The first days after a loss are never easy. There's no arguing that point. However, there can be moments of comfort seeded in the memories uncovered. Throughout the planning that will encompass much of the first week, I was able to find bright rays of sunshine in what I knew was my darkest days. Based on memories and stories shared by family and friends, this became the catalyst of how I pushed through those first days. I discovered many grateful moments while people gathered and shared story after story, lifting me up and displaying our love for everyone to experience. These are the gems of life that, if given the chance, can brighten those dark moments and provide for you a perspective of gratefulness to help you through.