In this episode of The Yappy Hour Podcast, host Nathan Dunleavy chats with Sarah Jones, founder of My Anxious Dog and the #DogsInYellow campaign. Discover her inspiring journey of advocating for anxious dogs and practical tips for dog parents. Whether you’re a dog guardian or simply love dogs, this episode is packed with helpful insights.
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Welcome to the Yappy Hour, powered
by Yappily, the podcast for dog
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:lovers, dog parents, and anyone who
wants to deepen their connection
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:with their four legged friends.
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:I'm your host, Nathan Dunleavy, and I'm so
excited to bring you our second episode.
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:In this episode, we're joined by
Sarah Jones, the inspiring founder of
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:Sarah is a multi award winning advocate
for Anxious Dogs and the creator of the
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:hashtag Dogs in Yellow Awareness Day.
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:We had a heartfelt conversation about
what it's really like to own an anxious
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:dog, the challenges, the joys and the
emotional journey that comes with it.
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:Whether you have an anxious dog or just
want to learn how to support those who
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:do, you won't want to miss this episode.
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:So grab a cup of tea, settle
in, and let's get started.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Welcome to the second episode of the
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:Yappy Hour podcast powered by Yappily.
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:I'm your host Nathan Dunleavy
and I'm so excited to have you
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:with me for what's going to be
another brilliant conversation.
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:Today's episode is particularly
special because we're talking about
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:something that so many dog owners
can't Can relate to the emotional
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:journey of owning an anxious dog.
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:Joining me is someone who has made
a huge impact in this area, area.
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:Sarah Jones, the founder
of My Anxious Dog.
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:Sarah, welcome to the Yappy Hour.
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:Thank you so much for being here today.
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:You're my second guest on
the show, so no pressure.
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:But how are you doing today?
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow:
Yeah, I'm good, thank you.
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:A little bit chilly today because
I've been sitting in a cold field
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:with Bella for two hours, but
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh, wow.
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:Oh, were you doing some, you were
doing some man trailing this morning.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: hunting,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Trial hunting.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: hunting
now, so that's a new smell.
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:So yeah, we, we've done all
sorts now and that's the
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: How,
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: to, to
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
how exciting.
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:So our listeners, we will
be having someone on to talk
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:about that in the future.
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:There's a little reveal for you.
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:So that's great.
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:So at least you're in the warm now.
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:So welcome to the show.
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:Could you first tell me a little bit about
yourself and your background, please?
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yes.
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:So I'm new to the dog world.
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:fairly new anyway.
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:So my name's Sarah.
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:I'm 58 from Berkshire.
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:Sounds like I'm on a
dating agency or something.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
It's not blind date.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: And my background is
sales and I used to be a managing director
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:in sales for an electronics company.
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:That's me.
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:That's what I used to do and the
reason I came into the dog world
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:was because back in 2012, got a
gorgeous looking little puppy called
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:Bella who's she's a Cocker Spaniel.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Lovely.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: So yeah, so
that's how I never knew I was gonna
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:put my toe into the dog world, but
that, that's a bit of my background.
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:So yeah, I'm not a
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: or a
dog walker or a groomer or a
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:behaviourist or any of those things.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Wow.
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:What a, what a complete contrast
from what you were doing.
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:So for those that may not know, could
you tell us a little bit about my anxious
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:dog and what inspired you to start it?
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yes.
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:So my anxious dog is all
around my anxious dog, Bella.
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:And it's funny because a memory came
up on my Facebook a couple of days ago.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
I saw that
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: And it was 11 years
ago and I was asking if anybody knew a
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:company or where I could get something
for my dog that said, do not touch me.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: and that was
the start of my journey because
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:literally I, I needed something.
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:And what happened was.
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:got Bella back in 2012.
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:She was eight months old.
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:And when I went to pick her up,
the, I didn't get to see her mum.
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:I was told that they'd been separated.
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:and Bella had had a traumatic birth.
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:Her mum had to have an emergency cesarean.
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:one
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh gosh.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: had died.
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:So she'd come into the world in tears.
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:in trauma.
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:So that's the start of her journey.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Gosh.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: was about five or
six weeks old and she got bitten by one
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:of the litter mates, probably playing.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: obviously
hurt because when I got to her
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:a couple of weeks later, she
still had a mark on her back.
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:So
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, my goodness.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Puppy, so to speak.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: my gosh.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: socialization
And there was, you know, four or five
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:puppies, but she wasn't really interested.
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:She just sat under my chair
watching all this chaos going,
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:going on in front of her.
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:And, and then, you know, I didn't
know anything about anxious dogs.
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:So, she went to training
and she was really good.
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:She was really obedient.
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:She learned really quickly, but
she would completely fixate on me.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: I thought, oh, it's
because I'm a wonderful mother to her.
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:just loves me
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Of course.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: But it wasn't, it
was because I've learned it's because
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:she didn't want to engage or have
anything to do with the rest of the room.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: would
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: okay.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: fixate on me as if
there's nothing going on here, you know.
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:And then she got, got to a point with
the training where she wasn't happy.
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:We went up to an advanced class and she
wasn't happy just being, if I told her to
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:wait and leave in the room, she wouldn't
just sit there, you know, really still.
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:So
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: I just thought
this, what am I doing this for now?
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:She's not enjoying it.
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:So, and it just
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Why?
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: problem
after problem, she got
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:attacked and hurt and yeah.
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:And I
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh my
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: that.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
goodness.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: signs
and yeah, I had a problem.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh, wow.
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:Okay.
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:Gosh, what a what a story and what
a rough start for little Bella.
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:Bless her.
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:She's had a few things
to contend with there.
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:I love that you've created dogs
in yellow or hashtag dogs in
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:yellow and we're going to be going
into that in a lot more detail.
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:But what sparked the idea for a, and
a national, a national awareness day?
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:day and how has it
grown since you started?
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: think it came
from, it stemmed from using the yellow.
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:I, it was like a wow moment for
me when someone told me about
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:the yellow, it was a wow moment.
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:And then like, even today when I
got out the car, someone said to me,
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:Oh, I've got a really reactive dog.
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:And I looked at her and said, so have I.
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:And that's why she's wearing yellow.
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:And she said, Oh, but
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, okay.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: And I was
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:We all used it, everybody would know.
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:And it sort of, it comes from that.
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:So didn't want to give up with it.
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:I found it was such a
confidence thing for me.
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:So I started off by doing poo bin
stickers and wheelie bin stickers and
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:car stickers and posters to the point
it was like, right, this is going to be.
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:I need something big as well,
and the dog's in yellow.
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:Yeah, I, I pitched for
the, for the Awareness Day
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: and it got approved.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, okay.
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:So who do you have to pitch it to then?
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow:
It's, it's been so long, I
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: can't
remember, but I'm sure
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: No.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow:
got a podcast for that.
