As we enter a new year, I am joined by Spiritual Teacher and Psychic Intuitive, Vania.  In this episode we talk about the energy of now and The Unlimited Self of 2023.  Her message is clear:  live in your truth and as your unlimited self in the year ahead!   Vania shares the importance of self-awareness, as a means to letting go of perfectionism, stress, and the stories that hold us back. Letting go of energetic toxicity and trauma is a healing part of our journeys as humans, so we also talk about how to clear energy, as well as recognizing what is outside of yourself so you can arrive within. 

Our conversation of inspiration also touches on:

-       Inner triggers and faults

-       The issues of now versus the past or future

-       Cleaning energy

-       Traumas and triggers that are ready for processing

-       Letting go and allowing for the Unlimited Self to own the space of now

About the Guest: 

Vania joins us with more than a decade of experience in honing her natural abilities as a Psychic Intuitive, Multidimensional Energy Healer, Channel, Light Language Activator, and Spiritual Teacher. She has worked with several specialists, guides and her soul records in various fields of spiritual mastery. Vania, is a Certified Crystal, Reiki and Quantum Vortex Practitioner as well as a Past Life Regression Therapist.

Vania recently co-authored a book called How to Connect to Your Lifeforce available on her website.

You can reach out to her via her website: www.luminousmountain.com

or via Facebook @luminousmountain 

To access her Silver Egg Activation: https://youtu.be/tmhX4Oprvpk

About the Host:

Tanya's mission is to create a legacy of self-love for women that reinforces trust in themselves through our programs, coaching, podcast, and book, The Trifecta of Joy! As Founder and creator of the Trifecta of Joy Philosophy, she combines over 30 years of research and work in various helping fields, to help you achieve your greatest successes!

Using her philosophy of the Trifecta of Joy, her mission is to empower people through their struggles with the elements of awareness, befriending your inner critic and raising your vibe. This podcast is about sharing stories of imperfection moving through life to shift toward possibilities, purpose, and power in your life!

Having had many wtf moments including becoming a widow, struggling with weight and body image issues, dating after loss, single parenting, remarriage, and blending families, Tanya is committed to offering you inspiration and empowerment – body, mind, and spirit!

As a speaker, writer, and coach, Tanya steps into her life’s purpose daily – to INSPIRE HOPE.

Order your copy of the Trifecta of Joy – HELP yourself in a world of change right here.

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Xo Tanya

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My friends welcome to the trifecta of joy I have Vania have a single name, like Madonna, and like, who else share share a single major like she and Cher both have beautiful hair. Vanya is an incredible soul who I have attempted to record past podcasts with. But unfortunately, because we get talking in so many directions, I haven't been able to share her with you yet. I am so excited to share her with you because Vanya has over a decade of experience in honoring her natural abilities as a psychic intuitive, a multi dimensional energy healer, a channel, a light language activator and a spiritual teacher. And I thought Vania, this is going to be our New Year's episode. So who better to bring the New Year in with then you my beautiful friends?

Oh, I'm so honored to be here. This is so exciting. And I'm honored to be working with you. Because literally, you are amazing. Right back. I am so blessed to have met you and to unknown you. And anybody who is tuning into this. What are you doing just sitting there go research, Tanya, because you are going to literally blow your mind the book out is amazing. Thank you have got to you guys jump in with both feet, learn and experience what the trifecta of joy is. This is going to be an amazing podcast, this is going to be an amazing show. Hang on to your hats, people because it's gonna get fun.

Oh, gosh. And it's always fun when we talk because we never know where we're going. Right? No like true. Like you have such an incredible gift of, of receiving information from Spirit to share with individuals and helping them understand themselves on such a deep level. And, you know, I've had the privilege of having readings with you, and so has Peter and we are very aware of your gifts and the ability to share you with the world is such a gift for us. And so I thought today would be a really amazing opportunity for us to talk about what is to come. And you know, this, this episode will air on January 1. And I know that energetically the world may feel very, very different than Yes. But you know, I thought Can we can we talk about what's to come in 2023?

