I am so excited to have one of my favorite colleagues on the podcast today, and we are going to be discussing what it takes to change the game in your life.  It can be scary to take a leap of faith and change jobs, careers, or anything really in life. Let’s be honest, we have a lot of beliefs about what we’re allowed and not allowed to do in business, our careers, and life.  Join Coach Megan Moore and I as we bust those limiting beliefs up, and here Meg’s tried and true practices that will help you change the game.

Highlights from this episode:

(02:28) The power of the right question

(07:15) What does being up against it mean to you?

(12:52) How a curious question changed everything

(15:34) They didn’t think I would do it, but I proved them wrong…

(20:57) Taking a break before change

(25:55) What’s the right answer?

(33:21) Create the reality you want

(39:27) Work with Megan now!

As mentioned in this episode:

Share your Curiosity Challenges, learnings, and any questions 

Stay in Touch With Coach Meg:

Megan@MeganMooreInc.com

www.MeganMooreInc.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coach-megan-moore/

Instagram: @poweroftherightquestion

Exciting Offerings from Coach Meg:

The Powerful Pivot: 12 Week Small Group Coaching to Elevate Your Career or Business  

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Currently accepting individual clients for weekly/bi-weekly business and career coaching.

The Deep Dive: half or full-day coaching virtually or in-person to focus on your career, business, or personal needs. Deep Dive sessions individualized for the client.

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Hey, everyone, I'm Kelly Mobic, a coach and a

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leadership trainer. And I'm super passionate about helping

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you find out who you are authentically as a leader, own

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it, and go out and make an impact in your life and the

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lives of others. This world needs your leadership, your

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gifts, your unique brilliance. And I believe that real leaders

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don't wait. They create. I know firsthand that life is going to

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throw us curveballs that we're going to doubt our greatness,

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our ideas and our contributions. And my goal is that you believe

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in yourself beyond reason. And I get to be a coach and a champion

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for you each week, so that you feel inspired, motivated, and

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most important in action towards your unique impact in this

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world. So let's jump in. Hey, there, everyone, this is Coach

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Kelly, and welcome to episode 149. Of let's be honest, before

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we start pretending, I'm so excited, because like I told

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you, I have a fellow coach and colleague and dear friend and

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collaborator, and a first time guest on the podcast. I'm so

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excited. We've talked about this for quite some time. And we

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actually have some plans for some really cool episodes. But

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given our theme, this month of being up against it, I could not

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think of a better person to bring on because she has such

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incredible stories and tips and tips and strategies and all the

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things that she's going to share. She's going to bring her

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experience of being up against it. My dear friend, Meg, Megan,

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my rimor I call her coach Meg, I call her Meg. I never call her

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late for dinner. She's always on time. And so she's going to talk

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about having the power of the right question how that's helped

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her move through things. And it can also help you too. So ah,

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I've been waiting like a kid in a candy store for Meg to be

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here. So really quick, I want to let you all know and remind you

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that lift her is back. And a new cohort is going to start in

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April, on April 12, to be exact. So you're going to hear me

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remind you about that. Because if you're a woman in business,

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or do you want to start your own business, or you've been

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thinking about taking a leap, looking to design whatever's

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next for you in 2023, and you are ready to make bold and

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massive moves. You also love collaborating with highly

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committed and motivated women. Guess what, it's 100% for you.

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So click on the link in the show notes and apply today. I would

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love to support you. Let's go. Also coming in March, I have a

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three pack of empower her workshops coming it's a little

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bit different than the empower her challenge. And it's chock

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full of goodness. And we're going to talk about those in

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March. But I just wanted to tease that up right now and let

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you know. So mark your calendars be ready to listen in for those.

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They're going to be so amazing. So like I said, may I got to

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know me, gosh, two, three years ago, three about three years

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ago, I met Meg when she was taking a leap of faith and going

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back to school and y'all know my story. I took a leap of faith

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went back to school to create a career change for myself and may

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egg found that you know, something was kind of itching in

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her and she wanted something something more so she went

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through coach training, and it was TCE, which is y'all have

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heard her CAMI McLarens coach training program. Cami has been

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on the podcast quite a few times. As a matter of fact, I

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got to meet Meg, when she was a student in there and then I had

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the opportunity to also work with her further as she was part

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of the coaching staff helping to grow coaches, like literally

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grow coaches. I think we want to say that right? Helping them

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become coaches, a mazing and I got to work with her there. We

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have worked together in the baller retreats, y'all heard me

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talk about baller alley golf and all that. So we've gotten to

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play a lot together and we are very committed to more of that.

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So she's amazing. I cannot wait for you guys to experience Meg.

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She's literally one of my favorite coaches. She's

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brilliant. And I'm so excited to see her. So let me give you a

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little bit about meg. Meg is a risk taker. She's a coach. She's

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also an attorney, an educator, a writer and inspire her and a

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catalyst for change. Y'all know I love Meg. She's a catalyst for

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change. She supports hard working overworked professionals

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and the organizations they work for so that they achieve their

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next evolution. She believes you have the answers that you need.

