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111: you're not lazy enough (a strategy)
Episode 11124th October 2025 • Rebuilding YOU: Empowered Healing For Divorced Women • Her Heart Heals
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If your to-do list is screaming and rest makes you feel guilty, this one’s for you. Christina unpacks why “lazy” is often just a regulated nervous system, how stillness becomes the doorway to your comeback after divorce, and the simple faith-first rituals that help you hear God again. this isn’t avoidance—it’s obedience. stillness isn’t procrastination; it’s preparation.

in this episode, we cover:

  • why high-achieving women aren’t “lazy enough” (and why that’s a problem)
  • stillness vs. survival mode: what gets you through divorce won’t get you into your comeback
  • a personal surrender story from christina’s final settlement conference—and the peace that followed
  • the nervous-system angle: why healing can’t happen in fight-or-flight
  • faith reframes: partnering with God, releasing control, trusting divine timing
  • the “lazy girl” rituals that actually work (5-minute morning prayer, sauna reset, silent walks, slow-morning coffee + devotion, breath prayer)

scripture mentioned

  • “be still, and know that i am God.” — psalm 46:10
  • repeated biblical reminder: “do not be afraid."


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