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Episode 33030th September 2025 • Relationships Rule • Janice Porter
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Speaking isn’t about saying the right words. It’s about making people feel you. When I sat down with Michele Vilseck, she showed me how her RAW method—Real, Audacious, Withness—can transform the way we show up on stage, on video, or even in a simple conversation.

We talked about why nerves often get in the way, how to flip the focus from yourself to your audience, and why practice beats perfection every time. Michele shared simple structures that make your message stick, and she even offered a fun 100-video challenge that builds confidence faster than any script. If you’ve ever wondered how to sell without feeling salesy or speak without losing your spark, this is one you won’t want to miss.

Highlights:

Real > Performance - Learn how aligning voice, values, and story makes you magnetic without memorizing every line.

Audacity Builds Trust - See how specific, felt details and safe vulnerability deepen connection and make talks unforgettable.

Withness, Not Witness - Shift focus from “How am I doing?” to “What do they need right now?” to calm nerves and sell naturally.

Speak to One, Win Many - Use workshops and stages to remove pressure from 1:1 pitching and invite the right people to act.

Structure That Sticks - Open with “Is this for me?”, then show the transformation, the how, and why it will work for them.


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Janice Porter:

Stick it. Hello everyone, and welcome to this

Janice Porter:

week's episode of relationships rule today. My guest is Michelle

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Vilsack, a celebrity speaker coach, certified elite speaker

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and unapologetic champion of bold, Messier, more honest

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voices. She's known for helping athletes, heart centered

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entrepreneurs and thought leaders turn their stories into

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movements by training them to captivate from the stage,

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connect with their audience and convert with authenticity.

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Michelle is the creator of the raw method and the go to coach

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for speakers who want to be unforgettable and unstoppable.

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And in this episode, we'll explore how much, how speaking

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from a place of authenticity and connection can build trust,

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drive results and create meaningful relationships long

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after the lights go down. So welcome to the show, Michelle,

Michele Vilseck:

thank you. Janice, thanks so much for

Michele Vilseck:

having me on my

Janice Porter:

pleasure. And Michelle and I haven't known

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each other that long we met online, on in a Zoom Room

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somewhere, and not long ago, but I understood, and I think that's

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what perked my my curiosity piqued my curiosity when

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Michelle mentioned that she was looking for people to have

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guests on her podcast who she trains and teaches to speak from

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stages. And I always like to help people do such things and

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work with young athletes or athletes and young

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entrepreneurs. So I thought I'd start by talking to Michelle and

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seeing how she works her magic and go from there. So let's,

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let's just start with your journey. Michelle, how did you

Janice Porter:

go from health coach and rebel with a cause to coaching high

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performance speakers and and athletes?

Michele Vilseck:

Yeah, I think, like a lot of us, whenever we

Michele Vilseck:

start our business, it's your journey that gets you here. And

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then people are telling you, you know, especially coaches, right?

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People are saying, Oh, wow, how did you do that? Can you teach

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me how to do that? And they're asking you for advice. You start

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helping people, and then then you jump in and you think, Oh,

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I'll be a coach, right? Like, I'll do this. And that's a whole

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nother tangent. We won't go down right, but jump in right, and

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you think this is gonna be great. This would be so easy

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that, yeah, so that's, that's what happened to me. I had a 20

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year, but I just when I was very, very young, I had major

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digestive issues, and just a whole story going there where I

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had so many food sensitivities, I could only five things at one

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point on my list. It was really awful. But then I reversed all

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that through food and stuff. So people were asking me about it.

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I became a health coach. And as I became a health coach, kind of

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going back to what I was saying, I thought, Yes, I'm just gonna,

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you know, if you build it, they will come. People are already

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asking me, of course, they're gonna want to ping me to help

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them do this. And then you quickly realize that you don't

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know what you're doing, and there's so much noise online.

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And so really, what got me into speaking I was talking to one of

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my coaches, and I was just getting so frustrated doing all

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these things that I hated, right? Just all day long,

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posting, you know, spamming people in their DMS, and hunting

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people on Facebook and doing all these things that they're like,

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she's like, You have to be on Facebook, and you have to do it

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this way to be successful. And so that's just, I just bought

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into a lot of that. And finally, I just set an exasperation one

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day to my coach, also, in an opening moment of I just want to

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do workshops. I just want to teach people. And I know you're

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a teacher, too. Janice said that, you know, I just want to

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teach people. I want to help people. I want to be doing the

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thing that I came here to do, teach people what I know. And

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she just looked at me and she said, why don't you do that

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then? Oh, yeah, why don't I do that? Right? And so that's kind

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of how the journey began. And then I ended up teaching other

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people how to be a speaker.

Janice Porter:

And we do learn from our mistakes and from our

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trial and error, and we have to go through that, I think in

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order to be who we want to be. I do believe that. And I think the

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beauty, though, of the way you started with that naivety that

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you know, of doing it and believing somebody else's way

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was your way, and it really wasn't, and all of that, I

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think, though your enthusiasm was great. And I think

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entrepreneurs tend to do that. They just jump out there and do

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it, instead of putting all the ducks in a row first, and, you

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know, trying to plan it forever, and nothing happens for so long

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that you get discouraged, so I I admire your enthusiasm and and

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so forth that you had when you started, because I think this is

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important. I really do. I think that's how we learn.

Michele Vilseck:

Yeah, and I think. It is kind of a pattern

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that we have as entrepreneurs, because I think in those

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beginning stages, you do have such, like you said, enthusiasm,

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optimism, you're excited to share, you're really in the lane

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that you're best suited to be in, and you're so in

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authenticity about who you are and what you're going to do. And

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then we jump into the world of business, and everybody tells

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us, yeah, like, you need to be on Facebook, you have to be on

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social media. You have to do this to succeed. The one that I

Michele Vilseck:

recently overcome lately was you have to learn how to sell like.

