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Speaker:moon Heights.
Speaker:Today. I am so proud to introduce you to Carol you
Speaker:stir. Carol is the executive director and founder of canine reading
Speaker:buddies of the North shore.
Speaker:This is a nonprofit business that supplements literacy programs in suburban
Speaker:libraries and schools.
Speaker:They use reading teams consisting of registered therapy,
Speaker:dogs, and qualified handlers to strengthen reading skills while also boosting
Speaker:confidence. I think we can all understand why this is such
Speaker:a worthwhile cause I'm thrilled to get into the story,
Speaker:Carol, welcome to the show or thank you for having me.
Speaker:So I start off in a little bit of a different
Speaker:way, and that is by having you describe yourself through a
Speaker:motivational candle.
Speaker:So if you were to tell me what color and what
Speaker:type of a saying,
Speaker:or a quote would be on a candle that would really
Speaker:resonate with you,
Speaker:what would your candle look like?
Speaker:Well, that's interesting.
Speaker:You asked me because I literally have a candle burning on
Speaker:my desktop right now,
Speaker:and it's actually less about the color for me than it
Speaker:is about the scent.
Speaker:The scent is lavender and I feel motivation from the scent
Speaker:of lavender,
Speaker:which is why I have that burning.
Speaker:I've tried vanilla before another sense,
Speaker:but lavender seems to,
Speaker:I don't know,
Speaker:maybe it's the inner Yogi in me.
Speaker:So that's what motivates me and keeps me in a heightened
Speaker:state of awareness.
Speaker:And it's interesting.
Speaker:You asked about a quote because I have a quote that
Speaker:I keep on my kitchen cabinet and I actually happened to
Speaker:see it and hear it on the NBC nightly news.
Speaker:About a month ago,
Speaker:there was a artist who in England was putting posters of
Speaker:inspirational quotes all around his city.
Speaker:And people took the time to write back on his sign,
Speaker:thanking him for changing their day.
Speaker:And actually there was even somebody who was apparently suicidal and
Speaker:reading this man's quote,
Speaker:kept him from making that awful choice.
Speaker:So the name of this artist is Andy leek and he
Speaker:now has inspirational quotes that he posts throughout literally the world
Speaker:like there,
Speaker:even in Alaska.
Speaker:And it wasn't actually a sign.
Speaker:It wasn't actually something Britain.
Speaker:It was at the end of his interview.
Speaker:He said something that resonated with me.
Speaker:So I wrote it down and that's my inspirational quote.
Speaker:And he said,
Speaker:if you do things without an agenda,
Speaker:the universe pays you back in some amazing,
Speaker:crazy ways.
Speaker:I want just let that settle in a little bit,
Speaker:but I love that because you're saying just put out the
Speaker:good in the world and don't have an ulterior motive really.
Speaker:And then Goodwill come back to you.
Speaker:Exactly. I love that.
Speaker:Do you use that in your life?
Speaker:Is that kind of how you roll?
Speaker:I guess all I ask?
Speaker:Well, yes it is.
Speaker:And the point being that probably often all heard,
Speaker:if you put something out in the universe,
Speaker:something good will come back to you,
Speaker:but I've never actually heard it said in the way that
Speaker:he said it and or you're shopping for a house and
Speaker:you're getting frustrated.
Speaker:You're not finding the house that you're looking for.
Speaker:Don't worry.
Speaker:One day the right house will present itself.
Speaker:In fact,
Speaker:those kinds of things have happened and do happen to me.
Speaker:And I think they happen to all of us.
Speaker:We just have to have the presence,
Speaker:the awareness to realize when those things are happening and that
Speaker:it's not just an accident.
Speaker:It is by design.
Speaker:Yeah. When they're happening and then take advantage of them.
Speaker:Exactly. I see the opportunity and then act on it really
Speaker:exactly. You and I are kindred spirits then,
Speaker:because I totally believe in all of that to 100%.
Speaker:All right.
Speaker:So I am so curious,
Speaker:Carol, and you and I met in person at a chamber
Speaker:of commerce meeting and I heard about your business and we
Speaker:talked a little bit and I was so excited to get
Speaker:you on the show.
Speaker:And I don't know if you remember what I said to
Speaker:you when we met,
Speaker:but it's like,
Speaker:stop, stop,
Speaker:stop. Don't tell me any more.
Speaker:I want to wait and hear it firsthand from you.
Speaker:And so that's what we'll do now.
Speaker:So take it from the top.
Speaker:Tell me all about canine reading buddies.
Speaker:Well, we started as a small group of people in 2007,
Speaker:it was a total of five of us who met at
Speaker:a Starbucks in the town that we live in and talked
Speaker:about this vision that we had of bringing our therapy dog
Speaker:teams into schools,
Speaker:to support literacy programs and to motivate kids to want to
Speaker:read. And at that time it was just five of us
Speaker:who wanted to make a difference.
Speaker:And what happened was that as we began to break ground,
Speaker:and of course there's a whole story behind all of that
Speaker:people, moms,
Speaker:dads, who brought their kids to libraries to read to our
Speaker:canine reading buddies,
Speaker:wondered how they could do what we were doing.
Speaker:And that first year,
Speaker:all we did was make copies of sheets of information that
Speaker:I had collected from a non-profit that I had worked with
Speaker:prior to this group.
Speaker:So to figure out how to do what we wanted to
Speaker:do, we just met a couple times a month and we
Speaker:talked about what happened and how to work with certain situations
Speaker:at the library or with parents or with children.
Speaker:And as other people became interested in what we were doing,
Speaker:they wanted to do what we were doing.
