Andrew:in these situations with our clients.
Faust:You know, you, you, you, we feed off what happens in a therapeutic
Faust:environment when we ha when we're seeing people, and especially when we begin
Faust:to know we're proficient at what we do.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, we expect that, and then we, and, and we deliver quality.
Faust:And then people say, thank you so much.
Faust:You are so wonderful.
Faust:And they go tell their friends and their friends call and say,
Faust:can I come and see you too?
Faust:And before you.
Faust:Our game has been upped, though.
Faust:That's like a professional athlete who they say, you know, he's vying
Faust:for the mvp and then maybe he gets it.
Faust:Well, next year he comes, you know, comes up to whatever he, to the plate
Faust:or, or the football field or, or the hockey arena or whatever it may be.
Faust:And we expect, let's go, man, this guy is good, and the person buys into it.
Faust:Well, what you didn't buy into is the fact that with.
Faust:becomes a whole lot more energy being used up, and you are putting demands on
Faust:yourself that not only were never there before, you don't know how to identify.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, it's, it's no man's land and you're there.
Faust:And that's what happens with professionals.
Faust:And we walk in, you know, and then we start doing things that, that, you
Faust:know, we dress a little differently because, you know, well, we we're moving
Faust:up and maybe the new car and the new house, and now it, it, it, it permeates
Faust:other areas of our lives and we're starting to buy into this notion that.
Faust:We're really good.
Faust:So we expect that to continue mm-hmm.
Faust:, and that that's living way, way above the, you know, the comfort line.
Faust:It just is.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, we just need to go in there, humble and relaxed every day, enjoy
Faust:what we're doing, and do the best job we can that particular day.
Faust:We don't want to buy into, uh, you know, that, uh, stigma that,
Faust:uh, you know, kind, kind of quasi celebrity status that we think we're.
Andrew:Yeah, it's inter Yeah, it's true because it's, you know, you'll have, you,
Andrew:you almost take on these expectations that the patient has, or the client has, has
Andrew:expressed, uh, you know, and, and then it becomes really hard to live up to that.
Andrew:And, and it's true that that situation that they may have heard of from their
Andrew:friend or their family member isn't necessarily gonna translate into their
Andrew:experience cuz it's, they have a different body, they have a different injury or a
Andrew:different issue that they're dealing with.
Andrew:But then it's true.
Andrew:You do feel that increased pressure.
Andrew:To be like, okay, I've gotta, I've gotta get this sorted out for them, just like
Andrew:I did for that other person who, you know, in two sessions was so much better.
Andrew:Right.
Andrew:. Exactly.
Andrew:, Faust: exactly.
Andrew:You know, you know, I, I sometimes counsel people who are, as we call
Andrew:celebrities, and, you know, and what they'll all say is, I bought into this
Andrew:notion that I was somebody that I wasn't.
Andrew:Mm-hmm.
Andrew:, you know, they, you know, the, the, the red carpet syndrome, that whole thing.
Andrew:You, they, you can buy into that because you have to.
Andrew:and everyone wants you to be it.
Andrew:And then before you know it, you believe that that's who you are and
Andrew:that's the level that you are supposed to perform at, which is, you know,
Andrew:there's no solid foundation under that.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:There's no place for that to go.
Andrew:So we don't want to buy into those things.
Andrew:We wanna, and that's another reason why they'll go in and, and, and,
Andrew:um, and maybe not like their job so much because what they don't like,
Andrew:it's not the job they don't like.
Andrew:It's the.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:And, and I always tell 'em, stop putting pressure on yourself.
Andrew:Mm-hmm.
Andrew:, go into your, uh, job every day, relaxed.
Andrew:Uh, enjoy what you're doing.
Andrew:Don't try, don't buy into being someone that you're not.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:And, and, and if you're doing that and you're taking care of yourself,
Andrew:the kind of coincide, you know, they live together pretty well.
Andrew:Mm-hmm.
Andrew:. . Yeah, absolutely.
Andrew:And I mean, I think that it, uh, you, you put yourself at risk of
Andrew:taking shortcuts, uh, to try to get that result, um, that, you know, a
Andrew:client has put on you in essence, you know, and, and it's, it's true.
Andrew:We don't have to accept that, right?
Andrew:I mean, it's, it just because someone has that expectation, I think it's
Andrew:our job to help reorient their expect.
Andrew:Something that's a little bit more realistic, or at
Andrew:least temperate, , somewhat.
Andrew:Right.
Andrew:Because, uh, you do,
Faust:you know, and, and another dynamic that happens is we monitor our patients.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:and when they come in, if they're not happy, we, we, we might even at you.
Faust:Okay.
Faust:It's wrong.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:and now we're trying to find out why we didn't make them happy in that situation.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:Because we don't want them to leave.
Faust:That doesn't feel good.
Faust:We maybe didn't treat them the way they needed to be treated.
