**This is the first of a two part series on conflict and connection in relationships.
In this episode, Travis and Jess (trauma informed, Enneagram and Marriage coaches) share honestly about their own struggles when it comes to navigating conflict in healthy ways in their marriage. They talk about the three ways people generally respond to conflict. After this, they unpack the three common core stories that impact every conflict. They also discuss the stages of every healthy relationship and share some additional tools and resources they are using to try in grow in this area.