So, picture this: Purity's on cloud nine, vibing with a new submissive who ticks all her boxes. The chemistry? Off the charts. But then, out of the blue, bam! Ghosting or a major boundary breach? Purity's left scratching her head, wondering what went wrong and why her play partner disappeared into thin air.

Now, let's get real about ghosting. It stings, right? Especially in the BDSM scene where trust is everything. Purity's left in a whirlwind of emotions, wondering whether to hit up her ghoster for some closure. But how many texts is too many when they're not replying? And what's going on in the mind of someone who pulls the disappearing act anyway?

This episode spills the tea on all things ghosting, from why people bail on amazing connections to the potential fallout within the kink community. Plus, it's not just about the ghosted—there's some solid advice in there for the ghosters too. So grab a cuppa and tune in for some real talk on dealing with the ghosting phenomenon.

IN THIS EPISODE

• Purity starts seeing a new submissive play partner who ticks all her boxes and has incredible chemistry with.
• The first sign something is off in this connection: ghosting or boundary violation?
• How Purity realised she was being ghosted.
• The emotional impact of your play partner breaking off the connection abruptly - and without an explanation.
• Should you contact the ghosting partner for an explanation - and what to say in that message?
• How many times is it ok to contact a ghosting partner that is not replying to your messages?
• Into the mind of a ghoster: why men (and women) give up on an amazing connection.
• Can you leave the door open to rekindling a connection in the future after ghosting someone?
• The potential dangers of ghosting someone - especially in a small kinky scene.
• Can you spot a ghoster before they ghost you?
• How to deal with ghosting: our advice to the ghosted and ghosters.

3 VALUE BOMBS

1. Honesty is always the best policy. Ghosting might seem like keeping options open, but to the person on the receiving end, it's like a door slammed shut, no going back.
2. If you've been ghosted, know it's not about you. It's about the other person feeling uncomfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings.
3. Unsure if you're being ghosted? Don't hesitate to reach out, share your concern, and let them know that if they're considering ending things, you'd appreciate knowing why, so you can both move on without drama.

LET'S CONNECT

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