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And she has the right questions so you can unlock those answers.

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At pivotal moments in Meg's life. Someone asked her The

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right question, which for Meg opened up possibilities so that

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she could get the results she wanted. Now, Meg pays that

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forward by partnering with people and organizations so they

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can see the possibility and create the lives and businesses

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they want. That is the power of the right question. And that is,

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my dear friend, Meg Moore. Meg. Welcome to the podcast. I am so

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excited. You're here.

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Hi, I'm so excited to be here.

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Yes. The day has come, Meg, here we are. So make I know I just

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shared a little bit about you. But can you from your own words

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or your own mouth? Can you give us a little background of you

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and remind our friends like what you do right now?

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Yeah, absolutely. I will use my mouth and my own words. So you

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hit the nail on the head. I am a coach. And I work with all sorts

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of professionals in height. My main focus is with attorneys.

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Because I just came up with this phrase recently, and I'm loving

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it. I used to be a full time attorney and I worked at firms

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and I ran my own practice. Now being an attorney as my side

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hustle. Being a coach, and working with attorneys and law

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firms or legal organizations, that's my main job, my main

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responsibility. And that's my main hustle. So I do a little

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bit of legal practice on the side and a lot of coaching and

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work with professionals of all sorts. But many, many attorneys

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and legal organizations are in there as well.

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That's amazing. I love how you put that it's like, my full time

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gig is now my side hustle. And here is where I'm like, pouring

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so much energy into supporting professionals having what they

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want in their lives. I think it's yeah, it's incredible. And

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so you all know that we have talked about in the podcast this

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month, and Meg listens to the podcast. So this is not a

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surprise to her, we have been talking about what it means to

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be up against it. We've talked about we've talked about a

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little self love this month, too. And we also last week,

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we're talking about fearing courage, and you know, they all

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sort of go wrapped up in together. So maybe I'm curious

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because I was able to share with my friends here, what it means

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to me to be up against it. But for you, what does being up

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against it mean to you?

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You know, I think being up against it is when you're faced

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with the challenge, right? There's something happening when

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I'm working with clients, and often for me, it's career

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related, but that that's not it's not limited to that it

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could be being up against it in a relationship, being up against

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it with yourself. Maybe there's something you want for yourself,

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that's not career related. But for me, when you're up against

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it, there's some sort of resistance happening. Like

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there's a I know we're not on video, but like I'm pushing my

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hands together, like there's a push right? Against, like,

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here's this thing I want and here's me trying to get it but

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there's resistance back and forth. Sometimes I think being

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up against it is invigorating, right? You're like, Oh, I'm

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gonna go. Sometimes it is the opposite of that. It feels

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defeating, you're exhausted. I know you talk Kelly a lot about

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the how of it like we get exhausted because we don't know

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how. And so we're up against it, because we're trying to figure

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out how and and then having to.go back and be like wait a

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minute why. And I think ultimately being up against it

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is when you're noticing like there's something you want, and

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you're not you're not getting it like you're you feel like you're

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not getting it and so it's that moment of like, like I said,

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putting those hands together have like that tension of like,

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I want this thing but I can't break through

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yet such a great distinction. I want the thing, but I can't seem

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to break through and up against it feels different for people,

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you know, for me a lot of times when I'm up against it, and I go

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into like, what's the emotion that's happening right now for

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me, it's not always invigorating. I'm just gonna say

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but sometimes it is like, I got that when you said that. I

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really did. I think when I jumped out of a plane, I was up

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against it. And then I jumped and it was invigorating. right

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like so I can get what that meant. Right? That I know

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sometimes for me, it's it's shoot, I'm scared. That's what's

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happening. Like, you know, that's the thing that's the

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clue. And Meg is so so true. Y'all know that like if I'm ever

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like how how how I am fully up against it versus like why why

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why why why? Okay, yeah, yeah. Oh, that was such a thank you

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mate for sharing that because it is different for people. It's a

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little bit different. And I would encourage everyone like

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stop for a moment and think about what does that mean to me

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when I'm up against it like what what's happening and what does

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that mean and how does it feel? Yeah,

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I think that question about how does it feel that but got me

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thinking too, I think when I am really up against it is also

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when I don't believe in myself or I have like I don't Believe,

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I don't believe I can achieve the thing be the thing get the

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thing. I think there's like a, there's a feeling of, of not

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being able to so not not believing in myself. I don't

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know, doubt. I don't know what that the one word description of

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that is, but that for me, I know we'll talk a little bit about

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that later. But it is that thought of like, I'm not, I'm

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not ever going to get there. And now up against it.

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Oh, yeah, I think you hit the nail on the head. I'm not

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believing in myself right now. And a belief is nothing but a

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feeling of certainty. That's what a belief is, right? So

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that's a beautiful description. If I'm not believing in myself,

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well, then certainly, I'm probably feeling up against it.

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And so there's an opportunity for some shifts, there's an

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opportunity to get some support, and move through that 100%. Now,

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you all Meg has some really great stories that she has

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agreed to share with you all on times when she has been up

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against it. And I really can't wait for you to hear them. So

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Meg, can you she has three stories. So we're gonna go with

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them three stories. And we love threes here. So three stories.