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You have to be the one that sells your program, right? You

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can't have anyone else sell your program. That doesn't work. And

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I was like, but other people are clearly having other people sell

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their program, right? But anyway, so then I think, then we

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get lost. We lose ourselves, because everybody's telling us,

Michele Vilseck:

this is what you do, and kind of lose yourself. And I'm always

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joke that I got my MBA in marketing right, because you

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have to learn how to market and just sales and all the things,

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and then we lose ourselves. And really, you stop being magnetic,

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and you stop being authentic, and then you're working really

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hard, and it's not working, because now you're out of

Michele Vilseck:

alignment, which I think we're going to talk more about with,

Michele Vilseck:

you know, with your voice and everything, right?

Janice Porter:

So let's just you mentioned selling. So I want to

Janice Porter:

just ask you, you say selling should feel like a party, not a

Janice Porter:

panic attack, and what do you mean by that, and why does that

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idea resonate with your clients?

Michele Vilseck:

Yeah, that? Yeah, because I love that,

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because that was what I was experiencing, right? I just felt

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like I was literally having panic attacks messaging people

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on Facebook. I'm actually a very whenever I love people, and when

Michele Vilseck:

I go to networking events in person, I'm talking to

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everybody. If you're there, Janice, I'm listening to you.

Michele Vilseck:

I'm asking you questions. I'm so excited about your thing with

Michele Vilseck:

you, you know, like, I just love meeting people. But whenever it

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was on Facebook, they're like, you have to go on Facebook and

Michele Vilseck:

you have to message this many people, and then you want to

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build the relationship, and then, and it just felt like,

Michele Vilseck:

well, it was just really inauthentic to me. And I just

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felt like, Oh, I'm here to get something from them, and so it's

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just, it's that yucky sales feeling, and I was literally

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having panic attacks. I would just be at the end of the day.

Michele Vilseck:

And I think that's kind of, it's like the extreme way of saying

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how a lot of heart centered entrepreneurs and coaches really

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feel. Because again, you came into this to teach people, to

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help people, and then, then, whenever we hear sales, we feel

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like, Oh, you have to manipulate people in order for them to say

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yes. And it feels yucky. And when we can combine that

Michele Vilseck:

original energy of Oh, enthusiasm and excitement with

Michele Vilseck:

an actual sales pro, like a sales process that works, and

Michele Vilseck:

you don't have to get out of that energy in order to do it,

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then people will say yes, because you're both in alignment

Michele Vilseck:

and you're you're helping them get the information that they

Michele Vilseck:

need in order to make the buying decision.

Janice Porter:

Well, I think part of the the disconnect comes

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though too, when we when we, when we're hungry, and when we,

Janice Porter:

when we focus on that, you know, the limited beliefs and also on

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I need to make the sale. But if you go into the conversation

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completely curious and just trying to find out about people

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and not focusing on that, it makes it so much easier, right?

Janice Porter:

And it's funny, because I tend to, well, I'll give you an

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example. I got a LinkedIn message this morning, and it had

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a photo in it of a card that I sent somebody, and she was

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saying, Thank you for it, and she was commenting on it for her

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audience about the value of sending a card, and there were a

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lot of comments on her post. She had a lot of activity happening

Janice Porter:

and engagement. Now, I haven't done anything with it yet, but

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my first thought is, oh my goodness, these people are

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either interested in in sending cards, and maybe would be

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interested in my system that I use, right, whatever. But then I

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back off in my mind and I go, Yeah, but I can't sell them. I

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can't be pushy in the comments that I make. So I have to think

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about this before I do it. And, you know, so there's always this

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push and pull and sort of like, don't be salesy, be

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conversationalist and so on. So if, first, I think, is be aware

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of that, right? You must be aware of that. And second, then

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you must it must be a natural kind of thing that happens to

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make it work.

Michele Vilseck:

Yes, because, I think, because, yeah, we do have

Michele Vilseck:

to pay our bills and we have to eat. You know, there are things

Michele Vilseck:

that we need. Did, there's things we need money to live. So

Michele Vilseck:

I think it is easy to get back kind of flip flop and not be as

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focused on because really sales happen when you are genuine and

Michele Vilseck:

you are serving and you are connecting from that really

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authentic place. But it is hard to get out. I mean, it's, it's

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hard to kind of stay in that all the time, like you're saying,

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you can flip back into, oh my gosh, I don't want to sell them

Michele Vilseck:

and with the speaking space. So for me, I realized that sales is

Michele Vilseck:

actually easy for me, one when I do it, one to many. So like,

Michele Vilseck:

literally, I'm saying, create a party, because just for my

Michele Vilseck:

personality, and I find for a lot of my clients as well, it

Michele Vilseck:

just, it doesn't feel like sales when it's party. It doesn't feel

Michele Vilseck:

like sales whenever you're teaching. And then it doesn't it

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takes the pressure off of this one person. I need this one

Michele Vilseck:

person to say, yes, yeah, because there's 20 people,

Michele Vilseck:

there's 100 people in the room, and some of these people want

Michele Vilseck:

what I have, and I'm gonna talk to them, and then if they don't

Michele Vilseck:

like if they don't like it, or they don't want it, they'll

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leave, and I'll just be sitting here with the people that do

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want it. And so for me, it opens up. It's just easier. And I find

Michele Vilseck:

with my clients as well, it's just easier to think about it

Michele Vilseck:

that way, that there's just the audience, but I think that can

Michele Vilseck:

be applied when you have one on one conversations as well.

Janice Porter:

I think so too. All right, so what exactly is

Janice Porter:

the raw method, and how does it help speakers build trust with

Janice Porter:

their audience from the stage?

