Thinking about going to your first sex party but not sure what to expect? We’re diving into everything you need to know before you step into that world. From choosing the right type of party and figuring out what to wear, to understanding the vibe of the crowd (spoiler: it’s not all models and six-packs). It’s all here, so you can walk in feeling confident and ready for a night to remember.

IN THIS EPISODE

• The different types of sex and kinky parties: which one is right for you?
• What do you wear at a sexy party?
• What kind of crowd can you expect to find at sex parties? (Hint: not everyone has a six pack).
• How to connect with other attendees before the party (especially if you're nervous about going alone).
• Going with your partner? The number one thing to discuss before heading to the party to avoid jealousy and fights.
• All you need to know about consent.
• Should you bring your own toys to the party?
• Is voyeurism allowed at parties?
• Alcohol and drugs policies at sex parties - what you need to know.
• Should you get tested for STDs before attending a sex party?

3 VALUE BOMBS

1. Not sure what to wear? Check out the dress code and inspiration boards shared by the organisers, so you can pick an outfit that'll make you stand out while feeling comfortable in your own skin.
2. Going with a partner? Make sure to chat about your desires, boundaries, and what you both expect, so you can enjoy a night of naughty fun without any drama.
3. Always ask before touching or initiating play with someone. If you break consent, you'll be permanently banned.