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So I know, right? So I get that from my friend, Paige. Paige is

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all about the threes. And I'm like, threes are good. I love

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threes.

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So there's a rule of three and comedy. There is a rule

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of three in comedy. Yep. Oh, that's a whole other episode may

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write that down. Okay, here we go. Okay, so maybe can you

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please share with us a time where you like one of the

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stories where you have felt up against it?

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Yeah. And I'll preface it with this. This is where the power of

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the right question comes from. And I was not aware of that at

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the time that was happening. And in fact, I wasn't aware of it

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until I was launching this business. And I was working with

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a marketing expert on figuring out like my tagline. And that

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person said to me, it sounds like there's been a number of

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pivotal moments where someone's asked you a question, and it's

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changed the trajectory of your life. And I was like, Oh, man.

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Yes, that's yeah. So I'm sure there's been many more instances

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of this. But the first one I can think of is, when I was in

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college, I got into a little bit of trouble with alcohol in my

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room. And I was not yet 21. And maybe I was a resident

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assistant. And I won't go into the whole story, but the ending

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of that portion of the story is I was let go, or is, we might

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say fired from that job. Yeah. And it was really devastating

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for a number of reasons that I'm not just devastating. I was sad.

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I had made a good group of friends. I was super

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embarrassed. And I felt just a lot of shame around it. Yeah.

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And then one of my I have four older sisters, that could also

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be its own podcast episode. Oh, write that down. And the more

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girls that could actually be a great podcast, anyone else? So I

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have four older sisters. And you know, and I'm, I got fired right

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before the holiday break. And so one of my sisters said to me,

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Well, would you want to come like maybe do you want to take a

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semester off and regroup and come and live in Chicago? She,

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where she lived and lived with her? And I immediately was like,

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no, because my my brain is no, I go to school. I've got four

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years, and I'm going to finish. And I didn't even consider, I

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would just didn't consider it when she asked it. And then we

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ended that conversation or got off the phone, maybe we were in

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person, I can't remember if we were together or not. And then a

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few days went by, and I was like, I could use a break. I

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could use some time off. And I know, I'll come back to school.

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And at the time I lived in Florida. I was at the University

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of Florida Go Gators. For your for your fans who aren't Gator

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fans. That's okay. Keep listening to coach Kelly. And

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for those of you who aren't Gator fans Go Gators. It was a

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lot. You know, that was a big I would leave you know where I was

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living and go to Chicago in this big city. And I also love

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Chicago. And so her asking me that question. I would never

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have said I'm going to take a semester off. Sure. She asked me

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the question. And come January Guess what? Yeah, living in

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Chicago.

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It's amazing. It's amazing. And you know, what's so interesting,

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too, is I would imagine that your sister probably didn't

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necessarily have an agenda. Do you know what I mean? I think

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right, like listening to you and asking you what what Megan, I

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often refer to as a curious question that the curious

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questions are oftentimes the right question. Right. And so by

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her being with you, you know, seeing where you were, and

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offering you a new possibility through a question not telling,

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right not telling you. Hey, Meg, this is what you should do. You

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should take a semester off huge Kamala With, right, but

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literally being with you where you were, and asking you a

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powerful and curious question. Yeah, absolutely. Right. And how

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we know it is is because look what makes sense. At first, it

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was like, No, this is the way this is my these are my rules.

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This is how I do it. And as she really stopped to consider what

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her sister asked her, she realized, yeah, actually a break

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would serve me. And she could get into what that might start

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to look like. That is huge. That was huge.

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And I'll share that when I left a number of my friends were

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like, don't go you're never going to come back. Sure. I

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there was no doubt in my mind, I would come back to school. When

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I got back. I got my button gear, I ended up graduating with

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honors, I really worked hard my last year, my last year and that

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summer, in school to get really good grades and get in graduate

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with honors, like it really made a change in my in my life in in

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undergrad. So yeah,

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that's incredible. And like you didn't even know that was

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possible. Right. Right. And so wow, that's huge. That's huge.

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That's great. I Yeah, that's amazing. And well done. Right,

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like well done in knowing like, I know, because there's always

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the people out there that have the opinion don't do it. We I

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call them the shutters. The shutters? Right, which often

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they have positive intent, like may Don't you know, no one ever

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comes back when they leave and makes like I do. And not only do

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I come back, but I'm going to do it really well. And I'm going to

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I'm going to graduate with honors. And so you did that's

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incredible. I love that I love that. Well done mag well done.

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Yes, Dean yourself trusting yourself. That's another part of

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that. That's another part of that. What's another story may.

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And so the next time again, that stands out to me that this

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happened. It was this it also, maybe this happens a lot when

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I'm embarrassed. The third story isn't about being embarrassed.