Speaker:And by 2008,
Speaker:we realized that we could no longer just be five people
Speaker:sharing information and talking about it.
Speaker:We needed to create an actual process for new people to
Speaker:come on board and to have consistency and a protocol for
Speaker:how to deliver our program in the professional manner that we
Speaker:designed. And so we were really an accidental non-profit.
Speaker:I used to call us the user foundation because it was
Speaker:being funded pretty much by my family,
Speaker:my husband and I,
Speaker:as we grew,
Speaker:we realized that we needed to become a nonprofit and it
Speaker:needed to self-fund and we needed to have our volunteers actually
Speaker:pay a membership so that we could continue to grow and
Speaker:expand. When you were first,
Speaker:just the five people sitting in Starbucks.
Speaker:Were you guys friends or were you connected already because you
Speaker:had registered therapy dogs.
Speaker:So you were already into that interest of helping people with
Speaker:therapy dogs.
Speaker:That's a really good question.
Speaker:Well, what happened was I had moved away for a year
Speaker:and lived in Wisconsin with my family.
Speaker:I had a golden retriever at the time that I had
Speaker:trained and then tested to become a therapy dog.
Speaker:And I volunteered with this chapter of the therapy registry that
Speaker:had a reading program set up at the local library.
Speaker:And that's where I got the idea that this is something
Speaker:that really resonates with me.
Speaker:And I participated in that program that whole year.
Speaker:And when we moved back to Highland park,
Speaker:there wasn't a program like that.
Speaker:And I knew I didn't have time to travel to Chicago
Speaker:where sit,
Speaker:stay, read runs its programs,
Speaker:because I had a child in school,
Speaker:like a lot of us do or did,
Speaker:or just,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:we're busy people working during the day and don't have much
Speaker:time to travel,
Speaker:but want to give back.
Speaker:And so I realized other people were probably like me and
Speaker:wanting to do this too.
Speaker:And literally,
Speaker:I just began to find some of the people through the
Speaker:therapy registry that live locally.
Speaker:And actually one of them was somebody that I swam alongside
Speaker:at the local rec center.
Speaker:And so I knew her from there,
Speaker:but otherwise everybody was pretty much strangers just wanting to make
Speaker:a difference with their therapy dogs.
Speaker:So you were getting together with them.
Speaker:And so you guys decided still it was more of a,
Speaker:I'm not going to say it was a hobby because clearly
Speaker:therapy dogs.
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:it's a serious thing when you're doing that,
Speaker:but you were doing it more,
Speaker:not thinking you were going to turn it into a big
Speaker:business. I was not,
Speaker:it was a nice thing to do with some nice people.
Speaker:Yeah. In a way to give back and spend your time
Speaker:in a good way,
Speaker:a give back way,
Speaker:if you will.
Speaker:All of that.
Speaker:Right. Exactly.
Speaker:It was a win-win all the way around.
Speaker:And at the same Time,
Speaker:little, did you know you were testing the viability of the
Speaker:program, right?
Speaker:Exactly. So was there a trigger you were saying already the
Speaker:size, there were so many people interested in doing this too,
Speaker:but was there a certain point in time when you just
Speaker:said, all right,
Speaker:no. Now we have to put systems around it.
Speaker:We have to become more professional and organized or did it
Speaker:just kind of evolve to that realization?
Speaker:Well, it evolved and,
Speaker:but also the right people,
Speaker:there you go,
Speaker:the right people sort of fell on my path or our
Speaker:paths in that,
Speaker:my background before I became a mom and moved to Highland
Speaker:park, my background was as an it training manager and consultant
Speaker:Silicon Valley.
Speaker:So I had the experience of setting up programs and implementing
Speaker:them and creating processes and standards and structures.
Speaker:So it was a natural segue for me to do that
Speaker:with canine reading buddies.
Speaker:What I did have the skill set to do was to
Speaker:create an actual training class.
Speaker:I could say what I thought should be in a class,
Speaker:but I didn't know how to create one.
Speaker:And then one of our team members who had a background
Speaker:in instructional technology,
Speaker:training and design,
Speaker:so together,
Speaker:we designed a class.
Speaker:She knew how to make a multimedia class engaging and fun.
Speaker:And I knew what needed to be in that class.
Speaker:So that was one of those,
Speaker:if you put it out in the university,
Speaker:the universe gives back kind of moment.
Speaker:Yeah, totally.
Speaker:The other thing that I really like here just by way
Speaker:of a demonstration for our listeners is you had different people
Speaker:with different skills.
Speaker:I don't know what the other three people you just described
Speaker:you and this other person is part of your group,
Speaker:but it's nice if you're putting something together where there's a
Speaker:group of you,
Speaker:that each of you bring something different to the table.
Speaker:Exactly. One of our team members is,
Speaker:and was she still active with us,
Speaker:a certified teacher.
Speaker:And she ended up going for her masters in the ESL
Speaker:instruction. And along the way,
Speaker:a lot of how she got to where she is,
Speaker:was by having volunteered with us and being exposed to higher
Speaker:Hispanic population that were struggling readers.
Speaker:And that gave her the idea to move on with extra
Speaker:education and get a degree.
Speaker:And now she's back in school teaching,
Speaker:but she still helps out with our program on weekends.
Speaker:Oh, that's wonderful.
Speaker:That's a great story.
Speaker:You each were helping each other there for sure.
Speaker:Give us a little feel for what the organization looks like
Speaker:today. So today we have upwards of 50 to 60 volunteers
Speaker:and what evolved was,
Speaker:we started out as trained therapy,
Speaker:dog teams going into schools and libraries,
Speaker:but then it evolved into needing somebody to run those programs
Speaker:at the libraries that when we just had one library,
Speaker:I would run the program.