Sure, absolutely. So the biggest thing that anybody who does psychic work knows that when you tune into the energy of the atmosphere and the conscious energy of all thoughts, feelings and emotions out there, it is a fluctuating living, energetic entity, nothing will stay exactly the same as I tune in it today. As towards the end of the year, you can have pinpoints of frequency that will always occur, meaning life or death type of thing. But you can push out timelines you can push out experiences. And nothing is written in stone, nothing. Okay, so that's the biggest thing to take away for anybody. In reality, if you're in a moment of dire need, or you are plummeting down a dark hole, or you are living at the top and the best of your life, nothing is permanent. Energy is fluctuating always, you are never stuck. You are never at the top of your game, and you are never going to be stuck always at the bottom of your game. So what does that mean? It's about living your unlimited self people. It's about grabbing life and taking control of it for yourself.

Living your unlimited

self? Yes. Can you imagine that having a daily life where you can choose to change your mind if you didn't like how something was working out for you. Instead of trug. Like struggling through it and trying like a troll to try and work through everything. You'd literally have the option to say this is not working. I have tried three different ways from Sunday. I am now choosing a different route. Hmm. Most people don't have that wherewithal, they don't try something different.

And you know, it's funny because that's an interesting thing. We have 20 Or sorry, we have 60 to 70,000 thoughts a day, and 90% of them are from the day before, right? So of course we're trying the things from the day before, not allowing ourselves to just Looking at entirely different direction?

Exactly. And it's becoming aware of self, and learning to understand oneself, that allows you to open up the doorway to new experiences. So some people have relationships that are going to end in 2023. Does that mean that it's the end of the world? No, it's the end of that expression of the version of you that was there, it doesn't mean that that's the end of everything else. What's the bright side of that, you get to learn you all over again, you get to rediscover, there's going to be a new first in so many different areas. And those are beautiful things to look forward to. There is beauty in everything with every ending is a new beginning. Version,

that is an unlimited version. And I think a lot of people, you know, I, I have a lot of clients right now who are going through significant change in relationship. And, and I know that a lot of them have some real fear around what the year ahead may bring. And it is it is about that awareness, for sure. And having the awareness that there is, we all move through hard things, right? We do that's like life is full of what the fuck moments. Oh, absolutely. And but we all have the ability to move through things with as long as we're deepening our awareness to it, and making intentional decisions that serve our highest good.

Absolutely. And this is the thing 2023 can start off with a bang, or not. Now, this is a general synopsis of 2023. What I'm beginning to feel for 2023 is that there's going to be a lot of stresses in January, that people are going to be feeling emotionally and mentally, I feel like there's also going to be a lot of shifts around what's happening with people's funds in the bank, the biggest thing that you can do for yourself, number one, is unplug from media if you are not already doing so, it's not my favorite thing in the entire world to have to say out loud, but I don't trust media, in any way, shape, or form. They create a narrative for society on what to expect. You can see this every time you watch news, every time you read the newspaper, they're basically putting out an agenda or a narrative of how they want the world to work. So there's always mass fear about money, the state of finances, the state of government, war, oil prices, I mean, like seriously, guys, disconnect that's not serving you. It's their agenda. When you disconnect, you start to take your energies back to yourself. And when you have your own energies back to yourself, you can start to work on creating what you need in your world. Does the government have rule over you? Only so far as you will let it yes, we still have to pay taxes and such like that. But you don't have to do it with your energy. Don't have to pay with your energy. You can pay with your money, no problem. But you don't have to pay with energy. Now that's a thought.

Oh, and watching the news is definitely a way that you pay with energy. I know I do. I've I've very much unplugged from the news. Because energetically, it's really, really tough to take in really layer upon layer upon layer of bad news.

And what they do now is they try and put a feel good story of the last story that you're going to hear for the night. So that way, you forgot about all the horrible things that they had to tell you in the beginning. And you're left with a feel good. So it's sort of like your let me slap you over the head 15 times and then I'm going to give you an ice cream exactly afterwards. Here's your reward. It's sort of like are you kidding me? Really. And what's really important out there people, it's you, you're the most important thing in the entire existence of reality. Your choices, your decisions and how you feel inside is what's important. That's what creates your outside world meaning that's what creates how you feel when you leave your house, who you interact with on a daily basis, and how your lives can be much bigger and more expansive. If you work with your own energy.