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:I can't
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
I just, I just wondered, I just didn't
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:know how you, how you sort of like,
created these aware days and when you
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:said like, you pitched it, I wondered
who had to sign it off or something, but,
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow:
it's an official thing.
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:You have to go to a
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, okay.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: can't
remember who they are.
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:But
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
No, that's fine.
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:But I just didn't know that you had
to, like you say, you had to officially
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: yeah,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
to a company and get it approved.
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:So brilliant.
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:So that's on March the 20th, isn't it?
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: it's
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yes, I got it right.
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:So you're in your fourth year.
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:So we're going to be talking
a little bit more about the
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:Awareness Day as we go through.
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:This episode, so March the
20th mark your diaries.
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:Okay, so we're going to be moving on to
owning an anxious dog and the emotional
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:journey that's involved with that.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: coming up.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: What
would you say are some of the biggest
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:emotional challenges you've seen as
you've seen anxious dog owners face?
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow:
a failure, embarrassed
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: side of it.
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:Yeah.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: get judged.
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:Yeah.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
gosh, right.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: really, really hard.
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:When, first started reacting.
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:It was a buildup because I have,
I have never worked with dogs
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:before or anything like that.
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:Never had an anxious one.
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:I would, I had the opposite,
you know, I would let my dog
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:off in the park and eventually
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, okay.
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:Okay.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: back to me, you know,
that, but that was quite a long time ago.
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:But when they first start showing the
signs, if you don't see it, Bella then
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:got on to growling and lunging because
she had got a tat when she was young.
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:She was, was all bruised down one side.
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:Obviously I didn't know that.
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:So when people touched her,
she just, it caused pain.
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:So she never forgot that.
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:So she was really funny about strangers
putting the hand down and it got to
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: where she
actually started growling and snapping.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Gosh.
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:Yes.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: so
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
So the trauma sticks.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yes, so when
someone does that and your dog
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:responds with that, you can imagine
fear you have yourself, the panic
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: And then people
just your dog's being aggressive, it
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:shouldn't be out, it should be put to
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh God.
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:Oh God.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
my goodness.
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:I didn't realize people
were saying that as well.
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:Oh God.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: You can, it can
be really, really hard, really hard.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Really hard.
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:Gosh.
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:I'm sorry there.
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:You know, you've had
some of those comments.
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:So as someone who's been through
it yourself, how do you manage or
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:how did you manage those feelings
of guilt or frustration that can
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:come with caring for an anxious dog?
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: I think you have to
at some point and think, no, it's okay.
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:This is, it's a bit like with humans.
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:I am what I am and
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: I'm,
I'm going to go with it.
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:And it's the same with
your dog, with Bella.
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:It was like her, personality.
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:That's what, you know, the way she is.
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:And I think even the dogs that you
see out that are having a wonderful
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:time and doing all the lovely things.
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:you want to do or your dog to do, there's
probably other issues going on somewhere
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:else, you know, with all the people that
I talk to at the dog shows and everything.
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:If it's not one
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: else, you know?
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:So
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
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:Oh, okay.
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:So there's often judgment from
others like you've just explained
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:there when your dog doesn't sort
of behave perfectly in public.
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:How do you think owners can deal
with these situations and stay
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: I always say
to people, who's the most important
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:person when a situation or someone's
looking at you, do you love your dog?
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:Or do you love what that person
is thinking over there that you
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:possibly will never see again?
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:You know, let's get it.
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:know, your dog is the most
important thing to you.
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:don't worry about what
someone is saying or thinking.
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:It's hard, really hard.
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:Sometimes you just got
to take a deep breath
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:and focus back on your dog and not worry
about what the other people are saying
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:to you, or, It's really important as well
not to turn into a reactive dog owner.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Absolutely.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Because
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: happen too.
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:You know, I've had Bella telling another
dog off and there's me going as well.
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:And there's the two of
us all like barking.
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:So, I've, I've, I've managed to stop
that and think, you know, that's wrong.
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:I need to, learn to deal with that.
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:Because it, it is hard.
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:You know, you get stuck in for yourself as
well as, you know, for your dog as well.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, you're fighting like
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:You're being your dog superhero.
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:You want to stick up for them.
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:But then you want to, like you
say, stick up for yourself.
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:And it's a bit of a
vicious circle, isn't it?
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:So but it is hard and I like how
you said with the previous question
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:where you just, I am what I am.
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:It is what it is.
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:You know, you take it or leave it
at the end of the day, don't you?
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:So,
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: You do it
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: I don't see why
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: you do.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: dogs.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
And we're not always going
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:to be everyone's cup of tea.
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:So,
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: I know, I know, it
is, it is really hard, but I just think
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:there's so many different personalities
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
there it is.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: and there's so
many personalities with dogs, but also,
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:having experienced trauma myself, now
understand as well what trauma can feel
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:like So what does it feel like in dogs?
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:You know, some of these dogs as
well that wear yellow, had the most
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:horrendous stuff happen to them in life.
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:It's not, you know, Bella, she's had
a few issues, but nothing horrific.
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:And some of the stories I've heard
and been told can make you cry and
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:you just the whole point of my dog's
in yellow day as well was to other
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:people to just to stop and think as
well about what that owner is trying
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:to do for that dog and what possible
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:That dog's been through.
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:So, know, it's it works both both ways.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: It does.
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:Brilliant.
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:Thank you.
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:What's the one thing you wish
every anxious dog owner knew about
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:their own emotional well being?
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: They're a superhero.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
They're a superhero.
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:Yeah.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: they are, it's
hard, you know, it's not just a case of
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:butterflies and and things like that going
on, it can be really tough, really, really
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:tough to step foot outside the front door,
And yeah, I think they're amazing people
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:that, you know, you, you come across and,
you know, going out for a dog walk is
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:meant to be a lovely, a lovely experience.
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:And sometimes
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: is.
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:It is.
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:It is.
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:It is.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: be
quite stressful as well.
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:So
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, stressful for you, the owners
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:and obviously the dog as well.
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:I mean, you don't want to be putting
yourself through that, let alone your dog.
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:So yeah, I absolutely love
that, that they're a superhero.
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:So always remember that.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: yeah.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
brilliant.
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:So moving on to obviously
the dogs in yellow campaign.
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:So could you just tell us the story
behind like the yellow gear for anxious
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:dogs and why it's such a powerful symbol.
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:So there's obviously lots of
different gear you, you've got now.
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:So, did it just start off like with
a lead or how did it all come about?
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Well, the yellow
started when I've traced it back, it
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:came from a dog trainer called Terry
in Australia back in the year:
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:And the idea of it is yellow is the
official warning color for caution.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right.
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:Okay.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: the ribbon
idea came from the horse world.
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:So if you had a kicking horse, people
would tie a red ribbon onto the
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:horse's tail to warn people that it
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: kicker.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: okay.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: So
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
never knew that.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah, so all
of that came from from that idea.
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:That's where the yellow ribbon came from.