Speaker:But now we have eight libraries.
Speaker:It may come as a surprise to you,
Speaker:but I can't be everywhere.
Speaker:You can't you're superwoman.
Speaker:Right? Exactly.
Speaker:It's just,
Speaker:it's not physically possible.
Speaker:So now we have adult volunteers without dogs who manage our
Speaker:library programs and we call them library services,
Speaker:coordinators, and they manage everything that happens.
Speaker:And all of the details of signing in the children and
Speaker:talking with the parents and doing all the PR and making
Speaker:sure that everything is running smoothly at the libraries.
Speaker:So they are the point person there.
Speaker:And we also added youth volunteers.
Speaker:And those youth volunteers are sixth grade up through high school
Speaker:who volunteer without a dog to help those library services coordinators
Speaker:at the libraries.
Speaker:But also they help at events that we run as do
Speaker:the library services coordinators.
Speaker:So their event staff,
Speaker:as well as library staff,
Speaker:how the youth volunteers happened was actually an interesting story because
Speaker:I am back in 2008,
Speaker:my son was 10 years old and I would pick him
Speaker:up from we're Jewish.
Speaker:I picked him up from Hebrew school and I would have
Speaker:him be at the library while we were running the program.
Speaker:And he asked if he could read to one of the
Speaker:reading buddies.
Speaker:And I said,
Speaker:why would you want to do that?
Speaker:Because we have two golden retrievers who are reading buddies at
Speaker:home. They were the first reading buddies.
Speaker:And he said,
Speaker:well, but it's different when you're reading in the library and
Speaker:it's not to your own dog,
Speaker:can I do that?
Speaker:And I said,
Speaker:I'd have to check.
Speaker:And he said,
Speaker:well, isn't this year program.
Speaker:And I said,
Speaker:what? That's a good point.
Speaker:And I guess my boss says you can do it.
Speaker:So that night he read to a reading buddy and was
Speaker:really excited to read to this Leon Berger.
Speaker:But that was just one night.
Speaker:And the rest of the nights,
Speaker:he had to keep busy while he was there.
Speaker:So he wouldn't be interrupting me.
Speaker:So I would give him tasks and he would be in
Speaker:charge of shuttling the children to,
Speaker:and from the reading buddies,
Speaker:he would be in charge of taking their photo afterwards of
Speaker:the child with the reading buddy.
Speaker:And then he would have to make notes about what they
Speaker:were wearing.
Speaker:So we would make sure that we sent the right picture
Speaker:by email to the right parent.
Speaker:And as the years went on,
Speaker:one of the kids aged out of our program from first
Speaker:through fifth grade,
Speaker:that's our grade school program at the library.
Speaker:And after he aged out,
Speaker:he still wanted to be involved.
Speaker:And he asked if he could do what my son Adam
Speaker:was doing,
Speaker:because he wanted to do that job.
Speaker:And this child was on the spectrum.
Speaker:So he's a little insecure.
Speaker:So he's a little shy and this was big for him.
Speaker:He wanted to give back and who better than somebody who
Speaker:was actually involved in the program from the beginning anyways.
Speaker:And so he is still a youth volunteer with us to
Speaker:this day.
Speaker:He's a senior in high school.
Speaker:Now we've had just numbers of youth volunteers throughout every school
Speaker:year asking to volunteer with us and their parents love it
Speaker:because it empowers their children.
Speaker:It teaches them responsibility.
Speaker:It's not just a nice to have job.
Speaker:We really need their help.
Speaker:And they're important.
Speaker:I am so impressed with the inclusiveness of the entire program.
Speaker:So now you're talking about not only the younger students,
Speaker:I'll call them being participants,
Speaker:but then also helping others,
Speaker:helping the children who are reading to the reading buddies.
Speaker:Right, exactly.
Speaker:But then you've also got the people who have the dogs.
Speaker:And then you also have other people who may not own
Speaker:a dog or have the ability to put a pet through
Speaker:the structure to be able to have them registered.
Speaker:So virtually anybody who has a passion could potentially find a
Speaker:space within your organization.
Speaker:Exactly. I mean,
Speaker:the library services,
Speaker:coordinators love being around.
Speaker:Children love being around the dogs and love giving back and
Speaker:making a difference.
Speaker:One of our coordinators,
Speaker:she has been on the board of Louis children's Memorial hospital
Speaker:for like 25 years.
Speaker:And this is her favorite thing to do once a month.
Speaker:She goes to this little one room library in Highwood once
Speaker:a month.
Speaker:And we just have one reading team there.
Speaker:She just loves it.
Speaker:And a couple of our other library services coordinators are retired
Speaker:school teachers.
Speaker:So they just love being around the kids and the dogs.
Speaker:Oh, I love this.
Speaker:So I know for sure that therapy dogs do something physically
Speaker:when you're around them,
Speaker:you can bring therapy dogs into hospitals just to meet with
Speaker:patients for a mood elevation or something.
Speaker:I also know in senior centers assisted living.
Speaker:They'll bring dogs in.
Speaker:Can you share with us some of the research of what
Speaker:happens physically when you're around animals like this,
Speaker:Carol is going to give us her answer right after a
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Speaker:Certainly the truth is that just being in the same room
Speaker:as a dog,
Speaker:lowers blood pressure and reduces anxiety.
Speaker:Even if you don't pet that dog.
Speaker:So when you do pet the dog,
Speaker:then your oxytocin levels go up and your stress levels go
Speaker:down. It just as a naturally occurring experience.
