Dating already has ghosting. Now there’s “ghostlighting,” when someone disappears without explanation, then shows back up weeks or months later acting like nothing happened. Instead of acknowledging the silence, they minimize it, explain it away, or leave the other person wondering whether they’re overreacting.

But maybe ghostlighting points to something bigger than dating culture. We’ve become pretty skilled at avoiding uncomfortable conversations, whether it’s with someone we’re dating, a coworker, a neighbor, or even a friend. Disappearing can feel easier than dealing with conflict, but easier doesn’t always mean healthier. What would change if we became people willing to have the conversation we’d rather avoid?

Scripture (NIV): Ephesians 4:15 – “Speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.”

Reflection Questions:

Is there a conversation you’ve been avoiding because disappearing, delaying, or staying quiet feels easier?

What would it look like to tell the truth with both courage and kindness?

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