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:And then obviously a yellow ribbon on
a dog like Bella just a you can't see
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:it from a distance and be sometimes
it can make a dog look cute, so
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:they want to touch them even more.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh
god, yes, you're almost drawing people
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:in and bringing that attention in, which
is the opposite of what you want, isn't
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: absolutely.
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:So so it stemmed to having yellow
products, yellow leads, yellow lead
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:slips and coats and things like that.
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:So 11 years ago I had the issue of
trying to find something like do not
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:touch, cause it was more important
than I need space or nervous.
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:I wanted something very clear.
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:That's how it started.
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:So then I I had some samples made
up and things like that with the,
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:where I had a keep away lead, keep
away harness, and I do not touch.
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:One as well.
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:Lead.
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:And it just
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: it?
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: out there
weren't very good as well.
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:So I wanted something Bella that
I would want to use every day.
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:Difficult enough putting
on your yellow cape.
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:So you wanted a good
yellow cape to put on.
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:So yeah, I had issues with it fading
or ripping or so, and it just stemmed
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:a product for her that I'd want to use.
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:So now we've gone from collars and
harnesses to jumpers and coats and
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
It's evolved.
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:There's, I mean, I, I believe
there's stuff for humans as well
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:now, like you say, coats and jumpers.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yep.
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:There's everything.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
you could kit out your wardrobe
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:with some, some yellow gear.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah.
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:So even written on the
back of my camper van.
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, right.
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:So is that like a sticker or something?
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: no.
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:So last year I done 8, 000 miles
traveling the UK doing the dog
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:shows with our yellow space
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: but on the back of
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Right.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: van in bright
yellow, it just says hashtag
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:dogs in yellow needs space.
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:everybody that sat behind
me on the motorway or,
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh, wow.
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:Sarah #dogsinyellow: seen it.
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:So
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:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
That's a big audience to get.
424
:Yeah.
425
:I absolutely love that.
426
:Brilliant.
427
:So have you got a rewarding moment or
story that you've heard about in, in
428
:regards to dogs and yellow and how it's
helped an anxious dog and their owner?
429
:Sarah #dogsinyellow:
I've got lots of stories.
430
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, I bet you have.
431
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: yeah, I get lots
of messages on socials and posts.
432
:And some of them make me cry as well.
433
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, oh bless.
434
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: I just know
how rewarding it is because I
435
:use it and believe in it myself.
436
:I know how it makes, how it's
437
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: sucks.
438
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: my
439
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Exactly.
440
:You've got that first hand experience.
441
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah, absolutely.
442
:And it, and it's the acceptance
of, of using it as well.
443
:When people say to me about the products
or how things help or because it's not,
444
:you know, there's a whole package as well.
445
:So obviously the training, you know,
seeing a behaviourist and things like
446
:that, I found that after I'd done
that journey with Bella and found
447
:out all the things that I could do
for her when I was out in public.
448
:In public, I still, she still
didn't have a voice and that's
449
:obviously where the yellow came in.
450
:But yeah, it.
451
:There's a, there's a whole thing to it.
452
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: pretty.
453
:Now it must be so rewarding for you
just to get those stories as well.
454
:Obviously, like you say, you, you know,
how it is firsthand, but to hear like
455
:the messages from other owners on social
media you know, that must, that must
456
:make it all worthwhile for you even more.
457
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: It does.
458
:It really, really does.
459
:And, and it's funny because even
when we go to the dog shows and
460
:you, you, you meet people face to
face, they all say the same thing.
461
:When the dogs are at home.
462
:You know, my dog at home is lovely.
463
:Everybody has to tell you
how wonderful their dog is.
464
:And because
465
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: It
466
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: safe space, you know.
467
:And that's how we
468
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: is,
469
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: we feel that
everyone's judging our dog on
470
:how they're acting of the home.
471
:But they are all lovely dogs.
472
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: exactly.
473
:They just need that little bit of
extra support and space, as you say.
474
:Brilliant.
475
:So how can dog owners and the
wider community get involved
476
:in supporting dogs in yellow?
477
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Well,
obviously sharing their stories
478
:when they use their yellow.
479
:take a photo, put it on your socials.
480
:I mean, I always think people must be
getting so fed up with seeing Bella
481
:on socials or on my Facebook, but
just never stop talking about it.
482
:Be proud to use it and
explain your story as well.
483
:I'm trying at the moment, I'm doing
some work with a dog training school to
484
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh, wow.
485
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Talk about
the yellow more to trainers
486
:as well, so that we can get.
487
:You know, I see a lot of classes
on social media and things like
488
:that for reactive and anxious dogs,
but you hardly see any yellow.
489
:So it's trying to get the trainers and
the behaviourists to use in the yellow and
490
:getting involved in the campaign, then to
491
:Another way we're trying to get
get the message out, out as well.
492
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, sure.
493
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: sharing it and
talking about it and getting involved.
494
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
they've got a big audience, haven't they?
495
:Trainers and behaviourists.
496
:So it's just about getting out in front
of those different people and just
497
:raising awareness and educating new
puppy owners, for example, like in puppy
498
:classes and stuff that's a good shout.
499
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: yeah, I have
I've spoken to a few of the trainers
500
:and people like this morning I went
to trail hunt and it was my first.
501
:First one that we've done and
the conversation straight away
502
:was talking about, got two dogs
in yellow here explaining what
503
:that meant and interactions.
504
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: wow.
505
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah.
506
:And I, I trained with Wonder.
507
:I've been training with Wonder Marts
and they were talking about, you
508
:know, they, they encourage people with
anxious and reactive dogs to come.
509
:They have cer, you know, they
don't have big classes, but they,
510
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
that's good.
511
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: They
both have anxious and reactive
512
:dogs as well, the trainers.
513
:So it's okay.
514
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
515
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: like.
516
:And it's really, really good to feel
like you're in, you can be included.
517
:I might sit on the end,
518
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
519
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: but you can still
have a distant chat, you know, it's,
520
:it's just, it's so lovely for things
like that to happen as well, rather
521
:than seeing posts where dogs and things
like that, you know, almost feel, you
522
:always feel like you're being excluded.
523
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
524
:Yeah.
525
:I, I must've, I've seen some
where they've said, Oh if you've
526
:got a reactive, not to come and
527
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah.
528
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
that, and that instantly
529
:makes you feel excluded, isn't
530
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah, absolutely.
531
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
a nice feeling.
532
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: come and try?
533
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Exactly.
534
:Yeah.
535
:Brilliant.
536
:Oh, I'm so glad that you're enjoying that.
537
:So we're going to move on
to some practical advice for
538
:owners of anxious dogs now.
539
:So what would be one small, but
impactful change owners can make to
540
:better support their anxious dog?
541
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: I would,
it's quite hard with one thing.
542
:I definitely, definitely, if
you've got a dog that needs
543
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
can have as many things.