Speaker:And the result is that when people are relaxed and especially
Speaker:in a situation where you have a struggling reader,
Speaker:then they can focus because they're not feeling nervous.
Speaker:That's actually the magic that happens.
Speaker:People tend to open up more and it's not through any
Speaker:kind of solicitation necessarily.
Speaker:We do stress relief clinics at the high schools.
Speaker:These are teenagers.
Speaker:If you have a teenager in your house today,
Speaker:it's hard to get your own teenager to talk to you
Speaker:much less one.
Speaker:You don't know.
Speaker:And when you have a therapy dog at your side and
Speaker:they're petting your dog,
Speaker:they open up,
Speaker:they tell you things that they would never normally tell you
Speaker:or anybody in a public setting,
Speaker:except for the fact that that dog is there.
Speaker:And they're relaxed enough to just chatter away.
Speaker:And oftentimes they say things in front of kids,
Speaker:they don't even know.
Speaker:And sometimes it's personal.
Speaker:Oh my gosh.
Speaker:Yeah. But again,
Speaker:they all feel relaxed.
Speaker:It's just something different happens when that dog is there.
Speaker:It sounds kind of magical actually.
Speaker:Yep. And it is.
Speaker:In fact,
Speaker:when I take my work breaks,
Speaker:I go to my therapy dog and he's not actually a
Speaker:therapy dog yet.
Speaker:He's a two year old golden retriever he'll be tested,
Speaker:but he provides therapy to me because the beautiful thing is
Speaker:that when you are with that dog,
Speaker:your dog,
Speaker:there is only that moment.
Speaker:If we could just learn from our dogs,
Speaker:they're not thinking about yesterday and what they should have done.
Speaker:They're not thinking about their to-do list today or what they
Speaker:want to do when you're done petting them.
Speaker:They're in that very moment.
Speaker:And if we can all just be in that very moment,
Speaker:we would all have a lot less stress.
Speaker:I so agree with you there,
Speaker:but you know,
Speaker:what has just happened,
Speaker:Carol, anybody who's Listening who has wanted a dog,
Speaker:I think we've just convinced them.
Speaker:It's time.
Speaker:It's time to go out and get a dog,
Speaker:whether it's for therapy or just for your house as a
Speaker:pet, to have a companion.
Speaker:Exactly. So you can proudly blame Carol and I,
Speaker:for that,
Speaker:for your renewed passion of an interest gift biz listeners of
Speaker:wanting to go get a dog,
Speaker:let's talk through more of the business end.
Speaker:Now, was there ever a time that was really challenging and
Speaker:a real big struggle as you got from 2007,
Speaker:sitting around in Starbucks,
Speaker:one of my favorite places to where you are today,
Speaker:any challenges that you Share with us?
Speaker:Yes. And I didn't have to think very hard to bring
Speaker:this one up.
Speaker:When we started out,
Speaker:our teams were all registered with therapy,
Speaker:dogs international.
Speaker:And what happened was it's a very long story that I'll
Speaker:make very short.
Speaker:They decided that any team registered with them could not volunteer
Speaker:with any other nonprofit,
Speaker:regardless of whether it was another therapy registry.
Speaker:It could be there's another nonprofit reading education assistance dogs,
Speaker:which actually is how I learned about how to set up
Speaker:our program here.
Speaker:Because I first became a reading education assistance dogs,
Speaker:teen therapy dogs international would cancel your membership if you volunteered
Speaker:with any other nonprofit.
Speaker:So what ended up happening was my teams began to get
Speaker:letters as did I,
Speaker:that therapy dogs international was going to cancel our membership.
Speaker:They offered me that I could,
Speaker:and I got on the phone with the president or slowly
Speaker:camp at the time.
Speaker:And I explained to her that we are a registered non-profit
Speaker:a five Oh one C3.
Speaker:We do fundraising.
Speaker:And that it made no sense for them to cancel our
Speaker:membership. We're a literacy program that uses trained therapy,
Speaker:dog teams.
Speaker:We're not a therapy dog registry.
Speaker:So their reason for canceling all our teams membership in mind
Speaker:made no sense.
Speaker:And she said to me,
Speaker:well, you could become a chapter of therapy,
Speaker:dogs international,
Speaker:and then raise money for us,
Speaker:but not be recognized as canine reading buddies at the North
Speaker:shore anymore.
Speaker:And, and I thought,
Speaker:well, why would I do that?
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:I spent all this time working on our nonprofit,
Speaker:building it,
Speaker:developing a reputation.
Speaker:Why would I fold it and raise money for a therapy
Speaker:registry? Especially since they don't have a therapy dog program,
Speaker:they had a little thing.
Speaker:They call it,
Speaker:they put up flyers saying they had a program called wagon
Speaker:tails. And it was just a one sheet piece of paper
Speaker:that said in general,
Speaker:what you could do,
Speaker:ours is a full blown program with training,
Speaker:right? It's not just a one sheet thing where people just
Speaker:go out and do something,
Speaker:not to disparage any of your listeners who may be doing
Speaker:that. And that's fine that they're doing that because reading programs
Speaker:need to be a lot of places and we can't all
Speaker:be everywhere at the same time.
Speaker:So however,
Speaker:some of your listeners may be doing a reading program.
Speaker:That's a good thing.
Speaker:It's a bad thing to tell other reading programs that they
Speaker:can no longer do it though,
Speaker:right? That they must dissolve and desist.
Speaker:So it was an extremely stressful period.
Speaker:It happened during the holiday season and I was beside myself.
Speaker:I didn't know quite what to do,
Speaker:but I did know about other therapy registries.
Speaker:So I did my research and I built a relationship with
Speaker:what was called at that time therapy dogs,
Speaker:Inc, same acronym,
Speaker:different nonprofit.