Then this is the vibration right like so the trifecta of joy. I talk about awareness, befriending your inner critic and raising your vibration. And that energy that you're Talking about is so powerful. I think that we often move into places where we disregard the energy that we are bringing or carrying or absorbing as we are moving through our day to day.

Yes, we do because we're unconscious to it. It's not a thought that we actually take into consideration because we were never trained to take it into consideration. Why is it that more adults now in their 20s, and 30s are learning about energy and how to work with energy, and how it actually represents itself in everyday society, then, you know, us in our 40s 50s 60s, and 70s, we never really gave that much of a thought we didn't really have an outlet to learn that. But you know, we're beginning to be more exposed to things thank God for new age, I know, it's a terrible thing to have to say, but Yay, thank God, that's how I found me. You have to understand that the world around us everything, as Tesla said, is frequency and vibration, everything. There's an interlaced connective, source of energy that is interlaced with everything. It's with your physical body, your mental body, your emotional body, your energy field, your chakras, your outside world, which is your auric field, which is every place that you work, every person, you know, every relationship, every thing, every flower, tree, plant chair, everything is energy, everything, whether it's a solid state, or it's a fluid state, like water, everything is and therefore you have to be aware that if everything is energy, including my physical body, then everything is interacting with me at all times. So as I'm walking, as I'm sitting, having my coffee at Starbucks, or whatever your favorite coffee place is, your energy field is interacting with everybody who's within a 20 foot radius of you, maybe even some who have 30 foot radiuses, some who have 50 foot radiuses there are people who are impasse, those beautiful people suffer so badly with having to deal with frequency and energy. And you have to learn that that affects your thoughts. That affects your reality. It literally changes the way that you interact with other people. The I'll give the example of you're in a coffee shop, and you see this person and you're looking at them and you're like, oh my god, she looks like she's such an awesome person. I would love to get to know her. Why would you think that of a complete and total stranger, it wasn't the way she dressed? It wasn't her perfume or that smile on her face. Its energy. Okay. That's why you also meet people that you want to run from, you know, your voice inside that says wrath.

Right. And, you know, it's so funny when you talk about energy that way Vanya I, one of the things that my kids my family, have always found quite interesting is that total strangers will tell me very personal, intimate details about their lives within literally minutes of meeting me. And, and I mean, we were at dinner one night, and, and it was all of the kids and Peter and I and, and we were talking and I'm I'm social, like I mean, I will chat you know niceties whatever with the with the server, and we are having this conversation. And she just opened up and started sharing some really intimate personal details of her of her life. And my family is used to it, but they always are like, Why do people do this to you? And I never feel like it's being done to me. I I think that energetically they must sense that I'm open and can and able to receive what they need to share. And that's a gift that I just really honor because I do it in my work, of course. But I mean, I do it in my life, because energetically that space is held.

Absolutely. And that's a big thing that she just said right there. So when you meet somebody, it's not necessarily the look on their face. It's the energy that they're projecting out. Tanya's life, literally life path is to help others just like my life path is to help others. We have a tendency to exude a energy of mothering or caring or loving and or calming peacefulness. So she is also someone who is a coach and a therapist. So of course, you know her gorgeous face is going to be like open and non judgmental, that's also a frequency that people who are meant to help other people carry. It's the non judgmental, whatever you say stays here. And I don't think lesser of you in any way, shape or form. I'm here to understand you, I'm here to listen to you. And I'm here to show you a different way of thinking. And that's what great therapists and great energy gives off. So those people that are angry all the time, those that are stuck in their woe is me, or blame shame game, towards other people, they have a very different frequency. You know, there's some people who have, you know, tight deadline personality. So everything is a deadline, everything is need to get done now, and they have to be done to a certain perfection level, you know who I'm talking about those Type A's out there. Those Type A's, they make society work in some ways, but boy, do they really rip apart other people in reality, Type A personalities have an energy frequency that only other type A personalities like, because they're unforgiving. They're unforgiving, and tough when they need things done. And that is an energy that you have to understand comes from imbalance. Oh, that's an energy of imbalance, because it's a frequency based off of control. So control is a frequency. That is saying that I won't let anything else in my reality work until I have my hands on it. My hands say that it's going to make it work. And that means they are controlling and other people's thoughts, feelings and emotions, they're controlling in the work. They give out certain perceptions towards other people saying I'm capable. I'm strong. And I know what I'm doing. So just sit there and let me do it. So it's all about control. But what the deeper thing about that is, what's out of control on the inside? What haven't they been working with? What haven't they been seeing? What haven't they been doing to help themselves and being part of a person that goes on a spiritual journey? It's looking at all sides of self, The Good, the Bad, and The not so pretty. We all have them. It's just literally, how do we work through them? Right? It is,