Faust:They may talk about it and say, I didn't think that he or she was that great.
Faust:Yeah, and we don't want any of those things.
Faust:So now we're feeding off.
Faust:That communicative, reciprocity, that that happens in, in those settings.
Faust:And you know, if you start getting caught up in that, you know, then you
Faust:start monitoring the computer and look where I see how your rating is, whether
Faust:they rate you okay, oh my God, I got two stars, or not five, and that's right.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:You know, you, you really start getting caught up in that when all they're
Faust:looking for is that you're a good person, you're treating them nicely, and
Faust:that you're efficient at what you do.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:That's.
Andrew:Yeah.
Andrew:So when you find yourself getting caught up in that kind of, uh, you
Andrew:know, situation where you are sort of playing into that, um, you know, uh,
Andrew:trying to, you know what I, what, what word did you use that reciprocity?
Andrew:Uh, yeah, yeah.
Andrew:Communi and
Faust:reciprocity, yeah.
Andrew:Mm-hmm.
Andrew:, um, you know, do you.
Andrew:You know, obviously there's that slowing down physically, but like
Andrew:is there to start to shift how we're thinking our beliefs around that.
Andrew:You know, it sounds like you almost sort of use a bit of a mantra for yourself
Andrew:to remind yourself, uh, you know, like, slow down, be humble, you know, um, you
Andrew:know, what, what else could, what else could, you know, can, can we be doing to.
Andrew:Help sort of reframe some of those beliefs, um, for
Faust:ourselves.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:You know what happens, and you were alluding to it a little bit bef before
Faust:we said you cut corners and things.
Faust:But we do all that because we get, we get proficient and we start
Faust:taking shortcuts and we, we, I always use the term autopilot.
Faust:We come in and we just, we can just go.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:the answer to your question.
Faust:Slow down and get conscious.
Faust:Get your mind back involved.
Faust:What do I need?
Faust:Ask yourself the questions.
Faust:What do I need to do here?
Faust:How do I need to be here?
Faust:You, you did all that.
Faust:We all did that when we initially got into the fields.
Faust:Yeah, because we weren't quite secure.
Faust:We wanted to be good.
Faust:We wanted to learn more.
Faust:We wanted people to like us.
Faust:Now we got to a point where we kind of abandoned all.
Faust:And it's, uh, you know, on the fly.
Faust:And then we'll take a telephone call between this while I
Faust:have a restroom thing here.
Faust:I'm gonna go grab something to eat real fast.
Faust:Oh, hi.
Faust:How are you today?
Faust:And you know, now we're in a whole Yeah.
Faust:Because we, we know we got this and then we start skipping some of the steps.
Faust:Yes.
Faust:And those steps are usually the ones where we're bonding with the client or
Faust:with, or, or we're, we're, we're asking ourselves, what do I need to do here?
Faust:You know, before maybe we got the chart out and we looked
Faust:and said, okay, yeah, yeah.
Faust:Got this now we didn't mm-hmm.
Faust:because we think we got it or we skimmed it, or the nurse or someone told us.
Faust:So, so and so looks like everything's okay.
Faust:Couple changes from last time.
Faust:Okay, good.
Faust:And we go in and we wing it.
Faust:So the answer is go back and get your mind that people like to use
Faust:the word mindfulness conscious.
Faust:Get your conscious brain involved and say, who's here?
Faust:Let me look at this.
Faust:What do I have to do?
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, let's talk about wh where you are there changes, let's get into the process again.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, Andrew: sort of warm yourself
Faust:Right?
Faust:Like it's, uh,
Faust:yeah.
Faust:And if you want to get proficient at something, get, be proficient.
Faust:Get good at doing that for every patient that comes in.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:You can do.
Faust:People get caught up in this new medical model and they're making me
Faust:go so fast and I don't have the time.
Faust:Yes, you do.
Faust:But if you're using your energy to just say, ah, heck with
Faust:this, I don't even care anymore.
Faust:They're just, well, every, everyone suffers, including you.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:Slow down just a bit.
Faust:Ask yourself, what do I need to do here?
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:And, and, and if you do that, you'll go in, you'll get what you.
Faust:And you know, is it gonna be a different animal than you, you
Faust:know, you signed up for Yeah, it is.
Faust:But you, it doesn't mean we can't manage the change.
Faust:Yeah.
Andrew:Well that's some, that's some great advice.
Andrew:I, uh, I, I, I think it's good cuz it's, it's sometimes we gotta return to those,
Andrew:uh, foundational, uh, elements, right?
Andrew:It's sometimes look for the, the.
Andrew:The special sauce, when in reality it's like, okay, no, let's just actually
Andrew:physically slow ourselves down.
Andrew:You know, that, uh, let's, let's get ourselves back into the
Andrew:present moment, whatever that looks like in that situation.
Andrew:Right.