Speaker:And I spoke with the executive director that we had,
Speaker:like, I don't know,
Speaker:we must have had 20 something teams at that time that
Speaker:were all registered with therapy dogs that are national,
Speaker:that their memberships were going to be canceled,
Speaker:but we had programming ongoing and we needed to keep with
Speaker:our schedule.
Speaker:Is there any way they could work with us to test
Speaker:our teams and have them switch over all at once?
Speaker:Well, our story was an old story.
Speaker:They've heard it before.
Speaker:They were getting a lot of new members from therapy dogs,
Speaker:international therapy dogs incorporated.
Speaker:Their mission is to provide testing temperament and obedience and provide
Speaker:insurance for their members to go out and do therapy work.
Speaker:And that could be wherever they choose to do it.
Speaker:There's no strangle hold on how and who they do it
Speaker:with and that's their whole purpose.
Speaker:And so they were very gracious and we were able to
Speaker:set up a testing for all of our teams and transition
Speaker:them all at once.
Speaker:And it wasn't easy and it was extremely stressful.
Speaker:And I remember at the time hearing that Miley Cyrus song,
Speaker:the climb,
Speaker:and I would use that as sort of like my mantra,
Speaker:because it seemed like an insurmountable mountain.
Speaker:I didn't want to quit.
Speaker:I didn't want somebody telling me it was important and we
Speaker:never looked back.
Speaker:And now we're all with Alliance of therapy dogs,
Speaker:and couldn't be prouder.
Speaker:And you made it,
Speaker:I mean,
Speaker:it was probably Oh,
Speaker:such a rough time,
Speaker:but you didn't give up.
Speaker:I think that's the important thing we didn't give up.
Speaker:We had to find a solution one way or another.
Speaker:Exactly. There was one other time that we had a door
Speaker:close in our face,
Speaker:and this is something that your listeners could benefit from.
Speaker:And I always tell our students when we do presentations,
Speaker:that when you have a good idea,
Speaker:don't take no for an answer.
Speaker:Just persevere.
Speaker:When we started out and approached the school district,
Speaker:there was a city ordinance that prohibited dogs from being on
Speaker:school property and in public buildings,
Speaker:the schools wanted to use our program,
Speaker:but there was this law that kept us from being used.
Speaker:So in the summer of 2007,
Speaker:I worked with our city council woman to make a change
Speaker:in that ordinance.
Speaker:I drafted language that made an exception for registered therapy dogs
Speaker:to be on school property and in public buildings for the
Speaker:purposes of academic and therapeutic reasons.
Speaker:And that summer,
Speaker:the city council passed that exception unanimously.
Speaker:So if there is a city ordinance or our law that
Speaker:prohibits dogs from being on school property,
Speaker:or in libraries where your listeners would like to volunteer there,
Speaker:don't give up,
Speaker:there is a way to make a change or for anything
Speaker:else that may be standing in their way when they have
Speaker:a good idea,
Speaker:look for alternatives and how you can work with that.
Speaker:Yeah. This is a great story because I think that we
Speaker:think, okay,
Speaker:there's a law,
Speaker:it's over,
Speaker:that's where the book closes,
Speaker:but you're showing that that might not be the case.
Speaker:Don't just take that at face value and say,
Speaker:okay, and stop whatever it is you're doing,
Speaker:whether it's therapy,
Speaker:dogs, or something else that you're doing for whatever your product
Speaker:is, dig deeper.
Speaker:Exactly. Make sure that it's a closed door that it's just
Speaker:not shut a little bit and that you can't open it
Speaker:and change something don't give up on your dream.
Speaker:So easily.
Speaker:Both of those times,
Speaker:Carol, you could have said,
Speaker:all right,
Speaker:insurmountable, we had a fun go at it.
Speaker:And now it's over.
Speaker:You could have easily done that.
Speaker:Right. But you don't sound like the type to do it.
Speaker:I didn't know that I wasn't the type to do it.
Speaker:I didn't know.
Speaker:I didn't know I had that in me at all,
Speaker:but I just realized that I just knew what we were
Speaker:doing, had a place and that it was the right thing
Speaker:to do.
Speaker:And I have a passion for it.
Speaker:And all of our volunteers have the passion for it.
Speaker:And I didn't know that I had that sort of,
Speaker:That's a great comment,
Speaker:very insightful.
Speaker:We really don't know until we reach some of these things
Speaker:and you probably didn't know until you got past it.
Speaker:You're not sure what the outcome is going to be.
Speaker:Exactly. And the other thing I think with your example is
Speaker:you probably pushed forward because you had people counting on you.
Speaker:Now you had teams and you were part of that group
Speaker:of five or however many.
Speaker:There still were at the time,
Speaker:your, your original group together,
Speaker:but brings up a different question for me.
Speaker:We talk often about people who have partners in a business
Speaker:and the challenges you can have when it's two people who
Speaker:are at the helm,
Speaker:running a business,
Speaker:you guys had five.
Speaker:Were there any challenges or is there any advice that you
Speaker:could give when there are multiple people?
Speaker:Maybe not everyone is the direct leader in steering the ship,
Speaker:but you had a group who were moving this mission forward.
Speaker:Any advice on that?
Speaker:I treat everybody Collaboratively and our non-profit could not be where
Speaker:it is today.
Speaker:If it weren't for the insight and effort of literally every
Speaker:volunteer who has been with us and continues to join us,
Speaker:I can't take credit for what we have today.
Speaker:It's definitely due to everybody who has been involved.
Speaker:What I've always said is that always share an idea,
Speaker:always share a concept with us because you can make a
Speaker:difference. You can make it better.
