In this episode of The Wise Effort Show, Dr. Diana Hill explores how to bring more excitement, connection, and playfulness into your sex life using the principles of the wise effort model. Joined by sex therapist Jenn Kennedy, they discuss practical tips for breaking out of old routines, opening up emotionally and physically, and focusing on what truly energizes you in the bedroom. The conversation incorporates mindfulness, curiosity, and self-awareness to help listeners achieve deeper intimacy and authentic pleasure.

Listen and Learn About:

• Understanding Sexual Connection and Pleasure
• Wise Effort Method in Your Sex Life
• Unwise Effort in the Bedroom
• The Nightmare Review Exercise
• Practical Skills for Wise Effort in the Bedroom

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Workshop: The Wise Effort Method at Godmothers

In-Person Workshop: The Wise Effort Method at Godmothers in Summerland, CA. Join clinical psychologist, leadership coach, and creator of the Wise Effort method, Diana Hill, Ph.D., for an inspiring immersion into what it means to put your genius energy where it belongs—on the things that give your life meaning. October 19 @ 11:00 am – 1:30 pm PDT

Wise Effort Method Workshop at Godmothers