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But so in 2003, my father passed away. And with his passing, he

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was younger ages 73. But young, for sure. I guess it depends on

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one's perspective. And so I was just about to turn 30. And after

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he died, I was like, I want to do something different with my

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life for myriad reasons. And so I was like, I'm going to apply

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to law school. So I applied to loss, I did a lot of research

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and reach the decision about law school, I applied to three

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different schools and the job that I was currently in,

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everyone knew I was I was gonna go to law school like it when it

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was okay, like, that was exciting thing. People were

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happy for me, there wasn't a lot of opportunity for me to be

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upwardly mobile in that particular company. So when

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everyone knew, wow, come, I'm gonna say like June or July of

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2004. When you're getting your responses. Well, you'll be

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darned Kelly, if I didn't get accepted to any of the schools I

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applied to. So now, I'm in a job that I really wanted to leave.

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Okay. I have told everyone I'm going to law school. And now

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people are asking like so when are you leaving? What's

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happening? And I'm like, embarrassed like, I don't really

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remember the feeling of embarrassment. I didn't know I

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was to be like, Oh, I didn't I didn't get in. At the time. I

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was working with the therapist. And I was in therapy kvetching

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about, I didn't get in and now I'm stuck in this job really

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negative and I'm stuck in this job, blah, blah, blah. You know,

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just really like, feeling stuck. And she says to me sort of a

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question, but it was a sounds like a reflection. She was like,

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Oh, it sounds like you've you feel like you can't quit your

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job anyway. And I it's a moment that I recall feeling like you

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know, you know, when you see the picture where the light bulb

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goes off? Oh, totally. Yeah, I felt in my body. Like I sat up

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the light bulb exploded. I mean, I was like, things and she too.

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I want to point out she did not have an agenda. This woman

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didn't care whether I stayed at work, left work, reapply to law

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school. She didn't care. She just was reflecting to me. Hey,

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does this sound right? It sounds like you feel like you have to

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stay. You can't quit. lightbulb explodes and I was like, Oh my I

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can quit my job. Yes. I don't have to say yes. And so I did.

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And I took a four month cross country road trip and my mini

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cooper again. That's a whole other episode. I traveled put

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11,000 miles on my car. I saw friends and family. I stayed by

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myself. I stayed at a youth hostel like I it was just this

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amazing trip. I reapplied to law school. I got a consulting gig

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while I was on the road, and then went to law school in 2005

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instead of in 2004.

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Amazing. Amazing and I love that too because again, the right

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question is never like, Megan, I both want y'all to know that the

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right question is not one that you have manufactured. Okay,

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notice what Meg just said, the therapist didn't have, she

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didn't have an agenda. She literally was holding up a

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mirror for Meg is what she was doing by reflecting what she

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heard. You know, it sounds like, you don't feel like you can quit

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like, it sounds like you don't think you can leave this job.

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Because that's what Meg was saying. And so literally by

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holding that mirror up, and literally by being with Meg,

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staying curious, and reflecting, we call that holding up a

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mirror. Meg have this amazing, like visceral experience, right?

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Like, did you all I could feel that like the light bulb go

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through her body and up like Bing, bing, bing, bing, bing,

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and then created an extraordinary adventure. It's

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true. And it wasn't

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I didn't, I don't also get I didn't Well, I could have but I

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didn't like, leave her office and file my resignation letter.

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I just had this moment of like,

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I can choose. Sure. Yeah,

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I have an option. And I don't want to stay where I am right

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now. I'm not. It's not I'm not happy here. I'm going to get my

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where we talked about ducks earlier, get my ducks in a row

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and make a change. And yes, and what a wonderful thing that I

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have that happened. And I created and all of that from

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from that one. Like, hey, it sounds like this. Is that

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right? Yeah. It's amazing. Yeah. It's amazing. And like, it's not

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like a movie where you get the light bulb, and you just go out.

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And the next thing you know, you're on an adventure, like

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Mike said. But the important part that I love that you said

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make is like suddenly that light bulb for me was I'm at choice.

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I'm at choice. I can make some choices. And then get curious

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about what is it that I want to do next? And I'll bet tell me

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mag where there's some shooters in this that were like, What are

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you doing? Oh, for sure. Right? You

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are going to pay for that? What? Are you going to deplete your

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savings?

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Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yes, yes, I am. As a matter of fact. So.

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And, and she also found ways she consulted while she was on the

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road. So you know, she generated income while she was on the

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road. And then also, guess what? She got to apply for a lot

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because there's no end to where you can apply. Right? So she

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went again, she you don't make what's so interesting to me is

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it's almost like, you know what, I took another break, like,

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like, do you remember, like, when you were at the university,

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and then you took the break, and you went to Chicago so that you

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could get clear, you know, take a break, went back and then

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slayed. It's kind of the same thing here. Like what I'm

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hearing? I mean, I don't know that you. You're not thinking

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that at the time, but in looking at it. It's like, oh, there's

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something about giving yourself that opportunity to pause. Yeah,

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take a break. Yeah. It's incredible. That's amazing.

Unknown: 00:22:52

That's amazing. I love this story. I know you have another

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one. And I got to hear it. Tell that. Can you tell us here?

