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Bad resistance, good resistance
Episode 16722nd August 2022 • Irresistible Communication • Dr. Michael Gerharz
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Resistance is the universal force that keeps you from doing things. It’s a great compass. But be careful which direction it points.

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Resistance is the universal force that keeps you from doing things.

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However, there's an important distinction about two very

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different types of resistance.

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The first is knowing that you need to do something.

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But you hide from actually doing it.

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For example, you just know that you have to publish this video, build

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that product, pitch, that video to your boss, but you hide from it

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because resistance has sent you fear.

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This type of resistance is a great compass for the things we should be doing.

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When it kicks in, we know we're onto something.

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The fear is there precisely because it matters so much to us.

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The second type of resistance is sort of the opposite.

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It's knowing that you need to stay away from doing something.

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But everyone keeps telling you that you should be doing it.

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And often it sounds perfectly reasonable when they say it.

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You should relaunch your website.

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You should redesign your logo.

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You should use that you marketing trend, you should be on Tik Tok.

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It works for others, so why shouldn't it work for you?

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And yet, your gut tells you that something is off.

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It just doesn't feel right.

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Somehow, you know, it's not right although you probably can pinpoint exactly why.

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But still, this type of resistance is a great compass for the

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things we shouldn't be doing.

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When it kicks in, we know we should run.

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The doubt was there because it wasn't true to who we are.

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The art, of course, is in knowing which kind of resistance you're in.

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A great first step is to start noticing it.

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When you notice resistance, then pay attention to how you feel, the patterns in

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your thinking, and of course, the outcome.

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