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Insights for Employers and HR Teams: How to handle romantic relationships in the workplace
Episode 814th February 2023 • Perspectives – Legal Voices on Business • Fasken
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Welcome to Perspectives.

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Fasken's Legal Voices on Business.

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Hello, everyone. My name is Daphne William.

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I am a partner in Fasken Labour and Employment Practice Group in Johannesburg.

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Today I'm joined by my fellow partner, Awutu Mbambo.

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Hi, everyone. Daphne, I'm looking forward to chatting about this interesting topic that we

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have lined up for the recording.

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I'm also looking forward to it.

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Today's discussion is influenced by February being the month of love.

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We will be chatting about how employers, specifically HR practitioners, can handle

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romantic relationships in the workplace or I know that this topic is not the usual top of

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agenda HR topic, but it isn't something that employers should sweep under the carpet,

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given the potential risks that such relationships can expose an employer to.

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Yes, I agree with that.

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Yes, this topic is also important since many employees are going back to the office more

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and there's a shift back to working in the office to hybrid work arrangements over

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remote work arrangements.

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So employees are once again engaging more in -person.

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There are a few scenarios that I can think of where a romantic relationship in a workplace

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can potentially be risky for an organization.

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For example, where a superior is in a relationship with a subordinate who is in his

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or her department.

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Are there any other scenarios that you can think of and what are the potential risks of

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having these romantic relationships in the workplace?

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So there's another scenario that I can think of could be a romantic relationship between

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managers who are at the same level, but in different departments who are involved in

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significant decision making where conflicts of interest may arise.

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These type of relationships in a workplace put a spotlight on potential biases, on

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favoritism, on victimization and a potential disruption to workplace operations.

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But before we touch on the potential legal risk, I think it is important for us to look

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at what the laws and the rules actually say about this.

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I mean, when people think about romantic relationships in the workplace, they usually

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have questions like, Can you have a relationship in the workplace?

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Is there a law that prevents people from having relationships romantically in the

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workplace? Do I have to declare it?

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Those are the sort of questions that generally come up with this topic.

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Those are very good questions.

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And to answer them, one, there are no laws prohibiting romantic relationships in the

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workplace generally.

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There is also no obligation on employees to disclose their relationships with their

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fellow colleagues to their employer.

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Employers may, however, implement workplace rules that prohibit workplace relationships

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or that require employees to disclose their romantic relationships to their employer.

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Even if an employer does not have a rule regarding the disclosure of such romantic

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relationships, there are certain instances where an employer may expect employees to

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disclose their relationships.

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You have already touched on the most important instance, and it is where any of

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the employees are in positions of power and they exercise such power or the exercise,

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rather, of the power will affect their partner.

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For example, during a recruitment exercise where the hiring manager is in a romantic

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relationship with a prospective employee, or where the determination of any discretionary

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benefits to employees will affect the partner of the person making the decision.

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In these circumstances, a conflict of interest arises or it has the potential of

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arising and it can be avoided by disclosing romantic relationships and not participating

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in the activities that give rise to the conflict.

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You highlight some really good points there, and I want to add to this discussion that

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there are risks that arise for employers.

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And the one obvious risk of workplace relationships, if you look at the case law,

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is the increased risk of sexual harassment cases arising from people trying their luck

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by making advances on colleagues or even worse, a workplace romance going sour, which

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would thus blur the lines of the unwelcome conduct when those relationships have

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terminated. In this case, employers are required by the Employment Equity Act to

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prevent and eliminate harassment in the workplace.

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The Code of Good Practice on the Prevention and Elimination of Harassment in the

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Workplace was released last year in 2022, and it emphasizes the duties of employers in

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this regard.

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This code of practice should be an important agenda item for HR teams going into 2023

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because employers can be held liable for very hefty fines if they don't manage

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harassment cases in the workplace appropriately.

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So what do you think is the most appropriate way to deal with romantic relationships in

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the workplace?

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So I'm going to give you the most lawyerly answer, because that really is the correct

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answer. There's no one size fits all approach to handling workplace

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relationships. Employers must consider their workplace culture, their demographics and the

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risks to determine what measures are appropriate to put in that specific

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workplace. This can range from having very detailed guidelines and policies requiring

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disclosure generally or in possible conflict of interest situations.

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But sometimes it just may be appropriate for an employer to reserve the right to intervene

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in workplace romances under certain circumstances that may affect operations.

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So it's important for each workplace to be assessed and to be considered based on the

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rules and the culture that apply in that workplace death.

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That's very helpful Awutu.

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I think employers should implement those guidelines.

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I have enjoyed chatting with you today on this topic.

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And to summaries, I think we both agree that romantic relationships can and have formed in

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various workplaces and it is important for employers to consider how to manage them.

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HR teams should also be thinking about what kind of training they can be putting in place

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to educate their employees about the impact that the relationships have on workplaces,

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operations and most importantly, the workplace morale.

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Thanks Daph. It's definitely been great having this topic with you.

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It's not the easiest topic to navigate, but definitely it is something that organizations

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should consider and have the appropriate measures in place so they are equipped to

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manage the risks that can arise from these relationships because if they are managed

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properly they can work and you can have some weddings in the workplace.

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And with that I'd like to wish all of our listeners a happy Valentine's Day.

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Awutu Mbambo: Indeed. Happy Valentine's Day, everyone.

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