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Hopefully. So my third story now I think about does my third

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story involve a break? And now I'm like, No, I wish I'd taken a

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little break. But I did. So my third story is I was working

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with a coach. I had been practicing law at the time for

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eight, eight and a half years, nine years. And I was at a firm

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where I really loved my colleagues. But the work was

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like depleting me I was stressed I was working long hours, I was

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working on vacations. The story of many attorneys lives again,

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feeling like I don't have choices. And so I went to I've

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started working with the lovely CAMI McLaren. I will give her a

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shout out now. Yeah. And and initially kind of working on can

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I be happy where I am like really recognizing I have

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choices, and I'm choosing this job. There are things I don't

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like about it, but I am choosing to be here. And for me, it

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became clear that there was things that couldn't change at

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that firm that I did not have control over that would not

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change. So it wasn't the right fit for me anymore. So then I

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think about what's next. What's next. And I recall saying

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something along the lines of this like, well, let's see. It

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could be I could go to another firm. I could go back to school.

Unknown: 00:24:07

I mean, I can't open my own law practice. A little modal. And

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CAMI was like hey, I'm just one second. Yeah. And again, no

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agenda. She didn't. She was invested in me changing my life.

Unknown: 00:24:18

Sure. Not in how I went about it. Sure. Her question was, why

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don't you think you can open your own law practice? Yeah. And

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I said, Well, I don't know how. And she said, sounds like you

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have a belief that attorneys know how to run their businesses

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before they open law practices, and I burst out laughing for

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those attorneys that might be listening or those of you who

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work with attorneys, you know, that is actually not true. Many

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attorneys do not know how to run their business. And it's chaos

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sometimes. So I just burst out laughing and I was like,

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actually, no, that's not true. And so that question I wasn't

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the same light bulb. I'm going to open my own practice but that

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question, and then the reflection of sounds like you

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believe you have to know How beforehand allowed me to pause

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and say, I'm going to explore that option along with a number

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of other options. That is, ultimately the reason I share

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the story is that is ultimately what I decided to do was to open

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up my own practice. And again, it was a life changer, game

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changer.

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It's amazing, because these are the distinctions when you'll

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those three stories you could tell where Meg was up against it

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in very different ways, right? Very different ways. And

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somebody was being with her from a place of being curious, right?

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Being curious, really listening to Meg, and one was her sister,

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one was a therapist, and one was her coach, Coach Kenny, and

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literally, again, no agenda, rather a commitment to Meg, and

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believing in her. That's really That's it. Okay. And so, when

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you hear, make, speak to the power of the right question,

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please here and this is true. Like, I know this about meg. And

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also being a coach. You know, I always giggle sometimes when a

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client's like, I'm not sure if this is the answer you're

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looking for. And I'm like, yeah, no, I don't know is looking for

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your answer your answer, right? Because we get up against it

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even when we're being coached. Like, is this the right one?

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Right, like, we that's what happens. But here's the thing.

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The question is never procured. It's never designed. It's never

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like, let me make sure I'm gonna ask the right thing. It's

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literally a moment where you've connected. You've heard and

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you've asked a question, either from reflecting, or what you're

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hearing. Yep, it sounds like you can't that would be a question a

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coach is probably going to ask you a question about, and then

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in that moment, Meg is able to go wait a second. Oh, now a new

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possibility opens up. So that's why I love so much having made

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here be because the power of the right question is her jam. And

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in coaches all ask questions. I don't want to say that No. Limit

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ask the question. It's that it's it's made. It's just like, it's

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at her core, right? It's on Instagram, she is the power of

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the right question you should all go for. Let me not should

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please go follow vague. Okay. Because the power of the right

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question can make it you can feel some pressure. Please

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don't. Please don't. It's literally asking a question.

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With no agenda.

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I think the other thing I would add to that Kelly is I always I

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suspect, sometimes I really hit the nail on the head. When I ask

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a question. And my client says this. Oh, you're right. I have a

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smile on my face. Like I'm right. Like, Oh, that's funny,

Unknown: 00:27:56

because I don't have an agenda like so if I'm reflecting or

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asking like, Oh, so you don't want to invest in your in your

Unknown: 00:28:02

business? Yeah. Oh, my gosh, you're right. But I do. You're

Unknown: 00:28:05

right, I should start investing in my business. And I'm, like,

Unknown: 00:28:07

interesting that that's shifted that for you? Because I don't it

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doesn't. I'm curious about you. It's also okay, if you say,

Unknown: 00:28:14

Yeah, I don't I don't want to do that right now. And that's

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what's causing the stress or whatever it is. But normally,

Unknown: 00:28:18

clients say, Oh, you're right. I'm like, That was a good

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question. Because they don't even recognize it's them. That

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I'm coming up with the idea.

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That's just it. Because I think sometimes when they when, when a

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client says you're right, they're essentially like saying

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to themselves, Oh, I'm right. Like, I haven't considered this

Unknown: 00:28:35

right. Again, it's that mere factor, you know, it's amazing.

Unknown: 00:28:39

Absolutely. Make I am curious how you are currently up against

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it right now. And I and make knew this question was coming.