Michele Vilseck:

Yes, so yeah. So I came up with a raw method,

Michele Vilseck:

because I love speaking, but I know, and have you been to but

Michele Vilseck:

you know, there's a lot of speakers out there. Okay, I'm

Michele Vilseck:

gonna, I'm gonna be nice, but, you know, there's a lot of

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speakers out there. But I like to use the analogy of like Tiger

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Woods. And just because your grandpa's been golfing for 20

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years. Doesn't mean he's Tiger Woods. And so there's there's

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you, and there's your passion and your and your energy and how

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you speak to people in the story that you have. And then there's

Michele Vilseck:

also skills that you can add on top of that that are going to

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take you to a new level, where, where you'll be able to really

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connect with people and be a master at speaking. And whenever

Michele Vilseck:

I work with my clients, so many of them want to be on paid

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stages. They want to be on the big stages. They want to have

Michele Vilseck:

their own conferences, and you have to be that next level

Michele Vilseck:

speaker in order to do that, because nobody's going to want

Michele Vilseck:

to invite you back if you're kind of mediocre speakers and

Michele Vilseck:

but to be a good speaker doesn't mean okay, you have to do this

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that you know, just like I was having trouble whenever I became

Michele Vilseck:

a coach. There's not one rote prescription of you have to do

Michele Vilseck:

it this way, you have to get on Facebook, you have to do cards,

Michele Vilseck:

you have to speak, right? There's not one way. It's going

Michele Vilseck:

to be your way. And so the raw method is just really three

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principles that I came up with that can really apply to

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everyone, and honestly, they apply to speaking, but they also

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apply to relationships as well, to just really help you become

Michele Vilseck:

your most authentic self on stage in a way that resonates

Michele Vilseck:

with the audience the deepest. So to give you a quick example,

Michele Vilseck:

I don't know if you've ever watched the voice, yes. So if

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for any audience members who are listening who don't know that

Michele Vilseck:

voice is a show, kind of like America's Got Talent, or they

Michele Vilseck:

used to have another, you know, American Idol. American Idol,

Michele Vilseck:

yeah, so it's a singing competition. But I love watching

Michele Vilseck:

it, because every single singer has a totally different voice,

Michele Vilseck:

and then they have a totally different genre and a

Michele Vilseck:

personality. And so people, there'll be rappers and country

Michele Vilseck:

and folksy and, you know, heavy metal, they've got all kinds of

Michele Vilseck:

people on there, but the one who wins is the one who is the most

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confident as themselves, right? The one who really finds who

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they are and becomes their most authentic self on stage, and

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then is is willing to open up and be confident as that version

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of themselves. And they also have skills, of course, but but

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like, that's the one that wins. It doesn't matter what genre

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they have or what how they do it, they're the winners. So a

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quick rundown of the raw. It's real. The R stands for real, so

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being authentically yourself, which we've talked about that a

Michele Vilseck:

lot already in this conversation of you just people aren't going

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to resonate with you if you're off, if you're saying things

Michele Vilseck:

that don't actually align with you and your values. And I kind

Michele Vilseck:

of have sub things under here that I talk about in more

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detail, but it really comes down to, yeah. Yeah, your values. Are

Michele Vilseck:

you in alignment with your values and your voice? You know,

Michele Vilseck:

I recently started taking this DJ training, and you do a lot of

Michele Vilseck:

em seeing and stuff. And the guy who's training me is this really

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tall black man with a very deep voice, and he has, like this

Michele Vilseck:

romantic MC voice,

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that very white type voice.

Michele Vilseck:

And so I was listening to him, but I was

Michele Vilseck:

realizing

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this is you.

Michele Vilseck:

His is like the soothing, you know, romantic

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vibe, really, and mine, as we know, is just like, it's more

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energetic, and I'm just happy, and it's party, and it's

Michele Vilseck:

energetic and and it's not that, and it's not going back to the

Michele Vilseck:

voice. It's not bad or good, but it's just, and if I try to be

Michele Vilseck:

that, it's not gonna people. So that's the raw, um, audacious.

Michele Vilseck:

The a is, is stands for audacious. And by that I mean

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courage having having courage to go places that people aren't

Michele Vilseck:

willing to go and be with people and to sit with them in places

Michele Vilseck:

that you wouldn't normally go as well. So for an example, I see

Michele Vilseck:

speaker a lot of one of the biggest things that hold

Michele Vilseck:

speakers back from really connecting with their audience,

Michele Vilseck:

and this is true in relationships, is that

Michele Vilseck:

vulnerability, right of being able to open up, and so they'll

Michele Vilseck:

be telling their story, and it might be a really traumatic or

Michele Vilseck:

it might be an incredible, amazing story, but I I like to

Michele Vilseck:

say it's kind of like they're skipping across the water.

Michele Vilseck:

They're just telling you about what happened, and it was so

Michele Vilseck:

hard. And, you know, I was like, I was abused when I was a child,

Michele Vilseck:

and it was so hard, and then I struggled for a long time with

Michele Vilseck:

this. And then I, you know, but they're just giving the overall

Michele Vilseck:

surface summary, surface level. And instead of going into that

Michele Vilseck:

moment with you, because the point was you had real struggles

Michele Vilseck:

and real emotions in those moments, right? And so when I

Michele Vilseck:

was a health coach, I helped people stop over eating, because

Michele Vilseck:

I struggled with that a lot. And I would on my events, I would

Michele Vilseck:

take them back there to that place of at the end of the day,

Michele Vilseck:

when you just ate that whole entire tub of ice cream, and

Michele Vilseck:

you're sitting there on the kitchen floor hiding from your

Michele Vilseck:

kids because you don't want them to know and you don't want them,

Michele Vilseck:

right? You feel like you, you're ashamed and you don't want them

Michele Vilseck:

to be like you, and you're sitting there and just feeling

Michele Vilseck:

like a total piece of trash, promising yourself that you're

Michele Vilseck:

never gonna do it again. But you know that tomorrow, you're gonna

Michele Vilseck:

wake up and do the same thing, right? And so I could tell you

Michele Vilseck:

that story surface level and say, Oh yeah, every night I was

Michele Vilseck:

eating, or I can take you there, and we can feel the emotions

Michele Vilseck:

that were on the floor together, and you're feeling the shame of

Michele Vilseck:

trying to hide something from your kids, but just, you know,

Michele Vilseck:

all of that, it just that's where the connection really

Michele Vilseck:

happens, And the vulnerability and the trust is built by going

Michele Vilseck:

there, but you also feel safe there knowing that I know what's

Michele Vilseck:

going on, and then I'm going to bring it back out.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, that that is an art, for sure, to do that

Janice Porter:

and be able to do it well. But you know that when you do

Janice Porter:

something like that, you have the audience in the palm of your

Janice Porter:

hand. That's the beauty, you know, that takes me back to a

Janice Porter:

story, actually, that it's like, totally removed from what you

Janice Porter:

were talking about. But I remember this feeling, and it

Janice Porter:

was when I was teaching school, and I had, I think I was

Janice Porter:

teaching grade, third grade at the time, and I read the story

Janice Porter:

to them every day, the chapter book Charlie and the Chocolate

Janice Porter:

Factory. And I never liked that movie. I only loved the book.