544
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: is use some
yellow, you know, use a little
545
:bit of, because it, it makes it
fair as well for the other people.
546
:You know, if you don't want a dog
running up, I know there's lead
547
:etiquette, but at least show that you've
got an anxious or a There's so many
548
:words for anxious, reactive, nervous,
fizzy, sensitive, you know, at least
549
:show a little bit, help, help people.
550
:So you can at least say, no, I've had
people say to me, I'm sorry, I just didn't
551
:know, notice a yellow, but now I see it.
552
:You know, I'll remember it or I'll explain
what the yellow means if it's an older
553
:person, start with some yellow at least.
554
:And then if you're anything like me,
you go from a little bit of yellow
555
:to now Bella's covered in yellow.
556
:A whole wardrobe is yellow
because I love it so much.
557
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
It's, I mean, yellow is a lovely
558
:vibrant and bright color, isn't it?
559
:So, you know,
560
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: people use, it's
not a color that people use really.
561
:I mean most of the colors for the normal
dog owners that I would say, they would,
562
:they use red or purple or blue or black,
you know, it's not, very rarely see
563
:someone using yellow unless they've
got a, a dog that needs, needs space.
564
:So
565
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
yeah, sure.
566
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: that's a good
start and it gives, It gave me a
567
:little bit of confidence as well.
568
:So I think it brings your levels down
because you are visually showing, you
569
:know, you don't have to start shouting
across, you know, to put your hand up and
570
:all this business that some people do.
571
:I have yellow on, and if I'm walking
somewhere, I now, and an awfully
572
:over because it still happens.
573
:You know, it's not a miracle
574
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay.
575
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: running sort of game.
576
:And then I try and run, encourage
the dog from their owner.
577
:So then the other owner of the
other dog goes, Oh my you know?
578
:And it's like, well, you
know, work on recall.
579
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, yeah.
580
:It is, half the battle is like,
it's other owners, isn't it?
581
:Rather than the dogs.
582
:Oh, it's okay, my dog's friendly or
583
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah, it's okay.
584
:My dog's friendly means I've
got no recall on my dog.
585
:It, you know, it shouldn't be
off lead and it's just charging
586
:around doing what it wants.
587
:It's understandable, you know,
if you haven't had an anxious and
588
:reactive dog before, sometimes you're
oblivious, you know, I, I, and again,
589
:that's part of the campaign is trying
to show people we want, but it's
590
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.
591
:I think if I had a pound for
every time I heard someone say,
592
:it's okay, my dog's friendly.
593
:My dog's friendly.
594
:I'd be a millionaire because there's
many reasons why the dog's on lead
595
:for a reason, or, you know, it's, it's
anxious, it's elderly, it's, it's just
596
:had surgery, but you know, it is a lot
around the other dog, you know, it's
597
:probably not got great week or training.
598
:But I kind of like where you, where
you sort of say, Oh, just run the other
599
:way and make, make a game out of it.
600
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: standing in
one place panicking doesn't work.
601
:It just doesn't
602
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Doesn't work.
603
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: So I change
direction and walk away or do a detour
604
:and sometimes if I can see a dog running
over I don't, I turn around and then
605
:I try and do a play game with Bella.
606
:I don't just run away type thing.
607
:But I just try and get her to trot, you
know, and just make it something fun
608
:and what we're going to do and what's
over there and That type of thing.
609
:Then she can't see it well, but it just,
610
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
611
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: know, we're just,
rather than standing there and shouting
612
:and waving your arms, because then Bella's
going to go, what the hell is going on?
613
:You know,
614
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
yeah, and it,
615
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: shouting, so
616
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
it might,
617
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: up.
618
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I
better start shouting then you've got
619
:a shout off and then the dog that's off
lead like thinking, Oh, this looks fun.
620
:I'll hang out here.
621
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah, exactly.
622
:So,
623
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Defeats the object of what you're
624
:trying to do, trying to shoo him away.
625
:And obviously I, I liked, well, we're
trying to get away from this term
626
:reactive now because there's, there's
a lot of reasons why a dog could be
627
:reactive and it doesn't necessarily
always mean that they're aggressive.
628
:But I'm kind of liking
the, the change in words.
629
:So we're using sort of like the
word sensitive instead, instead.
630
:So,
631
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: yeah.
632
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
know, the dog sensitive or,
633
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: But,
634
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: fearful
635
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: think people
use spicy, but we're all reactive.
636
:We all
637
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: spicy.
638
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: you know.
639
:If someone took my
dinner away, I'd go, Oi!
640
:Say, you know.
641
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
So would I.
642
:I don't know about that.
643
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: if somebody woke me
up in the middle of the night when I'm
644
:sleeping, again, I'd be going, shouting
or, what the hell are you doing to me?
645
:And it's, to me, it's just, their voice
and it's us that doesn't understand some,
646
:you know, what the dog's Trying to say
to us, it's just saying the same things
647
:as, you know, if someone ran up at me
in a park and tried to play with me,
648
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Silence.
649
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: know, some of us have
different personalities and want to do
650
:certain things the same as our dogs do.
651
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah, I
once heard someone say when a dog was off
652
:lead or whatever, Oh, my dog's got fleas
or something like that, or got a disease.
653
:And that soon sort of made the
other dog owner get their dog
654
:on lead quite, quite sharpish.
655
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Oh, it's, it's crazy.
656
:She's, she's really scared of other
dogs because she's been attacked.
657
:And most people will
658
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.
659
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: you know, but
660
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,
661
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: to explain, but we
feel we do because we don't want them
662
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.
663
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: our dogs.
664
:That's the, that's the trouble, trouble
665
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
666
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: but it's
667
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
And then that goes back to, Yeah,
668
:that goes back to advocating for your
dog and being your dog's superhero.
669
:I must admit, I did like the word spicy.
670
:I've not heard that one before.
671
:So yeah, my dog's a bit spicy.
672
:I often say, I often say my dog's special.
673
:My dog's special, so, well,
they're all special, aren't they?
674
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: They are
675
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: So how
can owners learn to advocate for their
676
:dog's needs, especially in those public
spaces where people might not understand?
677
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Again, it's
just be, you know, feeling the
678
:love for your dog and accepting.
679
:What your dog is and how they
feel as well, I think is really,
680
:really an important thing to do.
681
:It's like trying to change.
682
:Your husband, your partner's personality,
you know, there might be something that
683
:you don't quite like halfway through
and then in a relationship, and then
684
:you want to change something, it's, you
have to accept you've got, don't you?
685
:And, and, and work with it and try
and help them and make them feel
686
:safe, you know, the best way you
can, and people that have, These
687
:anxious and sensitive and spicy dogs,
you know, they're amazing people.
688
:And I think the whole package of,
you know, going to a trainer or a
689
:behaviourist to learn like I did of
the communication signs that dogs give.
690
:And then there's lots of other
things that you can do as well.
691
:I mean, were talking to Andy hell
last week and Bella's been using now
692
:for the last six months with the car.