Unknown: 00:28:49

It's one of the reasons I brought her on today's episode,

Unknown: 00:28:52

because we talk all the time. So yes, how are you currently up

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against it right now?

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Yeah, I've been thinking about this. Because the the coachee

Unknown: 00:29:03

businesswoman in me, like wants to make like a joke or protect

Unknown: 00:29:06

myself. Sure. vulnerably you know, running my own business is

Unknown: 00:29:09

challenging. It's been financially challenging last

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year, and this year, it's impacted my income, you know, my

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ability to earn but also I'm married, and we have a we have a

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home and things that we want to do with our lives. And, and and

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in part, what what is happening with my business impacts, like

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the way we live our lives and makes, I think, for many

Unknown: 00:29:31

marriages, you know, we can be up against it financial

Unknown: 00:29:33

discussions forever. No, very rarely, like, let's talk about

Unknown: 00:29:37

that. So I think that but the reason I know I'm up against it,

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is this questioning of myself of like, is this the right thing?

Unknown: 00:29:45

Can I do it? And that and noticing I'm not believing in

Unknown: 00:29:50

myself? Like I don't I'm not sure I believe it. And so really

Unknown: 00:29:54

feeling that right now. Knowing how much I love the work I'm

Unknown: 00:29:58

doing. Yeah, and that It's scary. I'm up against it right

Unknown: 00:30:01

now in enrollment and in trusting myself to put myself

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out there and trusting that what I need will come.

Unknown: 00:30:08

Yes, yes. And I thank you, Meg for being willing to be

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vulnerable and share that. Because for those of you out

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there they are listening. I know when I talked about this, I was

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giving you more from a health like where I'm up against it

Unknown: 00:30:24

health wise. And as as an entrepreneur, I 100% can relate

Unknown: 00:30:31

to where Meg is right now many times and you you've heard me

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say it in different ways. I know out there for all of you that

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are entrepreneurs that listen to this are probably going Oh, my

Unknown: 00:30:41

goodness, yes, ma'am. I feel that I feel you. Yes. Stick with

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it, you know, because that is a real thing. That's that's a real

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thing. And whether you're in business for yourself, and when

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you are in business for yourself, and you heard make

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said, Listen, I'm I have a partner, I'm married. And we

Unknown: 00:31:00

have agreements, right? Like, she, there's no falling back. I

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remember someone said that to me one time I like, well, at least

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you know, if you're making a career change, you can fall back

Unknown: 00:31:10

on your husband. I'm like, Wait, let's go get him really quick

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and watch him. Let's let's get his response to that.

Unknown: 00:31:16

Right. And so he wrote on this episode, that he would have a

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similar reaction.

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No, no, because we we now we have conversations we make

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agree. That's right. And that's what happens. And I'll tell you,

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it's fascinating how we can turn on ourselves so incredibly

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quickly, when that comes up and like like maybe you're saying is

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that I'm not trusting myself? Or maybe I don't have this belief

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in myself right now in this moment. And so you know those

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things. In here's what I know about meg Meg is gonna she she

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will go the course. She will create, she will challenge

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herself. She will get coached. She she will make it happen.

Unknown: 00:32:04

There's no like, I have zero doubt. And I know what Meg is up

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to creating this year. And it's happening like I have zero doubt

Unknown: 00:32:12

and I believe in Meg beyond reason and show the things that

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support sometimes you got to have some some some people that

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believe in you beyond reason before, then you started Okay,

Unknown: 00:32:24

now maybe I do too. All right, that lady Yeah,

Unknown: 00:32:27

absolutely. Just hearing you. I'm like, Okay, I need I need a

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little Kelly on my shoulder.

Unknown: 00:32:31

Yeah, I got you. I'm right there. I'm right there. But in

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you know, here's the thing, it's the three things. It's the three

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things that we talked about, in up against it is mindset,

Unknown: 00:32:42

belief, and action. Okay, those are the three tried and true. It

Unknown: 00:32:47

I just don't know any other way to move through it. And Meg,

Unknown: 00:32:50

Meg, and I can see each other right now. And she's nodding her

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head because she knows like, this is this is, those are the

Unknown: 00:32:57

three things she's working on. Right? Like, where's my mindset

Unknown: 00:33:00

today? And like, where is my belief today? Where where is it?

Unknown: 00:33:05

Is it limiting me? Is it enhancing me? Right? And then

Unknown: 00:33:09

Where must I act? So like, that's the formula. That's the

Unknown: 00:33:14

formula and it sometimes feels like you're pushing a boulder up

Unknown: 00:33:19

a hill, until you get there. Right. So, man, I just have to

Unknown: 00:33:24

say that one of the things that I know without a shadow of a

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doubt, that makes you a masterful and exceptional coach

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is because you are willing to be up against it, and challenge

Unknown: 00:33:37

yourself and keep going and moving.