Janice Porter:

And the reason I loved the book was because at the end of every

Janice Porter:

chapter, you had the audience begging for more, and reading

Janice Porter:

aloud was so much fun to kids, and you knew at the end of the

Janice Porter:

chapter, you didn't know what was going to happen to Veronica

Janice Porter:

salt, or Veruca Salt, I mean, or, or Augustus Gloop, and when

Janice Porter:

he got stuck in the pipe, sorry. And, and you had them, no, can't

Janice Porter:

tomorrow's another day. We'll do the next chapter, but you had

Janice Porter:

them begging for more, and that is such a powerful feeling when

Janice Porter:

you're speaking or reading aloud that it feels really good that

Janice Porter:

you got them to that place, right. And so, yeah, I don't

Janice Porter:

know that I've had that feeling as much when I'm speaking on

Janice Porter:

stage, because I'm more nervous. When I'm speaking on stage, but

Janice Porter:

I think if I've been doing a workshop or teaching a group of

Janice Porter:

people, then I'm in I felt more in control. Oh, my God, sorry.

Janice Porter:

And now I've lost my train of thought. Anyway. Okay, so

Michele Vilseck:

I have a response to that, because it

Michele Vilseck:

goes, it goes with the W, actually, and I, and it's kind

Michele Vilseck:

of hard to say, but the W is withness, yes, witness, but with

Michele Vilseck:

this. And it's actually a real word, I didn't realize, but

Janice Porter:

I'm also I didn't either, yeah,

Michele Vilseck:

but I'm always telling my people, you need to

Michele Vilseck:

be over there with them. You know you're not whenever you

Michele Vilseck:

talked about being, you know, I'm a little bit embarrassed

Michele Vilseck:

whenever I'm on stage, but when I'm in a workshop, I feel like

Michele Vilseck:

have more control. I think part of it also is because, you know,

Michele Vilseck:

for people who are nervous on stage, especially when it comes

Michele Vilseck:

to sales, too, you're pitching your products. All of that. It

Michele Vilseck:

comes from being over here with you instead of over there with

Michele Vilseck:

them. And what I mean by that is we're over here in our head. Oh

Michele Vilseck:

no, am I gonna say the wrong thing? Are they gonna like me?

Michele Vilseck:

Did I say that? Right? Did I said, um, too many times,

Michele Vilseck:

whatever people are counting there. But it's all about you.

Michele Vilseck:

It's all about you and your worries about what other people

Michele Vilseck:

are thinking or how you're doing, and so you're over here

Michele Vilseck:

with yourself and energetically, whenever we're over there with

Michele Vilseck:

them, they can tell so that's what I meant. Yeah, I can't hear

Michele Vilseck:

okay, so what you were saying, Janice, actually brings us to

Michele Vilseck:

withness, which is a real word. It's a real word, but I'm always

Michele Vilseck:

saying that whenever I'm talking to my speakers, I'm always

Michele Vilseck:

saying, be over there with them. Be with them. Don't be with you.

Michele Vilseck:

So whenever we're speaking, a lot of times we get nervous

Michele Vilseck:

because, but it's because we're with us,

Janice Porter:

right? Oh, that's so, yeah, perfect.

Michele Vilseck:

Perfect. Again, yes, yeah. So I'm over here

Michele Vilseck:

worried about, what am I going to say? What are they going to

Michele Vilseck:

think about me? How, you know, Did I, did I say? Um, too many

Michele Vilseck:

times. Are they going to buy all those things, and it's all about

Michele Vilseck:

you, and you're over here with you, and that's when you make

Michele Vilseck:

all the mistakes, because you're in your head right over there

Michele Vilseck:

with them. And I think that's why workshops feel better for

Michele Vilseck:

you. One of the reasons probably with them, you're engaging with

Michele Vilseck:

them, you're over there with them, and then there, and your

Michele Vilseck:

care is there. And whenever that happens, they can tell. And so

Michele Vilseck:

when you genuinely care about them and you're thinking about

Michele Vilseck:

them instead of you, they can tell. They can feel it. It comes

Michele Vilseck:

off in your languaging. And really, I remember recently

Michele Vilseck:

going to a conference and listening to this amazing woman.

Michele Vilseck:

She was like, hitting she had all the skills I was like,

Michele Vilseck:

checking them off, taking notes. She was amazing, and she had a

Michele Vilseck:

really powerful speech as well. But actually, my favorite

Michele Vilseck:

speaker of that night was not a good speaker, but what he was

Michele Vilseck:

good at was being with the audience, and you could tell

Michele Vilseck:

that he just cared about us so much, and he responded to the

Michele Vilseck:

audience. He didn't have his speech prepared very well, or he

Michele Vilseck:

didn't have a speech at all. Actually, he was just an expert,

Michele Vilseck:

and then he was there to teach off of the crowd, more like a

Michele Vilseck:

workshop would be. And I just value that so much. And your

Michele Vilseck:

audience values it so much because they can tell, yeah,

Michele Vilseck:

well,

Janice Porter:

it's funny. I remember, I don't know if I was

Janice Porter:

doing an on in person or online presentation, but somebody said

Janice Porter:

