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Aging Like Fine Wine: What Dear Abby Taught Us About Wisdom
1st May 2026 • The Daily Note with James A. Brown • James A. Brown
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Wisdom doesn’t automatically come with age, and that’s a hard pill to swallow. In this episode, I reflect on the idea that while we often hope that time will grant us insight and maturity, the reality can be quite different. I draw parallels between aging grapes and our own life experiences, highlighting that just like some wines improve with time, others may remain sour if they started off bad. It's a little disheartening to see folks in their 60s repeating the same mistakes they made at 30, suggesting that we don’t necessarily grow up; we just get older. So, what do you think? Let's dive into this discussion and explore the roots of our experiences together.

Takeaways:

  • Wisdom doesn't necessarily come with age; it's not just about growing older.
  • Dear Abby once pointed out that wisdom and age don't always correlate, a thought-provoking perspective.
  • Just like wine, some people may improve with age, but only if they had good beginnings.
  • We often think that time will make us wiser, but many continue to repeat past mistakes.

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This is the Daily note from jamesabrown.net have you heard of Dear Abby?

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The longtime advice columnist once said that wisdom doesn't automatically come with age.

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Nothing does, except for wrinkles.

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It's true that some wines improve with age, but only if the grapes were good in the first place.

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And, boy, she was right.

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We want to believe that time makes us wiser, that lived years equal, lessons learned.

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But as I watch the world around me, I see people in their 60s making the same mistakes that they made at 30.

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We don't grow up, we just get old.

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Good grapes at 20 become better wine at 50.

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And bad grapes?

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The only question that matters here is what made them bad in the first place?

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So what do you think?

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Let me know on jamesabrown.net on that note.

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I'm James A.

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Brown, and as always, be well.

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