Unknown: 00:33:39

Yeah, I mean, it's it's absolutely and it's I appreciate

Unknown: 00:33:42

you said to whether you're an entrepreneur, or like I said, I

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work with a lot of attorneys you're at, you know, you're it's

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not just for entrepreneurs, it may be all of our experiences

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are slightly different. But that idea of like, I love that image,

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I'm pushing this boulder up a hill, whether you're working

Unknown: 00:33:57

toward a promotion, trying to decide what's next. Or maybe you

Unknown: 00:34:00

want to go back to school, all of those things, it can be

Unknown: 00:34:03

scary, especially when it feels like you're not getting the

Unknown: 00:34:07

results you want. You're getting results, but not the ones not

Unknown: 00:34:11

the ones you want. Yeah, it's can be very, very challenging to

Unknown: 00:34:14

feel that way and to Vic to not figure out how but like reignite

Unknown: 00:34:19

the belief in yourself like

Unknown: 00:34:20

yes, yeah, yes. Yes. It's so true. It's like we can spend a

Unknown: 00:34:24

lot of time like, let me figure out the how, how, how, listen,

Unknown: 00:34:27

if we all knew the house, then we'd have its life would be so

Unknown: 00:34:31

boring. If we knew all the house right? But I think that where

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you're going Megan working with that mindset and belief and

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acting and constantly challenging. Guess what's going

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to happen? The house showing up? Yep, the house shows up. Now.

Unknown: 00:34:47

This is not to say that make doesn't have a plan. She has a

Unknown: 00:34:50

plan, right mag. She has stress. I do. Yeah, she has a plan. She

Unknown: 00:34:54

has strategies. She's you know resourceful, all of that. And

Unknown: 00:35:00

takes a lot of courage to admit when we are up against it in in

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whatever ways like Megan's saying, what I would love for

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you all to hear make, I'm going to ask you this question,

Unknown: 00:35:09

because I know you are so excellent, excellent at this,

Unknown: 00:35:13

how do you help others as a coach move from being up against

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it to creating the realities that they want? Yeah,

Unknown: 00:35:21

you know, I think, really what we've been hitting on throughout

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our conversation today, Kelly, one of it is really believing

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that the person I'm my client has the answers or confined

Unknown: 00:35:34

them, or has the resources may need to find the resource, it

Unknown: 00:35:37

might be an internal resource, or an external resource, right?

Unknown: 00:35:41

But really coming from a place of I'm not fixing anyone, people

Unknown: 00:35:45

are coming to me that are saying, I want to create more

Unknown: 00:35:48

harmony between work and personal life, I want to make

Unknown: 00:35:51

partner at my law firm, I want to open my own business, I want

Unknown: 00:35:56

to change careers, right? They're coming to me with that.

Unknown: 00:35:58

So being very present with them, being very curious, and asking

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lots of questions about how they feel what's getting in their

Unknown: 00:36:06

way. What did they see, you know, and you know, we have

Unknown: 00:36:09

crazy conversations and coaching like about, well, you know, it

Unknown: 00:36:13

sounds like you got that voice in your head that's telling you

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you can't you know, let's name that voice, you know, and like

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it might be Tammy or Bernard or whatever it is, you know, that

Unknown: 00:36:22

we really tap into that. That's part of it is the exploration

Unknown: 00:36:26

and tapping into what's really happening. Again, I'm talking my

Unknown: 00:36:30

hands so much, I'm laughing because we're on video, but like

Unknown: 00:36:32

touch I'm, maybe you can hear it, I'm touching my heart,

Unknown: 00:36:34

right? Like a really tapping into that. And of course, also a

Unknown: 00:36:39

plan. We create a coaching plan. We have clear outcomes of what

Unknown: 00:36:44

you want. And then we look at that. And I you said this

Unknown: 00:36:46

earlier, and it reminds me when I was applying to law school, it

Unknown: 00:36:49

doesn't always happen the first time, sometimes you met, you

Unknown: 00:36:53

said, this is what I'm going to do and you do it. And you don't

Unknown: 00:36:56

get the results. And you have to go again. Yeah, you have to go

Unknown: 00:36:59

again. Or you don't do it and you go again. And I have that

Unknown: 00:37:02

really as a coach taking a stand with people to help them support

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them going again, and figuring out really what it is that they

Unknown: 00:37:10

want and what works best for them. Because what works for me

Unknown: 00:37:13

might not work for you.

Unknown: 00:37:15

Yeah, so true. So true. So brilliant. It's so brilliant.

Unknown: 00:37:20

And it's it's it's effective. It's effective. I love the part

Unknown: 00:37:24

where you said, Listen, what works for me may not work for

Unknown: 00:37:27

you, which creates that distinction in that what Megan's

Unknown: 00:37:31

saying is, you know, as coaches, we know, you have your answer.

Unknown: 00:37:35

And what she does so beautifully is pull that answer out, right,

Unknown: 00:37:40

pull that answer out. And here's what we also know is, you're

Unknown: 00:37:43

going to be more apt to take action on your answer than

Unknown: 00:37:46

anyone elses. That's just a fact. No motors in here, no.

Unknown: 00:37:49

shudders no shudders in here, make what are some of the ways

Unknown: 00:37:52

that people can work with you?