to me after I can sure tell that you love your granddaughter so

Janice Porter:

much, because you light up when you tell stories about her,

Janice Porter:

right? And it's true. And so when you feel comfortable and

Janice Porter:

you again, are sharing something that you're so passionate about,

Janice Porter:

it works. And you're most comfortable talking about too,

Janice Porter:

right? So yeah, so I noticed it most with that. So it's good,

Janice Porter:

it's really good. But you definitely hit the nail on the

Janice Porter:

head when you said, I like that word now witness, because you

Janice Porter:

need to be with them and not so focused on yourself. And that's

Janice Porter:

true to true to point. It's funny. My daughter called me

Janice Porter:

yesterday. She's doing a big presentation today as we speak,

Janice Porter:

and I'm thinking, good vibes for her, but she's an actress, and I

Janice Porter:

said, she said, I keep stumbling on this piece she read. She did

Janice Porter:

the intro for me and the and the wrap up. And I said, it's great,

Janice Porter:

Sarah. I said, You did amazing. She said, But I keep I said, you

Janice Porter:

know, when you get on stage, you'll be fine, because that's

Janice Porter:

when you shine, right? And she's your ad,

Michele Vilseck:

because you're thinking about them. And,

Janice Porter:

yeah, so it that's so cool. I. Um, I don't

Janice Porter:

know, though, in my in my later years, I don't remember things

Janice Porter:

as well as I used to, and so memorizing doesn't work for me.

Janice Porter:

And so I have to feel like I have to talk about something

Janice Porter:

uncomfortable talking about so I don't have to worry about that.

Michele Vilseck:

Yes, absolutely, yeah. And I've

Michele Vilseck:

worked with several people that have different styles, but I've

Michele Vilseck:

noticed that, you know, everyone does have different styles. I

Michele Vilseck:

had someone who would write every single thing out and

Michele Vilseck:

memorize it all, but and it and it works, because for some

Michele Vilseck:

people, they can also be present, even though they have

Michele Vilseck:

it memorized, but I'm with you. Sometimes I have it memorized,

Michele Vilseck:

and then it's almost like you're reading it in your head, and

Michele Vilseck:

you're trying not to mess up. And then you're again, you're

Michele Vilseck:

Oh, you're over here, and they can feel it. That's right,

Michele Vilseck:

instead of, okay, here's my outline. And so I teach my my

Michele Vilseck:

people, a framework. Here's the framework, here's the acronyms,

Michele Vilseck:

or, you know, here's your acronym, or here's the four

Michele Vilseck:

things that is part of your process, and then this is how

Michele Vilseck:

you're going to share it, so that they get, that people get

Michele Vilseck:

all the information that they need for a transformation. For

Michele Vilseck:

you, that's

Janice Porter:

good. That's really good. So how do you coach

Janice Porter:

athletes? We talked about athletes when we first met who?

Janice Porter:

Who athletes are used to performance, but maybe not

Janice Porter:

public. Speaking to speak. How do you get them to speak in a

Janice Porter:

way that feels authentic and natural? I'm pretty sure what

Janice Porter:

you're going to start by saying, but I'd like to hear from you.

Michele Vilseck:

They're actually so fun to work with

Michele Vilseck:

because they already have a lot of the they've already been

Michele Vilseck:

through a lot of the mindset stuff to get to where they're

Michele Vilseck:

at, and they understand how to calm their mind and how to have

Michele Vilseck:

a goal and how to show up and practice. And there's so many

Michele Vilseck:

amazing skills that they have that really translate over into

Michele Vilseck:

successful speaking and not to mention all of their stories and

Michele Vilseck:

their experiences that come with that journey. Yeah?

Janice Porter:

So stories. I can see them having, but I can also

Janice Porter:

see some of them being very introverted or shy,

Michele Vilseck:

yeah, yeah. Oh, absolutely. Some of them are,

Michele Vilseck:

yeah. And I think with introverts, that actually

Michele Vilseck:

happens a lot. You know what? I think a lot of great speakers

Michele Vilseck:

are introverts, because because of the raw principles, honestly,

Michele Vilseck:

because they listen better, because they don't talk as much,

Michele Vilseck:

and because they're used to being with people, they do tend

Michele Vilseck:

to be really amazing speakers, and so it's just about helping

Michele Vilseck:

them realize that and keep their focus in the right place. But

Michele Vilseck:

with speakers specifically, yeah, we just, I just teach

Michele Vilseck:

them. This is for everyone as well, though. To to go from

Michele Vilseck:

whatever you're doing to be a speaker, if you just understand

Michele Vilseck:

a few skills, then you suddenly go from being a mediocre speaker

Michele Vilseck:

to an amazing speaker. And with that, I think the structure is

Michele Vilseck:

very important. Like we talked about, people want to hear

Michele Vilseck:

things in a certain order that their brain understands them and

Michele Vilseck:

digestible. So I'll give you an example whenever people and this

Michele Vilseck:

is true of any speech, no matter what length it is. When people

Michele Vilseck:

hear you, the first thing they're thinking is, is this for

Michele Vilseck:

me? What's this going to do for me? Right? And so they're

Michele Vilseck:

looking of what's the topic, What's she talking about or he,

Michele Vilseck:

right? And so they really want to hear a story from you that

Michele Vilseck:

says, here's the transformation, right?

Janice Porter:

Because we're a transferee. Is that what you're

Janice Porter:

saying?

