In this episode, we dive into a sensitive but essential topic: understanding your relationship with alcohol. Whether you're curious about your habits, noticing patterns, or wondering if drinking has a larger impact on your life, this episode offers a compassionate space to reflect.
We discuss how alcohol can sometimes become a coping mechanism, why it’s important to notice patterns in your behavior, and how to approach self-assessment without judgment. You’ll also learn about emotional numbness, social norms, and the fine line between occasional drinking and dependence.
To help you on this journey, we provide a self-assessment checklist that you can use to gain clarity about your drinking habits. By the end of the episode, you'll have tools to explore whether your relationship with alcohol aligns with the life you want to live—and what steps to take if it doesn’t.
Self-Assessment Checklist: Evaluating Your Relationship with Alcohol
Take a moment to reflect and see which of these resonate with you:
- ☐ I often rely on alcohol to cope with stress, emotions, or social situations.
- ☐ I drink more than I originally planned, or I find it hard to stop once I start.
- ☐ My drinking habits have negatively affected my relationships, work, health, or responsibilities.
- ☐ I experience guilt, shame, or regret about my drinking.
- ☐ I’ve noticed I need to drink more or more often to achieve the same effect (tolerance).
- ☐ Friends, family, or colleagues have expressed concern about my drinking, or I feel defensive when questioned about it.
- ☐ I drink alone or in secrecy.
- ☐ I’ve tried to cut down or stop drinking but found it difficult or impossible.
- ☐ I prioritize drinking over activities or responsibilities I once valued.
- ☐ I’ve experienced memory gaps or blackouts as a result of drinking.
- ☐ I drink in the morning or use alcohol to “fix” how I feel (e.g., cure a hangover or calm anxiety).
- ☐ I’ve engaged in risky behaviors (e.g., driving under the influence, unsafe sex) because of drinking.
- ☐ I spend more money on alcohol than I can afford or feel anxious about running out.
- ☐ I feel irritated, anxious, or physically uncomfortable when I can’t drink.
- ☐ I’ve continued drinking despite knowing it’s causing or worsening health, work, or relationship problems.
- ☐ I feel like drinking is necessary to have fun or relax.
What to Do Next
If you’ve checked off one or more items, it’s worth pausing to reflect. Checking several items might indicate patterns you should explore further.
This episode isn’t about labeling or judging—it’s about helping you make empowered choices. If you feel concerned, consider reaching out to a professional counselor, therapist, or support group for guidance.
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