In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Julie Ashton, an ABTC-certified veterinary behaviorist, to unpack what’s really going on behind common dog behavior challenges, from reactivity and anxiety to sudden changes like house accidents or obsessive ball play. We explore the powerful connection between physical health, emotional wellbeing, and behavior, and why many issues are often misunderstood as “bad behavior” rather than signs of stress, fear, or even pain. This conversation is packed with practical, science-backed insights to help dog parents better understand their pets, avoid common mistakes, and build a calmer, more supportive environment for their dogs.
Guest Bio:
Our guest today is Dr. Julie Ashton, an ABTC-certified Veterinary Behaviourist who helps dogs and cats with complex behavioural challenges. Julie discovered her passion for behaviour while studying at Bristol Vet School, where she graduated in 2009 as both a veterinarian and with a degree in Animal Behaviour and Welfare. After working in London and later Sydney, she now runs her behaviour practice from rural Essex, supporting pet owners through referral behaviour consultations both online and in person.
Takeaways:
- Behavior problems are often rooted in pain, fear, or emotional distress, not disobedience
- Always rule out medical issues first when behavior changes suddenly
- Reactivity is a symptom, not a diagnosis, understanding the cause is key
- Overexposure to fears (like forcing socialization) can make anxiety worse
- Proper play should include balance, breaks, and mutual engagement
- High-arousal activities (like excessive ball play) can increase stress and physical strain
- Dogs need rest, structure, and safe environments to regulate behavior
- Early puppy socialization (done correctly) is critical for long-term behavior
- Many “bad behaviors” are actually dogs struggling, not misbehaving
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Timestamps to relevant points within the episode:
[00:00]-Intro
[04:08] The biggest misconception about dog behavior
[07:26] What “reactivity” actually means
[09:54] Why sudden behavior changes = check health first
[14:30] The #1 mistake dog owners make with anxious dogs
[18:12] Why play can turn into aggression
[23:59] Obsession with ball play explained
[28:39] Why dogs suddenly pee inside the house
[35:26] Why behavior changes should always be checked by a vet
[41:07] How to prevent behavior problems in puppies
[46:24] “They’re not giving you a hard time…” mindset shift