Michele Vilseck:

Yeah, usually it happens to you. It could be

Michele Vilseck:

any story, though, but they just want to. They need that. They

Michele Vilseck:

need the question answered. Yeah, is it for me? Does this

Michele Vilseck:

apply to me? Does this even apply to me? Do I even care

Michele Vilseck:

about this, right? And if they do. You know, with my story that

Michele Vilseck:

I shared earlier, I was overeating, right? So if I'm

Michele Vilseck:

sharing my overeating story and I take you down there, well I

Michele Vilseck:

call it the hell, like I take you to hell, right? If I take

Michele Vilseck:

you to hell with me, you know, I know. And if you're struggling

Michele Vilseck:

with that, you're like, wow, she gets me. She understands. And so

Michele Vilseck:

then if I tell you, Okay, I came back out now, you're like, Yes,

Michele Vilseck:

this is for me, because I am struggling with the same thing,

Michele Vilseck:

and I've had the same thoughts, and she's made it out. So now

Michele Vilseck:

I'm leaned in, and I want to hear more. So for whatever it is

Michele Vilseck:

that you help people with, right? You want to, you want to

Michele Vilseck:

answer that question so that they stick with you. And then

Michele Vilseck:

the next question that they have in their minds is, how? How do

Michele Vilseck:

you do that? Then, right? And so if you'd set it up until your

Michele Vilseck:

the transformation, and then you then you want to answer the how

Michele Vilseck:

of specifically, what did you do? And a lot of people in the

Michele Vilseck:

sales speaking space will say, don't share the how do you guys?

Michele Vilseck:

I. Have you ever heard that where they like don't share the

Michele Vilseck:

what don't or just tell them what don't tell them, because if

Michele Vilseck:

you tell them too many things, they're going to leave they're

Michele Vilseck:

not going to buy from you. But that's not entirely true,

Michele Vilseck:

because they're not going to buy from you if they don't know how,

Michele Vilseck:

they're not going to want to listen to you anymore, if,

Michele Vilseck:

because, if the reason they're looking at you and saying and

Michele Vilseck:

listening to you is because they haven't found the solution yet,

Michele Vilseck:

and so they're listening to see, have I tried this already, and

Michele Vilseck:

is it something that I want to try? Does it align with me?

Michele Vilseck:

Right? Because there's a lot of when I was going through my

Michele Vilseck:

health journey, I went plant based. But a lot of people don't

Michele Vilseck:

want to go plant based. They want to keep eating meat. So if

Michele Vilseck:

I'm going to tell people my How is plant based, a lot of them

Michele Vilseck:

are going to leave right go look for somebody else. So if they

Michele Vilseck:

want to know how, and then beyond that, the next question

Michele Vilseck:

you want to answer is, is it going to work for me? Which

Michele Vilseck:

there's a lot of other questions, depending on what

Michele Vilseck:

your what your topic is, but that would be the basic

Michele Vilseck:

structure. So that's the, that's the first thing I'd say that

Michele Vilseck:

separates you from an average speaker, is that you're able to

Michele Vilseck:

easily walk them through that experience.

Janice Porter:

And I guess you want to separate them. You want

Janice Porter:

the one, right? You want those that aren't your people to not

Janice Porter:

be around you. Want your people to be there. That's, that's

Janice Porter:

really all you're looking for, right? So it, I think it's worth

Janice Porter:

it to Yeah. And then the other piece that you just mentioned

Janice Porter:

about the how, yes, I think we all, not. We all. A lot of

Janice Porter:

people live in that fear that if you tell them how to do it, that

Janice Porter:

then they don't need you. I think they need you more once

Janice Porter:

they know and you they agree with your how, right? Right?

Janice Porter:

Then they want the support and the help and the hand holding

Janice Porter:

from you around

Michele Vilseck:

that. Well, yes. And there's always going to

Michele Vilseck:

be some people that want to do it on their own, and, of course,

Michele Vilseck:

and then on their own. Those aren't your people, that's

Michele Vilseck:

right, yeah, yeah. They're that. They're the I want to do it on

Michele Vilseck:

my own people, your people are are the people that say, I

Michele Vilseck:

really want someone to help me this, and I'm so tired of doing

Michele Vilseck:

it on my own, and now I've seen her process or his process, and

Michele Vilseck:

I'm aligning with it. And so yes, that's the person I want to

Michele Vilseck:

have help me.

Janice Porter:

So I think you probably answered my next couple

Janice Porter:

of questions in your experience, what turns a talk from

Janice Porter:

interesting into unforgettable and what's the secret sauce for

Janice Porter:

speaker, audience connection? So you have, in a way, but anything

Janice Porter:

else you want to add to that?

Michele Vilseck:

Yeah, I can elaborate a little bit more. So

Michele Vilseck:

I know we talked in general, yeah, be authentic. Be

Michele Vilseck:

vulnerable. Connect with people. But there are some specific

Michele Vilseck:

skill sets that you can learn to do that. One of them, obviously,

Michele Vilseck:

I've been using the whole time. One of my favorites is just

Michele Vilseck:

switching from it's using second person instead of first person.

Michele Vilseck:

It's as simple as that, yes. So instead of saying, and you pay

Michele Vilseck:

attention from now on, when you hear people tell their story,

Michele Vilseck:

they'll say I yeah, like I went to the store with my kids, and

Michele Vilseck:

then I bought groceries, and then we went in, and then I saw

Michele Vilseck:

my grandma, and she was so great, and I gave her a hug,

Michele Vilseck:

because I love her, and I right. And they're going right on and

Michele Vilseck:

on and on, and that's when it gets boring, because they're

Michele Vilseck:

over there with them, and you don't care about them, right?

Michele Vilseck:

Not yet for sure. Yeah, we as people don't care about other

Michele Vilseck:

people, unless it predict, unless it applies to us. Yeah,

Michele Vilseck:

in general, right? Whenever you love your granddaughter, you

Michele Vilseck:

don't care if she's talking about herself all the time, but

Michele Vilseck:

out there in the world, what's in it? For me, that's what

Michele Vilseck:

they're asking for, absolutely. And so whenever you make it

Michele Vilseck:

about them and you stop making it about you, that's when people

Michele Vilseck:

connect, right? And you'll notice, whenever I shared a lot

Michele Vilseck:

of my stories, I'm like, Yeah, you know when you start your

Michele Vilseck:

business and you're so excited about it, and you think that if

Michele Vilseck:

you just build it, they'll come but then you're, we're

Janice Porter:

sitting there nodding our heads, right,

Michele Vilseck:

right. And, you know, so I, I have a common I've

Michele Vilseck:

created a common experience or a common emotion, and I it's my

Michele Vilseck:

story that I'm telling you, but it's your story that I'm telling

Michele Vilseck:

you, right, right? And so I've pulled you in that way. So I, we

Michele Vilseck:

do an exercise with my speakers where I encourage them to not

Michele Vilseck:

say more than two sentences of I before they switch back to you.