Speaker:And if people don't speak up,
Speaker:we say that in our training classes,
Speaker:too, that if you don't speak up,
Speaker:then we're not going to improve our quality.
Speaker:Let us know what we can do to improve or let
Speaker:us know what you'd like to see happen.
Speaker:And we've never had any conflicts.
Speaker:I know it's almost like too good to be true,
Speaker:right? But everybody's in it for the common good.
Speaker:And everybody works together and uses their skill sets to make
Speaker:a difference.
Speaker:That's all I can say that we've never had anything negative
Speaker:come up.
Speaker:Well, it sounds like it's because everyone is really focused on
Speaker:the end result.
Speaker:No, one's looking at taking the glory at any portion along
Speaker:the way.
Speaker:Everyone's focusing on the goal of doing good.
Speaker:That's exactly true.
Speaker:And I'm going to point out right now,
Speaker:we're moving towards this huge event that we've never done before.
Speaker:It's a vision that we had some of us a couple
Speaker:of years ago,
Speaker:K9 pup Stratton.
Speaker:The expo is May 5th at sunset,
Speaker:was in Highland park and is designed to bring together.
Speaker:It's celebrating 10 years as a nonprofit.
Speaker:And it's designed to bring together the dog,
Speaker:loving community,
Speaker:the academic community and the social and emotional health community on
Speaker:one place.
Speaker:It is a fundraiser for us.
Speaker:And again,
Speaker:never did anything like this before.
Speaker:It's scary,
Speaker:definitely bitten off more than I could chew,
Speaker:but we've got great volunteers.
Speaker:They all pipe up at different moments and offer different skillsets.
Speaker:It's not like we've broken down into committees.
Speaker:I wish we had,
Speaker:but again,
Speaker:this is being run out of my home office and by
Speaker:emails. So we don't have that kind of structure.
Speaker:Maybe next year we will,
Speaker:but this is a fundraiser for us.
Speaker:And this is also for awareness to increase our resources so
Speaker:that we can expand.
Speaker:And the reality is that it's huge,
Speaker:but it's again,
Speaker:something designed to bring together.
Speaker:What I think of as all our friends,
Speaker:who's our friends,
Speaker:it's the libraries.
Speaker:It's the schools.
Speaker:It's the students.
Speaker:It's the families.
Speaker:It's everybody in the communities that had supported us every step
Speaker:of the way.
Speaker:So we're going to have like,
Speaker:of course,
Speaker:dog themed businesses and services,
Speaker:there'll be canine buddy boots where kids can read to a
Speaker:therapy dog and get a complimentary photo taken.
Speaker:There'll be author doing a book giveaway and doing a couple
Speaker:of readings.
Speaker:She wrote a book about a library dog.
Speaker:And we partnered with her when she did her book launch
Speaker:in the fall.
Speaker:And there'll be a youth art tent where kids can color
Speaker:Bucky, the dog.
Speaker:That's the logo dog for the Highland park think and trust.
Speaker:And as I describe it,
Speaker:it's something for everybody.
Speaker:There'll be pet misuses there for giving pet massages.
Speaker:But then there's going to be our local therapeutic needs,
Speaker:doing chair massages for people.
Speaker:So it's something for everybody where everybody can share and learn.
Speaker:We're going to have tutors there because what do our kids
Speaker:need? They need tutors.
Speaker:They sometimes need a little help and we'll have human tutors.
Speaker:They're not just dog trainers there.
Speaker:And groomers,
Speaker:they're promoting their services for people who maybe they just moved
Speaker:and they don't know what's available.
Speaker:So it's something for everybody.
Speaker:And that,
Speaker:isn't my other big dream to just pull together the communities
Speaker:all along the North shore and beyond to share information on
Speaker:a beautiful may morning.
Speaker:Hopefully it's warm then.
Speaker:And it's all for the greater good to me.
Speaker:It's a win-win yes,
Speaker:it is a fundraiser for us,
Speaker:but it's also to just put everybody in the same place.
Speaker:They got to go out and walk their dogs.
Speaker:Anyhow, why not do it with like a few hundred other
Speaker:good friends?
Speaker:Sure. And once again,
Speaker:there's inclusion there because you're expanding this and including other businesses
Speaker:who are in the area,
Speaker:right? So Sandy with therapeutic needs and all the other businesses
Speaker:that you described.
Speaker:So, and the great thing about that too,
Speaker:I'm sure you already know this,
Speaker:but I'm just talking this through for our listeners as well
Speaker:is everybody that you invite to participate comes with their own
Speaker:followers, their own customers,
Speaker:et cetera.
Speaker:So in terms of getting visibility and then participation on that
Speaker:day is big.
Speaker:Exactly we have from the pet stores like Bentley's and Kriser's.
Speaker:And I think when I met you,
Speaker:we weren't even at this point,
Speaker:when I first met you at the chamber meeting and pet
Speaker:people is going to be there.
Speaker:And then we have care,
Speaker:chills, kennels at Rover's place.
Speaker:So we have doggy daycare,
Speaker:places there'll be there.
Speaker:But then we also have with merchandise that none of us,
Speaker:maybe a lot of us haven't seen before,
Speaker:because they're coming from other places.
Speaker:So people who are like looking for cute little dog accessories
Speaker:for their dogs,
Speaker:they're going to find that they're at this pet expo,
Speaker:just really something for everybody.
Speaker:And our author is giving away a hundred books of her
Speaker:story, about a library dog.
Speaker:It's called the secret room for the first hundred children.
Speaker:She meets,
Speaker:she's giving a brand new book.