693
:You know, she has a calming
spray sprayed on a harness.
694
:Cause you've
695
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh yes, yeah,
696
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: calming spray powered
by pet remedy, which I'm very proud
697
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yes, you
have, and I use their products as well,
698
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: and I've seen
a change in Bella over the last six
699
:months, all these little things.
700
:So we've got the, the calming spray.
701
:I've used the calming drinks.
702
:Poured, do a calming drink.
703
:It's again, all natural things.
704
:And all of these little things,
have really helped her in the last
705
:six months, even, you know, having
706
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: oh wow,
707
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: looked at and having
bone broth, then, because that's all the
708
:thing, you know, like humans, it's now
looked at in dogs and their behaviour and
709
:their wellbeing, know, so there's a whole
710
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.
711
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: of
stuff that goes with it.
712
:These dogs nowadays vehicle dogs.
713
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, definitely.
714
:I love the pet remedy stuff.
715
:I've got their plugin.
716
:We use their plugin, but we also use a
bandana and have some of the spray on
717
:the bandana for a couple of my dogs.
718
:So yeah, brilliant.
719
:What would be your advice to owners on
recognizing and celebrating progress,
720
:even if it's small feels small.
721
:So just those small wins,
what would be your advice on
722
:recognizing, celebrating and that?
723
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: You're
doing so much for that dog,
724
:making it feel safe, you know?
725
:So do focus on the little things that
go well and not the, you know, the,
726
:the, something else that happened,
you know, 80 percent of that walk
727
:could have been good and 20 percent
of it could have been quite stressful.
728
:But, know, just make sure that you focus
on, the good stuff and the positive stuff.
729
:It's like today, you know, doing
the trail hunt, Bella was, amazing.
730
:You know, she was so good.
731
:We sat on the end.
732
:We had lots of squeezy cheese in the
squeezy rewards for distraction work.
733
:Yeah.
734
:And it, and, and you came away,
I came away really proud of her.
735
:but
736
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh,
737
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: yeah.
738
:Just,
739
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
that's nice.
740
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: focus on on the
little things cause you've done them.
741
:You've, you've helped
those little things happen.
742
:So
743
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
744
:And you mentioned the squeezy cheese.
745
:So you've also got these little
yellow dispensers now, haven't you?
746
:That you can put cheese in and squeezy
747
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: so this
748
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: cheese.
749
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: distraction work
is, is really important as well, so
750
:finding a class that will you and your
dog's happy with and you, and you gel
751
:with the, the trainer doing the classes.
752
:I found with Bella, she really
liked, you know, obviously
753
:licking is very calm, calming for
754
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: does.
755
:Yeah.
756
:It helps.
757
:Yeah.
758
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: know, going around
with the Primula squeezy cheese in
759
:your pocket and unscrewing it and all
this thing is quite, quite hard work.
760
:If you also have a dog that
you want to keep close to you.
761
:So yeah, we have these squeezy rewards.
762
:They clip onto your, I have a
walking belt when I'm doing classes
763
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
764
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Like a little pouch
from a frankfurter sausages it just
765
:clips on there but it's on a reel so
you can extend it so it's always there.
766
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay.
767
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: and it just means
when somebody else is doing something
768
:or it's or someone's close by, you
know, she can focus on the squeezy
769
:cheese because she loves squeezy cheese.
770
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Brilliant.
771
:Yeah.
772
:Oh, I love a bit of squeezy cheese.
773
:No, that's brilliant.
774
:I'm, I'm really pleased.
775
:And yes, the licking does help
bring their arousal levels
776
:down helps promote calmness.
777
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah.
778
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
and, and it's really good for their
779
:brain and mental stimulation as well.
780
:So she's getting that as well
as, so I think that's great.
781
:Brilliant.
782
:Okay.
783
:So I know you said you get sick.
784
:I've sent loads of stories and stuff, but
do you have a personal story that reminds
785
:you of why this work is so important
for both you and the wider community?
786
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: I suppose the
personal story is about the best way
787
:for me to give an example is Bella.
788
:I would say probably now over the
last, I've been probably doing
789
:this after Matt had an accident.
790
:So in 2019, so I've been
doing it full on since then.
791
:And
792
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Okay.
793
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: if I walk past 10
people, whether it's in the woods, or
794
:on the road, or wherever I am, and I
don't necessarily go through a park,
795
:but Six, seven of those 10 people
will put their dog back on a lead.
796
:And that's huge.
797
:You know, it makes
798
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
That is huge.
799
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: one when
people say it doesn't work, but
800
:even if one or two people do it,
that's better than the 10, you know?
801
:So it w it's taking that level,
that stacking, you know, the
802
:bucket of water filling up.
803
:And I do
804
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
805
:Yeah.
806
:Yeah.
807
:Yeah.
808
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: You
know, I'm really, really
809
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
810
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: saying that.
811
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
That's good.
812
:Brilliant.
813
:Thank you.
814
:I mean, I'm a big believer
in one is better than none.
815
:So if you're getting six
or seven out of the ten,
816
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah.
817
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
you know, great.
818
:You know, we'll get there to the
point where it's everyone soon enough.
819
:So by spreading this message.
820
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: done a little
bit of awareness in their own area,
821
:because that's what I've done.
822
:I've done it more than in
my area now, my own area.
823
:But, you know, we sell poo bin stickers,
wheelie bin stickers, car stickers.
824
:We do packs that people can take
to their vets or the pet shop.
825
:You know, there's so much
that you can do just to put.
826
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah,
827
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: done a little
bit themselves, it would be.
828
:nine out of 10.
829
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.
830
:And we mentioned the pet remedy products.
831
:Is the spray in conjunction with pet
remedy or is it a different spray?
832
:It is, isn't it?
833
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: it's still,
it's powered by pet remedy.
834
:So it's, it's
835
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Ah, powered by pet remedy.
836
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah.
837
:So it's a calming spray, but
it's, it's obviously got Bella
838
:on it and dogs in yellow.
839
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, that's
840
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: So yeah.
841
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
That's good.
842
:And going back to the point you said
earlier about, oh, people probably getting
843
:fed up of seeing pictures of Bella.
844
:I don't think we could ever
get fed up of cute dog pictures
845
:or cute pictures of Bella.
846
:So, you know, I say the more the merrier.
847
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Thank you.
848
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
So Sarah, if you could give one
849
:piece of reassurance to an anxious
dog owner who feels like they're
850
:struggling, what would it be?
851
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: If they're
struggling by being judged, don't
852
:take any notice of anybody else.
853
:You know, I suppose that covers lots
of issues, doesn't it, in the world?
854
:Just don't worry about what other people
think about your dog, you, you know,
855
:whether you've got pink hair or blue hair,
it's just, got that bond with your dog.
856
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
yellow hair.
857
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Or
858
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
You could have yellow hair.