Michele Vilseck:

And it's actually kind of, it takes some practice, but be

Michele Vilseck:

surprised how much, yeah, it's just a total different it draws

Michele Vilseck:

you in whenever, every time you hear you you because it's kind

Michele Vilseck:

of like hearing your name,

Janice Porter:

and you don't know you're doing it until

Janice Porter:

somebody points that out, actually, and then, yeah, then

Janice Porter:

you'll hear it all the time. What was I going to say? Oh, so

Janice Porter:

if you're on a stage. And I remember this from the last time

Janice Porter:

I was on a stage, which was quite a while ago, actually. And

Janice Porter:

I was quite nervous before I went out on stage. And it was

Janice Porter:

there were about, I don't know, a couple 1000 people there, and

Janice Porter:

they were some of the people I knew, and I could see some of

Janice Porter:

them in the front rows, right. And it was through me talking on

Janice Porter:

a stage at a Send Out Cards conference about LinkedIn as a

Janice Porter:

tool to use. And I knew my topic. I knew what I was talking

Janice Porter:

about, but there were some pretty, pretty professional

Janice Porter:

speakers on stage, before me and after me and stuff, and I was

Janice Porter:

like, the workshop person kind of thing. Anyway, I I do

Janice Porter:

remember for me, and I don't know, I'm curious to know what

Janice Porter:

what you do, but I need to make that connection with someone in

Janice Porter:

the audience. I'll actually call their name, or I'll say

Janice Porter:

something to give me that connection. Do you what do you

Janice Porter:

your What are your thoughts on that?

Michele Vilseck:

Yes, yeah. So I think a couple of things, I know

Michele Vilseck:

a lot of people say, Oh, I don't talk to anyone before I get on

Michele Vilseck:

because you're in the zone and you're trying to, you know, get

Michele Vilseck:

your mind straight, and you don't want to be taken off of or

Michele Vilseck:

have somebody say something bad or something like that. But

Michele Vilseck:

similarly, like most people, we are more responders than we are.

Michele Vilseck:

I don't know creators. I guess where, whenever we see someone

Michele Vilseck:

or having a conversation with someone, that lights us up and

Michele Vilseck:

we that's what conversations are all about, right? You say

Michele Vilseck:

something that reminds me about something, and then I'm going so

Michele Vilseck:

we're responding off of each other, right? So I do even

Michele Vilseck:

before getting on stage. I, you know, I like to know you want to

Michele Vilseck:

know who you're talking to and what are they going through and

Michele Vilseck:

having, whether that's the day of or before, just like, just

Michele Vilseck:

really knowing who is the audience and being able to

Michele Vilseck:

understand them better. I just recently went to an event, and

Michele Vilseck:

one of the speakers was a little bit all over the place, because

Michele Vilseck:

he ended up changing his speech at the last minute, because he's

Michele Vilseck:

like, I didn't know who was here. And then when I got here

Michele Vilseck:

and I realized who was here, I had to change everything. And he

Michele Vilseck:

was like, changing his slideshow a few minutes before, which is a

Michele Vilseck:

bit nerve wracking, so don't do that, you know. Ask who your

Michele Vilseck:

audience is ahead of time, so that you know who you're talking

Michele Vilseck:

to. But similarly, yes, there's, there's obviously also ways that

Michele Vilseck:

you can connect with them on stage, at calling them out, have

Michele Vilseck:

someone come do an example with you whenever, if you're big on

Michele Vilseck:

stage, and you call someone on stage, everybody's having that

Michele Vilseck:

experience, as though they're that person, and they feel

Michele Vilseck:

connected. So yeah, there's a lot of call and response, and

Janice Porter:

I already know storytelling fits into your

Janice Porter:

framework beautifully, and how powerful that can be in

Janice Porter:

relationship building. So for someone looking to step onto

Janice Porter:

more stages, what's one piece of advice you'd give them to start

Janice Porter:

connecting more powerfully, right now,

Michele Vilseck:

yes, okay, this is the one I always give. But

Michele Vilseck:

for most people, I'll challenge them to make 100 videos.

Unknown:

Whoa, okay, yes,

Michele Vilseck:

because it's really inaction. I'm gonna I'm

Michele Vilseck:

gonna get back to that here in just a second. But I have a

Michele Vilseck:

speaker group, and most there is a man in that group who is fair,

Michele Vilseck:

is severely disabled, and when you talk to him, it's honestly a

Michele Vilseck:

little bit hard to understand him because of just his muscle

Michele Vilseck:

issues and stuff, but he gets paid more as a speaker than 95%

Michele Vilseck:

of the people in my speaking group, because he takes action,

Michele Vilseck:

right? He reaches out to people. He's asking about getting on

Michele Vilseck:

stages. He's got his dream, and he's taking action on that

Michele Vilseck:

dream. And I realized the thing that keeps most speakers from

Michele Vilseck:

getting on stages and having more audiences and selling and

Michele Vilseck:

all the things that your speaker desires is just you taking

Michele Vilseck:

action. And a lot of times it's because, yeah, you don't know

Michele Vilseck:

your message, or you're not super confident it. So I don't

Michele Vilseck:

know. I think we're just waiting to be really good at speaking

Michele Vilseck:

before we go out there. Or again, you're thinking that if I

Michele Vilseck:

build it, they'll come, you know, if I just, if I just say,

Michele Vilseck:

