Are you living the truth of who you REALLY are? Many people struggle to live within society’s constraints, finding themselves miserable, anxious, and depressed--all because they know they are living someone else’s life. Today’s show introduces you to someone who has been through all of these emotions and struggles, but has taken the leap to live in truth and be authentic. The result has been a settled peace and happiness.
Maryn McGaw is a queer, trans-female cinematographer who grew up outside Cleveland as one of four children born to two architect parents. This led her down the path of studying mechanical engineering before finding her dream in filmmaking and cinematography. Her love is for lighting, camera work, and collaborations. She’s also served as a crisis and suicide prevention phone line counselor at The Trevor Project, talking to LGBTQ youth across the country. She’s proud to further trans visibility.
Finding her dream
How do you zero in on your dream? Maryn’s first dream was to be an astrophysicist, but she found the path to study mechanical engineering with some aerospace mixed in. With a lifelong focus on science, Maryn got her undergraduate degree, never realizing that she wanted to pursue her creative side. Even back in high school, music was the only creative outlet for Maryn. It wasn’t until a college photography class opened her eyes to the world of cinematography and film production that she felt true fulfillment. She looks back now and realizes that an engineering career would have been too static for her preference. Graduate school at SCAD in Savannah followed college and furthered her creative path to her dreams.
TWEET: Choosing a creative career if the only thing that has given me true fulfillment. #chasingdreams
Finding her true self
Have you ever tried to be someone you’re not? Maryn spent many years knowing that she wasn’t who she was pretending to be on the outside. She came to the point that she just couldn’t go forward in life without transitioning to a female, so she took a year off to focus on her health and the gender transition. She had already battled depression and suicidal thoughts, so she knew these were steps she had to take for her physical and mental health. It wasn’t easy coming out and transitioning because she had no role models to look to and saw no representation of the transgender life on TV.
TWEET: Coming out was hard because I had no trans role models to look up to. #chasingdreams
Finding the career she loves
What steps are you willing to take to make your dream come true? For Maryn, she made the move from Virginia to Los Angeles, knowing she would have to work her way into the cinematography career she craved. She did this through networking, working in every opportunity, working as a production assistant, being friendly, and showing people everywhere what she was capable of doing. She knew that cinematography would be the peak and she would have to work her way up to it, but she was willing to put in the hard work to get there. Maryn fell in love with the care, ingenuity, and creativity of the craft of cinematography. She realized that this art form held the theory and practice she had looked for in engineering, but couldn’t find outside this creative realm.
TWEET: “Start being true to yourself!” #chasingdreams
Guest Recommendation: ONE action for a dream chaser to take: “Start being true to yourself. Don’t doubt the person you are and the person you want to be. Know the things that make you happy.”
OUTLINE OF THIS EPISODE:
- [:26} Celebrating the LA Pride Festival
- [1:03] Growing up with architect parents in Ohio
- [2:47] Finding photography and the cinematography dream
- [7:21] Regrets about not figuring out the dream sooner
- [9:09] Life after grad school and gender transition
- [13:45] Advice for others who need help
- [15:20] The current representation of transgender people on TV
- [16:40] After the transition: Virginia and then Los Angeles
- [19:24] How she got where she is today in her career
- [22:10] What led her to cinematography
- [25:24] Maryn’s preference of a medium
- [28:18] How her mental health has improved and her film style has changed
- [29:58] How therapy helped the mental struggle of the transition process
- [33:15] ONE action for a dream chaser
TWEETS YOU CAN USE:
TWEET: The representation on TV of trans life is accurate in very small arenas. #chasingdreams
TWEET: I couldn’t envision a future as my male self. #chasingdreams
TWEET: I couldn’t see myself in engineering because it was too static. I needed a fluid career. #chasingdreams
TWEET: I’ve changed myself and challenged myself and am happiest living my truth. #chasingdreams
https://youtu.be/KmhDNo5zCik