859
:Sarah #dogsinyellow:
yeah, don't give me ideas.
860
:It's, it, it's,
861
:it's have, you know, have
faith in, in you, you know.
862
:If they
863
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Hmm.
864
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: you know, if they're
struggling and somebody's judging you,
865
:just walk away from that person, you know.
866
:They're not important in your life,
so just concentrate on your dog.
867
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
868
:Let, like you say, let it go.
869
:And in the,
870
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Best
871
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
words of frozen,
872
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah, let it go.
873
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
let it go, start busting out
874
:in the frozen theme tune.
875
:No, that's brilliant.
876
:And yeah, just, just don't,
don't worry about anyone else.
877
:Just be, you know,
focused on your, your dog.
878
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: They bring,
they bring, if someone said, would
879
:you, could you, would you change
Bella into that, know, dog that
880
:wants to be petted and wants to go
and play with all the other dogs?
881
:Would you change her?
882
:I wouldn't now.
883
:No, she's just shown
884
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: No.
885
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: a whole different
way of thinking and thought, and she's
886
:brought so much, obviously, into my life.
887
:With these issues.
888
:And so many, I've met so
many amazing people as well.
889
:So because of it.
890
:So
891
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
You wouldn't want to change, you
892
:wouldn't want to change it now
because that's just who she is.
893
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: yeah,
894
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
You know,
895
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah.
896
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
you know,
897
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: all different.
898
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: we
are all different and why should we,
899
:you know, why should we change it?
900
:It would be boring if
everyone was the same, you
901
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah.
902
:We don't want to conform.
903
:Nor do my dogs.
904
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
and like.
905
:And like you say you've you've
met loads of different people
906
:through this whole journey.
907
:You know, being, going from where
you were and what you used to do
908
:and now, you know, working with
obviously different dog professionals.
909
:And you've won some awards
as well, haven't you, Sarah?
910
:Haven't you?
911
:Could you tell me a little bit
about a couple of your awards?
912
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yes.
913
:I won pet Quip Award.
914
:I won a silver marketing, trade
marketing campaign for dogs in yellow.
915
:And I was against fros, so that was
916
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Oh yes,
917
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: won
918
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
the ice cream.
919
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: So that the
ice cream, so that's a huge company.
920
:So for.
921
:little old me to come and get a silver.
922
:I was, you know, that was really amazing.
923
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Amazing.
924
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: and
925
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
926
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: been a
finalist in the PIF awards as
927
:well, you know, and that's again,
928
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, so that's
929
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: category.
930
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: the
Pet, pet Industry Federation, isn't it?
931
:Yeah.
932
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah.
933
:so yeah, I've had a few, few
awards, which is lovely, you
934
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: No,
935
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: to be
appreciated, but it's, it's just,
936
:but they help with the awareness for,
you know, it's not, not about me.
937
:And it's about getting that message out
for, you know, what a dog in yellow means.
938
:So that's,
939
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: yeah.
940
:I mean, it's nice to have the rec
recognition, but like you say, it's all
941
:about raising the awareness, isn't it?
942
:And just how can you reach more people,
943
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yes.
944
:Yeah,
945
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
you know?
946
:It is, it's not necessary dog owners.
947
:It's the, it is everyone, isn't it?
948
:Because if you've not got a dog and you
are out, like you're just walking down
949
:the park and you see a dog in yellow, if
you're not a dog owner, you may not know.
950
:what that means.
951
:So it's, it's, it's, it comes back to
education, just everyone, isn't it really?
952
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: And it's been a
real opportunity as well to be able
953
:to do the yellow space zones that the
like at dog fest, we're going to good
954
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes.
955
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: year.
956
:And, and that has been a huge.
957
:Campaign for helping with it as
well, because it's, it's strange.
958
:Cause people say, Oh, you shouldn't
encourage, you know, anxious
959
:dogs to go to places like that.
960
:And I, and I, my answer to them is
I'm not, I'm not encouraging people
961
:to come for a full day, they come,
you know, I've been going to dog
962
:shows now for eight to 10 years and
963
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
964
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: they are
brought to shows, unfortunately.
965
:And you know, you, you, you.
966
:You see them shutting down
and struggling and and I had
967
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Well,
968
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: a show not
last year, the year before to go
969
:and see Ali from Be Kind Rescue.
970
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes.
971
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: and it
was a village show, I thought.
972
:And when I got there,
it's quite a big show.
973
:And obviously Bella was muzzled
cause there's children there
974
:and also covered in yellow.
975
:But when we went to get something to
eat and a drink, It was just too busy.
976
:There was nowhere to go.
977
:so we ended up going behind the
vans, and sitting down eating there,
978
:trying to find a little bit of quiet
space so that we could relaxed to eat
979
:ourselves, you know, let alone Bella.
980
:And this is where
981
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
982
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: for that
came, because I just thought
983
:wasn't, there wasn't a safe
space for us that we could sit.
984
:Bella.
985
:and then I just thought, well, let's see.
986
:My first shows I was doing
was all about dog shows.
987
:My first one was in Newbury and I pitched
the idea to them and they loved it.
988
:And then it's just snowballed from there.
989
:And it's amazing the, the,
990
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
I think it's a great idea.
991
:Such a great concept.
992
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: The amount of
pictures that we took in the summer
993
:where people would come, you know, we've
got pictures of muzzles on the little
994
:haystacks on the hay bale, sorry, where
they've come in and been able to take
995
:the muzzles off and let their dogs have
a, you know, mooch around or, you know,
996
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
997
:Sarah #dogsinyellow: sniffing and playing
with the toys that we've got in there.
998
:been huge that has, and also
helped with the awareness.
999
:Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: And
I've going back to your point where
:
00:45:07,994 --> 00:45:11,504
someone said that you shouldn't take a
reactive dog there, but why shouldn't
:
00:45:11,614 --> 00:45:16,564
a reactive dog be allowed to go to
a show and not be able to enjoy,
:
00:45:16,915 --> 00:45:17,325
Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah.
:
00:45:17,364 --> 00:45:18,284
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
know, some of that.
:
00:45:18,475 --> 00:45:18,585
Sarah #dogsinyellow: Bella.
:
00:45:19,545 --> 00:45:19,815
go.
:
00:45:20,985 --> 00:45:25,975
what I've been talking to some of the
events is a lot of them are two days.
:
00:45:25,985 --> 00:45:27,475
They do a Saturday and a Sunday.
:
00:45:28,275 --> 00:45:30,885
Most people have gone
on before the last hour.
:
00:45:30,905 --> 00:45:36,265
So we're trying to, we, the first event
we've done it for was the yellow hour.
:
00:45:37,065 --> 00:45:42,655
the last hour of the Saturday, it meant
that dogs in yellow or any dogs that
:
00:45:42,655 --> 00:45:47,125
wanted some quiet time could come for
that last hour because it was quite empty.
:
00:45:47,595 --> 00:45:49,245
And that's worked quite well.