Andrew:I think,
Faust:you know, you know, some of the, the best compliments I've had over the
Faust:years are when people in my profession being a psychologist, they may see you and
Faust:then maybe 10 years they may come back for something else or, and then they'll come
Faust:in and I'll say, well, how is so and so?
Faust:And I'll start asking questions.
Faust:They say, you remember all this?
Faust:And I say, well, yeah, I mean, this is what we do here.
Faust:We talk about things.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:And, uh, and, and I, and, and you remember that thing.
Faust:And, and another thing is you're deliver.
Faust:You're just like, you were 10 years ago.
Faust:When I get that, then I know I'm on track.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:Because if they're walking out, you know, and, and, and they're kind.
Faust:Okay.
Faust:Well yeah, I think I.
Faust:I'll call you if I need to get, I have some real concerns.
Faust:I wouldn't want to see one of those, but when they come back and they're,
Faust:and they're looking at me and saying, yeah, I really appreciate it, you
Faust:know, and, or I see them in a store somewhere and I'll say, how's this son?
Faust:And I give the son's name, and it's been six years, from seven
Faust:years since I've seen them.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:They're looking, ah, you know what, and, and I mean, I, I'm, you know, 40 years,
Faust:I've probably seen about 5,000 people.
Faust:So it's not like, You know, uh, you know, I just have five and , you know, uh, you,
Faust:you wanna be in this, you wanna be in it then do, you know, get in and enjoy it.
Andrew:I liked what you said was this idea of bringing it back to
Andrew:the foundational elements, which is get yourself to slow down, um,
Andrew:you know, take care of yourself.
Andrew:Um, and, and really do a gut check with yourself in terms of,
Andrew:you know, am I, am I actually enjoying what I'm doing in my work?
Andrew:And I think that's the thing that I think, uh, we sometimes forget to ask ourselves
Andrew:is, am I still enjoying what I'm doing?
Faust:You know, as you were talking, what popped into my head was what got
Faust:me to be happy with this profession.
Faust:Mm-hmm.
Faust:, what is it you know about me and the profession that I liked?
Faust:I need to go back and reestablish.
Faust:Those are the fundamentals.
Faust:Let me go back and think about all the things cuz maybe.
Faust:Not that I lost them, I may have tabled some things.
Faust:I may have made some changes.
Faust:And in so doing what?
Faust:Inadvertently, I just got away from the important things that
Faust:helped me love what I was doing.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:I need to get back to that again.
Andrew:Yeah, yeah.
Andrew:Cause it is easy to get sidetracked by, oh, I've gotta get this special
Andrew:designation, or, you know, am I, you know, um, and obviously, you know, making
Andrew:a living is important, but sometimes we can get too focused on, you know, what,
Andrew:what are, you know, my billables per day.
Andrew:You know, and that can take our eyes off of, yeah, what am I actually doing?
Andrew:Am I in that zone where I'm actually really thriving, enjoying my work?
Andrew:Um, and, and, uh, and keeping myself in a place where I can
Andrew:actually do that day in and day out.
Andrew:I think that's the, and that's becomes quite elusive after a while, if you're
Andrew:not focusing on that, you know, we, we
Faust:start this and often we're maybe we're unattached or maybe we
Faust:don't have the kids or the house and the mortgages and whatever.
Faust:And so we don't have all the distractors and those distractors.
Faust:You know, that again, takes up energy for us to have to keep those things mm-hmm.
Faust:and, uh, so, you know, we, we are now spreading our conscious, the way
Faust:we deal things all over the place.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:I think that we just have to again, be able to separate all that stuff and come
Faust:into the office and that's who we are.
Faust:Hmm.
Faust:That get back to that.
Faust:And for some people that's difficult.
Faust:I mean, for me, fortunately, you know, when I walked into the office,
Faust:that's what I was dealing with.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:And then when I left, if I had other stressors, like every, and we all
Faust:do at certain times in our lives and sometimes more often, then we
Faust:deal with those, we go back to them.
Faust:But yeah.
Faust:You know, if, if we're going to bring the stress into the office, then we're
Faust:gonna have more stress there, then we're gonna have stress everywhere.
Faust:And it never seems to shut off.
Faust:Yeah, exactly.
Faust:It have to be good at, at separating that, you know, com.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:Com compartmentalizing those parts of our lives.
Faust:Yeah.
Faust:. Andrew: Well, that's good.
Faust:Well, Faust, I appreciate you coming on the show and, and sharing from
Faust:your many years of experience and, uh, and insights with, uh, with this
Faust:whole topic of, I mean, not only anxiety, but I think just living well,
Faust:which, uh, to me is, is really such an important, uh, element to being a
Faust:healthy, you know, engaged professional.
Faust:Right.
Faust:So that's, uh, that's, that's been great.
Faust:Well, you know,
Faust:I've appreciated being here.
Faust:Thanks for asking me on.
Andrew:Okay.
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