Speaker:That's so wonderful.
Speaker:Oh my gosh.
Speaker:What an exciting thing to look forward to?
Speaker:I'm sure there's a lot of work,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:an organization and all of that,
Speaker:but what a great mission to do this event,
Speaker:It's a lot of work,
Speaker:but again,
Speaker:what I'm going to say is that different volunteers of mine
Speaker:pop up at different times and they say,
Speaker:can I help you with this?
Speaker:Or can I help you with that?
Speaker:And then I tap into them.
Speaker:So in that way,
Speaker:as it has always been,
Speaker:we're a bit organic,
Speaker:but it always works out.
Speaker:That's fabulous.
Speaker:Now you've mentioned that you're working out of your house and
Speaker:you have a lot of things in play,
Speaker:right? Because you have events that you're doing,
Speaker:you have the library is you have the schools,
Speaker:all of this stuff altogether.
Speaker:How do you keep everything organized from a home office business
Speaker:practice? Well,
Speaker:I'm a Virgo,
Speaker:which means we're detail oriented.
Speaker:That's it?
Speaker:We're done.
Speaker:Yeah. Enough said so.
Speaker:Yeah. I don't know.
Speaker:It's kind of crazy.
Speaker:I think I'm just a natural multi-tasker.
Speaker:But if I'm sitting in my office right now and I
Speaker:do have equal sized post-it sheets all throughout my walls now
Speaker:due to this event,
Speaker:normally I wouldn't have it that way,
Speaker:but because this event is something we've never done.
Speaker:And again,
Speaker:I will say,
Speaker:Oh yeah,
Speaker:a little bit scary,
Speaker:but we do have some help with a production company helping
Speaker:us and a PR firm.
Speaker:Luckily they take pity on us and give us non-profit rates.
Speaker:So otherwise,
Speaker:you know,
Speaker:this fundraiser would make us go broke.
Speaker:So right now that's kind of how I do it with
Speaker:these easel size post-it sheets to make sure I stay on
Speaker:track in different areas.
Speaker:And I just create a lot of files and label them.
Speaker:And then I also recognize that I do have to shut
Speaker:down after like six o'clock.
Speaker:I have to stop because when,
Speaker:what you do is your passion.
Speaker:You actually never leave it.
Speaker:It is with you 24 seven.
Speaker:You think about it constantly.
Speaker:And, but there is some point where you have to say,
Speaker:okay, I seriously have to turn off because we're not machines.
Speaker:Absolutely. Right.
Speaker:You've just given us three really good points.
Speaker:The first thing that I love that you were saying is
Speaker:about outsourcing some of this,
Speaker:but you're not the professional at putting on events,
Speaker:although you're so professional and you probably could do it all
Speaker:yourself, but you have everything,
Speaker:all the normal everyday things that you need to do to
Speaker:keep the organization running.
Speaker:Correct. So outsourcing to somebody who has that skill already is
Speaker:such a smart thing.
Speaker:And give this listeners for you.
Speaker:It might be have someone help you build your website or
Speaker:have someone figure out how to put up your social media
Speaker:or whatever it is,
Speaker:but consider if this is not a talent that you have,
Speaker:or the time outsourcing,
Speaker:just even by a task,
Speaker:doesn't have to be forever.
Speaker:It could be just on a project basis.
Speaker:Like Carol's talking about the other thing that I really liked
Speaker:about what you're saying,
Speaker:Carol is the post-it notes because you're getting your ideas up
Speaker:where they're visible at all times and you can move them
Speaker:around. So I bet that's been really helpful,
Speaker:Right? So what happens when you hire a PR firm in
Speaker:a production company is that they create projects for you.
Speaker:And so you're suddenly thrust in an area of tasks,
Speaker:doing things that you've never had to do before.
Speaker:So it's quite a learning curve,
Speaker:but it creates a project list then have to design so
Speaker:that you fulfill on your end.
Speaker:And so that describes a lot of the post-it sheets,
Speaker:the easel size post-it sheets,
Speaker:so that we make sure we stay on track with what
Speaker:our commitments are in order to follow through on the project
Speaker:that we got handed by the production company or the PR
Speaker:firm. Right.
Speaker:You weren't expecting that.
Speaker:It sounds like,
Speaker:well, yeah,
Speaker:Because we we'd never done this before.
Speaker:Yeah. So the thing is that with a production company,
Speaker:there'll be managing all the onsite event and coordinating all of
Speaker:that, but bringing in the dog team businesses and merchants and
Speaker:all the relationships lands on us.
Speaker:And when I say us,
Speaker:that kind of usually means me,
Speaker:but there's all this support systems.
Speaker:So they're not here with me,
Speaker:but they're there for me to call up or tap into
Speaker:it as,
Speaker:as my web designer.
Speaker:And I will say this one thing about the website since
Speaker:you brought it up,
Speaker:it wasn't until this last fall.
Speaker:So pretty much 11 years that we had a website up,
Speaker:we had a couple of false starts and so never didn't
Speaker:listen to my liking was a couple relationships that we had
Speaker:a few years ago and I wanted a certain look and
Speaker:feel. So I wasn't just going to put up brochure where
Speaker:I really wanted a look and feel that represented us.
Speaker:And finally,
Speaker:I landed with the right relationship in,
Speaker:I think North Carolina could be South Carolina.
Speaker:So hopefully they're not listening.
Speaker:Cause I might be confusing my Carolinas,
Speaker:but anyways,
Speaker:they are so supportive and so wonderful.
Speaker:They came up with the right look and feel for us.
Speaker:And we get compliments all the time and they taught me
Speaker:how to work with them,
Speaker:to give them the right content,
Speaker:to get that look and feel.
