Many parents are beginning to recognise how deeply our childhood experiences shape the way we show up in our parenting today. We absorbed patterns growing up — how conflict was managed, how emotions were expressed, and how love was shown. These early lessons can strengthen us, but at times, old hurts or unmet needs resurface in the way we respond to our children.

So how do we parent with openness, acknowledging and working through our own childhood issues? And how do these past experiences influence our children’s sense of safety and identity?

In this episode, Ee Jay speaks with Kelvin Seah — a father of two, educator, and passionate advocate for fathering. Kelvin helps us unpack what it means to recognise and take ownership of our childhood wounds, and how the healing journey can transform the way we parent today.

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