I must be here, somehow someone's gonna know that I want

Michele Vilseck:

to speak. So I, I challenge people to make 100 videos for

Michele Vilseck:

several reasons, because it, it, it, it forces you to take

Michele Vilseck:

action. It helps you to be comfortable on camera because

Michele Vilseck:

you've done it so much. It's like Game Day tape. If we're

Michele Vilseck:

talking athletes, right, you get to watch the tape back. It gives

Michele Vilseck:

you a lot of repetition. You're able to share your story over

Michele Vilseck:

and over and over. Again and see yeah and practice, practice IU,

Michele Vilseck:

practice being vulnerable, practice having your attention

Michele Vilseck:

on them, with the witness. You get to practice all of these

Michele Vilseck:

things. And if you have the audacity to post those things

Michele Vilseck:

online, guess what, people are going to start seeing you and

Michele Vilseck:

noticing you, and they'll see if they resonate with your energy

Michele Vilseck:

and your message. And some of those will pop off, and some of

Michele Vilseck:

them won't. I know, you're a big LinkedIn fan, obviously. So

Michele Vilseck:

whenever I changed my LinkedIn profile, even when I updated my

Michele Vilseck:

LinkedIn profile, immediately, I had a client contact. You know,

Michele Vilseck:

I had a future client contact me, and we started a

Michele Vilseck:

conversation. And you know, so you being out there, taking

Michele Vilseck:

action is what made the difference.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, I think that's huge, actually, because I

Janice Porter:

hate being on video, yeah, and it's funny again, it comes back

Janice Porter:

to focusing on different the wrong thing versus the right

Janice Porter:

thing. I know, because even on here, I'm better on here, on

Janice Porter:

Zoom than I am on my phone, because there's better filters

Janice Porter:

here, like

Michele Vilseck:

you know right now, you are having to stare at

Michele Vilseck:

yourself. I know there is video.

Janice Porter:

Yeah, that's true, but it's okay. It's all

Janice Porter:

good. It's good, good practice. And we're going to say something

Janice Porter:

else. Go ahead.

Michele Vilseck:

Well actually, yeah, I was gonna say, for

Michele Vilseck:

anyone who feels bad about being on video, I watched my watch me

Michele Vilseck:

for the next few months, because I did 50. I just restarted this

Michele Vilseck:

100 videos challenge. I have a challenge. I can give you the

Michele Vilseck:

link in the chat, but I restarted mine, and I just did

Michele Vilseck:

15 videos in one day. I'm sitting in my mom's backyard

Michele Vilseck:

with my red t shirt. I don't even think I have makeup on, and

Michele Vilseck:

I did 15 videos, and it's gonna be my content for like, the next

Michele Vilseck:

two months. Fantastic. I like to do it raw. I mean, that's one of

Michele Vilseck:

the reasons I say it raw. Like, I like to do it raw because I

Michele Vilseck:

like to show people that you don't have to have it all

Michele Vilseck:

together. I want you to feel feel comfortable. You don't have

Michele Vilseck:

to look perfect for people to connect with you. Obviously,

Michele Vilseck:

there's professionalism and all that. Of course, just throw it

Michele Vilseck:

out there kind of half so

Janice Porter:

here's the thing I go to, okay, how, long are

Janice Porter:

these videos, and what are you talking about in these videos?

Janice Porter:

That's where I go. Right away. I want to know the

Unknown:

details, right? Yes, yeah, yes.

Michele Vilseck:

So actually, I created a quick mini like

Michele Vilseck:

packet. I have a challenge. Okay, all right,

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videos, so if you are

Michele Vilseck:

interested, it's, I'm signature

Michele Vilseck:

stages.com/challenge I believe is the link. I will get

Michele Vilseck:

it. Oh, I can send it to you.

Michele Vilseck:

I'll send you the links, but I'll send you the links, but

Michele Vilseck:

whenever you join the challenge, then you get the videos that

Michele Vilseck:

tell you what do you post, and you get a spreadsheet on how you

Michele Vilseck:

can track it all, and some tips on speaking and things like

Michele Vilseck:

that. And then you troop and you can drop

Janice Porter:

them. I've done a 30 day challenge, but not 100

Janice Porter:

video challenge, so I'll have a look at it for Yeah, I think

Janice Porter:

that's a great place to wrap up, Michelle, because you've given

Janice Porter:

us a lot of great information and a lot of tips and tools

Janice Porter:

around speaking, and I love it, and I think my audience will

Janice Porter:

too. I think Michelle reminds us that the most powerful stages

Janice Porter:

aren't about performance, they're about presence, truth

Janice Porter:

and connection through her raw method that I think we

Janice Porter:

understand now, she's guiding speakers, coaches and

Janice Porter:

entrepreneurs to ditch the Polish polished scripts and

Janice Porter:

speak with realness, Audacity and witness whether you're an

Janice Porter:

athlete stepping into leadership, a coach with a

Janice Porter:

mission, or someone who wants to make a meaningful impact, this

Janice Porter:

conversation is your invitation to show up boldly, lead with

Janice Porter:

authenticity and build relationships that resonate long

Janice Porter:

after the applause fades, and I love it. I thank you for your

Janice Porter:

time. I thank you for your energy and for your wisdom. And

Janice Porter:

I encourage my audience to find Michelle on her website. Now I

Janice Porter:

know you have more than one. Where do you want people to go

Janice Porter:

signature stages

Michele Vilseck:

that one's fine. It'll forward you to buy

Michele Vilseck:

what's the other one? Go ahead. Have inspires. Inspire speaker,

Michele Vilseck:

network, Doc, yeah, I have several, yeah, you're

Janice Porter:

right, yeah. Well, you put whatever you want

Janice Porter:

in the show notes, and people can find you there. And I

Janice Porter:

encourage you to check out her 100 video challenge as well,

Janice Porter:

which we're going to put in the show notes and let us know if

Janice Porter:

you do it for sure, right? So thank you. Thank you for being

Janice Porter:

here and to my audience. Thank you so much for being loyal

Janice Porter:

listeners. And if you like what you hear, please leave a review.

Janice Porter:

They're always welcome, and remember to stay connected and

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be remembered. Right? I.

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