Speaker:So we're really proud of that.
Speaker:It's beautiful in preparation for us talking,
Speaker:I did take a peek over at the site.
Speaker:It's gorgeous.
Speaker:Well, thank you.
Speaker:And so that's what I want your listeners to know that
Speaker:don't be in a rush.
Speaker:You feel you're there now you do exist with your product.
Speaker:And we existed for 11 years and it feels like you're
Speaker:not really on the map until you have your website because
Speaker:people always say,
Speaker:Oh, so what's your website and you feel bad because you
Speaker:say, well,
Speaker:I don't have one,
Speaker:but it's better to say,
Speaker:I don't have one than to say you have one,
Speaker:but inside you feel like it's not one that you can
Speaker:stand behind.
Speaker:It's not one that you're proud of.
Speaker:I recommend waiting until you get the one that you'll be
Speaker:proud of,
Speaker:But don't wait too long.
Speaker:Right. 11 years is too long.
Speaker:I feel like everybody needs their website.
Speaker:And you know,
Speaker:for credibility too,
Speaker:because what do people do if they're not sure of an
Speaker:organization, they're going to go look at the website,
Speaker:but if you don't have one online,
Speaker:it could bring up questions.
Speaker:Exactly. And then your point about free time,
Speaker:boy, can you teach me how to do that?
Speaker:Because I am not good at that,
Speaker:but I know how important it is.
Speaker:Just taking time walking away.
Speaker:And you're so much better when you come back,
Speaker:when you do walk away for a little while,
Speaker:all right.
Speaker:If someone,
Speaker:maybe it's not doing exactly what you're doing,
Speaker:but someone's on the brink of thinking,
Speaker:all right,
Speaker:maybe I can start this vision that I had for a
Speaker:business. Maybe it's doable.
Speaker:What would you say to someone who's just on the edge
Speaker:and needs that little push to get started?
Speaker:I would say to them that really have to believe in
Speaker:yourself. And you have to believe in your mission because if
Speaker:you do,
Speaker:nothing will stop you and just to persevere.
Speaker:And the other thing is a quote from one of those
Speaker:motivational signs that a lot of us have had over the
Speaker:years to stay the course.
Speaker:Sometimes you have to make waves and don't be afraid to
Speaker:do that.
Speaker:Don't be afraid,
Speaker:just dive in.
Speaker:Perfect. Have a plan,
Speaker:but dive in.
Speaker:Yeah, love that.
Speaker:So Carol,
Speaker:we have been talking about things,
Speaker:just aren't a coincidence and the law of attraction and all
Speaker:of that.
Speaker:And that leads me right into my final question for you,
Speaker:which is a dare to dream question.
Speaker:I want to present you with a virtual gift.
Speaker:It's a magical box containing unlimited possibilities for your future.
Speaker:So this is your dream or your goal of almost unreachable
Speaker:Heights that you would wish to obtain.
Speaker:Please accept this gift and open it in front of all
Speaker:of us right here.
Speaker:What is inside your box?
Speaker:Well, my box contains therapy dogs at every school to help
Speaker:every child who needs it.
Speaker:I just think that would have a huge impact because these
Speaker:children grow up.
Speaker:They grow up to run our country and to run our
Speaker:businesses. And up until second grade kids learn to read.
Speaker:But after third grade they read to learn.
Speaker:So if they can't read we're all in trouble.
Speaker:So if we could have therapy dogs at all the schools
Speaker:to support all the kids and reduce their anxiety so that
Speaker:they could focus and read,
Speaker:I think our world would be a better place.
Speaker:Beautiful. I've got to tell you while you're saying that all
Speaker:I see is a box opening up and all of these
Speaker:cute, adorable puppies jumping out and I'm taking every single one
Speaker:of them.
Speaker:There you go.
Speaker:Really? So,
Speaker:all right.
Speaker:If you could tell us one place online where you would
Speaker:direct someone,
Speaker:if they want to know a little bit more about the
Speaker:business, whether it's your Facebook page or website or wherever,
Speaker:what would you say right here for people who are just
Speaker:listening? I would say go to canine rpns.org.
Speaker:That's K as in canine.
Speaker:So K the letter nine,
Speaker:the number are BNS as in reading buddies of the North
Speaker:shore. So K9 rpns.org
Speaker:and just take a look around good pictures,
Speaker:good information.
Speaker:Not too wordy,
Speaker:whether you're just interested in what's involved or how you could
Speaker:be a volunteer or what did those youth volunteers do anyways?
Speaker:All your answers should be there.
Speaker:Perfect. Perfect.
Speaker:And give biz listeners.
Speaker:You also know there's a show notes page.
Speaker:I'll have all their other information there.
Speaker:Facebook links,
Speaker:et cetera.
Speaker:So just jump over to give biz unwrapped and you will
Speaker:see Carol's show notes page there.
Speaker:Carol. I'm so glad we got this together.
Speaker:I know you're so busy with your event coming up.
Speaker:We were kind of going back and forth as to whether
Speaker:we could get this in.
Speaker:Thank you so much for taking the time.
Speaker:Really, really good and solid business skills that you've talked with
Speaker:us about in terms of strategy and planning and working as
Speaker:a team.
Speaker:I really appreciate your business expertise and you sharing it with
Speaker:all of us.
Speaker:Well, it's been my pleasure.
Speaker:Thank you for having me there.
Speaker:You have a gift biz listeners.
Speaker:If you have ever thought of turning a passion of yours
Speaker:into a nonprofit,
Speaker:Carol has really delivered the goods,
Speaker:overcome obstacles and really built something great.
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