:
00:45:49,625 --> 00:45:53,085
Some, some of them can, but
some of them come when they
:
00:45:53,375 --> 00:45:55,005
really shouldn't come at all.
:
00:45:55,035 --> 00:45:58,155
You know, I've, seen dogs
that are just all over the
:
00:45:58,155 --> 00:46:00,315
place and completely shut down
:
00:46:00,394 --> 00:46:00,944
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, gosh.
:
00:46:01,265 --> 00:46:05,585
Sarah #dogsinyellow: But it's just
hopefully providing a little safe space
:
00:46:06,085 --> 00:46:11,245
and making, Some dogs that if they had
a little bit of space could come and
:
00:46:11,245 --> 00:46:13,955
have a go at things because I remember
:
00:46:13,974 --> 00:46:14,214
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Mm.
:
00:46:14,985 --> 00:46:17,505
Sarah #dogsinyellow: at some of the shows
thinking, Oh, Bella would love that.
:
00:46:17,515 --> 00:46:21,035
I wish she could come or I wish I
could do that with Bella, you know?
:
00:46:22,005 --> 00:46:24,565
So yeah, that's been a
:
00:46:24,634 --> 00:46:25,434
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Nothing is great.
:
00:46:25,454 --> 00:46:25,714
It's a good.
:
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:27,700
Sarah #dogsinyellow: It's
:
00:46:27,849 --> 00:46:29,319
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Yeah, I think it's brilliant and
:
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:32,600
Sarah #dogsinyellow: the shows
to be able to, like Dogfest or
:
00:46:32,650 --> 00:46:36,280
Goodwith, you know, to put what Dogs
in Yellow means on their website.
:
00:46:37,170 --> 00:46:37,890
It's been,
:
00:46:38,419 --> 00:46:38,699
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
that's huge.
:
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:40,210
Sarah #dogsinyellow: massive for, for
:
00:46:41,369 --> 00:46:41,799
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
:
00:46:42,829 --> 00:46:46,669
I think even as humans, we might want to
like a little chill out area to get away
:
00:46:46,959 --> 00:46:48,669
from the hustle and bustle of everything.
:
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:51,310
Sarah #dogsinyellow: It's funny
you should say that because quite
:
00:46:51,310 --> 00:46:55,000
a few, we put these little pop up
camping tents in there as well.
:
00:46:55,340 --> 00:46:58,110
And I had one lady, I'm sure
she fell asleep in there.
:
00:47:00,589 --> 00:47:01,199
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
That's brilliant.
:
00:47:01,199 --> 00:47:05,174
It goes to show how nice of an area is.
:
00:47:05,454 --> 00:47:05,844
Brilliant.
:
00:47:05,844 --> 00:47:09,604
So we're gonna start sort of
wrapping up this episode for the
:
00:47:09,604 --> 00:47:12,154
last sort of five or so minutes.
:
00:47:12,184 --> 00:47:16,784
So just some some final questions
and points, if that's okay.
:
00:47:17,204 --> 00:47:23,374
So where can people find out more
about you, Sarah, and my anxious dog.
:
00:47:23,865 --> 00:47:26,835
Sarah #dogsinyellow: Well, my
website is my anxious dog.co
:
00:47:27,045 --> 00:47:29,595
uk and all my socials are the same.
:
00:47:29,685 --> 00:47:30,705
My anxious dog.
:
00:47:30,705 --> 00:47:34,815
So we're on Instagram
and Facebook as well,
:
00:47:35,164 --> 00:47:35,614
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Brilliant.
:
00:47:36,314 --> 00:47:36,794
Okay.
:
00:47:37,094 --> 00:47:42,374
And just remind us again of the date
for the, the dogs in Yellow awareness.
:
00:47:42,519 --> 00:47:42,879
day.
:
00:47:43,095 --> 00:47:44,325
Sarah #dogsinyellow: 20th of March.
:
00:47:44,325 --> 00:47:46,185
But it's always a dogs in Yellow Day
:
00:47:48,179 --> 00:47:52,459
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yes,
it's always a dogs in yellow day, but the
:
00:47:52,459 --> 00:47:58,589
actual awareness day we've got is coming
up in the next couple of months, isn't it?
:
00:47:58,589 --> 00:48:02,609
It's the fourth one this year
and that's on the 20th of March.
:
00:48:02,609 --> 00:48:02,929
Yeah.
:
00:48:03,755 --> 00:48:04,086
Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah, yeah.
:
00:48:04,325 --> 00:48:06,185
So yeah, that's all about
:
00:48:06,319 --> 00:48:06,379
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Perfect.
:
00:48:07,055 --> 00:48:10,115
Sarah #dogsinyellow: if you own an anxious
dog, you know, get pictures up, talk
:
00:48:10,115 --> 00:48:12,095
about your dog on social media, you know?
:
00:48:13,275 --> 00:48:14,145
That type of thing.
:
00:48:14,145 --> 00:48:14,455
So,
:
00:48:14,979 --> 00:48:15,619
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Brilliant.
:
00:48:15,775 --> 00:48:15,955
Sarah #dogsinyellow: there.
:
00:48:18,049 --> 00:48:18,419
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
:
00:48:18,769 --> 00:48:21,799
So go and check out obviously
Sarah's website and all our
:
00:48:21,799 --> 00:48:23,929
different social media channels.
:
00:48:23,979 --> 00:48:28,449
So a couple of questions then
to end finally, Sarah, if dogs
:
00:48:28,479 --> 00:48:32,389
could give us one piece of advice,
what do you think they'd say?
:
00:48:34,455 --> 00:48:35,465
Sarah #dogsinyellow: You doing alright?
:
00:48:36,215 --> 00:48:37,735
You know, you're my safe world.
:
00:48:38,425 --> 00:48:39,815
know you're doing alright for
:
00:48:39,939 --> 00:48:40,289
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
:
00:48:42,299 --> 00:48:42,729
Yeah.
:
00:48:42,909 --> 00:48:43,699
Oh, I love that.
:
00:48:43,769 --> 00:48:44,589
Absolutely love that.
:
00:48:44,629 --> 00:48:46,089
If, if only they could talk.
:
00:48:46,089 --> 00:48:46,539
Okay.
:
00:48:46,695 --> 00:48:47,175
Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah.
:
00:48:48,209 --> 00:48:49,629
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
so yeah, I love that.
:
00:48:49,629 --> 00:48:50,479
You're doing all right.
:
00:48:50,549 --> 00:48:51,579
You're doing a good job.
:
00:48:51,675 --> 00:48:52,595
Sarah #dogsinyellow: doing a good job.
:
00:48:52,669 --> 00:48:53,369
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Thumbs up.
:
00:48:56,029 --> 00:48:57,349
And that's all we can do, isn't it?
:
00:48:57,565 --> 00:48:57,695
Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah.
:
00:48:57,695 --> 00:48:59,040
Yeah.
