In this episode of The Wise Effort Show, clinical psychologist Dr. Diana Hill explores how to stop overcommitting and start getting what you yearn for in life. Discussing concepts like the myth of normalcy, holding too tightly to stories, and avoiding feelings, she offers five actionable solutions grounded in ACT, contemplative practice, and her extensive experience with high achievers.

Listen and Learn how to get what you yearn for in life:

• Understanding human yearnings
• Practicing 5 Ways to get what you yearn for
• Discovering your genius energy

Listen as Diana emphasizes the importance of directing one's efforts wisely to avoid burnout and achieve meaningful outcomes.

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Workshop: The Wise Effort Method at Godmothers

In-Person Workshop: The Wise Effort Method at Godmothers in Summerland, CA. Join clinical psychologist, leadership coach, and creator of the Wise Effort method, Diana Hill, Ph.D., for an inspiring immersion into what it means to put your genius energy where it belongs—on the things that give your life meaning. October 19 @ 11:00 am – 1:30 pm PDT

Wise Effort Method Workshop at Godmothers