Unknown: 00:37:54

That's such a good question. Thank you What a powerful

Unknown: 00:37:57

question. So right now, there's three main ways people can work

Unknown: 00:38:02

with me. One way is through group coaching, and I'm

Unknown: 00:38:05

launching the powerful pivot in late March, early April. And

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that's a small group coaching for women who are up against it

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and ready, they're stuck or ready for a change. So that's

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one way another way as I have space right now, for individual

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coaching clients. So if you're not, if that's something that

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you feel excited about, or feel like, it could be a good fit for

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you, let's do it. And then the third way is I speak a lot. In

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fact, tomorrow, I'm speaking at a law firm on time and energy

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management for attorneys. So I'm also available to come in and

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support your organization, maybe through a one off workshop, or

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maybe through a series of workshops, to help your team get

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what you want, or the company wants or what the team wants to

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help them get there. So those are the three main ways. And the

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other thing I'm doing this year that is a little different is

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maybe one a deep dive, you're not really sure what's next, and

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you're not like you're in that space of I want to explore that

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small piece of it. Let's work together and we can do a deep

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dive together, which would be more of like a half day of just

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being together and almost like a half day to develop. What do you

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really want? Why do you want it and then getting it into a plan

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format, and maybe then that goes on to more coaching or maybe

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you've got what you need, and you move on. So that's

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individual as well, but just a slightly different way that I

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offer services.

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Nice. That's amazing. That's amazing. And how, how can people

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get in touch with you?

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So different ways? One, you can sign up for my newsletter. So if

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you go to my website, Megan Moore inc.com. It pops up when

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you get to the website and that's also at the bottom of the

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page to sign up for my newsletter. I send newsletters

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two to three times a month, not a ton but I'm send them like

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here's what's up with me. Here's what I'm offering or here's a

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good tip or trick for you can follow me on at power of the

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right question on Instagram. And that's loaded with Have fun fun

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tips and tricks I every Friday I try to leave my followers with

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like a little coaching tip or hack they can use moving

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forward. And then of course contact me directly. I'm at

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Meghan, Meghan more inc.com Reach out to me, we can schedule

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a complimentary exploration call and see what might be the right

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fit for you.

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I love it. I love it. Meg is a great coach, I highly encourage

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you connect with her. There was something that you heard today

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that you're like, huh, reach out to her. She's I have been

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coached by Meg. I've been coached by Megan, she is a

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fantastic coach. So I want to let y'all know, I want to remind

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you everything that makes said if you were like, like trying to

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get it all written down, super quick not to worry, everything

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is in the show notes. So you can go right over there, click on

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that they will also be on my website. So everything that she

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just said, we got you, we got you, Meg, I am so grateful that

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you came on the podcast because we talk about these things all

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the time. And so I'm so happy that you could share these with

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my friends so that they could get a different perspective on

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being up against it and how really and truly having someone

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asked you the right question can be so powerful to help you move.

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And so you know, here's the thing, listen to what people are

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asking, not telling you asking you asking you because it's so

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important, and make being vulnerable and sharing your

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stories. I am so grateful. You are amazing. And I said I have

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no not one in not not a shadow of a doubt. I believe in you.

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And I know this is going to be an epic year. And thank you for

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coming in here and sharing sharing your stories and your

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wisdom. They are amazing. Thank you for being here.

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Thank you so much, Kelly. It was such a such a treat and a

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pleasure. And I'm Yeah, I just had a great time. And thank you

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for you know, inviting me on. It's been awesome.

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Yes. Okay. Hey, you guys. So remember, you have a choice to

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lead your life or follow your circumstance, or circumstances.

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Life is about knowing your passion, your purpose, your

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values. Sometimes you don't know them all at the same time. But

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give yourself permission to lean in and find out so that you can

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create an impact in your life, and also the lives of others.

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Because remember, who emerges from taking the lead in their

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life are going to be authentic, they're going to be vulnerable,

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like Meg was here today, and courageous and slaying the

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things that they want in their life. I gotta tell you, it is

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not always going to look the way you think it's going to or

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suppose to, just doesn't. So we get a trust that more always

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gets revealed as we move forward. So remember, take those

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pauses, let go of worry, let go of doubt and live fully the best

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version of yourselves. Thank you for listening today. Huge thank

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you to Meg for being here today and sharing her stories with

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you. I know there was great value for you. And so take this

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into your week. It is a it's just about the end of February.

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So take this into March and beyond. Let's go. Have a great

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week ahead. If it's not shaping up the way you want it to you

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know the drill, take the lead and create a fantastic one.

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We'll talk with you next week. Take care. Thanks for listening

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to another episode of Let's be honest before we start

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pretending for more resources on taking the lead in your life.

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Head over to Kelly J mo beck.com. And connect with me on

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Instagram at coach Kelly mo back. If this episode was

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helpful for you, please feel free to share it with friends

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rate and review it on iTunes. That's Apple podcasts now, and

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at any time feel free to connect with me and let me know what you

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want to hear next or what you're working on. I'm happy to help.

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Thanks again for listening and here's to you taking the lead in