it's that process of working through. Yes. And recognizing that it is a process, right. And I, you know, I It's funny, because I often have caught myself using the word try. And what I've recognized is the vibration of the word try feels so sticky and gross and gritty and dirty. Whereas if I change my language, even to I'm in the process of creating, or I'm in the process of making, or I'm in the process of whatever, instead of I'm trying to it's a very, very different vibration that comes with that too. Right. So that that you know, as someone who is a recovering perfectionist, who every day struggles with this, I mean, it's true, right? That is the reality that I'm in that's why it's called perfectly imperfect WTF. We move through what the fox to figure out what this is for, and we do it in our own perfectly imperfect ways.

Right, right. And that's kind of going back to the need to control perfectionism. Okay, I'm a Virgo. Okay, born a Virgo. Oh my god, do I ever know that word intimately? I think I actually probably created the definition a billion years ago. It's been that difficult of a person to have to let go of that idea of what that means. So when it came to type a yes, I had some type a that's why I'm talking about it because I was it was a perfectionist. Absolutely. But that led to massive imbalances in myself and also led to me self judging, and critiquing myself to the point that I would put myself in a position where I was not happy. I was upset all the time because things weren't working out. Like I planned and worked so hard to get to. I literally would put myself in physical situations where my body would start shutting down, because I couldn't take the stress I was putting on myself. The upset the tears, literally the tears and the shutting down and not being able to cope with life because I put so much weight on making everything perfect. and right and timely.

So then if if our listeners are resonating with this because I have a feeling that there'll be people who are going ooh, I think she's talking to me, I think she's talking to me. How do we move to that place of letting go?

It's there starts with looking in as doing a spiritual journey. And so in my practice, when I'm dealing with people, as a psychic, intuitive, multi dimensional energy healer, the channel aspect, the Akashic Record aspect, the light language aspect, and all the tools that I've learned over my spiritual growth, I teach people how to, number one, spiritually tackle things. So it is not about coming to terms by understanding the choices. It's not just the choices, it's the verbiage, the energy, how to keep yourself cleansed and cleared a frequency and energy. That's why I mentioned it before, why it's so powerful and how it affects your thoughts itself internalization, there is healing, emotional healing that has to happen. Because we've had triggers to get to this point. The need to control is triggered from the the inability to feel like we're either loved cared for or safe and secure. And I'm sure a lot of people out there male and female have had an experience or two or 20 that have led to that, whether it's through our judge and jury peers, at work, or in school, or whether it's something to do with family, you cannot get to your 40s unscathed. You can't. That's just this reality. So what do we want to tackle in 2023? To deal with all the stresses that are coming down the pike from media? What do we want to do when we are overwhelmed and overwrought? There are so many things. Number one, learn how to clear your energy. Energy is affected by all outside sources and internalized sources. So we need to like look at literally what is happening outside of you. Who what type of friends do you have? What type of relationships do you have? How do you cleanse energy? That's a whole different thing. There's so many people that use sage or palo santo to clean their energy field, I have something much bigger, much better, much stronger. It's my silver egg activation. And I know that sounds crazy, a silver egg really. I'm serious. Test it out. Try it out. You can find it on YouTube silver egg activation meditation under Vanya, luminous mountain. It's there. It's a great video. It's seven minutes, it's not time wasted. Try it out. It helps to create a field around you that cleanses clears and balances your energy field. So number one, once you have that done, that is the first step number two is learning what your inner triggers are.

Ah, learning what your inner triggers are. Yes. I think a lot of people are afraid to learn what their inner triggers are.