:
00:49:01,019 --> 00:49:01,509
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: cool.
:
00:49:01,849 --> 00:49:04,989
So we've got various different guests
lined up for the yuppie hour, but
:
00:49:04,989 --> 00:49:08,659
if there was one person or a couple
of people you think we should invite
:
00:49:08,659 --> 00:49:12,359
on to the podcast as a guest, do
you have any suggestions at all?
:
00:49:13,835 --> 00:49:17,615
Sarah #dogsinyellow: A very special lady
that helps me in the yellow space zone.
:
00:49:17,965 --> 00:49:18,915
Nikki French.
:
00:49:19,820 --> 00:49:20,870
So she works
:
00:49:21,399 --> 00:49:21,809
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: I know.
:
00:49:22,330 --> 00:49:24,710
Sarah #dogsinyellow: with me
a lot and works with a lot of
:
00:49:24,949 --> 00:49:25,319
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
:
00:49:25,410 --> 00:49:28,320
Sarah #dogsinyellow: reactive dogs,
and she's written Stop Walking Your
:
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:30,690
Dog book as well, which is amazing.
:
00:49:32,689 --> 00:49:32,979
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour: Yeah.
:
00:49:33,059 --> 00:49:33,799
So Nikki French.
:
00:49:33,799 --> 00:49:33,879
Yeah.
:
00:49:33,919 --> 00:49:38,329
She was mentioned by Andy on our
last episode actually, so I think
:
00:49:38,329 --> 00:49:41,969
that's definitely a sign that I
need to invite invite Nikki on
:
00:49:42,420 --> 00:49:43,370
Sarah #dogsinyellow: Yeah, she's lovely.
:
00:49:43,590 --> 00:49:43,875
Really,
:
00:49:44,159 --> 00:49:45,989
Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Brilliant Brilliant.
:
00:49:46,639 --> 00:49:47,199
Okay.
:
00:49:47,429 --> 00:49:50,489
So for our listeners, we've got
some cracking guests lined up.
:
00:49:50,499 --> 00:49:56,289
We've got a renowned separation anxiety
expert, a gundog, a spaniel specialist.
:
00:49:56,289 --> 00:49:59,349
We've got a couple of vets that are
going to be coming on and they're going
:
00:49:59,349 --> 00:50:02,719
to be talking about desensitization
to things like obviously going to
:
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:04,759
the vets and how important that is.
:
00:50:04,759 --> 00:50:05,919
We've got groomers.
:
00:50:07,134 --> 00:50:09,674
So we've got lots of different
guests lined up for the happy hour.
:
00:50:10,004 --> 00:50:14,354
Sarah, thank you so much for
your time this afternoon.
:
00:50:14,644 --> 00:50:17,544
And just, I just want to say
the impact you're having on the
:
00:50:17,574 --> 00:50:20,444
community is absolutely amazing.
:
00:50:20,914 --> 00:50:23,364
Thank you so much for
joining me on the Yappy Hour.
:
00:50:23,614 --> 00:50:27,844
It's been an absolute pleasure talking
with you and learning more about your
:
00:50:27,854 --> 00:50:32,494
journey with My Anxious Dog and Bella
and the incredible work that you've been
:
00:50:32,494 --> 00:50:35,054
doing for anxious dogs and their owners.
:
00:50:35,414 --> 00:50:38,824
Your passion and dedication in
creating awareness and support
:
00:50:39,104 --> 00:50:43,014
for initiatives like the Dogs in
Yellow Day are truly inspiring.
:
00:50:43,469 --> 00:50:47,159
You not only give anxious dogs
a voice, but you also empower so
:
00:50:47,159 --> 00:50:51,809
many owners to feel seen, supported
and confident in their journeys.
:
00:50:52,199 --> 00:50:56,379
Your impact on the dog community
is undeniable, and I know that so
:
00:50:56,429 --> 00:51:00,749
many listeners, including myself,
will all walk away from this
:
00:51:00,779 --> 00:51:03,619
conversation feeling both inspired.
:
00:51:06,044 --> 00:51:11,184
for everything you do, and I can't
wait to see the continued growth of My
:
00:51:11,184 --> 00:51:16,324
Anxious Dog and all the amazing work
that you'll be doing in the future.
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Thank you, Sarah.
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Sarah #dogsinyellow: That's made
me quite emotional, thank you!
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LAUGHS
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Nathan Dunleavy - The Yappy Hour:
Oh, bless you.
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Thank you so much for joining me today.
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Sarah #dogsinyellow: You're very welcome.
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Before I jump into today's recap, I
wanted to give a huge shout out to some
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of our listeners who took part in the
teaser post we shared on social media.
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We asked you to guess who
our first two podcast guests
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were, based on some fun clues.
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And we had some brilliant guesses come in.
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For our very first guest, Andy Howe,
congratulations to Tracy Ordesh.
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Di Sedi and Rachel Hunter
for all getting it spot on.
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You absolutely nailed it.
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And for our second guest, Sarah
Jones, a big round of applause to
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Vicky Mann, Louise Hughes and Jessica
Bradley for all guessing correctly.
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Great work all of you.
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Thank you so much to
everyone who took part.
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It was great fun seeing all your
guesses come through and keep your
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eyes peeled because we'll definitely
be doing more of this in the future.
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Now let's dive into today's key takeaways.
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What an incredible
conversation with Sarah Jones.
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Her insights into the emotional side
of owning an anxious dog and her work
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with My Anxious Dog are so inspiring.
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If you're caring for an anxious
dog or know someone who is, I
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hope you found this episode as
reassuring and eye opening as I did.
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Here are some key takeaways from our chat.
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Number one, owning an anxious dog is
an emotional journey and that's okay.
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Sarah reminded us that it's normal
to feel guilt, frustration and even
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isolation, but it's also a journey
of growth, patience and connection.
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Again, Advocacy is key.
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The hashtag dogs in yellow campaign
is such a simple yet powerful way
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to communicate your dog's needs and
create awareness in public spaces.
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It's a movement that helps anxious
dogs feel safer and more understood.
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Number three.
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Small wins matter.
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Whether it's a calm walk or your
dog relaxing in a new environment,
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Sarah emphasised celebrating
the little victories because
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they add up to big progress.
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And number four.
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Most importantly, don't forget
to take care of yourself.
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Supporting an anxious dog can be
challenging, but as Sarah said,
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you can't pour from an empty cup.
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Sarah, thank you so much for sharing
your story and your invaluable advice.
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Your work is making such a
difference in the lives of
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anxious dogs and their owners.
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If you enjoyed this episode,
please consider leaving a review
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or sharing it with someone that
could benefit from Sarah's wisdom.
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And don't forget to check out
my anxious dog and the hashtag
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dogs in yellow campaign.
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March the 20th is the big day.
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Let's help spread the word.
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Thank you for listening to the Yappy Hour.
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Don't forget to subscribe so
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And I'll see you next time.