Hey there! Welcome to episode 7 of The Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast. This is Part 3 of our series, The Worst Dating Advice for Women Over 40, and let me tell you, this one gets a little spicy! We're diving into some of the most toxic, unhelpful dating advice out there and flipping it on its head. Spoiler: If you've ever felt like you needed a PhD in "understanding men" to find love, this episode is for you.

Here’s what we’ll unpack:

• Why advice focused on “attracting the guy” often backfires
• How hyper-focusing on men’s behaviors keeps you stuck
• My personal story of dating insecurity and toxic empathy—and how I turned it around
• The #1 reason women chase unavailable men (and how to stop doing it!)

Dating should not feel like a high-stakes game where you're constantly analyzing, second-guessing, and morphing into someone else to fit what you think a guy wants. Trust me, I’ve been there, and I want to help you break free from this exhausting cycle.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

How to shift your focus back to yourself and your true desires

Why authenticity (quirks, messiness, and all!) is your superpower in love

Simple, powerful techniques to stay grounded, confident, and in your body during dates

The surprising reason repelling the *wrong* guys is a win

The right guy will love you—exactly as you are. You don’t need to overanalyze or overperform. When you embrace your authenticity, you naturally become magnetic to someone who truly values the real you.

Next week, we’ll dive into my signature framework for transforming your dating patterns and finally finding lasting love. Trust me, this is the game-changer you’ve been waiting for!

Remember, love is closer than you think.

See you next week! Until then, remember: You’re amazing, lovable, and worthy of the love you desire.

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