And that's because it's hard to look at your faults, because we have to have this perceived idea that we're all beautiful we're all perfect there's nothing wrong with me. But a male or female you're gonna have issues from people teaching you in relationships. That's where we learn the most from so all our ex boyfriends and girlfriends or ex he's she's them vase all of them can lead to having internalized trauma. Maybe they said something while they were being intimate with you that made you feel kind of unsexy or I'm flattered. There's a trauma right there. Maybe they said something to you about how you dress or don't say that or this lovely phrase of gaslighting. Maybe they said you can't tell me what to do. Maybe they said that your feelings thoughts or emotions aren't important. Maybe they might have not said it verbally but they sure said it through actions. We all get to those places and spaces where we have wounds where we've been left or cheated on or abandoned or treated somehow not special. And that first of all is not okay. But that society for you because we're all walking wounded people. Some of our behaviors come from learned in this lifetime. And some of them are from past. Yes,

I did say that past lives. Listen, people. I do Akashic Record reading. I've seen a lot of interesting things. And I can tell you people carry over be He's years, vows and agreements from lifetime to lifetime to lifetime.

That's right. We carry things from lifetime to lifetime to lifetime. So one of the things that you help people do is move through some of the energies that they may be carrying from past lives as well.

Absolutely, I help pinpoint it. So we go into the Akashic records. And I can see past lives where they've taken vows agreements, or they've had situations in their lives that have left them when they passed with an A mark that was indelible as part of the soul. It wasn't something that was concluded or healed in that lifetime. So it's traveled with them over lifetimes, there's people who are born afraid of water. Why do you think that is? People born afraid of heights, people born with the fear of actually ever speaking what they feel inside, they feel something, they're afraid they can't do it. Some people are born with issues with money, and the relationship with money, money just keeps flowing out of my hands, and I don't know how to keep it, or I can't make money, something to do with money. There could be a contract, there could be a vow, there could be an issue with intimacy in this lifetime. You just cannot be intimate with somebody? Could it be an intimate vow of celibacy from being a nun or a priest? Could it be something along those lines, there is so many things that can contribute to what creates the issue of the now that we need to look at. That's why I do what I do in such a large way. I look at you multi dimensionally, because we all are multi dimensional beings. We lived here and we've lived elsewhere. So and we have multiple versions of ourselves and multiple timelines, and multiple dimensions and galaxies and universes. So that was a heavy one. What can you do reach out to qualify people that you resonate with, reach out to healers and energy workers who are high vibratory beings, that eek and ooze out love, just like Tanya does when she is having dinner with her family. And that's why the waitress just decided to go all out and tell her everything, seek out people that you want to tell everything to, that are qualified and know what they're talking about.

And that's, you know, and that's really the big pieces is finding the people that vibrate with you, the people that that you vibe with, and that there's that energetic connection with because that's where healing takes place, right? When you feel that sense of safety, that sense of connection, that sense of belonging being acceptance, that is where you create that space of healing for yourself, because you are able to allow yourself to be more vulnerable, absolute go to those places,

absolutely will allow for those feelings. Absolutely, then

to make conscious, intentional, beautiful decisions moving forward. Because and I'm going to come back to this. At the beginning of the podcast, you said, it's about being limitless, and I'm limited being in your own life.

Absolutely. And that's what I want 2023 to be about for everyone that's listening to this podcast, and those that will find us in late 2023 in early 2024. It's really about tackling the unlimited version of self.

It's about tackling the unlimited version of self as we go into 2023 My friends, remember that this is about embracing Yes, the unlimited version of self and some of it is tackling because there's sticky stuff that comes with it. But it's also allowing that unlimited version of self to absolutely fine. Yes, this has been such a beautiful conversation. I know it's going to land on the hearts of so many of our listeners. If our listeners want to get a hold of you or find you where's the first place you want to direct them.

My website which is www dot luminous mountain.com

Perfect that will be in the show notes. Thank you Vania and listeners please please please I will make sure there's a link in the show notes for the silver egg activation. This is a beautiful gift from Vanya and honestly if we can work to keep our energy as beautiful and Sacred as it truly is, then we are meant for a beautiful 2023.

Absolutely. Yay. Thank you.